Why is Lingerie so SEXY?

Lingerie may be the simplest and most effective tool in seduction, but for a woman it will build her confidence enough to set romance on fire! First of all, tell me,...what man doesn't love looking at a woman in lingerie? Not only do men love seeing women in lingerie, something amazing usually happens when a woman puts on the right lingerie. She not only looks sexy, but she feels sexy, she becomes sexy. It does wonders for a man...while  lingerie can also boost the confidence and help shed inhibitions for the woman just as well. #1- As young ladies, while we are growing up, we are taught to cover our bodies.We are also told that we aren't' supposed to show off our underwear, since that isn't nice. Lingerie is really an expensive form of underwear.#2 is that is usually cut in such a way to highlight a woman's form in a way different from most outwear. Not every woman looks or feels the same in lingerie, that's why it is so important for you to determine what works best for your curves and your body. What's your favorite style of lingerie and what color looks best on you? Discover that and you are golden. How you look and feel show from the inside out.


Sexy Lingerie continues to be used to improve just what is often seen as imperfections on the figure on the lady. Women will utilize control type panties if they need to tone and flatten their stomach and buttocks. Women with tiny chests will put on push-up bras or padded bras to supply them additional bosom and allow their clothing to look better on them. Within the mirror, a woman will look at herself in sexy lingerie and like what she sees as she'll often buy items that can enhance her physique and hide her flaws. Sooo why is it so sexy? It is alluring, captivating, intriguing, seductive and most importantly sensual.

And also physique flattering,sexy lingerie will help a person attractive. Its natural for a woman to wear sexy underwear or night gowns when going to bed to attempt to evoke passion in her partner. A female makes use of sexy lingerie to conjure up the sense of sight when planning for any romantic night along with her spouse. She'll often wear alluring sexy lingerie that she believes will excite him. So boys...think of it as giving a surprise gift 'just because'. There is no better way to let a man know that you want him and men love to be wanted. When he sees you standing there in something sexy, slinky, lacy or racy he'll instantly know what you have in mind. Shop at http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/ for all of your women's intimate apparel needs, and pick up something sexy in the gentleman's section too...don't forget to stop by the adult novelty area, we've got something for everyone!

My mother always said, don't leave the house without clean underwear, and for God sakes, make sure it matches. Funny you know, that stuck in my head and to this day I always match, and my undies are always clean. Thanks Mom! So...What about this? Has this ever happened to you, when unexpectedly in the most uncomfortable situation you need to take off your clothes? The reasons might be because of security or health. It is very humiliating to take-off your clothes and your underwear is not matching. No one would want to be put in that situation, that is why it's important to have a matching lingerie sets.

Matching Lingerie sets not only prevent you from being humiliated in public and what more you will be confident to take-off your clothes anywhere and anytime. So you will have no worries whenever you meet unexpected events. Another reason why women should buy lingerie sets is because it makes shopping for your intimate apparel a lot easier. Even for men who are out to get their significant other a lingerie gift will find it easier choose among the options. You will not end up throwing you lingerie in the drawers because you will be using everything since they match. It makes dressing up in the morning easier and more convenient. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we offer a wide variety of sexy matching sets, and bra and pany sets for all women and a variety of shapes and sizes.

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Let's Talk About Sex ....

What is involved in the natural art of making love? Please don't say a bottle of wine and candlelight dinner,..but that is a starter, and quite the romantic one. A lot of thought generally goes into this big ordeal because it is a very big deal and quite the perfect preparation I might add. Love making does not only involve sexual pleasure but also a happier mood and a stronger relationship in the long term. You have to naturally test the waters first to see what you both enjoy...never assume anything, especially with a new partner, or it could very well backfire on you! In order to benefit from love making both partners should derive mutual satisfaction from the act which implies both partners should reach ultimate orgasm. You should know how and when to make love in the right way and form. I've listed a few tips, but only you know how to romance your partner and make it a night of passion to remember. First of all, buy your lingerie at http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/ where there are a variety of selections and discounted prices!

First of all; Set the mood. Yes set the mood....make it a night to remember! In order to make love the right way proper mood is very important. You simply can not satisfy your partner is he or she is in a negative or a bad mood. This is the major reason why some couples feel love making was absolutely awesome sometimes whereas other times it's just ordinary. Your and your partner's mood has a big role to play in love making. To keep the heavenly magic intact in love making always do it when you feel the situational moods are right. Timing is everything. Plan this wayyyy in advance. Sure you can do it on the fly if it just happens to happen, but we gals like feeling special.


Romance- Love making is all about romance and emotional attachment towards each other. Romance is extremely important to add that extra spice before you start taking your clothes off. Romance normally leads to an exceptionally better love making and you get more satisfaction each time you make love. Amen to that!


Use words- Words are a very important part of love making and should be used wisely. As is body language! My grandmother used to say that you can speak with your eyes without every having to open your mouth! The pleasure from making love doubles when you tell your partners how much you love need or want him or her. Research has shown that couples which involve more feelings and emotions in love making are known to be happier in the long term...and isn' it long term that we all desire?

