12 Tips to Keep Your Relationship Uncomplicated

From across the room, you notice him noticing you…then there is the eye contact that leads to a smile. You have a brief moment to retaliate because you've already caught his eye. Saying hello could be the beginning of something really good so open your mouth and say it. This could be the threshold of a fantastic relationship that will grown over time, but you have to work hard at it to keep it. So here comes the anticipation… this leads to you wanting to see him/her more which leads to more dates and more excitement. The intrigue is there for you and you'll be wanting to see this person more and more as the time passes. Your sweet dates at the coffee shop or a nice dinner out move to dinner at his/her place and then next thing you know your drinking wine in his jacuzzi tub while he smokes his cigar starring into your eyes telling you how pretty you look.

Some people jump into relationships hoping that something will become of it and often that just doesn't happen, nonetheless, there are those people that are so fortunate enough to have met that one person that makes them smile and who leaves them longing for so much more. You can't fake this, so don't try. You either have it or you don't. Couples need affection and love. Massages, holding hands or hugging your partner shows him/her that you care. Affection is a necessity. It may not seem all that essential for the man but a women needs this sense of security and to feel wanted.

Relationships take weeks, months or even years to form and to grow and can take only minutes to shatter so do everything that you can to keep the energy moving in a positive effort. It takes two to make a great relationship. I've said it so many times and I continue to say that communication is key and if you can't communicate with your partner you are failing my friend. Find ways to show them that you genuinely care. Whether you choose a romantic evening with your bed covered in rose petals or a sexy piece of lingerie to wear while serving him dessert, crank up the heat, it's up to you to set the mood and the tone.

Relationships on the other hand can be quite vulnerable. You see, life is really simple, we just insist on making it complicated. We all make mistakes in relationships that we criticize ourselves for. Relationships are not meant to be complicated.


12 TIPS to keep your relationship uncomplicated… so that you can focus on the two of you and more romance:

1) Accept and embrace your flaws. We all have them, so accept that no one is perfect.

2) Stop comparing. Do not never ever compare your mate to any one else.

3) Let your partner be who they are. No need to camouflage your mate, don't try to change them. It won't work!

4) Don't be insensitive for heaven sakes…show them that you are listening and that you care.

5) Start showing your love this person. Show them affection, and that doesn't just mean sex when you go to bed. Touching is something that we all need and it is so easy to do. Rub their neck, kiss their cheek, hold their hand on the couch while watching a movie, or put your arm around them.

6) Say the words "I love you" to him/her. You ponder, are these words powerful? YES so why is it that a lot of men/women get them stuck in their throat trying to say them? If you love her, then tell her.

7) Don't judge your mate. They aren't your ex husband, or ex-wife, or your ex partner…they are themselves and you should adore them for their own quarks and qualities.

8) Stop examining the outer beauty and concentrate on their inner beauty. No woman likes to see her man starring at her tummy as if he is embarrassed of it, accept her beauty for what it is or find someone perfect…oh and good luck with that!

9) Let mistakes slide. What do I mean by this? Couples make mistakes, so learn to forgive the other person. Let the little things slide, we all make mistakes. We all get aggravated, but at the end of the day this is the person that will always have your back…and that is a good person to have in your corner.

10) STOP letting your high expectations of what you want out of a relationship get in the way of what you need. Every one deserves good things in life…so if you are with someone that is a Debbie Downer, this is dead weight and it very well could be a time to consider leaving this relationship. We need to be built up by positive people not brought down all the time by negative people. Surround yourself with positive people!

11) Stop saying YES when you want to say NO. You aren't always going to agree with one another on everything so voice your opinion even if it means not being the answer that they wanted to hear. This all happens with good communication. You have to tell your mate how you feel, or don't feel.

12) STOP making it ALL ABOUT YOU! You aren't the only person on this each that is having a bad day, or a bad life. Work might suck, life might suck, but suck it up. Your life isn't going to fall to pieces, and if it does, chances are you caused it, so don't drag your mate into your life of drama. You are in a relationship with someone so make it about the both of you.

