4 Steps to Finding L-O-V-E on the Internet

 Dating-let's talk about it, shall we?
Are you new and back on the dating market? If so, you better sit down, because a lot sure has changed. I married my high school sweetheart and was married for over 15 years. Then one day the bottom fell out. I raised my children and did not think much about dating as I put their needs ahead of mine and did what I thought was the right thing to do. I waited until it was 'my' time. So where does one begin to find a new mate/partner/lover/spouse? Dating is nothing new.  It has been around for as long as anyone can remember.  Ask your parents and your grandparents and they will tell you the same thing.  The principles remain the same, only the particular situations and perhaps the “methods” have changed.

Did you know that there are now over 1400 sites to find your mate? There sure are, but which one is the right one for you? With the number of new sites on the market every month you have to ask yourself which one will be best for me?

Online dating opens up so many possibilities for anyone.  If you rely on the “traditional” way of meeting people, you are limited by geography.  On the other hand,online dating offers you the possibility of meeting a person halfway across the world – who just might be the person you have been looking for. Of course, just because you engage in online dating doesn’t mean that everything will be perfect for you.  In fact, you still have to maintain the common sense that you need even for traditional dating. 

 More so, you might want to exercise a bit of caution (emotional and physical alike) in online dating.  are dating sites like Match.com and PlentyofFish.com and relationship- or marriage-oriented sites like eHarmony.com, Chemistry.com and PerfectMatch.com.You’ll also find niche sites for Jews (JDate.com), Christians (ChristianCafe.com), African Americans (BlackPeopleMeet.com), Indians (Shaadi.com), nerds (GeektoGeek.com), pet lovers (DateMyPet.com) and single parents (SingleParentMeet.com). Are you looking for a sugar daddy? (Sugardaddyforme.com) is a great site to find the perfect friendship with benefits/perks so to speak, as well as (SeekingArrangement.com) if you are just looking for a certain financial 'arrangement' so to speak. 

Might I add my 2 cents?
Do be careful of the site(s) you choose;
It’s worth it to shell out for a membership! (Monthly fees range from $20-$60.) Although free sites are attractive in this down economy, having to pay for the service offers accountability. 

1) Take the compatibility test.
Choose at least one site with a compatibility test. They’re “a wonderful little filter” to weed out men looking for casual encounters, or an affair. Remember that not all men are going to be truthful on the site but oh women can be deceitful just the same, so be careful and proceed with caution. Do remember that most people on dating sites are there because they want to find their match/mate and this is the way to go about it in today's era. hey, be truthful. You want a partner to like the qualities that you actually portrait not the ones that you check off on a test hoping he'll like them...be yourself.

2) Pick an appropriate screen name. Oh yeah sure, the name; HotMama69 might find you Mr. Right for tonight, but not necessarily the future father of your children. Are you looking for a one night stand or are you here for serious business? Remember ladies that your screen name is their  first impression of you, so make it something catchy or with meaning behind it. Make it something catchy and that will stand out in his mind. 

 3) Stand out.The biggest problem with most online profiles? They’re too bland. You need to do something to really stand out amongst the hundreds or thousands of others floating around the cyber space of dating.
Don’t be afraid that details will put off potential dates. That’s exactly what you want your profile to do.
As a matter of fact; Your online dating profile should repel about 95% of the people who read it...oh but for the people who could be a good match, you want them to know it was written just for them.

4)Post pictures.Guys are visually oriented, so you need pictures to get their attention. In fact, many men look only at the pictures, skipping profiles entirely. For goodness sakes, pleaseeee post recent photos! No one wants a surprise on their first meeting to see someone walk in bald when the photo you saw was with a head of hair (fellas)...or you don't want to meet someone 50 pounds heavier than the photo you saw (ladies.) No, no no! Be honest and be yourself. You want someone to love you for YOU! Not for what you portrait yourself to be....

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Do You Fantasize About Sexual Encounters?

Definition; (fantasy): indulge in daydreaming about something you desire. Using your imagination. The forming of mental images. A vision, a dream,...a romance.