Take it further- Continue the above mentioned steps and take the next step into foreplay. This is when you break out the reddi whip and rhinestone handcuffs for play time! This is the final step of proper love making which leads to eventual orgasm. Oral stimulation doubles pleasure and you can make love for several hours.

How good are you in bed? - Are you good? Don't just think that you are, you have to know that you are. Egos can get the best of some of us, but seriously, at that particular time and moment it's not good to think we are rather we have to be. Do you have what it takes to satisfy women in bed? Are they having a real orgasm? Or do they fake it?  Do you know what every woman wants bed? Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Good luck trying to figure us out because sometimes we don't even know what we want! Enjoy your partner, practice makes perfect!

Don't be a Fashion Faux Pas...

  Listen ladies, we all like to look classy, but don't mistake classy for trashy. While style rules seem to change from day-to-day, savvy women know how to put a wardrobe together so that they're always appropriately dressed. Avoid some common fashion mistakes and you'll be a fashion "do" wherever you go. Look at yourself in the mirror...if you don't think what you are wearing is appropriate or that it doesn't match, it probably doesn't...turn your ass around and march back into your closet and put something else on! Do us all a favor! Save your reputation too. People remember when you wear something awful...you want to leave a good taste in their mouth so that they'll always remember that "LBD" that you wore to the office holiday party, or the suit that you wore to a friend's wedding.


Even stylish divas can sometimes take a wrong turn when getting dressed, but these style missteps are easily avoided if you take care with your clothing choices. Don't let these eight fashion faux pas for women happen to you! It's not too late to turn around an as Michael Jackson sang it... "Make a Change"

1. Don't mix prints, ever, ever ever:  Please ladies, listen to me... don't mix and match! Compliment plaid, and paisley prints, or  polka dots, but for goodness sakes, don't wear them together. When it comes to prints, you can be daring; just don't clash. Choose one pattern you love and wear it on a body part you want to emphasize. This is your outfit's focal point and the best way to draw attention there is to keep the rest of your ensemble more subdued. Wear a ruffled, polka-dotted top if you want to show off a great neck, but keep your pants or skirt solid. You don't want to clash...and you certainly don't want to give everyone in the room a headache. That's what will happen you know....if you have too many colors and patterns on, you'll look more like a roadmap, going in a dozen different directions, and you'll cause a real crash all right...Unless your name is Nicky Minaj, or Lady Gaga..don't even think about it!

The Signs to watch for; the Don't of the fashion world
Good Lord, lose the panty lines: This isn't 1950. Thongs, boyshorts, something just leave the granny panty type out of the equation, please! With the many underwear choices available today, no woman should be caught out with panty lines showing through her skirt or slacks. Wear thongs under clingy bottoms and low-cut underwear beneath low-rise pants. A quick peek in your mirror before you leave home should tell you whether or not your panties are showing.

Evening wear during the day is a BIG NO NO!!!! Sequins and rhinestones only belong on rodeo queens during daylight hours. Otherwise, save your bling-bling garments for after five and when we've all had a few drinks at happy hour,..then your awful apparel won't look so damn loud!

Not dressing your age? If you're in your mid to late 40s, act like it, don't wear your daughter clothes! There's a reason many department stores separate Junior fashions from Women's styles -- younger women dress differently than their mothers. Low-rise hipster jeans and lace leggings are more appropriate to the younger set. This doesn't mean that women over a certain age must dress in a dowdy fashion. There are elegant and stylish choices for women of all ages. Don't make the mistake of dressing like the teenage girl next door if you've already waved bye-bye to your 20s.


Too many accessories: Unless your name is "Mr. T" don't wear a lot of bling, especially not out in public. Your jewelry will pack a bigger punch if it's not lost among a sea of other accessories. A pair of earrings, a bracelet or watch and a couple of rings are all you need to get through any occasion. Chunky jewelry, especially, should be kept to a minimum. Select one big piece as a focal point and leave it at that.

Don't follow the wrong trends: Many runway trends don't make it to stores because they're so extreme. If you're a slave to fashion, don't make the mistake of following every single fad. Style-smart women know which trends work for their body types and which don't. You'll need to figure out what looks best on your body shape and then shop accordingly.


If you think it's a bad fit,...then it probably is: You should always feel comfortable in your clothing. Constantly tugging, pulling and adjusting your outfit are all signs of a poor fit. Women need to be realistic about their true sizes -- don't buy a size 8 when you know you're a size 10. Your clothing will be tight and uncomfortable, which takes away from a confident appearance. Similarly, don't buy sizes that are much too large; they will just create the appearance if extra weight.


Does it show too much skin? No time for slutty or tacky sister, shape up and go for classy.There's a time and a place for cleavage or sheer clothing, so make sure you pick the right time and place. Meeting your boyfriend's parents for the first time, a church picnic or the workplace are not places to wear your most revealing clothes. Even if your bustline is your best asset, a little modesty goes a long way toward making a good first impression and looking like a professional.

