Fashion and People Watching...

Someone asked me recently; "Where do you go to people watch?" Well, truthfully, you can go most anywhere and be entertained...but for myself, when it comes to fashion and people watching...I tend to gravitate toward my two children who seem to know the current trends and like 'Gossip Girl' ....they know what is going on in the Big Apple making the news. They live and work in NYC and they see it all, including many celebrity sightings, sometimes almost daily. Me on the other hand, living in a small quite town...I see no celebrities...life is not all glamorous here, not at all. I get to look out my window and see the older gentleman across the street bending over to pick up his morning newspaper every day with half of England and France hanging out of his pajamas. Not much of a fashion statement, and also not something that you want to wake up to each and every morning.

Such a beautiful city...When I visit NYC, I walk the streets, shop, ride the subways, go to Irish Pubs and people watch...A LOT! (5th Avenue is the place to be to view for the high end luxury of retail. Might I suggest visiting there at Christmas time, as it is fabulous to see the lights and stores dressed up for the holiday.) I have a tendency to make small talk often with those around me, where as my children say nothing to people, they just look and listen...Asking me not to speak would be like taking a fish out of the water...some things we just need. 

You don’t just watch people here, you watch their poodles and pugs, too. People dress their dogs like you and I dress our children....classy, trendy and they spare no expense.Through my children, I have learned that you don’t just watch people, you eavesdrop on them or even sometimes follow them. There are no ethical qualms regarding this,..no sir. People know that what they do and say on the streets of New York is fair game. So where can you go to truly see it all happening? Well, it appears, or so I have heard through the grapevine that dog runs are among the best places in town to watch the natives socialize, frolic, flirt and nuzzle. Central Park is fabulous to people watch but don't hesitate to stray off the beaten path...Brooklyn, Manhattan and Tribeca. Many are there living the dream. As Jay-Z and Alicia Keys sang; "Empire State of Mind" ...Now your in New York, there's nothing you can't do, big lights will inspire you..."

So, you might wonder...just who has time to chase people around and do all this people watching? We all do of course, but most of us don't do it in a stalking sort of way. It happens every second, every minute of the day. We are making observations of others everywhere. To those who visit these larger cities like NYC that I speak of, most of them are complete strangers to how reality really is and they can become a nuisance to these celebrities that are just trying to live a normal life outside of the studio or concert venues. If you are a mature person of wisdom, you may pass these people every day, say on your way into work and see someone famous walking her pup. You see her, and if eye contact is made, you smile and pass by. 

There is a certain respect that one must have for these people that are in the spotlight on a daily basis, and believe it or not, these people tend to respect those of us whom acknowledge them with a glance, nod, or smile, and carry on much more than you might think. Although we may see them as 'goddesses' of the entertainment world, they are just normal people at the end of the day that go home, eat dinner with their families and snuggle up to a good book, or movie script and turn in for the evening. On the contrary to what so many people think, these people put their pants on one leg at a time, just like you and me. They deserve respect, just like you and me. 

People watching is something that most of us do, just some more than others. We learn about current trends not only through fashion icons and magazines, rather first hand. What many people read about in newspapers or view in magazines, my children see daily. I love to hear their stories. At any age, I truly believe that we learn. My kids are my tool. I learn through my children. I enjoy a text from them or a photo on Facebook, or a phone call telling me that I'll never believe who they just saw? 

Regardless of if you live in a big city or not, there is fashion everywhere around you, some spectacular, some (like my neighbor) not so pretty...and people watching goes on in local stores, parks, pubs, etc. I believe that you can learn a lot about a person through something as simple as people watching. 
If you haven't already...you should give it a try!  

If you are visiting NYC this weekend and really want to get some people watching in might I suggest taking a subway ride? Sunday January 13, 2013 is the 12th Annual NO PANTS subway ride. See the link for the locations and for heaven sakes...take your cameras. You won't see celebrities, but this is almost as good! Oh if they were all only wearing sexy undergarments from my store, Simply Delicious Lingerie... www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com Visit our online boutique for low, low prices!

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What is Fashion?

What is fashion? Why is it so important? Do you recall the quote that Mark Twain once wrote? It went something like this; "Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society." What does that mean you to? Personally I do believe that it is the clothes that make the man/woman. From our Simply Delicious Lingerie and undergarments to our Diesel or Rock & Republic jeans to our Jimmy Choo, Chanel, Prada, Gucci, Burberry, Spade and Dior clothing and accessories... what we wear has, for centuries, spoken volumes about who we are, what we do, and what we want. It's the truth. To some this is so shallow, nonetheless, in the world of fashion it is of the highest priority. Am I stating that everyone must own designer labels, no. It means that it is all about your class and savvy ways. Create a fashion statement and you be the superstar! It's not what you wear, rather how you wear it.