Getting your fantasy started can be fun and exhilarating! 

The next hurdle would be to tell your spouse/lover/mate/partner that you want to share fantasies during sex. Here are 10 simple steps to get you started: 

1. Start small, go slow. Successfully integrating new ideas into your regular love making routine need to be brought in gently.

2. Think of a simple, neutral (i.e. not too exotic) fantasy. Like the FedEx guy delivering a "package" or you meet a stranger in a bar.

3. Practice saying the fantasy out loud. Yes, this may seem tedious yet if you’re not used to talking dirty or sharing your fantasies, it’s best to have a few practice runs; that way you don’t feel tongue tied when it comes time to share.

4. Test the waters. During your next sexual encounter, say to your partner/lover/spouse, "Want to hear my naughty fantasy?"

5. Wait to get their permission. If they seize up and get upset, don’t take it personally. Often introducing something new makes people feel they are sexually inadequate and will put them on the defensive.

6. Respect their reaction. If they don’t want to hear then you need to pull back and move on.

7. Share your fantasy. If you get their permission, tell them your fantasy.

8. Roll with the fantasy. Expect your sex to become incredibly hot and steamy!

9. When the endorphins have settled, do a follow-up. After the sex, ask how they liked it and would like to do it again.

10. Don't pressure them. If your spouse isn’t comfortable sharing their fantasy, don’t pressure them. Think of this as your sex specialty; what you give to the sexual experience.

Regardless of whether or not someone, man or woman wants to admit this; we all have fantasies of some sort. Remember, the first few times you try adding fantasy to your lovemaking, there’s bound to be flub ups. Give it a little bit of  time before it feels comfortable. After a while expect fantasy-inspired sex to be times to look forward to.

If you are among the very brave, take the fantasy from between the sheets and act it out. There's an old saying; if you don't get it right the first time, keep on trying! I found these tips while researching and wanted to share them with you because so many men/women do not know what to do with their fantasies and never at on them....why now? Let your guard down and take a risk,..life is too short not to. 

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Plus Size Lingerie at Wholesale Prices...Simply Luscious Lingerie

For the past several years I have done everything to try to find a way to bring sexy plus size lingerie to the women of the USA and now I have. For starters, I created a website just for the plus size women of the United States to shop at day or night in the privacy of their own home. Research led me to want to bring sexy plus size intimates to you, the women who are plus size because you are so beautiful! 

I'd like to share something with you. In a recent article by the New York Fashion Weekly; they wrote:

Thanks to campaigns launched by Dove and Fruit of the Loom encouraging healthy self-image in women and girls of all sizes and shapes - shapely, full-figured women have finally emerged from the shadows to demand their place in the sun - and the clothing stores.

The fashion industry can turn on a dime when it comes to dismissing a color or a handbag as "so last year," but when it comes to acknowledging - let alone catering to - the average woman, they seem to have a learning disability. Further, the conventional "wisdom" of the fashion industry is that women who are size 12 and up are not fashion conscious. Apparently they believe that we prefer being relegated to ugly, voluminous garments in drab colors, the fashion equivalent of trash bags.

If - as statistics indicate - 62% of all American women are over-weight, does it make good business sense to virtually ignore the needs and desires of such a large population - not to mention their spending dollars?


OK, FYI, since this article this percentage has risen to 64%. Sex symbols of the 40s,50s, and 60s were all about women in sizes 14 or higher. Hips and curves were treated as sexy and stunning to the eye. Full figured women were intriguing to men, and women were not only healthy but happy. 

In today's hustle and bustle of a crazy 'gotta be skinny' type world...far too many women especially the young ladies are so worried about what they eat and if they'll put on weight that we've got a real problem on our hands. Eating disorders have sky-rocketed because young girls think that they have to be skin and bones, when in fact, curves looks more appealing to the eye. 