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CoOkiEs and CrEaM DeSsErT...iN 10 MinUtEs!

From our Simply Delicious Lingerie Cooking Guru to you...something quick and easy to make for yourself or for guests that everyone will love!

 

Directions

Make 2 layers of vanilla pudding, crushed chocolate wafer cookies and whipped cream in tall glasses. Top each with a cookie., and wha-la! Whether it's dessert for two, or for 10, this easy to make no-bake cookies and cream dessert is ready in a flash! ingredients? You do the math., if you still don't know, look up above in bold letters! Enjoy your sweets!

Relationships or Rejections?

Let me ask you a question...How into someone do you have to be to realize that it is or isn't the right fit? More importantly...How into this person are you to know that they are one of a kind and that no matter how long you look, she/he is what you have not only searched for most of your life but desire all the more? Do you think of them when you aren't with them? Do you go to sleep thinking of this person and wake yup doing the same? What if you are feeling all of these incredible things and you find out that.....they don't feel the same? How can you determine if this is going to be a solid relationship or a bad rejection? You don't...not always. Sometimes life turns out wonderful and you build a relationship with this wonderful person, and other times you are devastated as you meet rejection face to face.


Most people won't get it, or you...in fact your family and friends might even think you're nuts for having these feelings. So what do you do when someone you have your eye on or you love rejects you? Do you feel sad and think that your life is over? Or do you brush off what has happened and just move on in your life? Ponder this question and the answer you come up with could be a major key in how you handle relationship rejection.


Major causes of relationship rejection
• They might not be interested in you
• They might not be interested in a relationship now
• They might be interested in someone else
• Perhaps they don't like your personality and life style
Dealing with relationship rejection is not at all easy, and unfortunately, it can hurt others besides yourself especially if there is a child or children involved in the equation, so what is  the easy way to express feelings and to learn from this?


If your goal is to learn how to deal with relationship rejection and find someone to love, then follow the guide below:


1. Change your focus
I can guarantee if you don't change your focus from the simple point of convergence  on the rejection to something else more uplifting, dealing with rejection will stay difficult for you, and this is NOT something you want following around you forever. Why? Are you serious? Because it is not healthy and it is not the way to make your next possible relationship work. When you meet a man/woman and you begin thinking of them all the time, for no reason or for every reason, you need to dwell on this; If you care for them, make certain that you are over your previous love, 1) it's not fair to them, and 2) it's not fair or healthy at all for you. You both deserve better. I'm not saying that a few weeks from now or a month from now you won't feel the same way about this person, but at least you'll have had time to sit back, gather your thoughts, ponder your options, and plan your move to win his/her heart.


There are many different methods that will help you change your focus like meditation, visualization, remembering a positive experience from your past, smiling, and laughing. At first focusing can be difficult especially if you have been just rejected, but with constant practice on shifting your focus, it will get easier and becomes a positive habit in your life.


2. Create a  positive spin;
Add a new twist to this mixture by assigning a positive purpose to the situation. This is one of the best ways to deal with relationship rejections from the past. Once someone rejects you; simply say to yourself that what has happened is for the best because you are meant to find someone else who is better in all ways, who deserves you and to be loved by you whole heartedly and so completely.
People who deal with relationship rejection skillfully are masters at assigning a positive purpose to situations and events. Their self esteem is high and believe they are worth of the best, nothing less.

Here are some positive purposes you can assign when you get rejected:

• It is her/his loss for rejecting me
• The fact that I got rejected means someone better is on the way, and I will welcome this person.
• This rejection is meant to teach me something so I'm going to look for the lesson and learn from it.
• The list is endless so feel free to add more to the list...believe me, you will.
The key is for the purpose to be positive and uplifting. Don't beat yourself up, focus on this new person and see him.her as a future potential. Don't be afraid to tell them that you care, otherwise, they may move on to someone else and become involved if you don't speak up. You know that old saying listen to your gut, but follow your heart. Emotions are hard to fight, nonetheless, make sure that you are really ready so that no one gets hurt in the future!


3. Take responsibility
Take responsibility for your thoughts and emotions and stop playing the victim. Often when people get rejected in a relationship, they start thinking there is something wrong with them. Statements such as "Why didn't she or he like me? There is something wrong with me, otherwise she/he would've liked me" are very common.

Playing the victim doesn't serve you any good and it makes it very difficult for you to deal with relationship rejection. The sooner you say to yourself that your happiness is what matters and you will not let anyone's rejection upset you, the better it will be for you.


4. Stop seeking approval!
Listen, you don't need me, or someone telling you who you should be with,...right? Creating a happier you creates confidence, and a more attractive YOU! Sooo...giddy up. Go find that right person...or if you already have, figure out how to keep her/him and make it work. You don't need anyones approval for your happiness. YOU decide who who want to be with and only you know what kind of person is truly the "one" that will keep you smiling for years and years to come. Make sure that there is a deep connection, and that this person is quite genuine. There are a lot of ways to find this out. Pay attention to what other people say about this person, watch their lifestyle and how they interact with others, observe their family, friends, and do what I do, Google them. You can find things out about a person by what others think via comments on a FB page, a blog or read press relseases or bios on them.


