Body Language...What is Yours Saying?

Can you read someone simply by viewing their body language? If you cannot, you need to learn the task and seek the "How To's" as this is a great measuring tool to have. Being able to read body language can give your clues as to whether someone has a romantic interest in you or not. By accurately reading their body language you will be able to determine whether or not the other person is feeling comfortable around you and eager to get to know you better.

Understanding body language is also significant because it can ensure that you are not unintentionally sending the wrong messages out to other people. Body language can often be both subtle and subconscious but if you are aware of your body language you can make a conscious effort to make sure that you are sending an accurate message to others with your own body language.

 The art of reading body language really isn’t difficult and once you are familiar with a few guidelines you will come to realize that understanding body language is very intuitive. Correctly reading body language will ensure that you don’t miss out on approaching potential partners who are sending you signs that they are interested in pursuing a romance with you.

Did you know that how close a person stands to you can be one of the most important body language clues to whether someone is interested in you romantically or not? Their proximity to you can be directly proportional to their romantic interest in you. In other words the closer they stand to you the more interested they are in you romantically and the farther they stand away from you the less interested they are in pursuing a romance with you. In general the two foot rule applies. This means that if a person does not get closer than two feet to you, they aren’t interested in a romance with you. This distance is significant because a length of two feet is approximately an arms length and standing this far from you makes the other person feel safe that you will not reach out and physically touch them. This subtle use of body language to avoid closeness with you is a clear sign of a lack of romantic interest. Conversely, if the person stands closer to you and within arms reach they are not apprehensive about being touched by you and are sending you a signal that they are interested in you. The intimacy of standing close to someone is a clear body language indication that you have a romantic interest in that person.

Another body language clue that someone is interested in you is that they begin to copy your own body language. This often happens subconsciously but if you notice someone mimicking your behaviors it is a clear sign that they are interested in you. Body positioning can also be a form of body language that can either convey romantic interest or disinterest. When speaking to someone, if their body and particularly their torso is turned towards you and leaning closer to you this is an indication of romantic interest. This body positioning leaves you unguarded and vulnerable which indicates trust in the other person. If this trust were not in existence you would not put yourself in such a vulnerable position and would be more likely to stand with your body turned slightly away from the other person and leaning away from them. Standing in a way that positions your body in an open position towards another person is a clear example of body language that expresses a romantic interest. Here is a great book to read if you are not sure what someones body language is saying....

Where to Find the Right Woman for YOU!

In today's busy day and age, we don't have the patience, the time, nor are there enough hours in the day to search out and find the man or woman of our dreams. So what's a guy to do? Think like a woman and get smart...ask yourself where would a woman go? Once you figure that out, you'll in the clear and on your way!  There are a lot of great women out there just waiting to meet the man of their dreams but finding these available women can take a little creativity on your part!

  Sure there are plenty of single women at bars and nightclubs but the competition is also tough with many men also trying to meet women and women are usually on guard at these locations so getting through their defenses can be difficult. Instead of battling other men for a woman’s affection at a bar, try meeting women in new locations. My grandmother used to say that relationships won't last when you meet in a bar...this may not be true, in fact some people tell me that they did meet in a bar, but do they go long term? An old friend of mine met her husband in a bar and had she not gone out that one night with the girls, the love of her life would never have found her, you see, often, fate does step in,

 

Specifically locations that sport a high female to male ration will enhance your chances of meeting new women, and in my personal opinion, there are a variety of places other than bars and clubs to meet great people. While bars and nightclubs are certainly full of available women the likelihood of meeting a woman at these locations is slim to none. Although many women frequent nightclubs and bars in the hopes of meeting a man, these are also locations where women feel vulnerable and are likely to have their defenses up making them unapproachable. Try frequenting other locations and you may have an easier time meeting available women with interests similar to your own.

A woman’s clothing store is a great place to meet new women. Not only is this location filled with women but it is also almost completely devoid of other men. Many men avoid a woman’s clothing store like the plague so if you are brave enough to venture inside you will have an assortment of women to choose from. You can start a conversation by asking a woman for advice for a gift for your sister or by complimenting her on her purchases. That;s right boys, find a way to strike up that ole' conversation!

The gym can also be another great place to meet new women. While you may already spend hours a day pumping iron in the weight room try spending some time on a cardio machine or drop in on an aerobics or yoga class. These activities are typically dominated by women so engaging in these activities increases your chance of meeting women while at the gym. Meeting a women here will also show you that you are about to meet a woman who most likely takes great pride in her body as well as her appearance.