Growing up one of my best friends was overweight and she was the most beautiful girl I knew. In her early high school years she thought that being skinny would help her to fit in and be popular, and it worked, but losing an extreme amount of weight can cause problems both mentally and physically. There was a price for her to pay to be skinny and at 48 years of age, she is still paying for it. My question is why? Why do women do this to themselves just to fit in and get approval of others, when in fact this girl, my best friend was born to stand out. Her personality was amazing, her laughter filled the air and she had charisma like you've never seen before. Today she is much thinner but many of my friends are still plus size women and they are so beautiful. 

What I have learned from them is that although they are plus size they cannot find sexy plus size lingerie, and when they do, it is either too expensive, or too ugly. What if a lingerie store could give you both sexy and inexpensive in plus size intimate apparel? I say HELL NO we should not overlook the needs of a woman just because she is a plus size. I say HELL NO women should NOT be relegated to ugly, voluminous garments in drab colors, the fashion equivalent of trash bags. I'm here to help! I stand by these plus size women. I am not ignoring you, in fact I am doing everything in my power to bring to you the best lingerie at the best prices!

Now you can buy plus size lingerie at wholesale prices at my lingerie online boutique. You won't find lingerie cheaper than after the retail costs are marked down on my wholesale lingerie selections. Shop www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com today and visit the wholesale lingerie category. There you will find a membership to join for $19.99 and once you join you can start saving hundreds of dollars immediately on plus size lingerie. Discounts are taken at the checkout with your membership code. Our styles and fabrics are extraordinary. They deliver class. They are flirty and sexy. They are intoxicating they will definitely make temperatures soar when you step into any of our selected pieces!

Check up out and start buying today. Why would you want to shop other plus size store when are prices are half the cost of all of theirs? My designers, distributors and warehouses are all in the USA. Support our country and shop Simply Luscious Lingerie.com today! 

Bring Sexy Home! ® 

Simply Luscious Lingerie is a plus size online boutique designed for the full figure woman. We sell only plus size merchandise. No more flipping through racks of lingerie looking for your size only to come up short. At Simply Luscious Lingerie we sell sexy plus size lingerie including babydolls, bustiers, cami sets, sexy matching sets, chemises, corsets, fantasy costumes, robes, satin pajamas, teddies, wholesale lingerie, shoes, and accessories. Our taste in lingerie is inspiring and intoxicating. We offer safe and secure shopping. We respect your privacy and your confidentiality is our number one priority! carry sizes OSQ,1X,2X,3X 4X. Our selection is fabulous. Our prices are discounted, and when you join our wholesale membership at our plus size store you will begin saving hundreds of dollars off your lingerie undergarments. Visit us today! www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com Prices starting as low as $1.99!

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Flannel PJs and Why They Just Aren't Cool For You Married Gals...

I could make each day fun just writing blogs about friends and coworkers.  Our topics and discussions while we spend hours together vary and regardless of our ages we all manage to laugh and work leaving the store having enjoying the humor shared by women of a variety of ages. We are always all in tune with the subject line, and whether comments come from someone who is 18 , 48, or 49...we all agree that it's difficult being a woman with such demands  that society has on us. This blog about someone I work with that goes home each night and by 6:00 PM she admitted that she is comfortable, warm and toasty in her flannel PJs and a big night shirt. She knows who she is, and we laugh at work when we talk about blogs and fashion. These women are all inspirations to me. We all laugh knowing our styles and tastes in clothes/fashion are a bit different and that we all go home and put on something goofy that we are sporting comfy in, and that's all right...it's not the pjs that make the woman! One might say that flannel pjs are just 'not cool' for the married gal.

Today my blog is about my friend/coworker... and this nightmare of a Fashion No-No! Owning a lingerie boutique or two, it makes my life dreamy and fun when I get to assist my friends in finding something super sexy for them to wear for their boyfriends or husbands. For me, this is 100% totally fun. Although flannel keeps us cozy and warm when it's cold, I still respect her, but ...Good Lord, I vow to assist her by making her look more seductive for her husband that includes something tantalizing and tempting!? Yes? Of course...and so I did. I turned her bedroom attire from frumpy to foxy! 