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At Simply Delicious Lingerie we offer an eclectic taste of sexy lingerie and women’s intimates. Browse our online store where you will find a collection of lingerie in a lineup of colors fabrics and styles that will highlight every curvature of your torso. Our categories of sexy unmentionables include; adult lifestyles lingerie, adult travel lingerie, adult vacation lingerie, babydoll lingerie, bridal lingerie, bustiers, chemises, erotic corsets, full figure lingerie, garter sets, honeymoon lingerie, plus size lingerie, role-play costumes, sexy matching sets, teddies, wedding day lingerie, women’s intimate sets, and sexy undergarments.

A Dozen Reason to Wear Black Lingerie

There are a dozen reasons why women love wearing lingerie and there are probably a dozen reasons or more as to why men love to take it off. What colors make a woman feel sensual? What color is it that men adore on women? There are 3 most loved lingerie colors and of the three, black is at the top of that list. It screams sexy. It is sassy, sensual and oh so sophisticated.

There are those who believe that black is a color of mourning, nevertheless I beg to differ. A woman wears black for several reasons; it boosts confidence and it's dominating. Black lingerie is universal. Black lingerie is the largest volume seller of underthings and is sold in a conglomeration of varieties including; the babydoll, cami set, chemise, corset, garter set, sexy matching set, or teddy.

There are those who condemn black lingerie stating that you don't buy it unless you want someone to see it. Again, I disagree. Some argue that women wearing black are predators luring men in. These were women that were controlling and who felt empowered or so it was said. Were these women on the prowl or were they women who just felt good slipping into their underthings knowing that their curves were delicately hugged?

In the 1940s black and white created a desirable impact against fair or pale skin. They were colors that every woman wore, yet they seemed to be frowned upon. According to Dior, black was the new chic and elegant in the 1950s. Black undergarments began to make a comeback as they were worn by Audrey, Bette and Joan. Black represented a new demeanor and along with the sexy black undergarments came the little black dress. Sexy is simply delicious and women want simple. They wanted it then and they still want it today. The modern day gal does not have hours to get dolled up to go out. She steps out of the shower and slips into comfort. Her 'cup of tea' is her black lingerie. She embraces it because it makes her feel superb and it looks fabulous on her. Flash forward to 2014, black is still a symbol of sex appeal.

Every woman should have black lingerie in her wardrobe. Her lingerie drawers should consist of alluring, enchanting and intoxicating black lingerie amongst their other favorite colors. When a woman wants to kick it up a notch, we recommend that she slips into her favorite black piece. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are making changes to our lineup and later this fall our sexy online boutique will consist of undergarments that a woman who is a size small or a 4X can step into. Beauty is not a size. Beauty is confidence both inside and out. Wear it with charm, class and style. Embrace it as it wraps you up in a sense of sensuality. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are your everyday SEXY!

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At Simply Delicious Lingerie we offer an eclectic taste of sexy lingerie and women’s intimates. Browse our online store where you will find a collection of lingerie in a lineup of colors fabrics and styles that will highlight every curvature of your torso. Our categories of sexy unmentionables include; adult lifestyles lingerie, adult travel lingerie, adult vacation lingerie, babydoll lingerie, bridal lingerie, bustiers, chemises, erotic corsets, full figure lingerie, garter sets, honeymoon lingerie, plus size lingerie, role-play costumes, sexy matching sets, teddies, wedding day lingerie, women’s intimate sets, and sexy undergarments.

Stockings…Why Every Man Loves Them, and Why Every Woman Should Own Them

There is something to be said about the little things in life that makes us happy. For instance, ask any man what one article of clothing or accessory he would choose for his lady to wear and my guess would be stockings. They are sheer, sensual and super sexy. As versatile as stockings are they are also timeless.The best thing is that they don't cost a lot and they are simple, yet elegant and sophisticated. Stockings are subtle indeed, nonetheless provocative…especially when a man watches his lady put them on. What turns him on even more? Taking them off her. As he gently rolls them down using both hands gliding them from her thigh to her ankle, he desires her and fantasizes about her. Stockings are eye candy to men so why not feed them something sweet?

