Flirting and Body Language...What's is a Woman Telling You?

There are times when we meet a man or see him from a distance and feel attracted or connected....We tend to wear our emotions at times on our sleeve as one might say nonetheless, we find it upsetting when we can not figure out what a man is trying to say with his body or gestures. The indirectness of a man's affection may mislead a woman into thinking he has no attraction for her. That couldn't be more true according to the latest statistics. Men are not as sharp on their feet when it comes to emotions, reading their thoughts and testing the waters...we women on the other hand have this one noted 'hands down!' You see, men, unlike women don't have the flirting skills critiqued. We can flirt with hand gestures or by simply using our eyes. Takes notes here guys; these are some very important tips to learn and remember about women.

There are many ways that we flirt; We do so by playing or twirling with our hair...it's a sign of being nervous or some call it playful arousal. How about 'the closer look' signal? Don't know what that is? It's the look you get when she tugs on her sunglasses and gives you the 'come hither' look....This is commonly known as the 'you took my breath away' glance. Then there's the shoe dangling...it's the shoe is half off it means that she likes you and is comfortable being around you, well enough to begin letting her guard that is, and as we all know, most women do have a protected guard of some sort. 

It's all in the hand movement fellas, so pay close attention please! How about when a women does the glamour pose? It's when she arches her back pushing her breasts forward and wither playing with her hair or issuing some pretty sensual body gestures. Lick the lips...OH BROTHER...are you in trouble now. This means that if a woman places her tongue at the side of her lip gently moving it across the lips in a soft sensual position you are being sought out! 

 Look at her eyes; my grandmother used to tell me that the 'eyes' tell it all and 'Ay Caramba' was she right on the money! Did you know that if a woman's pupils are dilated that it means she is sexually aroused by you.

 The hair toss, the lip nibble, the 'tilt and smile' and the stroking of her skin or touching body parts, and the famous 'knee pointing.' If a woman likes you she will cross her legs and face them toward you. This means she likes you and is comfy with you, if they are faced away from you or outwards, it may not be a good sign guys. Plus the more leg exposed, the more sexual feeling. 

 Many wonder what is the number one suggestion of flirting? Her smile...When a woman has an interest in you, her smile can hold your attention from across a crowded room and it is definitely one of the major signs she's flirting. It can take a little effort on her part to do so, you see, we gals never jump the gun too quickly when it comes time to a little 'romance' ...so if she’s exerting this kind of effort, engage in her flirting by returning the smile. So what's a fella to do? Pay attention, sharpen your own flirting skills and learn to read her body language! 

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Do's and Dont's to Flirting with a Woman

I get asked from men over and over again 'how to flirt with a woman' without coming across as too strong or a real pest? Is there a right way and or a wrong way to flirt? There are plenty of ways to get women’s attention, but trust me when I say this...not all of them are good. Sometimes guys can come across as way crazy or creepy when all they wanted was to get noticed. Yes that's right, they wanted to get your attention and someone or somewhere it took a downhill spiral and went out of control. Some men tend to show off, others are too intimate too early, and others are way too obviously desperate. Flirting is the art of catching a woman’s attention in a truly positive way. There’s no reason to do anything crazy to get a woman’s attention if you know how to flirt properly.Treat her like royalty. Quite honestly, flirting is surprisingly easy once you’ve practiced a little! Do not jump into this with the 'touchy feely approach.' It will only get you sent to the end of the line or banished by the queen herself!

 Here are a few guidelines  to keep in mind:

Never, ever sneak up behind a woman to introduce yourself. If you ever do, hope that she doesn’t know martial arts and that she has a more than phenomenal sense of humor. Her first impression of you won’t be flattering, either. She’ll most likely remember you as someone who can’t be trusted. 

Don’t stare, especially at any body part that isn’t her eyes. Trust me, no woman in her right mind wants to see you starring at her breasts and not her face. You want to meet her eyes in a relaxed, casual and friendly way. 

Please only flirt with one woman at a time. Nothing makes a woman more angry than this fellas.s.. If you choose a woman to flirt with, you’re telling her that you think she’s special. It ruins the message if you think every woman in the room is special enough to flirt with, and it makes you look desperate and rude.