Although we all know and understand that flannel PJs are quite versatile, warmth is a key benefit that makes flannel material so pervasive. I am not knocking flannels whatsoever...There are some problems associated with flannel pajamas, however. Soooo not sexy, and did you know that they are totally flammable. Hello? Turning up the bedroom heat is one thing but that's getting a little extreme. Let me say this again...Flannels are SO NOT SEXY! 

So what is sexy? For those of you who don't know the difference from one piece of lingerie to another; let me enlighten you; 

Babydolls

If you want to look like super mom, super sexy and all after a long day of work and a house that seems like it will never get clean...throw this on and light up his night! A very popular piece of sleepwear...the babydoll.... A short top the babydoll is usually teamed up with a thong or panties, making for very sexy sleepwear. Babydoll pjs are typically made from lighter fabrics, such as thin cotton, nylon, or elegant and luxurious materials, such as silk, satin, and lace.

Nightshirts and Sleep Shirts

These days most of all the night shirts you'll find, and even sleep shirts look like turbo sized over-sized t-shirts. They usually fall to knee length and are worn without shorts or pajama pants. They are frumpy and not sexy...no,no,no! Sleeves are typically the short sleeves of the t-shirt style, although three-quarter and full-length sleeves are common in nightshirts that are made for sleeping.These styles are often made from satin, silk, or another semi-sheer material. These are sexy, but men love, love love it when you come to bed in his polo collared shirt that he wore to work...nothing says sexy as much as that does. 

Camisoles and Panties

While the camisoles are usually thought of as a daytime fashion accessory, when paired with boy shorts (my favorite) or  a thong, they are a sexy addition to the bedroom. This pajama style is both flirty and feminine. Just like their publicly worn counterpart, bedtime camisoles are made from semi-sheer and lightweight materials. For this sleepwear style, mix and match is probably the rule rather than the exception. Pairing any camisole top with any type of bottom creates a very sexy outfit, and generally that you won't keep on for long if your spouse/lover/or partner has anything to do with it!

Chemises

The first word used to describe underwear garments was "chemise." Originally, a chemise was a loose, one-piece undergarment worn as protection from the rough outer garment. Many chemises also included padding for warmth, comfort, or to meet the fashion-standard of the day. The chemise as we know it is a short A-line nightgown that reaches about mid-thigh. They are often paired with a bikini bottom or thong. Chemises are sleeveless and loose fitting but are also very feminine. They are like a baby doll top that is a little tighter in the hips. Look for chemises in silks or satins with laces, trimmings, bows, and other sexy details.

Plus Size Sleepwear

These days, plus size lingerie and pjs have become a category all by itself. For the full figured women, sleepwear designed specifically for plus-size women often includes breast support, which is very beneficial to comfortable sleeping. It always comes in a variety of babydolls, chemises, camp sets, etc. At Simply Luscious Lingerie.com we've got you covered! Shop our store for elegance and luxury prices.

Pajama Advice by Shelly;

Ladies...I know that you all have a variety of options in pajama sets. I also know that many things factor in on what you make your way to bed in depending on your body, shape and height. Some styles work better than others. To make shopping easier, just go to Simply Delicious Lingerie.com or Simply Luscious Lingerie.com and there you will find something sensual for that one night a week/month when enough is enough and you just cut loose! 

 To my friend; I say thank you for producing this photo to show women around the globe that it's OK to go home and wear your comfy pjs! It's not the clothes that make the woman,...it's about the woman that makes the clothes!

About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s underwear men's lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

Single Women and WHY We Won't Settle...

Are you a good woman, a hard worker, a single parent? So many women are. My grandmother always used to tell me that I was special. She said that if I wanted to get respect I first had to have much respect for myself, and I do. Her relationship advice; she said that somewhere out there was a man out that would care for me, appreciate me and love me,...for ME, faults, bad habits and all! She also said that no woman should ever put herself or her feelings on the back burner for any man. I think when we are married or in serious relationships, we as women do tend to do this. I did. After my divorce, I never did this again. This time around it was all about me. Does this sound a little familiar? 