Growing up, I watched my mother put stockings on every day with her high heels, not just on special occasions. She wore them under her dress or house coat. I grew up seeing stockings and garters hung to dry in our bathroom in a variety of textures and styles. Little did I know that years later I would have grown so fond to these intimate pieces, nor did I know how they would change my life and my career path. 

Let me give you a brief history of the stocking and how it transpired. Stockings first came about in the 1930s a company named DuPont launched the first fully synthetic fiber derived from rayon. Making its first debut in San Francisco and then later on in New York at the World's Fair, and later nylon, also known as the 'wonder fiber' played a big role in the trendy social events. These came into play just at the time that the hemline seemed to be getting higher and higher. Little did we know that from this stockings would become something common in nearly every household. Things surely improved over the years. The garter belt appeared in the 1950s and now rather than the straps being fastened or secured to a corset, stockings could now be attached to a less burdensome item of undergarment. There are a variety ways that these are played out today by women of the world and they are nevertheless hands down an icon of sensual desire. 

Today, women around the globe are wearing stockings. Every woman should have at least one pair in her lingerie drawer. Stockings are the accessory to any outfit. They can take a normal drab outfit and accentuate it quite nicely. Stockings are the icing on the cake. In an array of colors, sizes, styles there are a variety to choose from. Black is the most popular color choice of stockings followed by white worn by most every bride on her wedding day.

Whether you choose something nylon, sheer, or silk, we sell a variety of stockings including fishnets, body stockings and pantyhose. Our  online boutique where we showcase sexy stockings for women at a fabulous price so be sure to check us out @ Simply Delicious Lingerie or for the plus size lady @ Simply Luscious Lingerie.

Who Doesn't Want Free Lingerie?

Nothing says "BUY ME" more to a woman than to hear the words of someone else who purchased the item(s) that you are looking at and hearing them explain why it is such a great buy. We often wonder how it fits; what does OS (one size fits most) actually cover weight wise? Do these sexy underthings runs too small or too large, is the color accurate, what type of fabric is it made of, and how is the quality of the intimate apparel?

When we choose our designers we seek out professionals that make great lingerie that appeases our customers taste. We hunt for those pieces that are alluring, enchanting and oh-so intriguing to the eye, but we don't need to tell you how sexy our women's intimate apparel is.

Here is your chance to give our company a thumbs up! We are offering FREE LINGERIE yes, FREE UNDERGARMENTS to women or men whom are customers of ours and send us a video testimonial (no longer than 1 minute long) expressing themselves as to why they love their lingerie and why they would recommend it to other consumers. You do not need to be wearing it unless you choose to, nonetheless you will need to showcase it in your video.

This will be posted on our company website so please, keep it clean. Feel free to get creative! Our staff will choose the video clips and in return we will ask you for your selection of a lingerie piece. Please email your video and information to the owner directly: Michele@SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

While lingerie is quite stunning, it's much better to read reviews before you buy it. We want you to be certain of what you choose before you purchase it. Seeing it on a display rack or having someone hold it up for you to view it is not the same as listening to someone describe how it hugs your curves and flatters your figure. Thank you in advance for your cooperation and we look forward to getting your testimonials for Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie so that we can send you your favorite free piece of women's intimate apparel.

The Corset: Should Underwear Become Outerwear?

Let's talk corsets, shall we? Wearing a corset as outerwear is something that is definitely trendy these days. Sales are sky-rocketing and women are feeling quite sexy in them.  For decades it was the piece that captivated the voluptuous contour of women. They've been around for a long time and you will hear good and bad reviews on them, on the other hand, it depends on who is doing the squawking, nonetheless, they are appealing to the eye, intriguing and quite sensual, so who cares if they cause pain right?