Whether Americans have dressed to make a political statement, to assert their class status, or simply to be irreverent, every style has carried a certain social meaning. This is in part because our culture has long ascribed great significance to individuals' public image. The clothing industry is one of the least sustainable industries around. Everyone buys new clothes and they shop around until they find exactly what they are searching for. Lucky for me, I have two kids, whom adore fashion and designer clothing. I have a very biased opinion...each of them are both pretty 'on style' on fashion trends and they keep me dressed very classy and fun! I get the dos and donts from them often, and I seek their help with wardrobe issues and malfunctions all the time! If there is one thing that I've learned over the years is always have back-up, or as most call it a Plan B outfit ready to go just in case you spill your coffee or drop a bagel with cream cheese down your blouse.

 Fashion can also be used as a form of self-expression and adornment. People may dress to identify with a specific group of people, or with a particular performing artist they adore. Alternately, some people deliberately stray from mainstream fashion because they want to be seen as unique and one-of-a-kind. Others may choose not to follow mainstream fashion simply because it isn't important to them. If the way in which an individual dresses is not accepted by the culture and society in which the person wants to be accepted into, then the way in which the individual chooses to dress may change.

 Fashion is ultimately important because it is a form of communication. You are communicating to others who you are and what is important to you, whether or not you realize it. The same way of dressing could be viewed completely different in two or more areas of the world. Therefore, it is important to be aware of what is acceptable and what is not in a given society. 


What does your image say about you? For instance...
A woman's fashion personality says who she is, and it's expressed by her style. Most of us lean toward one particular type of fashion personality, although we may sometimes wear styles that are more closely related to another. What's your fashion personality? Do you view yourself as having a classic, romantic, trendy, or casual style? Think Audrey Hepburn wearing her little black dress in Breakfast at Tiffany's...in my personal opinion, wow! Now that's classic fashion. Women who have a classic fashion personality love timeless fashion designs--tailored trousers; single-breasted, semi-fitted jackets; sleek pumps. Because classic style stands the test of time well, the classic fashion personality type is often able to wear her clothing and fashion accessories for years. Wow! The way she dressed made a statement. This was the classic fashion personality.

What about romantic fashion personality? Women who have a romantic fashion personality type can imagine themselves in a Victorian setting wearing long, ground-sweeping hoop skirts. Ruffles, frills, lace, and other feminine details are all on their radar screens. Because the romantic fashion personality takes her style influence from the past, she sometimes looks a bit out of place in the modern world, but on the plus side, hers is the most feminine way of dressing and the one that will draw in the eyes of someone who sees her potential worth.

What about the trendy fashion personality? I say bring it on! It's all about the latest, newest, cutting-edge fashion designs in both clothing and accessories. These all catch the attention of the woman with a trendy fashion personality, and they very well should, fashion is quite important and we all want to dress to the 9's. Her friends are likely to consult her when it comes to fashion because they know she's always on top of the trends, and she's shopping for the newest styles before they even arrive in the stores.

Hello? What about the casual,comfy fashion trendy gal?  Well, they say that comfy is the mantra of the woman with a casual fashion personality. I find a lot of truth in that statement. She wants to live her life free of the restrictions of fashion, so she avoids high heels and shapewear that sucks her flab or curves in like the plague and may not even own a dress. Hey, I say to each his own. She may be a bit confused by style, but, on the other hand, she'll never be at the mercy of fashion. Tiptoeing around on six-inch stilettos is definitely not her idea of fun; so what is exactly? That's a silly question; how about flip-flops and sneakers? These are much more to her liking, and so much more comfortable.

The bottom line is simple....To some people, it's not always about being on your game and always looking stunning,...for some it is fashion enough just getting dressed in the morning and feeling good about themselves.The confidence you carry with each step you take is what makes you...YOU~

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Wanted: Guest Bloggers!

Hello! I'd like to take a moment to look back on 2011 and to say thank you so very much for all of your support as well as your loyalty shopping with Simply Delicious Lingerie. We truly do appreciate you very much! As we move forward into 2012, we intend to grow and become more of a household name. Our family is growing and with your honesty and assistance, I can determine where I need to make changes in my websites so that you are getting everything you desire and deserve! Our job is and always has been to make you happy!

I wish to thank everyone for taking the time to stop by, read my blogs, follow them, share them with others, and especially to say how appreciative, grateful and how thankful I am that so many people shop at my online store. I come to you with a need for guest bloggers for my businesses at Simply Delicious Lingerie and soon to be Simply Luscious Lingerie, our plus size lingerie boutique.

 I'm looking for a variety of people to assist me in writing stories or sharing experiences to share with my guests that visit this site and another blog page. I have Q&A Fashionista Tantalizing Tina that does a superb job answering a variety of questions about lingerie, my Wine and Cooking Expertise Guru that I work on and with help I am assisted with recipes from Dee, our Managing Director. We all love what we do and invite you to send us blogs/articles regarding fashion, relationships, life, love, your favorite foods/recipes, desserts, cocktails,etc.
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