How do sugar daddy sites work you wonder? Why me? why should I be the one to go over this? Well...Allow me to explain... I am co-owner of a very elite and exclusive dating site so I have done plenty of research. I also dabble into sites where arrangements and allowances are given. Why? Why not...curiosity kills the cat and this sort of thing really gets my gander. I joined a site as a free member (most memberships there are paid) so I submitted some photos and wrote a nice descriptive profile. I was just wondering... what a man would really shell out of pocket for the right companion?
Two days later I begin getting responses...let me state that most women here would have to ask....are men stupid or desperate? Not at all...at least not for the most part. Initially, I have discovered that men are not all as arrogant and all about "me me me" like we had at one time imagined. They want to find a great woman, but they may not have the time to do so...that's where a specialty site comes into play (like mine)Men and women for that matter pay my site to find them the best known suitor for their expectations. Who selects them? Who looks long and hard to make certain that they are and will be a good match? I do. Hey I love men just like anyone else BUT, why are they looking so far and wide to find a woman to fulfill their needs at such a cost? How much are they willing you pay you wonder? Well, the site that I joined allowed me to set a price...so I did. I stated that I wanted an allowance between $7500-$10,000 a month. (I know, you are laughing right now right...so was I thinking to myself...who would pay this?) Laugh some more ladies because I was given proposals to meet 4 men in just one day who were willing to pay me this allowance.
Most women think this is wrong....unless you are getting paid for this....when was the last time you made $7500 minimum a month for relaxing and vacationing with a man? Now then, I am in NO WAY stating that all men will pay this, in fact, you'll need to beware as there are many phonies and cheapo's out there who haven;t a clue what it means to be a true SD. This particular site that I tried is very very well known. So why then do women feel awkward here? There are those who are going to think that this is OK, and some think it is all wrong....everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I'm just sharing something that is "out there" and something that men and women do. Of course, this is based on meeting and if you appear to be compatible and if your schedule will work with his/hers.
Now then, anyone who truly knows me knows that what I search for is much more than what a man has in his wallet, in fact,...I'm not like most women. I do partake that as quite the compliment. I guess I consider myself to be the unconventional Cinderella type seeking her Prince. I want the fairy tale, hell yes I do, but without all of that darn red tape! My slipper can only be found on high end avenues,...please don't take that out of text, it only states that I am quite selective. I'm 47, not 27, so if a man seeks perfections, he won't find it here. I'm not your knock down drag out hottie, but I carry myself well, have a nice smile, and still a not so bad shape for my age. I'm not trying to be something that I am not,..not for anyone! For some reason, many women try to be just that, and they fail miserably. Why bother ladies? He's going to either like you or he won't and if he doesn't ...NEXT! So what if I wanted to find a great guy and it happened to be a place such as this? I am a firm believer in paths crossing at a particular time in life...
Are you shocked? Most will say yes, as for me, heck no. I have done years of research on men and women and I know what makes a lot of them tick. There is a price for everything,..an amount that someones time is worth, and an amount that they think nothing of to find their weekend or happiness in a different world, unlike the one that most of us know and live in day to day....So you ask me, is this true? Do people really do this... It's soooooo true and you bet your ass they do! Arm candy, Easy money, vacations, fine dining, and shopping sprees. You are wondering now...why would I do this? To prove a point and because it is a great experience. I am also good friends to several of these people that do this and I know how things work. I just wanted to use this particular site as a 'test' to see what the market was like?
So why do they do it you wonder? Well.....many women/ young ladies do such a thing for assistance with their college tuition and expenses. It's easy earnings and they can still enjoy life....bills are paid for. I am far past that and can do for myself, but that was a very tempting offer. Various reasons lead people to such actions.
So,...What woman in her RIGHT MIND wouldn't want this? None that I can think of. These men are quite selective so do not go on a site such as this unless you can hang with the big boys and are smart as a whip in various areas. Learn that you can't shoot off your yap if you haven't a clue what you speak. Brush up on the news, politics, and world functions, etc. Listen and learn....use proper etiquette ladies....$9.99 buy the etiquette for dummies book that I keep telling you about....it is sooo worth it. You are a dime a dozen, so if you want to be solicited by a generous man who wants to take the time to get to know you (and this is NOT all about sex, he does it generally because he wants a companion, a strong woman whom he can lean on and who will listen to him) generally the wife or long time girlfriends doesn't do this any longer. Sad, but true...so gals, pay attention to your hubbies and long time boyfriends, otherwise, those late night meetings and weekend or week long business trips could be shared with someone like me who was offered a pretty nice sum to listen to a man and laugh with him.
Listen, on the contrary to what soooo many of you think...these sites ARE NOT a site for desperation...or a site for porn, or prostitution. In fact, quite the opposite! OK, some gals are doing this all the wrong way and these ruin it for the woman who are really not at all like them...so what is the difference between it being legal and prostitution? I haven't a clue? Its an arrangement, like a business deal, BUT this is not something that is decided on for simply sex....that's where it changes, these sites are designed for those men seeking an escort type woman/ friend/ companion which nonetheless is far different than a woman who is a hooker working for a pimp.
I think it is a great way to go...they are NSA (no strings attached) and easy cash. Find the right suitor for this though, you need to get along well and enjoy one an others company. Make sure that if you find a man like this or a woman, they look for boy toys, that they put their money where their mouths are. Make the show you up front and never ever ever get on a plane and use your own money to do anything for them.....if they want to see you or meet you, let them come to you, or meet in a place that YOU select, not them. If they are a man of their word, they will respect you and understand why your make this type of request. Be safe, not sorry! Sugar Daddies have been stereotyped often and I just wanted to see if there were really normal guys out there that knew how to act and play the part.
These arrangements could be the greatest thing ever....and PLEASE DO NOT THINK that these are all married men or men tied down to a relationship...there are a lot of single guys, who have never been married and only want this sort of commitment,...why? Much easier to walk away from, that's why they do it.
No hassles, not crap...no "honey do" lists! No bitching of any kind...if the gal does such a thing, they can simply say, OK we're done here, and then he interviews a new "Gal Friday!" Piece of cake....easy cash....and wow are the parting gifts great! Something to think about,...really! There is actually no stopping you girls if you put your foot down and make your demands...if they are willing to pay, you can set some of the rules too! Remember, for some, this fun in the sun, NSA stuff turns out being so much more...some couples actually end up together. Stranger things have happened... If he thinks that he is going to grab hold of something nice...take him for a test drive. No better way than "hands on" experience! Guys, just don't look silly and go overboard.
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