Remember, we are all on a path, and the big guy upstairs has a plan for us. It might not be with the person you originally desired, however, maybe the vision was to be that this particular person was not the intended one for you after all? Maybe you just really need someone that loves you for you, and someone who can and will save you from yourself? I used to wonder why people were taken from me, why I was rejected, and then I realized that it wasn't my turn to love whole heartedly just yet,..and I am now. My grandmother was my best friend and she used to always tell me that I would find love when I least expected it, and not to look for it. I stopped looking a while ago. If it is meant to be, it will be. You should feel this way as well. Love will find you. It is possible, and stranger things have happened. After all, it is about loving one another.

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Sexy Bra & Panty Sets

My daughter and I were shopping at Marshall's and we were looking for a bra set. Have you ever noticed
 that if you a 36-B or a 36-C than you are in luck but there never seems to be a bra that makes you feel natural with lace and such but red and black. It is nice for those special occasions when you want to look bold and seductive, but what happened to the simple white or pink or nude?

 You cannot find a bra that does not have a underwire or straps that are just right. Most only ones that make you think if someone got to close you may poke their eye out or the strap that makes you feel that you need it shorten so you do not look like glaciers that are setting out to sea in search for another making of the titanic. Honestly?

Simply Delicious Lingerie has great bra and panty sets that will go with anything you're wearing and you can stop searching for that unknown pair of panties that you swear your dryer ate. Check it out and see all the sexy matching sets available at great prices! Tell them Tantalizing Tina sent you and save 10%. Use code 10-OFF at the checkout.


Remember it is time to wear pink and be proud that you are a girl.


Sincerely Yours,

Tantalizing Tina

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PoNdEr THis....LeT's TaLK aBoUt SeX!

WhAt is SaFe SeX?

From the time I was a young girl, I heard about it, and knew of it, but quite honestly, my parents never taught us kids what sex was in a true essence so imagine when we discovered it how wonderful it was? Yes, wonderful all right, then 9 months later I was walking the floors with a colicky baby that cried and took my social life away. I was young ...Yes, naive? Very much...My thoughts were, "It won't happen to me..." So I did what most girls do. I gave into temptation.

Let me tell you about temptation. First off if you are a young lady reading this and you think that having a baby is easy... Call me, I've got news for you! Your life is OVER...or at least until that baby is raised and supporting itself. Raising a child is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. You learn to immediately put YOUR NEEDS on the back burner for at least 20 years! Now multiply that, ..I have 2. No, I was not a single mother, I did marry the man who knocked me up as so many people called it. I actually loved him and we were planning to marry, just not yet. At 19 though, do we really know what love is? I look at my kids now, who turned out GREAT and I pat myself on the back for everything that went right when so, so many things could have gone wrong. I guess that's where values came in.

Sex is a beautiful thing, what I suggest is to just think long and hard gals before you do it, because like me, who thought "it won't happen..." it just might. Then what are you going to do? Getting on to why we're really here...it's discovering and learning about sex. For goodness sake, make sure you know your partner. One night stands are fun and all sure, BUT in comparison to my life, that one night might affect the rest of your life, and I don't mean with a pregnancy, I mean if you are too quick to "do" and too stupid to "think" you can end up with a serious STD. These days, they are everywhere. If you have one, don't hide it. Make sure that you tell your partner. After having had this conversation with a very close friend, I learned that although I wouldn't have wanted a man to know my secrets, but IF I had something, the practical and honest thing to do would be to get it out in the open. Why did I think differently than her? For a few reasons, I can count on less than two hands the number of men I have slept with in my lifetime and she...well, she could write a book on the men of her life. My values were different, and again it goes back to the fact that I was quite naive.

Now, lets talk cold hard facts about the attributes of sex, and the misleading topics. To the women who are reading this that think by having a baby at a young age it will solve all of your financial problems I say WTF are you thinking? Here's where I'm coming from on this matter.

If you are a parent and you have kids, teach them all that you can about sex so that they know you did a great job raising them, and add this finishing touch that might change their life and allow them to do things the right way. Save them from what I went through at such a young age. Please do not misconstrue what I am saying, I have NO REGRETS. I followed the path and I am who I am today because of my past. Babies are a joy, but babies shouldn't be having babies! If I knew then what I know now....well, you know how that saying goes?

So let's talk safe sex shall we? What is it? Safe sex is the practice of using precautions when having sex. The reason for this is to avoid getting or passing on a sexually transmitted disease (STD) or other infection. STDs are contagious diseases caused by germs, usually bacteria or viruses. They are usually passed to others through sexual intercourse or other sexual contact. STDs include Chlamydia, genital warts, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis B and C, herpes, and human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). Some STDs in females, if not treated, can make you infertile (not able to have babies). HIV infection can cause acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS), which may be fatal. Body fluids can contain the germs that cause STDs. They include saliva, urine, blood, vaginal fluids, and semen.