Be sincere. Stand behind the meaning. What does that mean? If you say something 'mean it for heaven sakes!' If you end up saying something that sounds stupid, it’s better if you meant it honestly. You can be forgiven for sounding silly, but never for being dishonest. Tell her the truth. Like Paula Abdul once sang "Straight Up"... now tell me...is it going to be you and me is it going to be you and me together??? Women like to know whats going on, NOT be left in the dark.

Start at a distance and slowly work your way closer. Check her out from across the room, and if she notices you, smile at her. There isn’t any reason to pretend you weren’t checking her out – you were, and you’re going to be upfront about it, but you aren’t going to stare or drool. 

Don’t come any closer than arm’s length. If she wants to get closer to you, she can, but that’s her decision. Getting right next to her when she doesn’t know you will make her move away from you. On the other hand, keeping a little bit of distance and speaking softly will encourage her to move closer to you on her own. 

Keep your body language consistent. If you’re open to meeting this woman, then your posture should be open, your arms won’t be crossed, and your eyes should meet hers. 

Watch her body language. If your flirting is working, she’ll be flirting back. Glancing at you, smiling, and keeping her posture open are signs that things are going well and if you are lucky you may even get your first date out of this.

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The Art of Flirting

Ahhhh for years women have flirted and quite frankly, we've become impressively good at it. The fine art of flirting is to catch a man’s eye without giving him the wrong impression. Often, this can be a challenge though. Why? Well, not all men get it. Some of them are on the slow bus and wouldn't know a woman was flirting if his life depended on it. Come on guys...Men must also be able to recognize the signs she's flirting. While any one of these visual cues taken alone often won't constitute a green light, a combination of multiple flirtatious cues should pique your interest.So, I've decided to lay down some distinct signs she's flirting with you, so you can recognize the bait she's laid for your affections. Women can sometimes be hard to read, but if you're armed with a guide to signs she's flirting, then you're already one step ahead. 

 Here are 4 important tips on proper flirting;

The first rule of flirting involves making eye contact. In North American culture, woman can lock eyes with a man without being considered rude or slutty. It is intriguing and seductive. Even then, it’s a matter of catching his eye rather than locking eyes and feeling that he is now uncomfortable. What comes along with eye contact? A SMILE! Bring it ladies...a smile is worth more than you know. When a woman has an interest in you, her smile can hold your attention from across a crowded room and it is definitely one of the major signs she's flirting. It takes an effort on her part to do so, so if she’s exerting this kind of effort, engage in her flirting by returning the smile.

 She keeps walking by...

If it seems like she continues to walk by with apparently no sense of why she’s there, she’s there for you. She’s trying to get you to notice her with this obvious sign she's flirting, and you need to say something endearing. By walking past repeatedly, perhaps out of her way, she’s giving you a sense that she wants your attention, but she's making you work for it.

She draws attention to her mouth

A woman’s mouth can be extremely seductive, and she’s fully aware of this fact. Some of the effective signs she's flirting will have her applying lip gloss, running her finger across her lip or using the straw in her cocktail instead of just sipping from the glass. There is a tremendous amount of flirtatious energy tied up in a woman’s lips. Lips are flirting tools that are both potent and effective.

 While relatively simple and commonplace, in the right hands a woman's hair is a versatile weapon. When trying to get your attention, she may twirl her hair in her fingers or let it cascade in front of one eye. I tend to call this the 'come-hither' approach.Listen ladies, accomplished flirters only make eye contact for a few seconds and act is if it was an accident. It’s a matter of perfecting the look that communicates, “I was actually looking for someone else, but you stepped into my line of vision.” 

The second rule of flirting is to seem unconcerned about his response. If he read the signal and approaches, fine. If he doesn’t get it the first time, don’t give an instant replay. You might even act surprised that he thought you were interested in him. 

Of course since he came over, you’re willing to look him over up close. But don’t appear obvious or desperate, either of which spoils the connection. The third rule of flirting is to wait for him to make the next move.

Don’t keep pouring it on unless you’re just trying to negotiate a price. That’s what it seems like when you’re flirting like a guided missile that’s honing in on a target. Let him be the pursuer - it’s a role he likes. 

Guys are willing to take the easy girl, but they don’t tend to come back for more. Let him work at getting your attention. The fourth rule of flirting is to be natural. Once you have his attention, be yourself.

