Do you believe that how to talk dirty to a woman includes soft delicate language designed for her feminine senses? Do you think raunchy dirty talk will offend a woman? Do you think that women need to hear romantic thoughts and sweet dreams, rather than the naughty truth of your hottest desires? Perhaps sometimes we do...
How to talk dirty to a woman is not all about feminine things and happiness. Talking dirty to a woman is all about being raunchy and letting your bad boy out! She likes to see this side of you at times and it does awaken a part of you that needs to be aroused from time to time.....
But that doesn’t mean you should just jump into the dirty talk pool and whip out your naughtiest/most seductive comments when you first meet the woman of your dreams. No no no....this could be a super big turn off!
Women do like some romance, and telling her your kinkiest fantasy is something that should be saved for the moment she’s ready to hear it. If she’s out looking for a good time and nothing more, she might welcome your kinky ideas along with a nice adult beverage or two. If she’s not the “pick up and hook up” type, then you might need to exercise a bit of finesse before you swing from the chandeliers like Tarzan... otherwise you could really blow this!
How do you do that? It's quite simple actually… you start slow. Begin with a compliment or two. Tell her what you like about her appearance, and once you get to know her a bit better, tell her what you like about her personality. Tell her that you like her laugh, or her sense of humor. Then tell her how much you would like to get to know her better – that’s making it clear that you’re interested. If she responds in a positive light, make your comments increasingly sensual until you know she’s open to how you talk dirty. The big mistake is to assume that you're on the right track only to find out you are not. This happens more often than not....we get our signals crossed and speak before thinking, or in some cases do things without thinking first. The last thing that you want to do guys is to come across as the man who wants so desperately to get into her britches! Nothing turns a woman off more quickly than if you come on too strong, too fast.....and I'm sorry, don't even try to use the old "I was drunk" as an excuse for the "loose lips!"
What I'm saying take it slowly and with extreme caution....wait for her to give you the signals. Once she’s there, watch her reactions to what you say. If you whisper into her ear how you would love to take her home and tie her up and ravish her body, what does she do? If she leans into you and purrs into your ear, scratching your back and moving about her bar stool/seat you’ve got permission to go further. If she giggles uncomfortably and pulls away from you, (sort of like you have the plague) you’ve reached the limit of what she wants to hear at that point in time. You can adjust your “game” accordingly. You aren't in the dog house yet, but you do have some making up to do.
The worst mistake you can make is believing that women are so dainty and delicate and that they have to be handled as such. Nothing could be further from the truth! Women love sex, ....did you hear me? WE LOVE SEX.....especially naughty sex, the kind that fulfills the inner bad girl or as I would call her the sassy vixen, and makes her beg you for more. Learn how to talk dirty to a woman by dropping your inhibitions, and then revel in the naughty things that you might have in store for the twi of you! Chances are, she's got a wild streak. It's the quiet ones that you have to beware of!
It is imperative to do listen to her body language....if you do something that she isn't ready for in or out of the bedroom, you can be sure that she'll put her foot down and slam on the brakes....and you and your ego will come to a screeching halt!
How to talk dirty to a woman is not all about feminine things and happiness. Talking dirty to a woman is all about being raunchy and letting your bad boy out! She likes to see this side of you at times and it does awaken a part of you that needs to be aroused from time to time.....
But that doesn’t mean you should just jump into the dirty talk pool and whip out your naughtiest/most seductive comments when you first meet the woman of your dreams. No no no....this could be a super big turn off!
Women do like some romance, and telling her your kinkiest fantasy is something that should be saved for the moment she’s ready to hear it. If she’s out looking for a good time and nothing more, she might welcome your kinky ideas along with a nice adult beverage or two. If she’s not the “pick up and hook up” type, then you might need to exercise a bit of finesse before you swing from the chandeliers like Tarzan... otherwise you could really blow this!
How do you do that? It's quite simple actually… you start slow. Begin with a compliment or two. Tell her what you like about her appearance, and once you get to know her a bit better, tell her what you like about her personality. Tell her that you like her laugh, or her sense of humor. Then tell her how much you would like to get to know her better – that’s making it clear that you’re interested. If she responds in a positive light, make your comments increasingly sensual until you know she’s open to how you talk dirty. The big mistake is to assume that you're on the right track only to find out you are not. This happens more often than not....we get our signals crossed and speak before thinking, or in some cases do things without thinking first. The last thing that you want to do guys is to come across as the man who wants so desperately to get into her britches! Nothing turns a woman off more quickly than if you come on too strong, too fast.....and I'm sorry, don't even try to use the old "I was drunk" as an excuse for the "loose lips!"
What I'm saying take it slowly and with extreme caution....wait for her to give you the signals. Once she’s there, watch her reactions to what you say. If you whisper into her ear how you would love to take her home and tie her up and ravish her body, what does she do? If she leans into you and purrs into your ear, scratching your back and moving about her bar stool/seat you’ve got permission to go further. If she giggles uncomfortably and pulls away from you, (sort of like you have the plague) you’ve reached the limit of what she wants to hear at that point in time. You can adjust your “game” accordingly. You aren't in the dog house yet, but you do have some making up to do.
The worst mistake you can make is believing that women are so dainty and delicate and that they have to be handled as such. Nothing could be further from the truth! Women love sex, ....did you hear me? WE LOVE SEX.....especially naughty sex, the kind that fulfills the inner bad girl or as I would call her the sassy vixen, and makes her beg you for more. Learn how to talk dirty to a woman by dropping your inhibitions, and then revel in the naughty things that you might have in store for the twi of you! Chances are, she's got a wild streak. It's the quiet ones that you have to beware of!
It is imperative to do listen to her body language....if you do something that she isn't ready for in or out of the bedroom, you can be sure that she'll put her foot down and slam on the brakes....and you and your ego will come to a screeching halt!
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