• Safe sex precautions decrease or prevent the exchange of body fluids during sexual contact. There are a number of measures you can take to practice safe sex. The safest measure is complete abstinence (not having sex with anyone). Other measures include limiting your number of sexual partners and avoiding vaginal and anal intercourse. The most important measure when having intercourse is to use a condom (rubber). Avoid sexual contact with anyone who has an untreated STD or while they are being treated. Certain safe sex practices may also be used to help prevent pregnancy.

Safe sex means taking precautions during sex that can keep you from getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI), or from giving an STI to your partner.
STIs are also referred to as sexually transmitted diseases, or STDs. (sexually transmitted disease) These diseases include genital herpes, genital warts, HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis B and C, and others.

Information

A sexually transmitted illness (STI) is a contagious disease that can be transferred to another person through sexual intercourse or other sexual contact. Many of the organisms that cause STIs live on the penis, vagina, anus, mouth, and the skin of surrounding areas.
Most of the diseases are transferred by direct contact with a sore on the genitals or mouth. However, some organisms can be transferred in body fluids without causing a visible sore. They can be transferred to another person during oral, vaginal, or anal intercourse.
Some STIs can also be transferred by nonsexual contact with infected tissues or fluids, such as infected blood. For example, sharing needles when using IV (in the vein) drugs is a major cause of HIV and hepatitis B transmission. An STI can also be transmitted through contaminated blood transfusions and blood products, through the placenta from the mother to the developing baby, and sometimes through breastfeeding.
The following factors increase your risk of getting an STI:

• Not knowing whether a partner has an STI or not
• Having a partner with a history of any STI
• Having sex without a male or female condom
• Using drugs or alcohol in a situation where sex might occur
• If your partner is an IV drug user
• Having anal intercourse

How do I practice safe sex?

Don't do it! Sex isn't all it's cracked up to be. haha, just kidding...If abstaining from sexual activity with a partner is not practical for you, you should do all of these:

• Avoid activities or items that can pass germs: Avoid vaginal or anal hand intercourse, mouth to mouth or french (wet) kissing, or using saliva (spit) as a lubricant. Do not use dildos, vibrators, and other sex toys on both yourself and your sex partner.
• Condoms and barriers:These are usually made from latex. If you are allergic to latex, use a non-latex product such as polyurethane.
  • Condoms: Use a condom every time you will have vaginal or anal sex. Condoms for both men and women are available. Condoms can prevent germs from spreading and help keep a woman from getting pregnant.
  • Barriers: An oral barrier, such as a dry condom or latex square, must be used when doing oral sex.
• Limit sexual partners: Have sex with a single partner or avoid multiple sex partners. Also avoid having sex with strangers or those with unknown sexual history.
• Testing and treatment:
  • Screening tests: If you are sexually active, you should get tested for STDs on a regular basis. This is very important if you have multiple sexual partners. You may have an STD and not know it. If you are pregnant, you will be screened for STDs to prevent passing them to your unborn baby.
  • Suspected infections: Get tested if you think or know you had contact with someone who has STD. See a caregiver if you think you have an STD for early treatment. Tell all your sexual partners if you are diagnosed with STD so that they may also be tested and treated. Do not have sex while you are being treated or with a partner who is being treated. Do not have sex until your caregiver tells you it is safe to do so.

• One last note; Before you sleep with someone, think about how many partners he may or may not have had in the past, because what you don't know, is that now, they are part of you as well.

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mEn...STrOng as a MuLe aNd TwIcE aS StUbBorN...

Ladies, do you know a man, or are you interested in a man who repeatedly tries to push you away and gives you ludicrous reasons that really make no sense at all?  If so, this is the article for you to read. Maybe he's insecure, or just hurt from previous relationships? Our past has a way of often keeping us in our past no matter how hard we try to push forward. Here are some tips of things you can do to try to without him thinking that you're only trying to "woo" him and show him that you aren't like other women. Whether he wishes to drop his wall long enough to see you waiving the "white flag" is up to him. No amount of talking you can do will change him, so don't even try, it must come from within. Some men change their ways and some just appear to be destin to be a train wreck! He might be stubborn as a mule, but inside there is a good man who needs to be reminded that woman are not all evil.

Don't give up...but don't give in all that easily either. When you make yourself too attentive to his needs, you'll find sooner than later that it is "you" that is going to get the short end of the stick. Although I am in no way saying a relationship like this is not possible, I'm stating that if you meet a man like this sometimes the best thing to do is to let him go. Here are a few tips for you to read up on. Quite important, so take the time to read this;

Tip#1: Don't ever ever ever give a man more than he gives you. This is what I would call a LOSING BATTLE! Here's the 4-1-1; Love, and inspiring a man to fall in love with you forever, is all about you being able to receive love. Sure most of us only know how to give. We give for lots of reasons - because we're taught that's the way to get to a man's heart (it isn't) because we see other women do it, and because deep down, it feels uncomfortable and scary to be vulnerable enough to really get what love is actually? What do I mean by this? When you shower him with affection, attention, dinners, gifts, and always go out of your way, it makes him think of you as a mother or a friend instead of inspiring his emotional desire for you. Knock that shit off. Make him come to you. He doesn't need a road map to your door, if he cares about you enough, he'll get there all by himself. He's a big boy.

