Do You Fantasize About Sexual Encounters?

Definition; (fantasy): indulge in daydreaming about something you desire. Using your imagination. The forming of mental images. A vision, a dream,...a romance.



Getting your fantasy started can be fun and exhilarating! 

The next hurdle would be to tell your spouse/lover/mate/partner that you want to share fantasies during sex. Here are 10 simple steps to get you started: 

1. Start small, go slow. Successfully integrating new ideas into your regular love making routine need to be brought in gently.

2. Think of a simple, neutral (i.e. not too exotic) fantasy. Like the FedEx guy delivering a "package" or you meet a stranger in a bar.

3. Practice saying the fantasy out loud. Yes, this may seem tedious yet if you’re not used to talking dirty or sharing your fantasies, it’s best to have a few practice runs; that way you don’t feel tongue tied when it comes time to share.

4. Test the waters. During your next sexual encounter, say to your partner/lover/spouse, "Want to hear my naughty fantasy?"

5. Wait to get their permission. If they seize up and get upset, don’t take it personally. Often introducing something new makes people feel they are sexually inadequate and will put them on the defensive.

6. Respect their reaction. If they don’t want to hear then you need to pull back and move on.

7. Share your fantasy. If you get their permission, tell them your fantasy.

8. Roll with the fantasy. Expect your sex to become incredibly hot and steamy!

9. When the endorphins have settled, do a follow-up. After the sex, ask how they liked it and would like to do it again.

10. Don't pressure them. If your spouse isn’t comfortable sharing their fantasy, don’t pressure them. Think of this as your sex specialty; what you give to the sexual experience.

Regardless of whether or not someone, man or woman wants to admit this; we all have fantasies of some sort. Remember, the first few times you try adding fantasy to your lovemaking, there’s bound to be flub ups. Give it a little bit of  time before it feels comfortable. After a while expect fantasy-inspired sex to be times to look forward to.

If you are among the very brave, take the fantasy from between the sheets and act it out. There's an old saying; if you don't get it right the first time, keep on trying! I found these tips while researching and wanted to share them with you because so many men/women do not know what to do with their fantasies and never at on them....why now? Let your guard down and take a risk,..life is too short not to. 

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Bedroom Teasers

Everyone, and when I say everyone I mean both men and women desire sexual stimulation of some sort. There are some really intense ways to tease in the bedroom, or any room for that matter. How?  Hang on to your bed post! If you want to start a fire and really turn up some heat, use the check list below to get your love life flowing hot and steamy. My guess is that it won't take long and when passion starts there will be no stopping it. Relax, take a deep breath, now exhale.....It's time to get acquainted! There is nothing like foreplay and a naughty fantasy story to do the trick and before you know it, you'll both be begging for more.

Use bedroom teasers to set the mood. These sensitive and erotic actions are crucial factors for seducing your partner. Each time you make love, try something new, I've listed a few things below to get things started. There's no time like the present to spruce up your love life, not only does it liven things up but it sets the bar higher for new things to try. Let your imaginations run wild. Need a fantasy costume or a seductive bedroom costume? French Maid, Naughty Nurse, Playful Kitty? Look no further; lingerie is the answer! Sexy Lingerie says it all! This is just between the two of you, and as Charlie Pride once sang it in a song no one know what goes on "behind closed door." 

1) Blindfolds increase all other senses and make for an interesting experience.
2) Handcuffs are great for that “bad boy” routine.
3)Wear your high heels the entire time you’re having sex.
4)Whisper your naughty fantasy into his ear – while you’re in public. The wait will be delicious torture!
5)Strong mints with a dose of peppermint make for a tingly sensation on delicate body parts.
6) Pretend to be a complete stranger and tell your partner wild things you want to try.
7) Take the time to find her G-Spot. Believe me, it’s worth the effort!
8)Have a glass of wine before bed to help you both relax and drop the inhibitions.
9) Long day at work? Tie him up with his own tie then spank him to get him aroused.
10)Read an erotic story to him and kiss his neck as you read to turn up the heat.

Tantalize him with "Table Talk!"

body language

Definition

Silent (non-verbal) messages communicated through the sender's body movements, facial expressions, voice tone and loudness, etc. In social psychology, all behavior in presence of another person is considered communication. Also called kinesic communications. See also non verbal communication.

Nonverbal communication is a rapidly flowing back-and-forth process. You send one another signals with gestures, sighs, or eye contact. Successful nonverbal communication depends on emotional self-awareness and an understanding of the cues you’re sending, along with the ability to accurately pick up on the cues others are sending you. Ladies, in short, this means "don't hold back." This requires your full concentration and attention. If you're planning what you’re going to say next, daydreaming, or thinking about something else, you are almost certain to miss nonverbal cues and other subtleties in the conversation, and you'll probably blow the opportunity. Relax and go with the flow.....My advice, shoot from the hip. More often than not, the best romantic displays of affection come from moments where we lose our heads and throw the rules right up into the air. I'm all about taking risks. Life is far to short to wonder, "what if?" When you are with someone and you are both feeling a bit romantic, show him/her. Don't wait, there's no time like the present!

 Body language is effective! Not only does it show you have a sense of adventure, it also shows that you can use your imagination. My grandmother used to say that if you could master the art of body language, you could have an entire conversation with someone without having ever had to open your mouth. The eyes have a way of often telling it all. Can you speak with your eyes?  The body has a way of saying "I want you now!" It doesn't matter where you are, if the mood strikes and you want to show them how you feel.....send them a signal. It's contagious, fun, exhilarating, erotic, spontaneous and something he'll be thinking about long afterwards. Why be ordinary when you can be extraordinary?

Doesn't this just give "table talk" a whole new meaning?