Let's face it, the corset is sexy but before you slip into it, know that it is not exactly the piece you want to wear if you are going to have to be in it for hours on end. You also might not choose it if you have a romantic evening planned with your mate. Why? Some of them take forever to get out of and some you might feel would need instructions to take off. Men cannot wrap their fingers around small clasps and such to remove them delicately. The corset contains hooks, and clasps, ties and gadgets, strings and straps that many men cannot fathom thus making the whole foreplay idea unreasonable.

Corsets have become the new sexy outerwear. Women dote over them and sales couldn't be better. Depending on if she is wearing it safely and mostly for fashion, the corset hugs her delicate figure and flaunts her curves. It will truly accentuate her hips and definitely make her bust look larger, but be prepared to pay the price of discomfort ladies. When worn underneath regular clothes they appear to give a woman more shape. They sure are not easy to get into as you'll need someone to tighten the straps and they are no walk in the park to get out of, nonetheless, women adore them. They are worn a lot in burlesque and brides choose to wear them under their wedding gowns on their special day. Wear it out to the clubs with your friends with jeans!

Some people think that women are going overboard wearing their skivvies as outwear. Some women walk around in bras so why the hype about corsets? If worn properly, you can look like a million bucks wearing a corset which happens to be quite flattering, so why not get a little sassy? It's certainly not new, Madonna has been doing it for years and she is after all the material girl cherished by many and if she can pull it off so can you, but do accessorize to dress it up a bit. Remember, keep it simple. A necklace to add attention to the neckline is perfect!

The corset is a popular piece and nowadays women wear it as outerwear. My advice would be to team the corset with a high waisted pair of pants or slacks. You don't want it to look like a separate, rather a jump suit. Don't feel like exposing the arms and shoulders? Throw on a cardigan or a wrap. This adds the feminine touch for sure and exposes a provocative look. Wear it with shorts for a titillating look. Keeping it simple is how this piece is worn best, so keep it clean. If you'd really like to make the look pop, ear it with a sexy pencil skirt for that certain eye-popping look. It's not about baring it all. Show some skin maybe through the frontal view but certainly not a lot.  One of the best ways to wear it is under a jacket or blazer. Remember, your goal is to keep it classy, not trashy. Visit our store Simply Delicious Lingerie for discounted sexy corsets.

Plus Size Discount Lingerie

Are you paying too much for your lingerie? All women love shopping and who doesn't love getting merchandise at a low cost? At Simply Luscious Lingerie we offer you plus size women's intimates at prices that you can't beat. We hand select our merchandise with each and every woman in mind. Our niche is simple. We cater to YOU! We take into consideration your size, shape, weight and taste in underthings. Our goals are now and always have been to assist women and support them with their decisions that they make in their selections of undergarments. 

With so many lingerie stores to choose from we had to make our store somewhat different allowing you, the guest shopper to find exactly what you were looking for at a price that wouldn't break your bank. With the numerous customers that we have and the surveys that we send our costumers offering them free lingerie when they give us feedback, it enables us to pinpoint how to better serve you. 

Confidence is key for women and we all want you to feel sexy. While we have no doubt that you will be able to find several pieces that will hug your curves just so, keep in mind that with each and every purchase, we send you a  free pair of stockings selected by our staff to accentuate your underthings. Free stockings are just one thing that we do for our valued customers. We off $1.99 lingerie when you spend $50 or more. We also offer a free stockings with each purchase, do other lingerie stores offer you this?

 If you haven't joined and still want to become a part of our fabulous curvaceous family at Simply Luscious Lingerie what are you waiting for? You're missing out on super discounted sexy plus size women's intimate apparel. As lingerie specialists we target your wants and we accommodate your needs with luscious plus size lingerie including; adult travel lingerie, adult theme party lingerie, bridal, honeymoon and wedding lingerie, sexy corsets sexy babydolls, sexy chemises, sexy teddies, women's sexy matching sets, sexy leg wear, sexy undergarments, sexy role-play costumes, plus size vacation clothes and vacation lingerie.