Ladies- don’t you think you deserve happiness like everyone else? We all try to do the right thing and yet we question what it is that we do wrong in relationships? Oh please... there are so many things that we can or can't do right in a relationship that it would take this blog and a few more books to list the goofy things that we do to muck things up...The secret to not settling is being clear on what you want and not being afraid to demand it. Some men are very intimidated by this. Why? This means that they are not in control, and that scares some men. 

If you don’t know what you want in a man or from a relationship, than you shouldn’t get involved with someone- PERIOD! No reason to bring someone else down if you are trying to get your act together. You wouldn't want someone to do this to do, so don't do it to them. Don’t try to figure it out as you go along because you will only end up hurt and confused. Even if you know what you want, what good is it if you don’t demand the respect to receive it? If you say you want to be loved and to be number one in somebody’s life, why are you sitting around waiting for a man to leave his “situation”? That doesn’t make sense right? Think about it – why settle for good when you can have great? Time for some girl talk; listen up ladies,...stop settling! My grandmother also told me to never make a man my priority if he only saw me as an option. When you date, you see this a lot. 


The alternative to settling, of course, is going on more dates where you’ll have to laugh at not-so-funny jokes and rehash (over and over and over again why you are single) ... Yes, you'll have to go into why you’re still on the market as if it wasn't already difficult enough to talk about. Some women are still on the market because they don't want to get burned, or they are gun-shy to relationships. Perhaps they went through a bad break up or a messy divorce that dragged on and on and on?

No one has to be with someone. Some choose to do it for all the wrong reasons. The alternative is being single. So do you settle? It’s not bad, and some women actually do settle...nonetheless, it’s just, that you know that deep down you could do sooo much better, don't you? There you have it ladies– you can settle for a so-so relationship, you can go on countless dates, or you can be single. There’s no other choice. Most women that I know of who are middle aged and single tell me that they like dating but they don't know if they would ever tackle marriage again. Settling down and settling are two different things here. 

We stay single for careers, and for ourselves...some of us are a bit selfish, and we have every right to be. No matter how accomplished a woman becomes, or no matter how many lives she saves, at the end of the day, a woman is more likely to judge her success in life based on two things: her weight and her love life. Hey, it's a proven fact...like it or not there it is. Myself, I don't want to be someones part time, or spare time, or sometimes...I want to be his all the time, and if I cannot find that...I'll stay single. 

Why do women settle? Here are a few examples that I found while doing research on the topic; 

• We settle because we’re tired of people asking “where’s your date?” upon entering parties.
• We settle because having someone is better than feeling flawed because at your age you’re still single.
• We settle because we’re just ready to stop this whole dating thing, already!
• Don't settle, just to settle...

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Join the Club....The Wholesale Lingerie Club

At Simply Luscious Lingerie, it's all about feeling confident and sexy! Shopping for plus size lingerie got you down? Can't find classy intimate apparel? Can't find your size? We are here to help! We want you to feel comfy shopping from home in your PJs or at the office! Everyone else wants to charge you a lot of money for lingerie...we don't! We want you to save money and feel sexy! We invite you to join our Wholesale Lingerie Membership. It's exclusive...and only for women with curves! We love full figure and want you to take advantage of this awesome deal and our exquisite collection that you would pay much more for anywhere else you shop! No other plus size lingerie store offers what we do, and treats you like family. Don't take our word for it...do the comparison. Visit other stores and check out their prices verse ours after the club price. 

Join the Club! As a member of our wholesale plus size boutique at Simply Luscious Lingerie, you'll receive 50-70% discount off retail listed price at checkout on all of our initiate apparel in this category by collection, designer and manufacturer. 

To join; follow this link; http://www.simplylusciouslingerie.com/wholesale-lingerie-membership-simply-luscious-lingerie-save-50-to-70-percent  

$19.99 Annual Set Up Fee for New Account;

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***Read Carefully the details of the wholesale membership club then join and start saving hundreds of dollars on your initiate apparel. We offer the best prices in the USA. Oh...and don't be shy...tell everyone you know! We want women throughout the USA to shop Simply Luscious Lingerie and join the Wholesale Lingerie Membership. Aren't you worth it? Isn't it time for you to bring sexy home?

