Friday, December 21, 2012

Being the Dominator in the Bedroom

We all know that there are plenty of times when you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, so if this sounds like you, please keep in mind that it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. That's right, try something else on for size next time you and your mate are together. Though you may have already tried out costumes at Simply Delicious Lingerie, and by-the-way we get many, many reviews on the bedroom costumes and fantasy costumes, there are other types of role playing. What am I trying to say?

Let me put it mildly; dominating your guy in bed is one thing that many women forget to do and it is also one thing that turn men on BIG TIME. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are just a few tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows, you may like it enough to want to do it all the time?

Ask yourself this;

Who is in control in the bedroom? Good question right? If you want to be the seductive dominating type, then you are going to have to show him! From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sexual pleasures. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, the tone, and what you’re doing, etc. Show him that you are in control this time....The key ingredient here? Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are. My grandmother used to say that with the right body language you could speak to a man without ever having to breath a word. Bring him to his knees and he'll beg for more! Who says you can't get a little naughty behind closed doors? Isn't that the spice of life?

 You can also dress the part of a dominatrix by dressing in all black (please don't forget the fishnet stockings or the thigh highs and garter belt)....or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. What am I trying to say? Kick it up a notch sister! This takes it to a new level, and is quite enticing for him...bring the cougar out and show him you have a little tiger in you! Make sure that you feel quite confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume.

Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control. I have always stated that confidence comes from within, so play the role ladies. Use your confidence to seduce your mate. Do remember that from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.


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