The final rule of flirting is to enjoy yourself. It’s certainly among your inalienable rights as a female to flirt. Just remember that as with fishing, flirting can be a pleasant sport - even if you don’t catch anything or if you have to throw back what you caught, it's intriguing for both parties involved to kick it up a notch and have some fun!

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10 Pick Up lines that Work

Number 10

"Excuse me, is this seat taken?"

Innocent, charming and most definitely polite. It is not always safe to assume that a woman sitting next to an empty chair is alone. Your consideration of the fact that she may be saving a seat for someone shows that you have class. What makes this an effective pickup line is the fact that its unobtrusive and gives her the opportunity to invite you to join her if she is alone. Go slow, move with caution. Do not pass go and do not collect your $200. Not yet....NO SO FAST!

Number 9

"Would you like to dance?"

Hopefully you have enough rhythm in your pants to actually dance. Not me, I was born with two left feet....

If you impress her with your skills, you might just find yourself at the bar talking about music, the DJ or even the venue. This is among the most effective pickup lines because women like to dance, and if you shuffle your feet right, you might end up doing a tongue tango or the horizontal shuffle.

Number 8

"Can I interest you in a glass of…?"

Insert the type of beverage for which the occasion calls. In most cases, we are speaking of an event or gathering that calls for a glass of wine or in my case a "martini." If you’re in college, a beer or jungle juice.You are wondering now, how does she know of jungle juice...I put two kids through college and saw the effects of what that green nasty stuff can do.But....what if it is a toned-down occasion, you might offer a soda or lemonade. No matter where you are, this is one of our favorite pickup lines because it affords us the opportunity to display our skills as a connoisseur without being overt about it.

Number 7

"Do you come here often? I could use your opinion about something…"

Before that gulp of beer comes out your nose, hold on. We know that this one sounds like a cheesy pickup line, but you can make it work for you. This question is a loaded gun...don't use cheesy pickup lines guys,..be original?

Number 6

"Excuse me; can you help me with…?"

Here’s where you can come up with a light task for her to help you with, such as winning a bet among friends, naming a song that is playing or even ordering a drink. This will make her feel as though you are interested in her and appreciative of her feedback, opinion or selection. Requesting her assistance gives her a non-verbal indication that you’re impressed with her appearance and ultimately states that her answer is valued.

Number 5

"Don’t you find this place…?"

Insert a word that best describes how you feel about the venue, such as classy, cool, chic, or off the hook. Hopefully, she will share the same opinion, which will ultimately lead to further conversation about the ambiance, the decor and places you have encountered that have similar attributes. Don’t, however, complain; doing so will dampen her mood and turn her off quite quickly indeed.

Number 4

"You look like you might be interested in some deep conversation."

Allow me to pick your brain if you will. Women LOVE that term! Why? Well because it makes them feel like you seriously want to get to know them personally....and you do. If you say this with the right tone and with enough attitude, it’ll put a smile on her face. While this effective pickup line helps you break the ice, it also spontaneously creates a topic to discuss. This could be anything from food to wine or from a current event to the venue. Be sure that you’re as willing to listen as you are to talk, and remember to keep it light and great, which is exactly what you offered.

Number 3

"Might I walk you out?…"

When you notice a woman walking alone -- perhaps to her table, an elevator or even the bar -- it is always a nice gesture to politely offer her a sense of security. At the same time, it is highly likely that she won’t be walking very far, so exhibiting your charm will be essential to your attempt to break the ice once you’ve delivered your effective pickup line. Walking a woman to her car is a good gesture that you are concerned about her well being...there are some brownie points for you there boys!

Number 2

"Wow! I really like that (insert item of clothing or fragrance) you’re wearing."

We like it when men notice...Women put great effort into preparing an ensemble that best reflects how they feel and how they want to be perceived by admirers. As such, your compliment tells her that her efforts did not go unnoticed. This small gesture will boost her confidence and earn you all access to front-row conversation. We suggest that you do a little research and arm yourself with tidbits of info relating to women’s fashion so that you will appear sincere while you exercise this highly effective pickup line. Are we buying it? That is all to be determined. Maybe,...maybe not.Tell him if he likes it so much you'll give him the name because you are almost out of it! We'll see if he means business now or not?

