Definition; (fantasy): indulge in daydreaming about something you desire. Using your imagination. The forming of mental images. A vision, a dream,...a romance.
Getting your fantasy started can be fun and exhilarating!
The next hurdle would be to tell your spouse/lover/mate/partner that you want to share fantasies during sex. Here are 10 simple steps to get you started:
1. Start small, go slow. Successfully integrating new ideas into your regular love making routine need to be brought in gently.
2. Think of a simple, neutral (i.e. not too exotic) fantasy. Like the FedEx guy delivering a "package" or you meet a stranger in a bar.
3. Practice saying the fantasy out loud. Yes, this may seem tedious yet if you’re not used to talking dirty or sharing your fantasies, it’s best to have a few practice runs; that way you don’t feel tongue tied when it comes time to share.
4. Test the waters. During your next sexual encounter, say to your partner/lover/spouse, "Want to hear my naughty fantasy?"
5. Wait to get their permission. If they seize up and get upset, don’t take it personally. Often introducing something new makes people feel they are sexually inadequate and will put them on the defensive.
6. Respect their reaction. If they don’t want to hear then you need to pull back and move on.
7. Share your fantasy. If you get their permission, tell them your fantasy.
8. Roll with the fantasy. Expect your sex to become incredibly hot and steamy!
9. When the endorphins have settled, do a follow-up. After the sex, ask how they liked it and would like to do it again.
10. Don't pressure them. If your spouse isn’t comfortable sharing their fantasy, don’t pressure them. Think of this as your sex specialty; what you give to the sexual experience.
Regardless of whether or not someone, man or woman wants to admit this; we all have fantasies of some sort. Remember, the first few times you try adding fantasy to your lovemaking, there’s bound to be flub ups. Give it a little bit of time before it feels comfortable. After a while expect fantasy-inspired sex to be times to look forward to.
If you are among the very brave, take the fantasy from between the sheets and act it out. There's an old saying; if you don't get it right the first time, keep on trying! I found these tips while researching and wanted to share them with you because so many men/women do not know what to do with their fantasies and never at on them....why now? Let your guard down and take a risk,..life is too short not to.
Getting your fantasy started can be fun and exhilarating!
The next hurdle would be to tell your spouse/lover/mate/partner that you want to share fantasies during sex. Here are 10 simple steps to get you started:
1. Start small, go slow. Successfully integrating new ideas into your regular love making routine need to be brought in gently.
2. Think of a simple, neutral (i.e. not too exotic) fantasy. Like the FedEx guy delivering a "package" or you meet a stranger in a bar.
3. Practice saying the fantasy out loud. Yes, this may seem tedious yet if you’re not used to talking dirty or sharing your fantasies, it’s best to have a few practice runs; that way you don’t feel tongue tied when it comes time to share.
4. Test the waters. During your next sexual encounter, say to your partner/lover/spouse, "Want to hear my naughty fantasy?"
5. Wait to get their permission. If they seize up and get upset, don’t take it personally. Often introducing something new makes people feel they are sexually inadequate and will put them on the defensive.
6. Respect their reaction. If they don’t want to hear then you need to pull back and move on.
7. Share your fantasy. If you get their permission, tell them your fantasy.
8. Roll with the fantasy. Expect your sex to become incredibly hot and steamy!
9. When the endorphins have settled, do a follow-up. After the sex, ask how they liked it and would like to do it again.
10. Don't pressure them. If your spouse isn’t comfortable sharing their fantasy, don’t pressure them. Think of this as your sex specialty; what you give to the sexual experience.
Regardless of whether or not someone, man or woman wants to admit this; we all have fantasies of some sort. Remember, the first few times you try adding fantasy to your lovemaking, there’s bound to be flub ups. Give it a little bit of time before it feels comfortable. After a while expect fantasy-inspired sex to be times to look forward to.
If you are among the very brave, take the fantasy from between the sheets and act it out. There's an old saying; if you don't get it right the first time, keep on trying! I found these tips while researching and wanted to share them with you because so many men/women do not know what to do with their fantasies and never at on them....why now? Let your guard down and take a risk,..life is too short not to.
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