Monday, October 22, 2012

Dress Sexy, Talk Sexy,...Be SEXY!

For those of you ladies that did not know how important it is to be multitaskers with men, please allow me to share what you need to do to capture his attention. First I should ask; did you know that more than 50 percent of all communication is done via body language and gestures? Yes, this is very true, so when it comes to meeting MR Right or Mr Dreamy, it doesn't take long at all for him to to size you up subconsciously. Did you also know that a man will decide within 7 seconds of looking at you if he wants to talk to you?

 A Few Pointers;

Wear red

Women who dress in red are seen as sexier by men than those who wear white, green, gray, or blue, according to a study at the University of Rochester. This does not mean that you have to show up in all red, nor do I want you to look like a hooker. Sometimes red means sometime as simple as the lipstick you wear. Men love a woman's lips, so why not show them off! There's your red, simple and sexy! When you wear red, they're even 56 percent more likely to get asked out on a date than women in blue.

What else can you do to get noticed? As Madonna sang; Express Yourself! Men are much more attracted to women who are animated in their face, voice and body. Use your hands and head movements for emphasis, and for goodness sakes, smile!

So is the pressure on for you? YES, the pressure may be on, but projecting an alluring image in that tiny window of time is actually pretty easy. Just use these wordless pickup tricks and any guy who is lucky enough to look your way will feel the sudden urge to come say hi. When a woman touches a man's forearm during conversation, it shows that she's fully engaged. Briefly touching your own neck or collarbone says you'd like to do more than just talk.Body language is KEY, so is the fact that men love when a woman talks sexy. I wrote a blog about this a while back and it has taken such an overwhelming response and the comments sent directly to me were so nice, that I thought I would write to you again and share more about why it is that dressing sexy and body language go hand in hand, and why each compliments one another so well. So straighten up, sexy is all about posture. Don't slouch! That shows a man that you are lazy and not so interested. Head up, chest out, back straight.

When going out;

1) Remember to be who you are and act yourself. Try to be original and unique in your sexiness, not just a bimbo emulating or trying to be somebody else.

2)  Remember, confidence is the key. Sex appeal involves a belief in yourself that you can and will appear sexy. Most public icons or even film stars carry their sexiness in their confidence. Even a simple smile shows confidence and appeal. In fact the starting point to sexiness starts with confidence.

3)  Style your Hair; That's right, make a trip to the hair salon. A new cut or style will make you feel sexy and confident. Having a change of hair color is nice, too. Go for something natural and not too dramatic. Deep condition your hair at least once a month. In the mornings, flat iron your hair or put it in a messy bun, depending on your style. Adding extensions or a wig can radically change an everyday look from "ho-hum" to "wow" to turn a few heads.

4)  Work that Body!
 FYI: Choose the right attire to wear!
This is not at all going to make you spend a fortune on clothes, and they don't need to be designer. Most men, unless you are my son, don't know the difference between Marc Jacobs and Target...there is a big difference, yes, but not everyone can afford high end merchandise, so do what fits your budget and your life style and rock it sister! Whether you dress up in a LBD (little black dress) or you sport attire for a concert or ball game, feel good about YOU! Remember, confidence is so important.
  • Invest in a good pair of curve-hugging jeans. Dark denim looks good on all body types.
  • Pick some clothes that flatter your figure and that you feel comfortable in. There's no point picking the latest fashions if you don't feel comfortable in them. Pick clothes that make you feel like you.
  • Wear lace-up flats or sneakers. Flats are cute and comfortable, two characteristics that you rarely ever find together in the shoe department.
  • Wear jewelery that excites you. Find colorful, fun, bright chunky necklaces and bracelets, but if you wear lots of pearls and beads, don't wear a shirt that has a pattern or a picture on it. Wear a monochromatic top with lots of multicolored jewelery.
  • Black is ohhh soooo sexy. It's my all time favorite color to wear. It hides fat, creates curves and makes you feel like a goddess...and what woman alive doesn't want to look like a goddess?
  • Sexy undergarments. But don't flash them. Be classy about it otherwise you look trashy. Try to maintain class as much as possible, while still being sexy.
5)  Wear make-up. Just make sure not to go overboard. Subtle is very sexy in the same way that less is more. Accent one feature at a time.Remember that you date wants to see your natural side, not a woman that wears enough make-up to cover a clown. He wants to see the beauty in a simple way.
He wants to see you look as beautiful when he takes you on a date as he might see you when he shows up at your door early in the morning with coffee and muffins.

6) Get in SHAPE! What do I mean by this? Need to lose a few pounds, or firm it up? Create a workout plan. Just as you make your to-do list, or your grocery list, make a work out list; Crunches and lunges equal flat, hard ab muscles, lunges equal toned legs, and squats equal a toned backside. Running or jogging works all muscles of the body and increases your stamina. Plus, the hormones your body releases while exercising carry on through your evening activities to contribute to your new sexy attitude.
  • Remember that if your workout goal is to lose weight, you're going to need to sweat, and for an extended period of time. Lifting weights will help you drop pounds, since muscle mass burns calories increasing your metabolism. If weight loss is your goal, a good starting point is to do something that gets your heart rate up, like walking briskly, swimming, dancing, or biking, for 30 minutes, 3 times per week. Most importantly, make sure you are burning more calories in a day than you consume. This is the only way you will ever lose weight. Choose a work-out regimen that you enjoy, not one that is going to suck the energy right out of you. I do yoga booty ballet and I love it! 
7)  Wear a perfume that is going to smell super sexy! The closer someone has to get to smell your fragrance, the more seductive it becomes!

In the Bedroom, ...Put On Those Bedroom Eyes and Work It!

Feel sexy. Sexiness is all about attitude. Your man is much more likely to notice low self-esteem and self-consciousness in the bedroom more than a little belly bulge or cellulite thighs. Stop worrying that you're not perfect enough and feel sexy. You will elude sexiness all around.
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Always buy the the right size. This is no time to try to squeeze into a Small when you need a Large. Men don't understand our sizes, they understand sexy looks, and sexy is not busting a gut out of your teddy just to say that you wear a size small. Many women make the mistake of buying lingerie in the wrong size or style for their body type. When they put it on, it's doesn't look good or feel good and they do not feel as sexy. Choose something in the right size for you and something that fits your body type. It will make a huge difference in how sexy you feel.

Dress sexy when no one is around. Wearing your sexy clothes around the bedroom or even around your apartment when you are alone is a great way to make you feel more comfortable in them when you are with your man. Watch yourself in the mirror while wearing your favorite sexy outfit. Practice walking and dancing and moving.

Practice technique. Strut your stuff girlfriend! Walk around your house in your heels and lingerie. Buy a dancer pole and work it! Don't be afraid to rent an exotic dancing tutorial video or read up on your striptease skills. If you want your man to pick his jaw up off the floor, buy a stripper pole and work your body for him with a private show! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing/fetish-fantasy-fantasy-dance-pole We carry a pole that everyone buys! When you practice your technique, it will help you perform it with confidence in the presence of your man. If you are feeling sexy and want to get really playful in the bedroom, you don't needs 50 Shades of Grey, you need a sex swing! Try ours; We can't keep them in stock long enough so many couples are trying them! We have 3 fabulous swings to choose from at Simply Delicious Lingerie under our Delicious Deals. http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing/whip-smart-pleasure-swing-sex-swing

  Roxette sang; She's Got the Look...ladies, if you don't have it, you need to dig deep and find it! Dress sexy, talk sexy, and BE SEXY!




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