Let's Talk About Sex ....

What is involved in the natural art of making love? Please don't say a bottle of wine and candlelight dinner,..but that is a starter, and quite the romantic one. A lot of thought generally goes into this big ordeal because it is a very big deal and quite the perfect preparation I might add. Love making does not only involve sexual pleasure but also a happier mood and a stronger relationship in the long term. You have to naturally test the waters first to see what you both enjoy...never assume anything, especially with a new partner, or it could very well backfire on you! In order to benefit from love making both partners should derive mutual satisfaction from the act which implies both partners should reach ultimate orgasm. You should know how and when to make love in the right way and form. I've listed a few tips, but only you know how to romance your partner and make it a night of passion to remember. First of all, buy your lingerie at http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/ where there are a variety of selections and discounted prices!

First of all; Set the mood. Yes set the mood....make it a night to remember! In order to make love the right way proper mood is very important. You simply can not satisfy your partner is he or she is in a negative or a bad mood. This is the major reason why some couples feel love making was absolutely awesome sometimes whereas other times it's just ordinary. Your and your partner's mood has a big role to play in love making. To keep the heavenly magic intact in love making always do it when you feel the situational moods are right. Timing is everything. Plan this wayyyy in advance. Sure you can do it on the fly if it just happens to happen, but we gals like feeling special.


Romance- Love making is all about romance and emotional attachment towards each other. Romance is extremely important to add that extra spice before you start taking your clothes off. Romance normally leads to an exceptionally better love making and you get more satisfaction each time you make love. Amen to that!


Use words- Words are a very important part of love making and should be used wisely. As is body language! My grandmother used to say that you can speak with your eyes without every having to open your mouth! The pleasure from making love doubles when you tell your partners how much you love need or want him or her. Research has shown that couples which involve more feelings and emotions in love making are known to be happier in the long term...and isn' it long term that we all desire?

Take it further- Continue the above mentioned steps and take the next step into foreplay. This is when you break out the reddi whip and rhinestone handcuffs for play time! This is the final step of proper love making which leads to eventual orgasm. Oral stimulation doubles pleasure and you can make love for several hours.

How good are you in bed? - Are you good? Don't just think that you are, you have to know that you are. Egos can get the best of some of us, but seriously, at that particular time and moment it's not good to think we are rather we have to be. Do you have what it takes to satisfy women in bed? Are they having a real orgasm? Or do they fake it?  Do you know what every woman wants bed? Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Good luck trying to figure us out because sometimes we don't even know what we want! Enjoy your partner, practice makes perfect!

What is LOVE? Is it Real?

love [ luv ]  

1. feel tender affection for somebody: to feel tender affection for somebody such as a close relative or friend, or for something such as a place, an ideal, or an animal
2. feel desire for somebody: to feel romantic and sexual desire and longing for somebody
3. like something very much: to like something, or like doing, something very much

What is love? So many of us wonder if what we have is real, or like that of a dream awaiting the alarm clock to go off and bring us back to the real world, our reality! I will define it by describing what love is and what love is not. What is love varies from person to person but our need for it is the same. See if these descriptions ring true for you,...it sure did for me.

Self-love is the art of completely accepting our faults, completely appreciating our gifts, and completely acknowledging our individuality. (Individuality is the uniqueness that separates, and sometimes isolates us, from everyone else.) Once this is achieved, we are ready to love and be loved by another person.
Genuine self-love does not involve egotism, vanity, or self-valuation based on status or wealth. A person with true self-love is compassionate, humble, principled, and not affected by job titles or material possessions.
If you haven’t yet found love within yourself, then do it! When you begin to understand what is love, you’ll know that you are on the right path toward discovering self-love.


I can certainly tell you this......Real love is not possessive or exclusive. When we love someone, we want everyone to love them - we want them to live in the glow of loving and being loved by everyone. If you find the previous sentence challenging, please remember that true love is not sex or lust, and focus on the vital importance of keeping those concepts separate.

Real love is not possessive or exclusive. When we love someone, we want everyone to love them - we want them to live in the glow of loving and being loved by everyone. If you find the previous sentence challenging, please remember that true love is not sex or lust, and focus on the vital importance of keeping those concepts separate.

True love is never conditional. One can never say, "I'll love you, if you love me." That would describe some desperate bargain, but nothing approaching real love could be a part of it. True love is not diminished by circumstances. Can you imagine loving someone less because they broke a leg? Got an infection? Lost their job? A love that depends upon the talents and capabilities of the other is conditional, and not real love.


What You Will & Will Not Experience
How do you know if you are in love with the one who’s right? Don't we all wish we knew the answer to that, wouldn't it make our lives a whole lot easier, and allow our hearts not to break? The following lists will provide you with what you will and will not feel, think, share, and experience when you’re in love with the one who’s right. To be able to recognize what is love we need to know what it’s not as well as what it is.

