Lingerie and Keeping the Spark in Your Relationship...

Many women, especially when they get settled into their relationships tend to get feeling too comfortable and with this comes a few things that anyone reading this will probably agree on...Maybe...you don't dress as sexy any longer? You don't come to bed for a night of steamy passion rather you come out of the bathroom in a pajama set or worse, shorts and a comfy t-shirt and the ultimate of bad? You stop shaving your legs on a daily basis.

A few things can and will happen; he'll notice for sure if you don't seem as willing to initiate foreplay or want intercourse. He might tell you that you're legs feel like he is rubbing up again a forest? Am I getting warmer? Look, where they might tend to drift off watching golf or sporting events and fall asleep on the couch or their favorite chair, we may feel that they are too tired for passion which leads to us getting a tad bit lazy when it comes to the bedroom. I get that, however, sometimes it's nice to rekindle that magic that brought you both together in the beginning.

I think that too many people watch television too much or read forums about fantasies between couples and way too many people associate this with their own relationship which can be utterly toxic. No relationships are the same. For a variety of reasons not all couples have that constant need to get it on.

Sometimes, especially if you have been married or in a relationship for a while and even more so if you have children, you find yourselves getting sidetracked by events involving them and by the end of the day passion is right out the window. It happens. It is also normal so do not think for a moment that you are having relationship problems. It just might mean that your schedules are or have become far too busy for one another.

For the ladies, plan an evening just for him whereas you make him special. Give him a massage, cook him a special romantic dinner and serve it up in something that is sure to get his attention. For the guys, don't forget to tell her how special she is from time to time, or every day for that matter. Say 'I Love You' more often. Tell her that she is pretty. Women love compliments just as men enjoy getting their egos stroked. Communication is key and whether your are doing it in a verbal or non-verbal way actions speak volume.

My non professional advice? Make the time. Make the time to show your lover or your partner that you care. Make the time to take a bubble bath together. Make the time to put on something sexy when you come to bed. Slinky to me is not sexy. I like something flowing or that covers my torso like babydoll lingerie or a chemise. Whatever your choice is, select the color that is vivid and right for you. Select the right size lingerie and the piece that makes you feel confident and sexy. You can keep the sparks in your relationship without having to bend over backwards for your partner to satisfy them. It only takes something little to ignite a spark...

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10 Pick Up lines that Work

Number 10

"Excuse me, is this seat taken?"

Innocent, charming and most definitely polite. It is not always safe to assume that a woman sitting next to an empty chair is alone. Your consideration of the fact that she may be saving a seat for someone shows that you have class. What makes this an effective pickup line is the fact that its unobtrusive and gives her the opportunity to invite you to join her if she is alone. Go slow, move with caution. Do not pass go and do not collect your $200. Not yet....NO SO FAST!

Number 9

"Would you like to dance?"

Hopefully you have enough rhythm in your pants to actually dance. Not me, I was born with two left feet....

If you impress her with your skills, you might just find yourself at the bar talking about music, the DJ or even the venue. This is among the most effective pickup lines because women like to dance, and if you shuffle your feet right, you might end up doing a tongue tango or the horizontal shuffle.

Number 8

"Can I interest you in a glass of…?"

Insert the type of beverage for which the occasion calls. In most cases, we are speaking of an event or gathering that calls for a glass of wine or in my case a "martini." If you’re in college, a beer or jungle juice.You are wondering now, how does she know of jungle juice...I put two kids through college and saw the effects of what that green nasty stuff can do.But....what if it is a toned-down occasion, you might offer a soda or lemonade. No matter where you are, this is one of our favorite pickup lines because it affords us the opportunity to display our skills as a connoisseur without being overt about it.

Number 7

"Do you come here often? I could use your opinion about something…"

Before that gulp of beer comes out your nose, hold on. We know that this one sounds like a cheesy pickup line, but you can make it work for you. This question is a loaded gun...don't use cheesy pickup lines guys,..be original?

Number 6

"Excuse me; can you help me with…?"

Here’s where you can come up with a light task for her to help you with, such as winning a bet among friends, naming a song that is playing or even ordering a drink. This will make her feel as though you are interested in her and appreciative of her feedback, opinion or selection. Requesting her assistance gives her a non-verbal indication that you’re impressed with her appearance and ultimately states that her answer is valued.

Number 5

"Don’t you find this place…?"

Insert a word that best describes how you feel about the venue, such as classy, cool, chic, or off the hook. Hopefully, she will share the same opinion, which will ultimately lead to further conversation about the ambiance, the decor and places you have encountered that have similar attributes. Don’t, however, complain; doing so will dampen her mood and turn her off quite quickly indeed.

Number 4

"You look like you might be interested in some deep conversation."

Allow me to pick your brain if you will. Women LOVE that term! Why? Well because it makes them feel like you seriously want to get to know them personally....and you do. If you say this with the right tone and with enough attitude, it’ll put a smile on her face. While this effective pickup line helps you break the ice, it also spontaneously creates a topic to discuss. This could be anything from food to wine or from a current event to the venue. Be sure that you’re as willing to listen as you are to talk, and remember to keep it light and great, which is exactly what you offered.

Number 3

"Might I walk you out?…"

When you notice a woman walking alone -- perhaps to her table, an elevator or even the bar -- it is always a nice gesture to politely offer her a sense of security. At the same time, it is highly likely that she won’t be walking very far, so exhibiting your charm will be essential to your attempt to break the ice once you’ve delivered your effective pickup line. Walking a woman to her car is a good gesture that you are concerned about her well being...there are some brownie points for you there boys!

Number 2

"Wow! I really like that (insert item of clothing or fragrance) you’re wearing."

We like it when men notice...Women put great effort into preparing an ensemble that best reflects how they feel and how they want to be perceived by admirers. As such, your compliment tells her that her efforts did not go unnoticed. This small gesture will boost her confidence and earn you all access to front-row conversation. We suggest that you do a little research and arm yourself with tidbits of info relating to women’s fashion so that you will appear sincere while you exercise this highly effective pickup line. Are we buying it? That is all to be determined. Maybe,...maybe not.Tell him if he likes it so much you'll give him the name because you are almost out of it! We'll see if he means business now or not?

Number 1

"I just thought I should be the first to tell you that your ass…"

Sure, you could say something derogatory, but that would likely get you a slap across the face. But, complimenting features such as her smile, eyes or nose can go a long way in making a woman open up enough to converse with you. Who says flattery gets you nowhere? The key is to make sure that you are genuine about your observation -- women can tell when a guy is trying to lay it on thick just to get close. Don't talk to a woman about her ass or boobs...never on a first or second date.

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