Bad Boys and Why Women Love Them

 It’s an old cliché that women always go for bad guys. True or False? So true! This is very frustrating for the good guys who can see their friends and crushes dating these unsuitable men and treating them badly, and then coming home and moaning to the good guys who are secretly pining after them. The women themselves know that these guys are no good for them; why does this happen then?

Well there are actually several reasons. One of the most obvious reasons however is that bad guys are more exciting and as such are more alluring. By dating a ‘bad guy’ a woman gets to feel a bit bad herself. More to the point though, they often seem like more of a ‘challenge’ and who doesn't love a challenge?

For so long we've wondered, why do women love bad boys? They treat women like dirt, walk all over them generally and are arrogant, flamboyant and degrading at times. I asked someone once what she perceived a bad boy as and her answer was 'they are inconsiderate bits of human flesh and they think of nothing but what is beneficial to them and to them alone!' So then, tell me, how can women love bad boys when they don't give respect anything or anyone? What is there to love in a man who pays no attention to other's needs and feelings? Bad boys simply don't have the capacity to value anyone else but themselves.

Maybe, instead of pointing out the reasons why women should feel otherwise, we should dissect bad boys in a different light. What makes these men so lovable that they tend to leave nothing for the nice guys?

If you will think about it, their arrogance and cockiness are sometimes interpreted by women as confidence. There is something about the way they carry themselves that even though annoying to us, it's like a perfume they wear that lures the ladies around them. Like bees to a very sweet flower. We can all agree that confident men can be very elusive chick magnets.

There are those whom are selfishness, I'm talking very selfish... and being inconsiderate can be mistaken by blinded ladies as power and aggressiveness. Powerful men are like shiny diamonds to women. They have all the glamour and glitter, and they're generally very attractive and when they see someone as a person who is a go-getter, it adds up to the adrenaline rush. It is inevitable; women love shiny things - their eyes go to it like a magnetic force.

From what I've discovered, they seem to be good at something almost everybody loves to do...SEX. I think bad boys are also with the gift of giving pleasure to women whenever they feel like it. There's something in their touch that makes every brush a provider of burning sensations. This also sets their egos on fire and women want them even more so. This may be a myth but that is something quite difficult to prove.

The sad part here is that women tend to learn too late and in the end there are pieces to pick up after these men, the 'ball breakers' as I would tend to call them walk away freely and without worries of what craze they've caused in ones life. It takes a lot of hurting and embarrassing situations before they admit the fact that they were dead wrong. They had to feel so much pain first before they get to understand that these bad boys are the ones that need avoidance. You can be a great guy and actually have the traits of a bad boy without being really bad..but you can't have it both ways.

 Times have changed over the years but whether you are chasing today's image of a bad boy, you know the hot attractive stud that women are all gawking over, the man with the chip on his should and an ego the size of Montana....ladies, you are playing with fire. Think long and hard before preceding. Bad isn't good. Protect your feelings and proceed with caution. Our hearts and feelings are very fragile and we don't need someone toying with our emotions, so find a nice smart quiet guy that admires you for 'you' and get to know him. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache and you might even thank me later.

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