The Internet is always an option for meeting women. You can try placing a personals ad online or join a dating service to read profiles of available men. Rule #1; BE HONEST! No photos that are 10 years old, and no lies! There are so many personals sites available that it would almost be impossible not to find a suitable match. Just be sure to exercise caution and not give out your contact information or agree to meet anyone in a secluded location.

Tanning spas or salons can be great places to meet new women. Again, these locations aren’t frequented by men so you are most likely to be one of the only men present. If you are attracted to women who put a lot of effort into their appearance the salon is definitely the place to go. Here you will find women who are committed to their appearance and who will appreciate you for your ability to understand that a manicure is just as important to men as it is to women.

Sporting events can also be a great place to meet women who either share your love of sports or are in search of men themselves. You may attend a baseball game and wind up meeting a woman who shares your love of sports or you may at least meet a woman who is trying to meet a man. Sporting events are typically well attended by men so it’s possible that the women you meet at a sporting event are trying to put the odds in their favor and use this opportunity to meet men.

Another great place to meet new women is the theater. Women are typically drawn to the arts and if you begin attending local theater productions you may find the opportunity to meet a variety of new women. Not many men take in plays or operas on their own so doing so will help you to stand out from the crowd and single women are more likely to notice you..and after a while, the opera and plays will be something that you can both do together!

Finally a grocery store, yup, you heard me....a grocery store is a great place to meet new women. Women make up the larger percentage of grocery shoppers so as one of only few men the odds will be in your favor. This is sooo true. Who would have ever thought this? Find a cute man and ram his cart in the frozen food isle. Also, women typically are experienced shoppers and you can take this opportunity to ask for their assistance in picking out produce or choosing a pasta sauce. Women will be flattered by you asking their advice and may be open to inviting you to their place for a home cooked meal.

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Aphrodisiac Foods for Women

We all know that if in the mood, it really doesn't take much at all to turn us on, but what if we need a little boost? People often ask, do women have senses that are persuaded by foods that act as aphrodisiac's? You bet they do! Did you know that the food you consume can have a direct impact on your sex life, affecting your hormones, brain chemistry and energy and stress levels. Some foods have psychoactive properties, others arouse because they are psychologically suggestive, and some can actually increase blood flow to the genitals. If it does not have all that aphrodisiac effect, at least it’s healthy and it will do you good! We are what we eat, because what we eat directly influences our body and our body functions.

Aphrodisiac foods thought to be effective were usually chosen for their symbolic representation of tastes, aromas, and shapes associated with sex and sexuality or their ability to stimulate the physical or physiological being. While certainly not the most potent they are the easiest to access and in the right combination of aphrodisiac foods can help jump start a very sensual evening.

Putting it to action!

From the information about these aphrodisiac foods I can assure you that ingesting any of these great foods and herbs is not going to guarantee multiple orgasms combining them together and crafting sensual meal recipes is a perfect way to set the mood for the rest of the evening. For example take a look at this menu of great food and tell me that you wouldn't at least enjoy a wonderful dinner:

• Salad with fresh arugula, carrots, and aniseed with ginger-garlic dressing
• Pasta tossed with pesto (pine nuts, basil, and garlic)
• A fine glass of Merlot to enjoy dinner with
• Light dessert of dark chocolate dipped strawberries and pineapple served with almonds
• Followed by an espresso, cappuccino, or cup of coffee

Nothing odd tasting or weird in appearance in that menu and we've managed to combine almost 10 known aphrodisiac foods including essential nutrients, vitamins, stimulants that together form a female sexual enhancer served up on the dinner table. It doesn't need to stop here. Click on to the next category of female aphrodisiacs for even more information and ways to improve female libido. Here is a list of the most common and easily accessible foods used as female aphrodisiacs throughout time.

1) Asparagus is a great source of potassium, fiber, vitamin B6, vitamins A and C, and thiamin and folic acid. The latter is said to boost histamine production necessary for the ability to reach orgasm in both sexes.

2) Through antiquity, almonds were regarded as fertility symbols. The aroma of almond supposedly arouses passion in females -- or so thought the poets and scribes. The scientists say that almonds provide high doses of vitamin E, magnesium and even fiber. Therefore, there seems to be something in the almond myths after all.

