Rule # 1: Never Kiss & Tell

How To Be The Woman He Wants

Girls....We all like to play hard to get from time to time, and tease a man, but these are just playful ways to show that you can be sassy and sometimes aggressive. Play a little hard to get, but don't scare the poor guy away! On the contrary, a man needs to know you like him, but - and here's the clincher - he needs to know that you value your own life. A wonderful way to do this is to be open to other men. Knowing that your options are open will raise your self esteem. And when your self esteem goes up, you become more attractive to lots of men.

......Then another magical thing happens: Either a man will step up his game to frazzle the competition, or he'll get lost in the shuffle.....and this is how you make room for the real Mr. Right to show up. Why settle for Hersheys when you can have Godiva? Never limit yourself, and always show confidence. If you're feeling a little hesitant don't....buck up sister! Time to get your game on!  For our step-by-step guidance in raising your self esteem and being open to men in a way that will make them compete for your time and attention, ......stay tuned! Follow the new columns on our new Simply Delicious Lingerie web site where journalists and professionals comment on Q&As about love, fashion, and food!