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Best Loved Lingerie

At Simply Delicious Lingerie, we take great pride in our merchandise and we listen to our customers when they ask for particular products. We believe that our services are the niche in women's intimate apparel because we cater to you. We don't sell what you think you might like,we sell what you ask us to sell at discount prices that accommodate your every day budget. Our designers are hand selected as is the merchandise in our store. Our products are top notch and represent the 3 S's; Sassy, Sensual, Sexy. Our sizes vary and run from OS-4X and we have an array of colors and styles.

We offer treasures that hug your curves. Our selection will make you feel confident and look sexy. On the contrary to what most people think, you don't have to pay an arm and a leg for sexy lingerie. So what do men like? Men like for women to keep it simple. What do I mean by this? A man loves to admire a sexy women in lingerie. He likes to undress her with his eyes and in his mind before the lingerie ever comes off. He has a visual so to speak of how he would like for it to come into play. A man wants a women to look intoxicating and intriguing nevertheless he wants her to feel comfy in her own skin. Men love 2 things; foreplay and role-play. Whether your desire is to dominate the bedroom or just be playful, our role-play and fantasy costumes are a popular choice for both men and women.

Sexy Lingerie was meant to flow evenly with your body. Don't wear lingerie that is too small for you or too tight. Nothing kills the mood quicker than trying to get a woman out of her intimate apparel when there are a gazillion clasps, hooks, snaps or strings. Know your size, nothing is worse than trying to slither into an undergarment that is three times too small. Keep in mind that if it is difficult for you to put on or remove, chances are he will never make it through this obstacle.You don't want him getting flustered trying to remove it if it is too difficult to untie or unbuckle either. A man fumbling to get you out of your underthings is not good because he would much rather prefer using that time for foreplay! As for you ladies, you want your selected piece of lingerie to fit right. You don't want to be picking, pulling or scratching at it. If it feels uncomfortable, it is going to be uncomfortable for sure, especially if worn for a lengthy time! Don't wear lingerie that makes you feel anything but confident. If you don't want all of your curves to show, might I suggest a few?

First, consider the babydoll? These are also known as nightgowns or negligees and are intended for nightwear. They are shorter and have an empire waist for loose fit and thin straps.  This particular piece happens to be described as highly eroticism in adult intimate apparel. The baby-doll is generally worn with matching thong, g-string or panties.

Second; the chemise. The chemise is a modern day smock. Chemise, derived from the french word shirt, is a very simple undergarment worn closely to the skin to protect her body from sweat and oils. It is delicate, sleeveless and can be oh-so revealing. This piece hugs your curves and adheres to your body outlining each and every groove. It's a piece of heaven that every woman should own.

Visit our online lingerie boutique and shop from out selection of hundreds of pieces of women's sexy intimates, shoes, stockings, sexy costumes and accessories. Sexy Lingerie at sexy prices! We are your everyday sexy and we are the best loved lingerie boutique online.

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Relationship Blues…Where Did ALL of the AFFECTION, FOREPLAY and SEX GO?

My relationship was great until I moved in with him…then the affection and sex pretty much stopped. Does this sound familiar? For many it is a very touchy subject even so, one that needs addressed. In many relationships public affection, kissing, holding hands are common and many women would say that this is not the problem in their relationship, nonetheless some men just don't know how to show affection, or at least not the way a woman would like him to. As for the foreplay and sex, sometimes it only occurs when alcohol is involved and that is usually because your man is relaxed and it comes more easily. Is this normal, that's my question? Sure it's great to have them feeling like the sensual king or queen but you can't get them drunk every night for them to show you some love and express themselves. I believe that sex is like that of a great energy and it needs to be suppressed.  So what is the relevance?

They say that everyone wants that certain level of comfort in their relationship and that includes openness, closeness and physical intimacy. Its in our biological nature to feel that urge for some sort of intimacy. The percentage of couples that can pull off a healthy relationship without any kind of intimacy or affection is quite rare nevertheless it can happen and in these cases it is usually when their upbringing was the same as their now actions. Perhaps their parents did not have a physical relationship and that's the way your partner believes it should be? Sometimes becoming parents causes changes in the depths/levels of intimacy issues. Where you want to be a good parent, you still have to be a lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, mate or partner to one another. hey, I am not a professional but physical intimacy is like the glue of a relationship.