Tip#2: Do NOT give away exclusivity if he hasn't yet committed... Mama didn't raise no FOOL!
Here's how it works ladies, and this is in all reality...We become totally, emotionally invested in a man when we're exclusive with him because he has all our time and attention. There's no way we can stop wondering about where the relationship is going? Right?  But the more we think about it and talk about it, the more we push a man away. In this case, we are damned if we do, and damned if we don't. It's like that Katy Perry song, "Hot & Cold" they (and when I say they, I am referring to "MEN") don't know what the hell they want. Grow up boys! Nice women like us are really hard to come by, so if you're looking for a way to really throw a monkey wrench in this it's working! The problem with most men is that they let the wrong people into their lives, and then they tend to push the "right" people out, this including potential lovers or mates. Why? They are afraid to get hurt, again?

When you can think of it in these terms, it's easier to keep your options open and keep your personal power in the relationship. Rather than talking about the relationship or threatening him with ultimatums, which you NEVER EVER EVER want to do....you can continue to keep your options open by dating other men. This way, you keep your class, your power, your boundaries, and he has to work to get you, as he very well should, especially if he is acting like a jerk.

Tip#3: Don't go out of your way, if he is acting weird and distant!
Yes, this sounds unfair, and yet, who pays is often the difference in his mind between friends hanging out together and a “date.” If you can dish it out he'll take it...but what about when they tables are turned? Perhaps he feels threatened or insecure? Is that your problem? How can you help him if he won't let you? Why do men shut women out? Overfunctioning is doing more than your fair share and stepping up to rescue a man because you know you can do a better job. It's arriving from your masculine energy. It feels aggressive and forward to a man. And it's totally unattractive to him. Men just don't operate on the same juice that women do. They are not built with the same type of defensive mechanism we are, theres is far worse!

Tip#4 Make him apologize! No If's and's or But's about it!
I'm sorry guys but there is no excuse for your childish behavior, and this is exactly what it is, you acting like an immature little boy....especially when a woman is seriously trying to do all that she can to get to know you. We all have a wall built up around us that we don't wish to talk about, we've all experienced some sort of pain at least once in our life, but isn't part of getting to know someone sharing with them intimate details of your life that make you feel vulnerable? Is this easy to do? Hell no it's not. Do you really want to chase the right woman away because you think she'll only turn out to be like all of the other "wrong" ones? Nahhh, it's time to suck it up and realize that you are being an ass and treating a woman with much disrespect. Yes men can be pig-headed and stubborn, so can we...I am the first to admit it, but I am also the first to admit when I am wrong and say "I'm Sorry!" Rome wasn't built over night, relationships aren't easy...if there were we'd all be in one right now, wouldn't we?

Alas, enough of the cold shoulder. I still don't know what I was waiting for...and my time was running wild, a million dead-end streets, every time I thought I'd got it made, it seemed the taste was not so sweet, so I turned myself to face me, but I've never caught a glimpse.... time may change me....but I can't trace time.

Well spoken lyrics from David Bowie, for those men who feel that they have been running in circles, that they don't deserve true love, and I mean real true love, not some puppy love or a controlled type of love, but "physical real love" I say to you what I have said to my readers and I will preach to you what my grandmother used to always preach to me; God puts certain people in our lives for a reason, you may not know who, or why it is that they are coming your way, but try to accept it, even if it's only meant to be as a friendship. We know how head strong a man can be, I'm just saying...try.

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10 Reasons why Women stay with the "Wrong" Guy.....

Have you ever felt so good only to have someone make you feel so bad? Relationships are not easy, but when you find the right one and the pieces fit like a puzzle, the world is right. What happens when the pieces are the wrong fit and nothing seems to come together? It's a nightmare...I've put together a list of reasons why women stay with Mr. Wrong and explain why you should run like the wind and set yourself  free from this ego crazed lunatic before you get sucked into his world.

 1. He says all the right things at the right time. Ohhhh boy...STOP THIS BUS NOW, and GET OFF! Don't say that I didn't warn you. It is hard to think someone is a jerk when they are telling you that you are pretty, you are smart, and that they really, really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends and family are wrong. They're good...but they are all wrong for you.

2. He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures do not really cost him anything. Is he Mr. Cheapo? Perhaps...Hey, I'm not one on material possessions, but we like what we like...pay close attention gals, and watch for the "red flags." Look for the signs, and notice this; is he really putting efforts into small gifts that make you happy or is he doing it to appease you and keep the ground neutral?

3. Ok, so he might be good in bed? Yes, sometimes great sex is all it takes for a man to keep a woman with him even when she knows the man is not right for her. Don't give into this temptation...it's a bad thing and you'll only end up hurting in the end. My grandmother used to say that men are like bus stops, there on at every corner so if you don't like this stop, carry on. It's not just about what they do for you in bed, it's about what they do for you day in and day out that makes your world seem so much better. Sister, fireworks in the bedroom are great, but I'd much rather have a fire in my heart than a sizzlin flame in between the sheets.

