What is a Diva?

What is a DIVA?

diva	definition:
	a bitchy man/woman that must have his/her way exactly, or no way at all. Often rude and belittles people, believes that everyone is beneath his/her and thinks that he/she is so much more loved than what he/she really is. selfish, spoiled, and overly dramatic.

Divas can be fun to watch but oh so difficult to date, and if you have dated one in the past you know exactly what I'm talking about. Regardless of how hot high maintenance women/men look, dealing with them is not worth the pain they cause. So what is the difference between being very picky about what’s around you and being impossibly high maintenance? This questionable quality looks slightly different in men than in women. High Maintenance Women are perfectly beautiful, stylish and almost too good to be real. The problem is, they’re like cartoon character versions of themselves - bigger than life and very two-dimensional. Does this possibly sound like anyone you might know?

The world of a high maintenance person only has room for himself/herself and people who cater to them. They are rude to servers, demeaning to clerks and superior to most other humans occupying their planet. Let's face it, they're just a bitch in general, and they probably won't change anytime soon...so if you think that it will happen, you are truly only fooling yourself! It's like a game to them....They will act the same way toward her guy until he bristles, then she pulls back just enough to keep him happy enough to spend more money on her. Check to see if you fit this description and if you do, try to rein in your diva-like behaviors.

Ok, so if you are intrigued by this and you think that only women can be divas oh have I got news for you...Did you know that there are High Maintenance Men, too! These guys can be just as picky about their style and looks as any female. They make a big deal about their newest clothes, shoes, and stylish fashions. If they participate in a sport, they have absolutely every type of gear and it comes in designer labels. High Maintenance Men can be obsessive about their cars, which are either hyper-luxurious or fast and sporty.

Don’t even think about drinking a latte inside his car. His home is just as picture perfect, thanks to daily maid service. Whether male or female, high maintenance people share some characteristic in common:

• Impatience with anyone who does not instantly respond to his or her demands
• Insistence on always being right, regardless of the subject
• Never accepts less than what they feel is owed to them
• Overly preoccupied with other’s opinions of them
• Humor that’s poorly disguised sarcasm designed to cut others down
• Constantly talking about themselves and their importance
• Never gives a sincere compliment to others
• Never wrong

If this sounds the guy/gal you’re dating, then get ready to meet his every need because they only meet your needs to the extent that it makes them look good. It's not all about you silly, it's all about them.Great word of advice,... never make someone a priority if they only see you as an option. Think you are a diva? Newsflash...You are no goddess, you are not all that and a bag of chips....come back down to reality, get off your high horse, and just be you!

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