Bring Sexy Home! ® 

Simply Luscious Lingerie is a plus size online boutique designed for the full figure woman. We sell only plus size merchandise. No more flipping through racks of lingerie looking for your size only to come up short. We carry sizes OSQ to 4X. Our selection is fabulous. Our prices are discounted, and when you join our wholesale membership at our plus size store you will begin saving hundreds of dollars off your lingerie undergarments. Visit us today! www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com Prices starting as low as $9.99.

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Plus Size Wholesale Lingerie....Simply Luscious Lingerie

I hear women state that from day to day that when they go out shopping for something sexy, they simply cannot find lingerie that catches their eye, and that there are a lot of stores that are reluctant to carry such merchandise. For these classy curvy women, it can be quite difficult to find undergarments in an assortment of styles, colors or sizes. These women have made mention that some of those other lingerie stores have pretty lingerie but do they really know plus size lingerie? When you go into a boutique you should be able to find an entire plus size section, but in most cases you don't...in fact what I found while out shopping with my friends was a small rack in the far back of the store with 5-10 pieces of lingerie on them, all of which I wouldn't buy if I were plus size, not to mention they were all very tacky to say the least. They were in no way screaming sexy. Some lingerie shops only cater to what society says is sexy. Some lingerie stores want to keep that particular image and not carry plus sizes at all. 

I have morals and my own image. I have a handful of friends all whom which I am very close to that have told me from day one (which in my business and planning it was nearly 5 years ago) that I did not understand how difficult it was to find plus size lingerie. They were absolutely right! I have never been a plus size and I had no idea how difficult it was for them to go shopping for something that hugs their curves and make them feel pretty. Today, with the American population being that 64% of the women are now a size 14 or over...somethings gotta give here! 

I started Simply Luscious Lingerie over 3 years ago with the plus size woman in mind. Although I do already have another store, Simply Delicious Lingerie which does carry plus size intimate apparel, I realized that my friends were lacking the fun of being able to shop for pretty, sexy lingerie at a store JUST FOR THEM. Just because  you may be a different size does not at all mean that you cannot look stunning and feel exhilarating! It does not mean that you should not have an entire section to browse through to select that one piece of apparel that will make you feel and look like a million bucks. 

Most women that I know of in this busy hustle and bustle world are too busy to go from store to store shopping to see if they carry plus size lingerie that they would want to purchase. If you do not have the time to go shopping for lingerie in person, or feel intimidated by the salesclerks and frustrated by a small selection at stores, visiting my website may be a good way to find the items you need. Our online store has a broader selection. Ladies, please don't let your search for the perfect pieces be limited. We have the store for you and every day it is growing and our customer base is increasing. We need all of you to tell others about us so that we can grow even larger and fulfill more plus size women's intimate apparel needs! 

With my BFFs in mind, I created Simply Luscious Lingerie, a plus size ONLY store that would cater to women of all size hypothetically speaking from OSQ to 4X. With my store we service you, the plus size gal with beautiful , fun lingerie that you can wear anytime and be proud to have on. Whether it be your wedding day, or everyday...we ask you to please choose us to shape your hour glass figure. Isn't it time you found a great lingerie boutique and 'Bring Sexy Home!?' We've got the perfect fitting lingerie for the full figure woman, and image this...buying it will not break your bank! www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

Our store is making some big changes. I feel that I need to do more to meet your needs, so I am adding a wholesale membership area to my plus size online boutique where for $19.99 you can get one year of unlimited access to beautiful, sensual lingerie not at retail prices, rather my wholesale cost. You can save hundreds and hundreds of dollars if you shop our store! For what the membership costs you, I can promise you that you'll save that on your first shopping visit to our online boutique. You'll be given a code to use when you order your lingerie, but in order to get it at this incredible cost, your order must total $100 minimum. With lingerie, and the way most women love to shop, this won't be difficult to do at all. 

