Faking it” is a fatal mistake and the beginning of the end for many couples.
So, most women fake orgasms with the best of intentions. They know, that your sexual technique is the problem, but she just cannot bring herself to tell you. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings so she hopes that over time, things will improve. When they don’t, false orgasms become a habit. She is trapped! How can she tell you now, that she has been faking it all along without upsetting you? Afraid of you reaction to the truth, she remains quiet. What does a man do when his partner comes up with more reason why they shouldn't make love rather than why they should do it? Is it that horrible? You'll need to do something to spice up your relationship. Sex is a big part of a relationship BUT not everything.....to those who thing that it is, no wonder why you are in this situation now.....sex is the easy part...I keep saying it, and saying it.
Sex is now a routine with no surprises and no mystery. You are still getting what you need, but unintentionally, through your lack of information she goes unsatisfied. She will discreetly pleasure herself. With no gratification on her part, sex with you now becomes a chore! Yikes......so sad. Keep it up and you're way on the way out, and a new Mr Right will be on his way in! Women have needs too...by this point, the two of you have found so many reasons so often "not" to have sex that you simply don't care anymore if you have it or not. You should care....start communicating!
Your questions and her excuses begin. She is too tired, she has a headache, she has too much work to do, she had a lousy day and just isn’t “in the mood”…anything to avoid another disappointing bedroom episode.
Now that you know what happens, the solution should be so simple. Just talk to each other right?
Easier said than done. Despite an age of increasing [tag-ice]sexual awareness[/tag-ice] and open attitudes, many people are still uncomfortable communicating their needs. They find that talking to their partners about their sexual needs is awkward, uncomfortable and even embarrassing.
Let me ask you this? How many ladies out there can comfortably describe to their man exactly where to touch, lick or suck to drive them absolutely wild? How many can comfortably describe the pressure and pulse needed to get them off? How about showing him where the elusive "g-spot” is? If you do not....get looking for it. It’s tough. Likewise for the men, how many of you actually know if you are doing the right things? How many of you can read her “body language”? When she pushes you away, closes her legs or covers herself, she is trying to tell you something. Do you know what? No, of course you don't that would be far too easy! It’s a guessing game,..and one that you'll need to read books just to keep up on!
So, most women fake orgasms with the best of intentions. They know, that your sexual technique is the problem, but she just cannot bring herself to tell you. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings so she hopes that over time, things will improve. When they don’t, false orgasms become a habit. She is trapped! How can she tell you now, that she has been faking it all along without upsetting you? Afraid of you reaction to the truth, she remains quiet. What does a man do when his partner comes up with more reason why they shouldn't make love rather than why they should do it? Is it that horrible? You'll need to do something to spice up your relationship. Sex is a big part of a relationship BUT not everything.....to those who thing that it is, no wonder why you are in this situation now.....sex is the easy part...I keep saying it, and saying it.
Sex is now a routine with no surprises and no mystery. You are still getting what you need, but unintentionally, through your lack of information she goes unsatisfied. She will discreetly pleasure herself. With no gratification on her part, sex with you now becomes a chore! Yikes......so sad. Keep it up and you're way on the way out, and a new Mr Right will be on his way in! Women have needs too...by this point, the two of you have found so many reasons so often "not" to have sex that you simply don't care anymore if you have it or not. You should care....start communicating!
Your questions and her excuses begin. She is too tired, she has a headache, she has too much work to do, she had a lousy day and just isn’t “in the mood”…anything to avoid another disappointing bedroom episode.
Now that you know what happens, the solution should be so simple. Just talk to each other right?
Easier said than done. Despite an age of increasing [tag-ice]sexual awareness[/tag-ice] and open attitudes, many people are still uncomfortable communicating their needs. They find that talking to their partners about their sexual needs is awkward, uncomfortable and even embarrassing.
Let me ask you this? How many ladies out there can comfortably describe to their man exactly where to touch, lick or suck to drive them absolutely wild? How many can comfortably describe the pressure and pulse needed to get them off? How about showing him where the elusive "g-spot” is? If you do not....get looking for it. It’s tough. Likewise for the men, how many of you actually know if you are doing the right things? How many of you can read her “body language”? When she pushes you away, closes her legs or covers herself, she is trying to tell you something. Do you know what? No, of course you don't that would be far too easy! It’s a guessing game,..and one that you'll need to read books just to keep up on!
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