We all dream of eternal love. We want to believe that we've found the right person and that this man/woman is our everything. At this point, they have already won your affection. Some might say that it is natural for sex to die in a relationship because it is a simple way of affection. What about if he/she spend less and less time with their partner? Maybe they go to the gym more, stay at work later, begins attending more happy hours with the staff, more trips to the spa/salon, golfs 5 days/nights out of the week or believes spending time with the boys at the cigar shop is his time and a necessity because it relieves stress? What about your time and your level of stress that your portion of this relationship has endured? What happened to cooking for you, taking you out to dinner or going on a date? Is he falling asleep in a chair 30 minutes after you begin to spend 'us' time together? Has this too diminished and now you find yourself sitting at home by yourself more and more?

In all sincerity, really, how much can one person go with abstinence before they want to jump out of their skin and throw their hands up in disbelief? It leads many people that are used to having strong sexual relationships from previous partners to take a few steps backward and ponder the thoughts now asking themselves "is it me, does he/she not care anymore, or worse, is he/she seeing/sleeping with someone else? It is unbelievable to think that any couple can live on the 'love of one another' alone with no sexual relationship or level of intimacy.

Sex is needed for the existence of any good relationship. I don't think that is really up for discussion. Keep in mind that as women go through forms of menopause, guys middle age also go through something similar called manopause. It causes changes in a mans testosterone levels and they can have less of a sex drive. So, when your mate just cuts you off and rolls over every night making you feel like you have the plague, or pretends like he is sleeping or has a migraine, what do you do? Try to understand, and give him space. He may not get what is happening to him so how are you supposed to even begin to understand what is happening if you are beside yourself from his/her actions? The flip side is that your mate can be falling out of love. Perhaps  they just so accustom to you being around that the desire and mad need for that somewhat kinky 'knock down drag out dirty fun sex' is just no longer necessary because they've already won you and feel that love is enough?

Disappointment, hurt or simply taking one another for granted are the three major reasons why we feel less in a relationship over time. Finances and money issues are a HUGE downer for any relationship as well. Some men/women feel that they need to be making 'x' amount of dollars to maintain a healthy relationship and the need for the fancy cars, big houses, etc become more relevant in their mind. Those things are like their trophies so to speak, whereas myself personally, love is all I'd need and I'd move into a shack if it meant a happier healthier bond. Money makes a man feel superior. He holds himself high upon a pedestal and to others so if things are not going well for him financially, his entire way of living can change and that includes his affection for you.

If you feel that your relationship is lacking the glamour and luster that it once had, if you are a lover and a fighter and stand by your man/woman you may have to begin taking steps backward. Go back to the earlier days when your relationship began and reconstruct it. Trust and communication are key here folks. You either have it or you don't.

Its time to get out of the relationship blues! Add some spark again! If you relationship is worth saving and you are in love but you forgot how to show it…Start dating your honey again, and do romantic things for your partner. Love my friends does not cost a thing! Cook them dinner, give them a massage, draw their bath for them. Go back to the happy days when your relationship was new and less stressful. Grow together again in a physical and intimate way. Do something fun, playful and maybe even a bit risqué. Buy something sexy. Lingerie catches any mans eye if the right piece is worn. It will turn his head and give his libido a boost. Perhaps it is time to show him eye candy? Sexy lingerie such as role play costumes or bedroom or fantasy costumes are playful.

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Sunbathing…Beauty or the Beast?