We're adding new merchandise every day to our 'Wholesale Membership" area so please check us out and remember that the prices you see marked are the prices you would pay before the 50-70% off coupon code goes into effect. No one else offers plus size lingerie this inexpensive ladies...NO ONE! We'll have hundreds of items to choose from, and only the wholesale lingerie section will be discounted. Anyone not wishing to join this membership can shop any of our other categories for luxury lingerie! 

Our style is fresh, and appealing. It is alluring, exciting, intoxicating and sensual. It could be in for closet tomorrow if you join today! CLICK HERE! http://www.simplylusciouslingerie.com/wholesale-lingerie-membership-simply-luscious-lingerie-save-50-to-70-percent

About Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie; 

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, stockings, thigh highs, fishnet stockings, bodysuit, bodystocking, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

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Ahhh the 'Booty Call'

Ahhh the booty call; truth be told, as far as I know most every man and woman has heard about it and virtually every man (mostly) loves it. Women on the other hand, they don't always like getting that awakening and sometimes disturbing phone call in the middle of the night with a 'hey baby, whatcha doin?'...on the other end of the receiver. Catch my drift boys? The problem with it though is that it is a touchy subject that most men would rather dance around than talk about. At the time they make the 'booty call' they only have one thing on their mind and it's not chit-chat. One day you gt it and the next nothing...zero, zip! You can have it today and it can be gone tomorrow...it all depends on how you handle it and how you approach it.

Most men (that I am aware of) don't know how to keep the call frequent. Oh fellas, figure this one out or your will have nothing at the end of the night but some really sore blue balls. Pay attention to your woman's needs. You surely cannot expect to ignore her, or treat her as if she was the last person on earth and then think you were going to invite her to your house for dinner or a hot tub and then have whoopie did you? Shame, shame, shame on you!!! Fellas you need to learn how to keep the main iingredients in store. This means that you are required to keep the recipe tasting delicious not malicious. If you appease her, it won't be like a booty call time and time again. 


The main reason is because most men don't have a clue, or understand that there are a few rules that must be followed in order to prevent themselves from getting the boot instead of the call. Are you with me so far? Listen, relationships or even simple dating are OK, but men like and want what they generally cannot have most often...that doesn't mean that they can't have a partner to satisfy their primal needs: sexual intercourse...it means use your nugget fellas and plan it our  smart if you want to get some booty at your beck and call. It's not about getting drunk and making bad decisions either. Think guys...just think!

 You see, most women, most nice women that is... will avoid the sleazy reputation that goes along with a one night stand...am I right? Most women will say yes. I know what you are thinking...but do they do it? 

So, what about women? Sure we can send out a booty call just the same...and sometimes we do! I was at work this evening and the subject came up. It's funny you know because earlier in the day I pondered what to blog about, then, a coworker said to me (we'll just call her JoJo)...

JoJo said to me; Hey Shelly, guess who got a booty call at 2:00 am last night? I looked at her and said YOU? She said yup ME. I said OMG did you say no? She responded with a "No, I told him OK but then I  told him that he couldn't kiss me because I was sick." That reminded me of the Julia Roberts part in Pretty Woman where she said that she doesn't kiss on the mouth. I laughed. JoJo cracked me up, and it was then that I realized that I needed to once again write about the booty call.

You see, it's ok if you are friends or have been partners and you are both cool with it, but for heaven sakes, do not call someone that you've not seen or spoken to in months and try to get a quickie...it's not going to happen fellas. Use common sense and have some respect for crying out loud. What kind of booty all do you get?  

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Why Women Love Compliments...

If you are a woman, then you know when someone pays you a compliment that it does something to you and it makes you feel good inside! Regardless of what that compliment may or may not be, it means that someone thought enough of you to share their thoughts...Last night I received a compliment that made me take a few steps back. I was out with friends for dinner and cocktails when a man sent me  a martini and a message on a napkin that said "I cannot tell a lie, the thigh highs caught my eye... if i was superman they would be my kryptonite!" 

