If you are heading down the road toward break up, or you are coming up to that fork in the road where you know paths are changing...Why would you have to ask "why do women leave men?" It takes some serious thought to get it figured out and it will mess with your head, cause insecurities and disrupt your life if you allow it to. Check out 3 factors that usually are the main reason of why women leave men: If these relate to you, or if they sound like your life now in slow motion....STOP, READ, then do everything in your power to FIX IT! If you love her, you will fight for her. Walking away or letting her leave would be the easy way out.
1. A Change In The Relationship
A lot of times, women leave due to the fact that there’s been some sort of change between you, and it isn’t always easy to recognize this exact change down. But the majority of us have been down this road before: The relationship has lost its spark, it isn't fun anymore, the feeling is dead. It’s just as you’re friends now, and all that thrills is gone. But you’re both wrong if you believe that. In fact, that spark is there somewhere; it’s just hidden under a bunch of junk. Both of you have become bored and apathetic. Relationships take work, and you have to get that spark going again.Some guys miss the point completely and say, “But we’re still having sex!” Sex is the easy part of a relationship, what lies within the boundaries are much more difficult to build and they do take a lot of hard work and effort.That may be a whole lot worse, and I will tell you why. It’s because, if she feels like the romance and pleasure are gone but you guys continue to be getting it on, she will think that you’re merely using her for sex.
2. You aren't There When She Needs You
Women have a tendency to demand support. LOT'S OF IT!! Guys are usually more independent, but all of us need some support from time to time. Women need it much more than men. Support does not merely mean affection; it also means respect. You may not realize it, but you may be belittling her and never respecting her views. Women need to feel this respect, which means you’ve got to show it.This sometimes happens because both of you just too busy for quality time together. When she wants to talk and you happen to be busy, she might think you’re brushing her off. Are you? What you should do here is spend a little more time together, and let her know that you respect her as an individual. I'm not saying have girls night and paint her nails for her, I'm saying get back to the basics.....go back to the place it all started and remember why it was that you fell in love with her to begin with. When I find it, I never want to lose it.....Guys,....women need affection, respect, compliment, support and a shoulder to cry on. I don't have to tell you this....if I do, it'll be like beating a dead horse and you simply aren't even on the same planet that we women are on.
Women need you to listen to them and to apologize when you do something foolish. Do you think this sounds like a lot of work? It is! But don't forget, she’s your lover, partner, friend, support system and co-conspirator; she has to be all of that.
3. Significant Life Changes
Sometimes women leave because their life has changed and the guy’s life hasn’t. She’s moved on to some new zone in her life, and you’re still in the last one. Maybe it's because you were not paying attention when the change emerged, or because you don’t want to follow her into this new phase of her life.
One huge difference between guys and gals is that women look at the entire picture, and men usually don’t. When I say “picture,” I am not referring to next week or even next month. I’m talking about years and years in the future. If she’s thinking about the future and you aren't, this can cause some problems. If she’s looking at the future and you aren't in it, this is really serious. So we over-think sometimes......You have to show her that you’re keeping up with her changes and planning for your future together too. Ya'll need get on the same page...
For instance.....If she likes to travel and you've never stepped foot on a plane before, you have issues to deal with, and I hope that it's because your not afraid of heights? Perhaps you never did it before because the right woman hadn't come along to give you that nudge? Hello!!! Here she is....Get your passport, suntan oil and swimming trunks, and get ready for some hot steamy sultry adventure...... Punta Cana is calling your names! Life is changing around you and all for the good! These life changes are just like bumps in the road; it doesn't have to totally throw you into the ditch. You can weather the storm if you keep communicating with one another and keep supporting each other.
This relation can work, Cher said If I could "Turn Back Time"......If I could find a way ......I'd take back those words that hurt you and you'd stay? Fellas.....It's not too late to turn back the hands of time......
1. A Change In The Relationship
A lot of times, women leave due to the fact that there’s been some sort of change between you, and it isn’t always easy to recognize this exact change down. But the majority of us have been down this road before: The relationship has lost its spark, it isn't fun anymore, the feeling is dead. It’s just as you’re friends now, and all that thrills is gone. But you’re both wrong if you believe that. In fact, that spark is there somewhere; it’s just hidden under a bunch of junk. Both of you have become bored and apathetic. Relationships take work, and you have to get that spark going again.Some guys miss the point completely and say, “But we’re still having sex!” Sex is the easy part of a relationship, what lies within the boundaries are much more difficult to build and they do take a lot of hard work and effort.That may be a whole lot worse, and I will tell you why. It’s because, if she feels like the romance and pleasure are gone but you guys continue to be getting it on, she will think that you’re merely using her for sex.
2. You aren't There When She Needs You
Women have a tendency to demand support. LOT'S OF IT!! Guys are usually more independent, but all of us need some support from time to time. Women need it much more than men. Support does not merely mean affection; it also means respect. You may not realize it, but you may be belittling her and never respecting her views. Women need to feel this respect, which means you’ve got to show it.This sometimes happens because both of you just too busy for quality time together. When she wants to talk and you happen to be busy, she might think you’re brushing her off. Are you? What you should do here is spend a little more time together, and let her know that you respect her as an individual. I'm not saying have girls night and paint her nails for her, I'm saying get back to the basics.....go back to the place it all started and remember why it was that you fell in love with her to begin with. When I find it, I never want to lose it.....Guys,....women need affection, respect, compliment, support and a shoulder to cry on. I don't have to tell you this....if I do, it'll be like beating a dead horse and you simply aren't even on the same planet that we women are on.
Women need you to listen to them and to apologize when you do something foolish. Do you think this sounds like a lot of work? It is! But don't forget, she’s your lover, partner, friend, support system and co-conspirator; she has to be all of that.
3. Significant Life Changes
Sometimes women leave because their life has changed and the guy’s life hasn’t. She’s moved on to some new zone in her life, and you’re still in the last one. Maybe it's because you were not paying attention when the change emerged, or because you don’t want to follow her into this new phase of her life.
One huge difference between guys and gals is that women look at the entire picture, and men usually don’t. When I say “picture,” I am not referring to next week or even next month. I’m talking about years and years in the future. If she’s thinking about the future and you aren't, this can cause some problems. If she’s looking at the future and you aren't in it, this is really serious. So we over-think sometimes......You have to show her that you’re keeping up with her changes and planning for your future together too. Ya'll need get on the same page...
For instance.....If she likes to travel and you've never stepped foot on a plane before, you have issues to deal with, and I hope that it's because your not afraid of heights? Perhaps you never did it before because the right woman hadn't come along to give you that nudge? Hello!!! Here she is....Get your passport, suntan oil and swimming trunks, and get ready for some hot steamy sultry adventure...... Punta Cana is calling your names! Life is changing around you and all for the good! These life changes are just like bumps in the road; it doesn't have to totally throw you into the ditch. You can weather the storm if you keep communicating with one another and keep supporting each other.
This relation can work, Cher said If I could "Turn Back Time"......If I could find a way ......I'd take back those words that hurt you and you'd stay? Fellas.....It's not too late to turn back the hands of time......
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