Back in the day when I was in my teens in the 1970s, laying out in the sun all day and frying your skin like a french fry was cool, or so we thought. Girls wanted additional color, for if we had it we'd look prettier. As an Irish gal who had skin that burned quite easily, I was envious of my friends that were Italian that browned quickly showing no red or pink skin. I wanted to look like them and the super models in magazines that were thin and tan, who had men flocking all around them. Spending the day in the heat and in the blazing sun seemed harmless, but oh if I had only listened to my grandmother who preached to me that the suns rays were harmful. She told me that if I wanted to look 60 when I was a 40 to just keep laying out there where I would have leather like skin later in life. She said that freckles were beautiful and fair skin without blemishes were far better than basking in the sun and being in pain for a few days due to the sunburn, not to mention having lizard-like skin. She said to listen to her and that some day I would thank her for the advice. I only wish she were here to thank now. As an adult I now know far more than I did then.

We had a pool growing up and I tried everything to get color. Tanning oils were too expensive so we took moms sticks of butter and cooking oil from the pantry and coated out skin with these. You might have well basted us like a turkey and put us in the oven because the sun baked us within hours. We were young and naive and not well educated about UV rays and harmful issues that the sun could cause. 20+ years later my life changed…I learned after going to the dermatologist that those old burn days along with genetic traits had finally caught up with me. I learned that the sun which I saw as beauty had become my worst enemy, now the beast.

I had a biopsy and I was diagnosed with basal cell skin cancer in my mid 30s.  After routine checkups and biopsies it returned again, and again. For the next 2-7 years it kept coming back and I would have to repeat surgery. It was later that I was diagnosed with melanoma. My 4th surgery was my last. I had MOHS surgery, also known as chemosurgery. This surgery is rated 77-98% depending on the surgeon. MOHS cure rate of 95% for frown sections of Mohs and 98-99% for fixed tissue Mohs Method. (which is what I ended up having.) I had a mole on my right abdominal wall that was removed and never got the biopsy results. My stomach area was also the burn zone for the sun. Seems my belly attracted something far more than sunshine.

I have been in remission now for 6 years, happy to be CANCER FREE and it has not come back. I go in for check ups regularly and since my mid 30s when I was first diagnosed with this disease, I am very careful and protective of the harmful suns rays that at one time I worshiped. To younger women reading this I say; PLEASE, keep your youthful beauty. Protect your skin, for your body is your house and it is the only one that you will ever have so guard it and keep it safe. Treat it well and it will protect you. If I only knew then what I know now…

Lounging around in the hot sun with a cool cocktail might seem pretty relaxing, especially if your are on the beach or at the pool, but oh can this be dangerous if you don't pay attention to what your body may be telling you. If you are going to be cocktailing on a hot day please try to avoid direct sunlight and drink water in between frequently. If you get too intoxicated by a pool or on the beach you will most likely fail to realize that your in the danger zone not only for sunburn rather dehydration or possible heat stroke. It doesn't have to be June, July or August when many of us celebrate the summer months. I love the sun, however, I've learned to protect my body better can cover areas that would commonly be exposed. I wear a sun hat and thank you Prada for protecting my eyes. The sun is out year round and it is waiting to make you its next victim. Take precautions!


                                       6 TIPS for SUN CARE:

1) Avoid the sun when their rays are at their most intense time (11am-4pm) The higher the sun in the sky, the more harmful the ultraviolet radiation will be.

2) Wear enveloping sunglasses with a high anti-UV factor. Wear a wide rimmed hat that is loose fitting, and if possible try to wear long sleeved t-shirts or bermuda shorts or pants.

3) Don't trust your impressions. Beware of those infrared rays…they can be deceitful. They are what makes your skin feel hot, not the UV rays so if your skin is tingling…get the hell out of the sun!

4) Opt for shaded area verse sun nonetheless remember, those rays can burn you even if it is cloudy or on an overcast day.

5) If you are on certain medications, they can cause you to burn twice as fast, so read the labels and talk to your doctor.

6) WEAR PROTECTIVE SUNSCREEN…WATERPROOF, SWEATPROOF, EVERYTHING PROOF! Remember that this is going to need to be reapplied every few hours. It's not like deodorant where it works for 24 hours at a time.