4. He is good-looking. We should know better than to judge a book by its cover, but sometimes, it is really nice to be in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks. Oh sister, you bet your sweet ass there is...don't fall for a man for his looks. I did once, BIG MISTAKE! When you meet the right man, looks will not be the determining factor. He could be tall and bald and geeky to some, but you may see him as a man who is caring and loving and kind.

5. Why do women jump into relationships? Sometimes we don't want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you do not want to feel left out or be the third wheel. Guess what? I've been the 3rd wheel for 13 years and my friends and family finally gave up on me finding a man who could not only satisfy me, rather make me feel emotionally happy. Funny, watch, now I'll find the right man...because I am not looking!

6.Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him...Nahhh, says who? Uck...trust me, I've had some blind dates that were so bad I could write a book on them. Just because a friend tries to do you a favor doesn't mean that you own them anything. If they want to do something fun or nice for you, let tem take you to dinner of to the movies!

7. You are thirty, forty, fifty... (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married. I pity the fool who falls into this terrible trap. Your life my friend is over if your confidence is at this level...Pick yourself UP by the shoestrings and giddy up! Age may define who you are, but life can't control what you need.

8.You do not think anyone else is interested. What is that all about? Take a good look in the mirror sister...don't like what you see? Then fix it! It's much easier to fix yourself than to stay with someone who is going to bring you down and treat you poorly. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there...Let me tell ya something...you need to take a vacation to some tropical island where there are cabana boys and hotties running around with barely anything on and then come home and tell me that there is no one out there! Girlfriend....please...Do not SETTLE! If you stay in a relationship for this reason, you are shooting yourself in the foot!

9.Why do some women think that being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone? Were you raised on Mars for goodness sake, or DID YOU fall off the turnip truck for real and smack your nugget on the pavement?  Do not let yourself think this - you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy. Someone that likes the same things that you do, who is attentive to your needs, and someone who brings you up, up, up.... not down down down!

10. He is not right, but I can change him! Oh, sweetie pie if I had a dollar for every time I said this about my ex husband I wouldn't have needed alimony or all of  his 401K, I would have been a self-made millionaire! Let me tell you a little story....You really cannot change him even if you tried. Don't waste the time, the effort, and don't lose sleep thinking you can make him a better man...If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. No if's and's or but's about it! Move on before you find yourself so far into the relationship that your heart will be broken when he finally dumps you for the next new skirt he comes across who is probably much younger and more fun!

Sure she's more fun, she didn't have to take your crap for 15 years,  raise your kids, cook your meals, cut your grass, take out your trash, snowblow the driveway, wash your dirty laundry, put up with smelly farts, your bad belching, and your gross other habits that I won't mention. She hasn't seen him at his peak, and she will look good to him because he's nothing more than a man who used the wrong head.

I truly believe in karma, and what goes around comes around. It might not happen today, or tomorrow, but some day when you are least expecting it, life might just turn on him...and when it does, you'll have moved on with your life, and will look at him as a sad, pathetic, and a lonely man who had life by the balls then threw it away for a tighter ass, nicer boobs, and a better salary.

My grand mother also used to say, "They always think that the grass is greener on the other side Michele, but eventually, that grass too will need mowed!" Powerful words from a powerful woman, my best friend. Those were words that I really never stopped thinking about, and today, even though she's passed on, I can hear her voice telling me "Don't settle!"

 Tell me, all of you married women that are reading this right now that men don't do this? If you were married to one like I was and they left a bad taste in your mouth, doesn't it feel good now to see him suffer just a little? I realized how much more I deserved when I packed my bags and boarded a plane for Paris and had not a care in the world other than to spend holiday with my two young adult children that he turned his back on...and for what? A younger chicky who wanted a family, two strollers, diaper bags, bottles and screaming toddlers. Now then, let me ask you? Whose life do you think turned out better? The point that I am trying to make is that I chose NOT to SETTLE. I walked away, left the material crap and $$ behind and decided that I was going to make it on my own, and on my terms, and in my own time. Confidence...every woman needs to have it. It's not something you cannot buy at the corner store, it comes from within. Dig deep ladies, because once you find it and you wear it on your sleeve like I do, you are untouchable to those men who are pond suckers and your world will open up to those men who see you for the real woman who you are in all of your glory as well as inner beauty!


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What do Women Want,...Really?

1. Intimacy, and LOTS of it!
Woman and men are different as far as relationships go. Listen up men we are not that hard to figure out. The main thing women want from men is time. You need to make us a priority in your life. This is number one on the list also intimacy. If you get too busy and forget us we get resent full and argumentative at times. We are simple. It does not take allot of money to spend time with us. We like attention and affection. A kiss goodbye, a phone call just to see how are day is going. We want to feel important in your life. Basically communication. We do love to be adored!!! You don't have to lavish us with expensive gifts but once in a while is nice!