You will:

• Love yourself more.
• Think of them before yourself.
• Want to be with them all the time.
• Harmonize with them without effort.
• Share many of the same goals.
• Share many of the same passions.
• Share many of the same principles.
• Share the same outlook on your home.
• Share similar views on money matters.
• Find humor in many of the same things.
• Trust them with your deepest thoughts.
• Get attention from them.
• Experience sexual fulfillment.
• Feel confident and sure about them.
• Feel motivated by them.
• Feel supported by them.
• Feel relaxed and comfortable with them.
• Feel better about yourself by what they say.
• Feel secure that they won’t leave you.
• Share the same vision for the future.
• Have the same answer to: “What is love?”
• Have the same feelings about what is love.

You will not:

• Begin to hate yourself.
• Think of what you want all the time.
• Feel like spending time away from them.
• Need to force your way with them.
• Be pulling in different directions.
• Be struggling to find common interests.
• Challenging each other’s motives.
• Have vastly different ideas on your home life.
• Be poles apart on how money is spent.
• Argue and fight all the time, if at all.
• Be afraid to share your deepest thoughts.
• Be ignored by them.
• Flirt with other people.
• Feel fear and anxiety about them
• Feel pressured by them.
• Feel they have little interest in your life.
• Have to force yourself to be pleasant.
• Feel bad about yourself by what they say.
• Feel insecure that they might leave you.

Everything may not match exactly, but most of it should. Use these lists as a guide. I found that many of these hit home, and oh if I only knew then what I know now....You will know when you have discovered life’s greatest treasure, because you will have a glorious unquestioning feeling in your gut that you are in love with the one who’s right, and they will feel the same. And you will know the answer to the question: “What is love?” Is it real or is it just a game?

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Say NO NO NO to Love Games...

HE'S ALWAYS BUSY
When you first started going out, he called you what seemed like 100 times a day, show up on your doorstep at weird hours, give up his front-row seat at a Lady gaga concert (well, maybe not..) just to watch you blow-dry your hair. He proved that he didn't take you for granted by asking you out days in advance, and if you ever needed him for anything  anything at all ...he'd drop everything and come running.
 
But when he has a change of heart, you're suddenly bumped from the number one spot on his to-do list. The phone calls become  a lot less frequent. He shows up late for dates or forgets about them altogether...and when you ask him what's the deal, he claims that he's been "really busy." Ok, gals, maybe you say all righty to this one but I say "Hit the Road Jack....."
 
Depends on the woman...Now, you may go along with this excuse for a while. You want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I wouldn't, but you might. Maybe he just feels more secure in the relationship, you tell yourself. But you can't help this gnawing feeling that if he still cared about you, he'd make time for you. After all, you've got a full life and you somehow manage to find places in your busy schedule for him.
The truth is, he wants out and doesn't know how to be honest. He's afraid of hurting you, so he's taking the long, torturous way out by modeling what he wants you to do (and what you ought to do when a guy brushes you off): Get on with your life! Next!! My grandmother used to always tell me that men are like bus stops....there's one on every corner.
 
HE SAYS NOTHING IS WRONG....YOU KNOW DIFFERENTLY!
Remember the amazing way things clicked between you two when you first started seeing each other? You couldn't get enough of each other. You could look at his face, maybe even spot him in a crowd, and know instantly what he was thinking and how he was feeling. And if for some reason you couldn't read him like a book, you'd find a way to make him feel okay about cluing you in about what was wrong.
 
Now it seems that he's got secrets, and they're driving a wedge between you. He's is putting a barrier wall up around him....why?  He won't let you in on how he's feeling, and when you try to pry, he acts offended. He says.....  "There's nothing wrong with me." You're the one who's acting weird." If you're feeling a little shaky about yourself, you just might deny your gut instincts and buy into his little lie. Because that's exactly what he's doing: lying. If a man won't look you in the eyes or can't speak to you and make direct eye contact, he is lying through his teeth! For whatever reason, his feelings for you have changed, and he's feeling bad about it. He can't seem to find the words for what's wrong, so he plays dumb -- and makes you feel dumber. Obviously, something IS wrong. When you figure it out, let me know....as for me, I'd say "Adios!"
 
HE TURNS INTO A REAL ASSHOLE
In the beginning of your relationship, he opened doors for you and carried your books. He chewed with his mouth closed and weeded four-letter words from his vocabulary. He was as gallant, charming, and polite as a prince in a fairy tale. The kind you always dreamed of where he sweeps you off your feet...only know he'd dropped you on your ass!
 
Now your fairy tale's over, and the ending is anything but happy. Instead of a prince, your guy is acting like an ogre. Ever hear the quote "I thought I found my prince but he turned out to be a loser in aluminum foil? That sums up my love life. In addition to forgetting his manners and neglecting his personal hygiene, he's picking you up late for dates, flirting with any girl but you, spitting out car windows, and basically turning you off at every turn.
At first, you overlook his brutish behavior. You might even take it as a huge compliment, convincing yourself that he's letting his true colors show because he feels so comfortable around you. Don't allow him or anyone else to play with your heart. No LOVE GAMES!