It's things like this that a man says to a woman that makes her feel good, deep down, not just on the surface. It means that a man took the time, not only to admire the view, but to observe the situation and comment on it knowing that what he said would do for a woman what compliments do to boost a mans ego. When a woman receives a compliment it's like getting the 4 A's; admiration, applause, appreciation and approval. When you think about it, what woman doesn't want a man to notice her like that? In my case this was just a man that happened to be sitting across the room that noticed me as I walked by to meet up with friends. This is the kind of compliment a woman never forgets. 

There is something to be said about a man who takes the time to not only admire you from afar, rather take the time to bring to your attention that you have just made him buckle at the knees so to speak. This man has no idea what this simple gesture did for my confidence, nonetheless, I am grateful to say the least. I'm not the only woman who appreciates this token of kindness. Women in general love compliments! 
What can you do to show your lady that you care? Everything that you do is a compliment to her in one way or another. I've listen some of the key factors that contribute to what a girl wants; 

1. Listen, Listen and Keep On Listening...

We eat it up when we know that a guy is really paying attention. Whether you've only known her for a week or been married to her for 20 years, for heaven sakes, pay close attention to her lips away, and what her body is saying to you! There is nothing better and comforting to a woman then to be heard. When you hear her, show genuine interest. Listen with your ears and heart what she is telling you.Communicate love with her by listening to every word she is saying to you. Most of the time women do not want answers from you, they just want you to listen to them.

2. Pay Attention to Her...

 I Mean "Really Pay Attention!"

Men already have the stereotype of bad listeners when comes to women, moreover, that they are inattentive and barely notice anything, unless it pertained to; a football field, a basketball court, or a golf course...Really fellas? Guess what? You better go to the shed and sharped those tools or you won't find a good woman. We want a man that listens to what we are saying. We want a compassionate man. You will have to tear down that wall and show her that you are an exception when it comes to her, that you notice and compliment her new hair style, her look, her everything! A women doesn't always change her appearance but it doesn't look good at all on your part guys when your lady doesn't something different like cut her hair, change the color, lose weight, etc and you don't notice. Are you BLIND? 

3. Discover Things About Her

This means take the time to really understand her and what it is that she needs. It's the little things that catch our eye and our attention. While you sit marveling about what you can say to get us to noticed, the guy across the room from you will just come out and say what he is feeling/thinking. Get to really know her... Ask her about her day, her job, if she is in school again ask her about her classes, her new project at work or home. Ask and listen to her while she is telling you about herself and her life. Getting to know your woman is one of the most exciting things.

4. Show her You Care...Give Her Support

I am not talking about you being a good provider, especially not in the financial sense, because being an independent woman I think I can say that women can take care of themselves. What I am talking about are the times when you sense she feels lonely, fearful and maybe just a little needy. We gals love hugs! Hold her in your arms and say what Shawn Mullins sang about in the song Lullaby; "Everything's gonna be all right, rockabye."

4. Don't Tell Her Shit...Tell Her the TRUTH!!

Listen, no woman wants to hear a line of crap a mile long...we aren't stupid and we certainly were not born yesterday. There is no worst thing than a two face man. Women can smell these fellas a mile away and when they open their yap and the stories get more and more profound, we are on to you like ham on rye. We want the truth, not some juicy story that you think we're going to go gaga over. Be honest and truthful with her. More than anything we appreciate the truth and we have much more respect for the men that speak it. 

5. Admire Her and her Confidence...

Please don't mistake confidence for arrogance. They are two completely different things. Merriam-Webster defines confidence as "the quality or state of being certain." A confident woman is quite certain of who she is on the inside, make no mistake about that. She doesn't need anyone to feed her compliments or buy her things in order for her to feel good about herself.T ell and show her what you enjoy and admire about her. Tell her she looks pretty. Tell her you love her eyes or her hair, or her legs. When you laugh together, tell her much you appreciate her sense of humor. Respect her and treat her like a queen. Being genuine is a luxury that we don't always find in men. 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men's lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®