Number 1

"I just thought I should be the first to tell you that your ass…"

Sure, you could say something derogatory, but that would likely get you a slap across the face. But, complimenting features such as her smile, eyes or nose can go a long way in making a woman open up enough to converse with you. Who says flattery gets you nowhere? The key is to make sure that you are genuine about your observation -- women can tell when a guy is trying to lay it on thick just to get close. Don't talk to a woman about her ass or boobs...never on a first or second date.

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Do you Know how to Seduce a Man?

You know,.....Seducing a man is not as difficult as it seems to be. It is very easy to get "your" guy to notice you. But you want a particular man to notice you! The trick is to leave the guy unsatisfied…yes you read it right. Unsatisfied is the word over here. Leave him intrigued so that he craves for more. Make him go nuts because he wants to see you......tease him, taunt him, and show him a taste of naughty....JUST A TASTE! If you give too much too fast, you will blow it....men love the chase. If you string him along somewhat, he'll feel that he needs to do more to win your affection because your schedule is so busy. He'll just want that time with you....so play this out right! That is what will make him even more attracted towards you. Here are ideas for enticing men that'll make you an expert in how to seduce him. Follow our "tips to seduce a guy" and walk away with your prized trophy!

Tips On Seducing A Man

Create the Right Environment
Seduction is best done is a sensual atmosphere. Make sure you are in a place where there is not much distraction like loud music, too many people and bad ambiance. The best environment for seduction is candle- lit dinner and soft music. You might want to light some candles and have soft music playing too! It sort of sets the tone for the evening.

Confidence Counts
Men like women who are confident about themselves. So, straighten those shoulders, put your nose up in the air and walk with that confident swagger. Be careful not to overdo it else it may look arrogant instead of confident. Amidst all this, do not forget that an excellent posture would be an add-on.

Eye Contact
Eyes can communicate emotions. They are the windows to our soul. Lock him in a captivating glance and make sure you "speak" with your eyes. My grandmother always used to say that if you are connected physically to a person you can speak with your eyes, and never have to use your mouth. Maintain a steady gaze. Do not gawk or stare. You don't want to make him feel uncomfortable in any way.

Play Hard to Get
Don't be too obvious in showing your interest in a guy. Ignore him every now and then. But don't be so cold that the guy loses interest in you. Giving him space would be a good option for both of you. While you get time to observe him, he gets time to “miss” you. All women love to be missed. You know that saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."

Looks that Kill
Slip on a sensuous dress, do something different to your hair, wear those dangerously high stilettos and apply some make up...a little, not a lot. Accentuate your attractive features like eyes, lips or neck. If you find yourself gorgeous in the mirror, consider half of your job done! Don't forget your delicates from Suimply Delicious Lingerie! How about some thigh highs and garters? Soft and sexy.....

Modulate your Tone
Nothing is more seductive than a gentle yet sensuous tone. Whisper something in his ear like “You look so handsome tonight" in that seductive tone. The guy will not only be flattered, but this will set the romance tone of the date....soon he'll want more!

Just Flirt
Flirt by all means. Tell him he looks like a Greek God, but sound genuine. Men love it when we feed their ego! Blink your eyes to look vulnerable yet hard to get. You can slightly touch him on the shoulder or the wrist while laughing, but don;t make too much contact....not yet..... Again, don't overdo it. Men don't like being pushed. Engage in a good conversation and give your viewpoints instead of nodding your head constantly to his.

Smell Good
Make sure you smell really good. Pull out all the stops and wear that perfume that makes you smell like a million bucks. DO NOT spray the perfume directly on yourself. Spray it in front of you and immediately walk through the mist. This makes sure it is not concentrated on some places and you smell good overall. Remember, this is the scent that he'll remember long after you are away from him. Men find it seductive when we smell good. It's like an aphrodisiac.

Unwind a Bit

Pour a glass of wine, sit down and relax. Tease him at the table....rub his leg, smile, wink....lick your lips....men find that to be quite the turn on ladies....do it nice and slowwwwwwwww....just let things happen…oh, and if you own a piece or two of sexy lingerie, now might be the time for tempting and teasing.

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