Finding a Great Sugar Daddy

	Recently I was asked by a coworker; "What is a Sugar Daddy?" So, I thought that I would take a few minutes to share some information with you ladies regarding what a real, true and most genuine sugar daddy really is because there are men out there posing to be sugar daddies that fell into a pile of crap a mile deep with their bullshit and they are out there trying to suck you in. These men are the scammers or those who only 'think' they are the real deal. They want to impress their macho guy friends and they want to feel superior. They take away from what the true sugar daddy meaning is. The urban dictionary states that a Sugar Daddy or (SD) for short is this; Older males are in their money making prime and young women are in their money needing prime and beauty prime. These three primes often converge creating the secret underground "older man being financially generous to beautiful younger woman" situation. I've been in business long enough and written a handful of blog articles on what the real deal is nonetheless, the scammers and fakes are still floating around making it an inconvenience for those men who are the gems and who deserve praise. Don't think for minute that you have to live in a big city to find a SD/SB. They are walking amongst us day in and day out. Sugar daddying young women is generally seen by many as "immoral behavior" but most believe that the origins of that taboo has more to do with society's hatred for "older men/young women" couples than money itself (a hatred likely invented by older women and indoctrinated into us via the mothering process). What are my thoughts? That's hogwash. It's no different than dating, only you do this discretely and for a variety of reasons. I'm writing this article only to point out facts, and nothing more. Seeing the do's and don'ts and the why's and why not's more clearly helps others to understand why so many people seek this type of relationship. Because of the disrespectful ways, and the somewhat taboo nature of sugar daddying or having a sugar daddy, most of these types of relationships are top secret and hush hush. You won't usually know that that 22 year old woman has a secret 55 year old sugar daddy who earns anywhere from $80,000-$1,000,000 annually and provides for her as if she were his wife. In all honesty, the age of women that men are seeking varies. Some want a woman that still has a good shape and is intelligent that are closer in age to them rather than a young bubbly gal that can't offer the same. Maturity plays a key role. Will she fit in at a black tie affair or will she stand out like a sore thumb? There are a lot of single men that go on these sites in particular because they don't want to deal with all the hoopla of women and control freaks. Many SDs are married and very unhappy, and they will tell you that it's cheaper to keep'er than to divorce, so what better way to stay married and take on a side affair or NSA as we call it other than to find himself a true Sugar Baby- a women to be at his beck and call a few times a month to go to black tie affairs with, sporting events, company parties, or on business trips, etc. Most men like to show up with a beautiful woman on his arm, but look closely for the right woman, and make sure that she is  truthful and has a paper trail of who she says she really is. If you get her name and Google her and nothing comes up, drop her like a hot potato. Keep in mind fellas, there are scammers and many, many fakes who call themselves sugar babies too. You can usually spot them a mile away. Not all women are scammers, some just are not smart and have no clue really what a real SD/SB relationship is other than what they watched on the Jerry Springer show. The fake/scammer SB? They generally ask for money upfront, for their rent, or bills, they tell you that someone is dying, needs surgery to be paid immediately because they don't want to get off their ass and work like the rest of us women do, and they will place fake photos to lure you in and suck you up. These women really aren't the ripest apples on the tree. Look at their bio and watch the spelling of their words. My guess is most of them can't spell or form complete sentences. These woman are not worth your time of day so if you are not careful, you'll be sending money western union in no time flat and waiting at an airport for no one to ever arrive. A Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship is a NSA relationship most often and one that must be discrete, however, there are many men and women on these sites looking for so much more than a bi-weekly fantasy. Some people are searching for that needle in the haystack that they can't seem to find elsewhere, and truthfully, I see nothing wrong with that what so ever. If you are lucky enough or fortunate enough to find such a reliable, genuine woman or man, hang on to them, for they are like a hidden treasure found way below the surface. A real sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship can last a few months or several years going undetected to those people closest around them. Generally neither of the two want it to get out or there will be a lot of talking smack. Why? I have no idea, it is what it is. It's no different than dating or having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship except for the fact that you lay all of your cards on the table upfront and set boundaries. Generally the SD/SB is take care of financially quite well. A true SD in my professional opinion and because I know several of these men as they are clients of mine and buy lingerie and adult novelties for their babies. These true SDs never have to ask their SB what she wants or needs, they just do it. They doa variety of things in no special order, but they do these nicce gestures for the woman because he wants to not ever because he feels that he 'has to.' He is confident and wants his lady to feel the same. he wants her to be stress-free and happy because in turn, it makes/keeps him happy. They may pay her bills, or give her an allowance, pay their rent, provide them with a car, send them on trips, pay for education, or just pamper the hell out of the. Oh do they love to spoil them rotten! You see, generally, with this particular type of man, the woman never has to ask, they just do, no ifs, ands or buts about it. These are the real SDs. The fake ones or cheap SOBs as I like to call them are the ones that want to split a meal, split the check, and they are those that state they are worth a fortune but ask you to upgrade your free membership so that you can email. Seriously? This should be a BIG RED FLAG! These are the fellas that do whatever they can to get out of paying hotel or airfare for you to visit. Oh they'll ask you to pay and tell you that they will reimburse you when you arrive...ladies, don't fall for this. If they want to see you, they'll make every arrangement to do so, and distance will be no issue. Some men won't last the duration because they will come to ther own conclusions that you are way too high maintenance. Guess what chump? Being a SB is a high maintenance job so suck it up. If he is a true SD, then money won't matter and he will want his SB to be high maintenance to a certain degree. Let's get back to the 'distance'; If they say it is too far to go, there are two reason why. 1) they are married and can't go far from the home-front because it will raise speculation, or 2) they are CHEAP and don't want to pay for you to visit or for them to fly in to see you.Some say you are too far away and wish you luck. Here is my summary; Distance is a mere measurement between Point A and Point B. If you are worth seeing he will do everything in his power to make it happen. End of discussion.  How to Spot a REAL SD?   Tiffany & Co., Jimmy Choo, Dior, Chanel, Prada, Louis Vuitton, Burberry, Christian Louboutin...(just to name a few) Enough said.... Need more? Intellectual stimulation and physical attraction in one!  Finally you find someone who appreciates your beauty and vitality. Rainy-day fund? Try rainy-day daddy! Oysters and caviar. Martinis and fine wine...Quite often. Yes, finally, a man who knows his wines.“Experience” is a beautiful thing. There’s never been a sexier way to see the world.“Sugar” daddies are “sweet” by nature. Sooo, in closing, please know that there are many, many good things about a SD/SB relationships. Do your homework. Looking for the good sites? I www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com is an affiliate for www.SugarDaddyForMe.com. Please join it on my website as my company is an affiliate of theirs. You can also find it at the bottom of this blog page where you will be prompted to sign up for a free membership on a trial basis to see if you like it or if it will work for you. I highly recommend this site, but just because I recommend it does not mean that you don't have to be careful of who you entertain, or connect with. Remember, there are great stories that have come from two people meeting on sites just like this and I can assure you that my sources are happy. Nevertheless, let's not totally sugar coat this and make it look like it's all a bed of roses...it can go sour, and it will end. These relationships are not meant to see the happy ever after. (some do, but not many, there there are some occasions where it does.) Be prepared for this and save so that you can move on at that time. 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