Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is still most definitely a mysterious illness. Ever heard of it? Probably not, but if you have the symptoms, you just may have it and not even know it. This is a more tricky disease actually. The medical community is unable to pinpoint a single cause. It can appear gradually - slowly sapping your strength or it can appear suddenly - turning your world upside down. Then - at times - it disappears just as suddenly.You are left wondering - “What did I do to deserve this?” Maybe you start to question various aspects of your life that make you feel guilty for having succumbed to the illness. Perhaps all of your efforts to get better keep ending in a road block. Eventually you feel like you have become a burden to those closest to you - unable to handle even some of the smallest tasks or to even get up out of bed. Is this for real? You bet it is. When are you going to feel like yourself again? You ask yourself over and over,..."what is wrong with me?"
To complicate issues, it is a disease that seems almost invisible. You may appear 'normal' on the outside - you just aren't the same on the inside. Friends, relatives and work associates may have trouble understanding what you are going through,..why? They have no idea what it is that you are experiencing, but then again, neither do you in all honesty. You may feel that deep down some are thinking that you're just making it up and this hurts your feelings.
So, how then do you cope with all of these emotions - in addition to - this debilitating fatigue and a host of other physical aches and pains? Well, you begin by understanding that contracting an illness such as CFS is not a matter of fault. Unfortunately, it just happens. And it can happen to anyone. You are still you, but know that you are loved. The thing is, now it is you that is faced with a big challenge. What resources are available to you to first of all cope and then triumph over this condition? The first step is to arm yourself with as much knowledge of this disease as you can. You will also need to consult with a doctor who can run the necessary tests that first of all eliminate the possibility of any serious underlying health issue that may be the cause of your symptoms.
Seek out other CFS sufferers - whether in your own community - or on the worldwide web. You need to know that you are not alone. And others can offer some very simple and practical solutions to help you gain some measure of control over your situation. It may be difficult to talk to others at first, but please try. To let them know what you are going through. But open communication can help pave the way for additional needed assistance. It may be difficult for you to even admit that you need help - but this is actually an essential method of gathering control of a situation that may at first appear hopeless to you.
If you have someone in your life that is acting as a primary caregiver it is also vitally important that you discuss freely with one another the different emotions that you are experiencing. Some of this may be hard to get through but it is much better than letting it build up to the point that it affects the health of you both and inhibits you even more from getting better. Excessive emotional strain can work against getting better.So remember to keep open to the knowledge that is out there and stay close to the people who care for you. Hang in there...
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