Some people only think that they can burn in the summer time and when the sun is bright and full. Listen, it does not have to be hot and humid to get sunburn. You have a 30% chance of getting burnt in the cold winter months out side shoveling snow just the same if the sun is out, so always protect your skin. You have an 80% chance of burning if you're in water, so even though you might think it is cool to sit in the hot tub on your deck in the middle of winter, protect your skin as it is reflected off the sun and water. Going white water rafting, kayaking or canoeing? Do you do yard work? Do you tinker in the garden? If the answer is YES..WEAR SUNSCREEN! Don't become a statistic!

Plus Size Lingerie; The How To's When It Comes to Making the Best Selection for YOU!

In this ever changing market of women's intimate apparel, the most overlooked subject might be plus size lingerie. For decades women and men have been buying intimate apparel for themselves or as gifts for their significant others nonetheless, it seems as though so many lingerie boutiques only carry certain sizes. Those generally are S,M, L, XL. Some lingerie boutiques say that they carry plus size lingerie…but they model it on women that weight 100 pounds. What is wrong with this? EVERYTHING! A plus size woman doesn't want to see lingerie on a woman who is as thin as a rail. In my personal opinion, plus size lingerie sells much better when it is modeled on a plus size woman.

I believe in building confidence in women and there is no other way to do so than to allow plus size women show off their curves and full figures with lingerie and role play costumes that fit them right and hug their curves just so. Since the early 1990s plus size women have been asking for more curvy intimates that made them feel desirable. I shopped at plus size store with my friends that are plus size and the intimate apparel was not sensual, or sexy and there was very little to choose from. By the early 2000's the percentage of plus size women was rising. In 2008 when I formatted my businesses, the plus size percentage of women was around 57%. 6 years later the plus size percentile is 64% and with their every changing market, my ideal thoughts were to find distributors that would not only sell me plus size women's lingerie but would model them on beautiful plus size women so that every plus size woman could get an accurate idea of what it might look like on her.

When selecting plus size lingerie be sure that you have your correct measurements. If you don't know them, grab a tape measure and use it. Nothing is worse than buying something and then slipping into it only to discover that it is not going to fit properly. Choosing the wrong size causes discomfort and can be painful especially if worn for too long of a period of time. I am all for your underthings fitting just right. You want them to hug your curves, not cut of your circulation! Also, choose the colors that bring out your positive attributes. Wear the colors that go well with your skin tone. Choose the fabrics that feel good against your skin. Not everyone likes the feel of a corset because it is quite snug and tight to your breasts, so if you are one of those women who do not, you wouldn't want to buy one of these. If you have bigger hips or wish to hide your tummy, I find that the babydoll lingerie is a great route to take as it has a beautiful flow that will hide what you wish not to be seen all while looking stylish in that one particular piece that you've selected. If your hourglass figure is tone, a teddy or chemise is the lingerie piece you may choose. Remember that whatever you decide to purchase, lingerie never looked better than worn with stockings, garters and high heels. This is the finishing touch just as is icing on a cake, these accessories will complete the ensemble.

There are a variety of reasons to shop for lingerie; bridal, honeymoon, and wedding have been the top 3, nevertheless, women also buy these underthings to take on adult vacations. We sell plus size adult travel lingerie in sizes 1X, 2X, 3X, 4X and occasionally a 5/6X. On an adult vacation or cruise there are often clothing optional or strictly nude vacations, however, when you get into your comfort zone and the privacy of your own room, you may want to turn up the heat and sex appeal. Everyone loves to see a nude woman, but most people prefer undressing her slowly as this is the best form of foreplay that leads to sex. If you seek kicking it up a notch and want something different than the regular 'every day lingerie' buy a role play costume for the bedroom. Most adult travel includes 'adult theme party' on their itinerary so make sure that you have sex lingerie or sexy costume to wear for the bash.

Visit us anytime at Simply Luscious Lingerie where you will find women's plus size intimate apparel marked down 40-90% off retail prices. In order to receive these low discount prices you have to be a member where you will receive free stockings with every order, $1.99 lingerie and so much more. Our selection can accommodate your every day intimate apparel needs.