How are we really supposed to know how a man feels about us when they are so protective and relentless to speak of their real feelings? Can you read your man? Women seem to be able to say it all through gestures or simple signals and we expect a man to know what we are thinking.....so why then is it so difficult for them to level with us? I don't understand it. Do we have more energy than they do and are we better at the social skills, careers, family and friends social ladders? Are they just turtles and they move at a snails pace? Why is it so damn hard to figure one out. My guess is that perhaps they don't really want to be figured out? They cry and whine about wanting to meet the right woman and then they do and we feel like somewhere along the way the bottom falls out? Soooo not fair, and they wonder why we are on edge and act like we do sometimes....
My theory is and always has been, you give a little, they don't expect a lot. You open yourself up and give a lot....they let you down, leaving you to wonder if they have feelings for you at all and if they do, why they can't be more expressive? Be expressive, if you aren't he won't know how you feel and you won't know what he is thinking. Be straight with him, and honest. Your foundation is built, now watch it develop and blossom.
Love and romance for a man is not natural behavior so in order for a man to desire the company of a woman he will have to no doubt take lessons. Love to a man means a loss of his freedoms and the activities he does as a man. If however the man is ready to give up some part of that life for you, he will begin to try to find love. Romance is a part of the courtship ritual the man would much rather skip. Unless the man has a sensitive side, you will have to be attractive to a man before he will try any form of romance. Something about you has drawn his attention and he wants you and your company.
A man who is inexperienced in love and romance will try to find out all he can about the subjects in any way he can. This might mean he will talk to his married friends to find out how they accomplished the task of the love and romance to win their wives. This could be a good thing, the friends had to begin somewhere to acquire a relationship with their girlfriends or wives on the other hand; you could end up at his home one night with a six-pack of beer and the both of you watching a ball game for a first date. This is acceptable if you are into that kind of thing but if you are not this may not work.
If your man, is having difficulties in the love and romance department its not a good sign. Do you want sex a lot and he doesn't, or vice versa? You have to meet in the middle somewhere. If you can't why waste your time......Romance does not have to be candlelight and dinner, or just dinner and a movie. Be patient with him and know that perhaps he really is trying to include you in his life. Is her though? Pay attention ladies....maybe he really isn't as Mr Romance as you think....maybe other women were right. Maybe he needs to do something to improve this status quo or he'll be in the dog house. Sometimes his method is not the traditional way of romance but it is his way and if you want to be involved with this man. Especially in a long- term relationship, this is something you must accept, or not. If you can't do this and handle the small things, call it quits. Maybe you are on two separate pages.
A man does not easily express love because his whole life he is conditioned to be tough and not show weakness. Moreover, for him to show love or affection would be a sign of weakness. Alternatively, so he is made to believe this is why it is difficult for him to simply say I love you. You will have to recondition this way of thinking and simply tell him it is OK to tell the one you love I love you and it is OK for you to tell the one you love how you truly feel. It still may take some time for him to realize his feelings are safe with you.
The man you want to be with and spend your life with deals with love and romance from a mans point of view not yours. I'm not giving up on real love, and gals, you shouldn't either...however, don't settle for a "Well maybe he can make me happy" when you should have a " He is my everything and he rocks my world" kind of guy!
Take the time to get to know his needs, and watch his actions. See how he acts with his family and friends...see how he acts each time he is with you? You either have it or you don't.....it's not a decision to make lightly and don't spend all day starring off into space thinking about it. You are independent and fine on your own regardless,.....he'll either want to be a part of your world or he won't, and if he doesn't ladies, there are men on every corner that might love what you have to offer...sometimes things just aren't meant to be.What you don't want is to be his temporary gal to lurk in the shadows waiting for him to call or want to do something....make him work for your love and affection. If you are worth it to him, he'll make this effort, if not, he's an idiot and you deserve someone much, much better.
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My theory is and always has been, you give a little, they don't expect a lot. You open yourself up and give a lot....they let you down, leaving you to wonder if they have feelings for you at all and if they do, why they can't be more expressive? Be expressive, if you aren't he won't know how you feel and you won't know what he is thinking. Be straight with him, and honest. Your foundation is built, now watch it develop and blossom.
Love and romance for a man is not natural behavior so in order for a man to desire the company of a woman he will have to no doubt take lessons. Love to a man means a loss of his freedoms and the activities he does as a man. If however the man is ready to give up some part of that life for you, he will begin to try to find love. Romance is a part of the courtship ritual the man would much rather skip. Unless the man has a sensitive side, you will have to be attractive to a man before he will try any form of romance. Something about you has drawn his attention and he wants you and your company.
A man who is inexperienced in love and romance will try to find out all he can about the subjects in any way he can. This might mean he will talk to his married friends to find out how they accomplished the task of the love and romance to win their wives. This could be a good thing, the friends had to begin somewhere to acquire a relationship with their girlfriends or wives on the other hand; you could end up at his home one night with a six-pack of beer and the both of you watching a ball game for a first date. This is acceptable if you are into that kind of thing but if you are not this may not work.
If your man, is having difficulties in the love and romance department its not a good sign. Do you want sex a lot and he doesn't, or vice versa? You have to meet in the middle somewhere. If you can't why waste your time......Romance does not have to be candlelight and dinner, or just dinner and a movie. Be patient with him and know that perhaps he really is trying to include you in his life. Is her though? Pay attention ladies....maybe he really isn't as Mr Romance as you think....maybe other women were right. Maybe he needs to do something to improve this status quo or he'll be in the dog house. Sometimes his method is not the traditional way of romance but it is his way and if you want to be involved with this man. Especially in a long- term relationship, this is something you must accept, or not. If you can't do this and handle the small things, call it quits. Maybe you are on two separate pages.
A man does not easily express love because his whole life he is conditioned to be tough and not show weakness. Moreover, for him to show love or affection would be a sign of weakness. Alternatively, so he is made to believe this is why it is difficult for him to simply say I love you. You will have to recondition this way of thinking and simply tell him it is OK to tell the one you love I love you and it is OK for you to tell the one you love how you truly feel. It still may take some time for him to realize his feelings are safe with you.
The man you want to be with and spend your life with deals with love and romance from a mans point of view not yours. I'm not giving up on real love, and gals, you shouldn't either...however, don't settle for a "Well maybe he can make me happy" when you should have a " He is my everything and he rocks my world" kind of guy!
Take the time to get to know his needs, and watch his actions. See how he acts with his family and friends...see how he acts each time he is with you? You either have it or you don't.....it's not a decision to make lightly and don't spend all day starring off into space thinking about it. You are independent and fine on your own regardless,.....he'll either want to be a part of your world or he won't, and if he doesn't ladies, there are men on every corner that might love what you have to offer...sometimes things just aren't meant to be.What you don't want is to be his temporary gal to lurk in the shadows waiting for him to call or want to do something....make him work for your love and affection. If you are worth it to him, he'll make this effort, if not, he's an idiot and you deserve someone much, much better.
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