Men...What They Really Want in Relationships?

Just when you think that you've heard EVERY lame excuse that a man could us to try get to know you better,...they open their mouth and out pops a bunch of crap that you weren't expecting at all. Remember, I've heard it all and nothing generally surprises me, HOWEVER...what if a man told you that he wanted to get to know you, wanted to take you out to play 18 holes to see if you 'clicked' but told you that you had to dress ultra sexy? What if we women have to dress up for work or business day in and day out and prefer dressing down or just being themselves sometimes? Then what? God forbid we don't have all of our makeup on and we don't look like the goddess on his arm at the country club or where ever?!!?? Are they serious or are they just simply testing us to see if we would go the extra distance to look sexy 'just for them?'

I decided to dig more on topics related to men, and what it is that makes them tick. What do they really want from us? First at hand what that I wondered...and most women do; What motivates men?  What is it that men want?  In particular, what is it they want from women?  Did you know that Sigmund Freud tried to sort out men's desires by pointing to three divisions within the mind, the id, the ego, and the superego, all of which may want different things?  yes, but Freud seemed to believe that what really motivated men was the libido-- essentially, sexual desire. 

What I have learned over the years and after a lot of research is that this is a great mistake.  What men want, deep down, is not unlimited promiscuous sex but something rather different.  What men really want is to win the love of a princess (or of a girl who deserves to be a princess), to fight against great obstacles, to deliver her from dragons or a wicked witch of a stepmother or some other great danger, to marry her, and to live happily ever after. This is the universal fairy tale...oh but most often they don't want us to know that they feel this way....and here women thought that only we wanted the fairy tale? 

 Maybe he’s cocky, but he’s still insecure. Guys need to know that they’re respected and appreciated just like we do. When being around you increases a guy’s esteem, both internally and in the eyes of others, he’ll naturally want to be attached to you. What about Love? How do men feel about love and relationships?

What men want in relationships

Men crave unconditional love

When they screw up, boy do they know they screwed up. Sometimes it is hard for guys to admit that they’re wrong, but they are harder on themselves than anyone else would ever be. Unconditional love means that they have someone who will love them and be there for them in the best and the worst of times. When you have someone that loves you unconditionally, it is the greatest feeling in the world.

What men want in relationships

 Complete trust

Men want a woman they can trust no matter what, and they just want to be trusted in return. Nothing is more of a turn off than being accused of cheating or being questioned unreasonably about what took so long to get home. On the other hand, if a guy is unable to trust his girlfriend, he will quickly be looking to move on; worrying about whether their girlfriend can be trusted or not is time-consuming and stressful.

 men want 'man time' in relationships

 Adequate time & space to do what they want to do.

Guys need some time to be alone, as well as time to spend with his friends or hobbies. Keeping a man from doing the things that he loves is the best way to push him away. Of course, there needs to be some balance between the girlfriend and other friends; too much of anything is never a good thing. Simply put, men want to be able to have time with you and still be able to see their friends without feeling bad about it.

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You're My Obsession

Let's be honest.....How many times to do look at lingerie? How often do you wear it? Do you imagine if you had that one particular piece on..."would it satisfy my man?" "would it turn him on?" The answer is....YOU BET IT WOULD! Ladies, men are obsessed with women that take the time to go one step further to show off some sex appeal. When was the last time you crossed the line and just got provocative and sexy for a man? Longer than a month, or 6 months? If so....it's time to release some tension and tease a gentleman that has so long been waiting for you to drive him insane. As you're reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there's no future of its slowing down anytime soon. Simply Delicious Lingerie has you and all of your needs covered!

Why Do Women Wear Lingerie?

Before I get into why guys drool when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let's try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with.....1) we like to tease. 2) it gives us confidence, 3)  it totally drives a man crazy.

The Ultimate...Lead him to Temptation with Anticipation

Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. Duhhh....ladies, you should always wear some sexy panties and bra under your clothes, whether it be your business attire or wear around clothes...When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what's under her attire that's got her in a good mood. Never miss match your colors. Like a 5 year old trying to wear the right mix, use your "Garanimal" instincts. A man LOVES a women who takes the time to look sexy for herself because it makes her feel good, and kick starts her day....and the men adore it.  

Dressing Down...? Too Sexy

 Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, for to watch you prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what's going to happen once the lace and satin come off. Not quickly....take it off nice and slow....allowing him to fully savor every minute.Men love sexy which ever way you serve it.

Why are Guys all "Gung Ho" on Lingerie?

Some guys don't see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds or less, but others appreciate every thread on a woman's body. He wants to remember what you looked like,m how the light was hitting your face, whether it be from the lamp or candle light...he wants to visualize your image every time he closes his eyes there after...Lingerie need not be an acquired taste,...but it is one that once you get a piece of it, like a drug, you cannot do without it. They'll want to see you in it more, and more.

No Grannie Panties.....

It's hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, (says who?) Not really....if you think that it is you need to do some reevaluating sweetie.....Listen gals, lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. Don't you want to be the woman who other men talk about to their friends, coworkers and golf buddies? How exciting must it be for him to brag about his beauty and what a sex goddess is? They aren't bragging that the sex was good, no no no.....they are thrilled to share with their friends that you still turn him on! When you get a peek, a nonchalant sassy move that is supposed to be "not so obvious" she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that....kiss her neck, and run her shoulders, and give her some loving. Ladies, for you who are readiing.... this it means, dress the part...be the sex goddess, no grannie panties allowed, it's all or nothing here! You want to be the women that all the other women talk about. The one who isn't afraid to take this to the next naughty level.

Give Him a Private Show

Everyone loves feeling sensual and special so when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you'll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you're invited to the unveiling. Look at her, remember the beauty of it and captivate the moment in its entirety....this is a one man showing, just for you,...so sit back, enjoy and close your mouth, we've got a long way to go and you ain't seen nothing yet!

Let's Play Dress Up.....Who do "you" want to be?

Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky number and the two of you can play "doctor and nurse," perhaps you are his housekeeper "french maid?" What about the "naughty school girl" or maybe you have been a bad, bad man and the "corrections officer" is going to make you pay big? This all is a form of foreplay and men L-O-V-E IT!

Suck it up gals and get to town buying something revealing. It doesn't have to be Halloween to buy a costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie....with your lover, every day can be dress up day! Remember, to him.....you are his obsession, so make it memorable! Oh, at Simply Delicious Lingerie...we sell the handcuffs too!

~MssDelicious



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