3) Just by looking at the shape of avocado, you will see the reason why it was associated with sexuality. The Aztecs called the avocado ahuacuatl, or "testicle tree." They thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled testicles. The Catholic priests in Spain found this fruit so obscenely sexual that they forbade it. On the other side, avocado is rich with folic acid, vitamin B6 and potassium. They are also said to boost immune system

4) Chocolate, the king of natural aphrodisiacs, contains a host of compounds including anandamide, the psyochoactive feel-good chemical, and PEA (phenylethylamine), the "love chemical," which releases dopamine in the pleasure centers of the brain and peaks during orgasm. PEA is said to help induce feelings of excitement, attraction and euphoria. Cacao also contains tryptophan, a key component of the neurotransmitter serotonin known to promote a sense of well-being and relaxation.

5) The Banana,...By it shape its connection with sexuality is quite obvious, but you’ll also find that bananas are loaded with potassium, magnesium and B vitamins. It also contains chelating minerals and the bromeliad enzyme, said to enhance the male libido.

6) Figs...This sexy fruit has long been thought of as an arousing stimulant, and an open fig is believed to emulate the female sex organs. Figs are steeped in history and are one of the oldest-recorded fruits. They are mentioned in the Bible (Adam and Eve wore fig leaves to cover their private parts), are reported to be Cleopatra’s favorite fruit, and the ancient Greeks held them as sacred and associated them with love and fertility.

7) Oysters are probably the food most associated with being an aphrodisiac, and most people are aware of their reputation for increasing sexual desire. Oysters may be thought an aphrodisiac because of their high zinc content, which helps produce sperm and increases libido. Raw oysters are best served with a glass of chilled Champagne for a truly romantic meal!

8) Last,...but not least, sweet, sticky honey is a great source of boron, a trace mineral that helps the body use and metabolize estrogen, the female sex hormone. Studies have shown that this mineral may also enhance testosterone levels in the blood, the hormone responsible for promoting sex drive and orgasm in both men and women. In addition, honey contains B vitamins needed for testosterone, as well as other nutrients, enzymes and phytochemicals.

9) Alcohol Well, there are two ways alcohol can be used as an aphrodisiac but the positive effects are the antioxidants and nutrition found in red wines.

10) Caffeine....This stimulant typically found in coffee or tea is key to improving blood flow to sexual organs and boosting energy levels needed for sexual performance.

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Sex Appeal

SEX appeal. What is it really? It is that much-desired special something that makes heads turn and hearts throb. That certain aura that emanates so strongly from a man that a woman gets weak-kneed, and that sensual femaleness that can make a guy forget his prior commitments.It's got power all right. That may be why you're reading this article. We all want to have sex appeal. We might not agree on exactly what the term means, but if someone accused us of having it, we wouldn't argue with them.When something is sexy, it has sexual connotations. This means that it stimulates sexual appetite or hunger. Sex appeal means that something has a physical attractiveness and attracts members of the opposing sex. Surely you've felt this before?

If you have sex appeal, it means there's something about you that makes persons of the opposite sex want to be as close to you as possible.  There is something so attractive about you that they want to bond with you.

But this is where we have to think very carefully. Clearly, we like the idea of persons of the opposite sex finding us so appealing that they want to become one with us. Wow! What a compliment! But what part of you do they want to become one with—just your body, or your body, mind, and soul?  In the larger scheme of things, our bodies are but a small part of the totality of us.

Our minds are thousands of times more complex and unique, and what we call our souls are the deepest parts of us, the parts that are so central to our being that their value to us is beyond words, beyond measurement. Most of us are just beginning to understand our souls a little bit. We have flashes of awareness of how unique our souls are, how they contain all the really precious parts about us, and we literally shudder at the idea of playing fast and loose with this unbelievably masterful part of our identity. We're the only person in the history of the world with the soul we have, and if we gained the whole world, but lost our soul, we would have lost everything.My personal opinion is that you must first love yourself, for if you do, then all else will fall into place.

I feel most importantly, that sex appeal isn't something to labor over. The hard work is done when you build your self-confidence, learn to love others for who they are, and find your purpose in this world. Sex appeal tends to exude as the fruit of your ongoing personal development. So the best advice after all this advice is to not try too hard to have sex appeal. Provided you've learned to love yourself and others well, it'll come naturally, just give it time. Get to know yourself and find out who you are and what it is that you seek? Find within yourself class, style and poise. Read up on current events and social society. That is a portion of sex appeal that most men find erotic and mind boggling...yes, every man wants a woman with intelligence and a sense of humor combined.