Simply Delicious: How to Tell If She Is Interested in You?

The million dollar question? Is she interested? What are her eyes telling you? The eyes are the gateway to your soul. These are easy non-verbal motives.The act of locking eyes with someone is an incredibly intimate act, which is why we avoid prolonged eye contact with people we aren’t close with, well, that and the fact that it can be quite awkward. However, we instinctively recognize the power of eye contact, which is why it is a strong indicator of interest from a woman. A woman who’s interested in a man will often initiate eye contact, deliberately break contact – often by looking down, a submissive gesture – then looking back. The act of breaking contact and looking away is a way of catching his attention; looking back is to check to see whether he’s taken the bait, as it were. When she re-initiates eye contact, it is frequently followed by a slow smile; a subtle way of saying “yes, that was a message for you."

It’s a simple and non-verbal way for women to indicate that she would be interested in you so by all means, go say hello to her. Women as a whole are socialized to be more touchy-feely than men are and tend to speak more with their hands.With regard to our communication, 55% is non-verbal, 38% is based on speaking signals and only 7% has anything to do with what you actually say. So, you want to get the girl? It is a great possibility that you will indeed, BUT be careful of falling into these topics...or you may just end up shooting yourself in the foot;

1. Do not consider yourself as unattractive.

Take a good look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? You certainly should, because if you don't why would someone else? You need to kick it up a notch and show that you like yourself. If you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way in which you can make the woman find you attractive. You want her to think you are a hottie and sexy right? Then you have to play the part and believe it yourself.This type of thinking will influence your body language and the way you think. Take some care over your appearance so that you feel at your best, and start telling yourself that you are attractive.

2. Do not bore her.

Women will tun you out faster than you know. Sometimes you only get one chance to make a great first impression, so don't muck it up! You want to sound fascinating and intriguing. There are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing that they are doing that. Never talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the subject. She may listen just to be polite, but htat doesn't mean that she cares. You want her to care so that she will want to see you again, and again, and again.

If she is genuinely interested in a subject she will not just ask questions and listen, she will have a lot to say about it.

3. Know when to shut your yap!

If you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back on you. She will either think that you are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will find you boring. Try to get her talking too. Even with the shyest woman you can do this if you help her to feel relaxed and find out what she is really interested in. Don't give her the drama. Keep it simple...no work stuff, family issues, etc. You are trying to get to know her...you don't want to creep her out and chase her off. Just be you and keep it light and simple.

4. Never ask too many questions.

I know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing to talk about. However, this does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation interesting but asking too many questions will make the lady want to run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick up on hints in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling about something.

A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than another question. What am I trying to say here? It's real simple; Try to Avoid Yes/No Questions! Avoid questions that can have Yes or No. Why? This can kill the conversation and nothing is worse than that pause of silence when you have nothing else to say and it gets to where there is no speaking for a brief few seconds, which can seem like minutes or hours. You want to get to know more so try to elaborate a bit when you speak with answers to questions that are more detailed.

6. No treating a woman like your possessions or prize.

That's right fellas, you heard me...we aren't some piece of meat, and we certainly are not your prize...so show us some respect how 'bout it? A woman does not like the idea of being a prize or someones possession for that matter. She will not be attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about your conquest of her to your friends. She is not your arm candy and she certainly does not wish to be used as a tool for your own personal leverages.

7. Can you read her body language?

If not, you need to learn how to. This is going to be KEY. Many men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language of the women that they are interested in. Oh boys...you couldn't be more wrong. By reading her body language you will have some idea about whether she is interested in you, if she is happy, sad, pissed off or not interested in you at all. You can flirt a bit by using your own kind of body language techniques; How will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do not give her a sign? When you flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention. It is generally quite harmless unless you let it get far too personal which you don't want to do when you are just trying to get to know her because what you want to do is give her space.

8. Just how confident are you?

Did you know that most women simply cannot resist men who are confident? We love men who have their shit together...(that's what we're really trying to say here) Do not be afraid to approach a woman because of fear of rejection. There are always risks in life and if you do not take the risk then you cannot reap the benefits.Chances are if you walk into a room wanting to meet a specific woman in general and you make it well known that you are enticed by her and her alone...you will get the chance to do all the smooth talking you want to do...just be open, honest and respectful for heaven sakes.

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