2. Love...this goes clearly without saying.
Most importantly we just want to be loved. We want to feel loved by you, is that so much to ask? The actions and words have to match up. If they don't we will question it. We do not want to guess or play mind games. If you show it we will return it. We want the man to chase us and pursue us. We know its modern times but we want you to be the aggressor. We love it. We want to be swept off our feet. The more romantic the better. If your not the romantic type become the romantic type! It's real simple boys. You can get to our hearts through our emotions. If you want us to know, show it. If not, please, don't waste our time.

3. SEX...Yum!
The next is sex. We like to be loved and feel a certain closeness with our partner. Don't be shy in this area. We really do want to know what you want and feel. Most important we want you to know as well. We do not want a wham bam thank you mam!! A 10 min quickie is not what we want at all. We want foreplay, and lots of it. Well, wait a minute, that depends on which woman you ask, because quite frankly, I can take it or leave it...most women that I know of want a lot of it, personally, I like a little, but don't want to be teased all night. I get bored quite easily. If your a bad lover we won't tell you, we will just fake it. You will know because we will just roll over and pretend to be tired. We definitely want to be pleased and have an orgasm(s). We love to be kissed passionately. Especially on the neck and other places, you get the picture. After love making we love to talk and be held close. This is a must!!! I guess that the bottom line is really quite simple; we want to feel like we matter in your life! We want to be asked for our opinion. We want to be an equal. A compliment goes a long ways.

4. Support...crucial to a relationship!
What do I mean by support? We want a man to hold his own. We want his love and support. If we have something special to tell you, we want you to listen and encourage us. We also want to lean on you when we are down and out. Cheer us up! Tell us something funny so we can laugh, but always know that we are there to listen no matter what. It's a two way street, you can't have it just one certain way...share your issues, problems and communicate. It is key.

5. Truth...how 'bout it?
We just want our man to be honest with us. If your late, tell us why. Oh hey trust me... there is no reason to lie about it. We have women's intuition. I prefer to call it my radar. Lie boys and your ass is grass. Just be straight up with us, we aren't so fragile that we'll break. Besides we'd prefer hearing the truth from your lips directly and not in some round about way at a bar, or club or at the office. So not cool...

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Aphrodisiac Dessert Recipes by Simply Delicious Lingerie

Aphrodisiac Desserts Recipes:

When you think of romantic dinners and desserts with your partner, what do you think? Mouth watering, sensual desires that only two can share? There is something to be said about the dessert after dinner. It is an attribute to how the remainder of your romantic evening will unfold, so be quite selective when deciding which dessert you want to whip up for your mate! Preparing a sexy and erotic food together with your partner can be an aphrodisiac in itself. The use of special selected ingredients can only increases the potency of your exotic and erotic cuisine. For a start you could cook the following recipes and remember to experiment in the kitchen and have fun.

 1) SEX IN A PAN
1 stick butter
1 cup chopped pecans
1-1/2 cups vanilla wafer crumbs
Mix well and place in a 13 X 9 baking pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes. Cool.
8 oz. cream cheese
1 cup powdered sugar
1 cup Cool Whip
Beat cream cheese, powdered sugar and 1 cup Cool Whip together until smooth. Pour over the crust.
Mix 1 small box instant vanilla pudding and 1 small box instant chocolate pudding together with 3 cups milk until smooth. Let pudding thicken then pour over the second layer.
Top with 2 cups Cool Whip. Melt 2 pieces chocolate candy and swirl it into the Cool Whip. Chill and serve.

2) BETTER THAN SEX CAKE
Mix 1 pkg. German Chocolate Cake Mix according to directions on box. When done poke holes all over the top of the 13 X 9 inch cake. Pour caramel sauce all over the top letting it go down into all the holes in the cake. Mix a container Cool Whip with 1 small can flaked coconut and spread it over the cake evenly. Crush two Heath Toffee Candy bars and sprinkle them over the cake. Melt two squares of chocolate candy and swirl them on top of the Cool Whip with a toothpick. Sprinkle 1/2 cup chopped nuts over topping. Chill until time to serve.


 3) My favorite...
CREME BRULEE
6 egg yolks
1/2 cup sugar
2-1/2 cups heavy cream
2 Tbsp. vanilla

Preheat oven to 250 degrees. In a saucepan mix the yolks, sugar, heavy cream and vanilla. Bring to a boil while stirring. Remove from heat. Pour mixture into individual buttered ramekins equally. Place the ramekins in a water bath and bake for 50 minutes. Then sprinkle some light brown sugar over the entire tops of each custard. Place under the broiler and carefully watching them so they don't burn, let the sugar melt and form a crust over the custard. You can serve Creme Brulee chilled or warm. It is one of the most elegant of all desserts, which is why it is my personal favorite. It is extremely classy, and says "Wow" like nothing else...
 Top it off with a succulent strawberry to dangle in your mates mouth to tease and please, and make sure that your lingerie is from www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com where we sell affordable women's intimate apparel and edible undies from $9.99-$29.99

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