Finding a Great Sugar Daddy

	Recently I was asked by a coworker; "What is a Sugar Daddy?" So, I thought that I would take a few minutes to share some information with you ladies regarding what a real, true and most genuine sugar daddy really is because there are men out there posing to be sugar daddies that fell into a pile of crap a mile deep with their bullshit and they are out there trying to suck you in. These men are the scammers or those who only 'think' they are the real deal. They want to impress their macho guy friends and they want to feel superior. They take away from what the true sugar daddy meaning is. The urban dictionary states that a Sugar Daddy or (SD) for short is this; Older males are in their money making prime and young women are in their money needing prime and beauty prime. These three primes often converge creating the secret underground "older man being financially generous to beautiful younger woman" situation. I've been in business long enough and written a handful of blog articles on what the real deal is nonetheless, the scammers and fakes are still floating around making it an inconvenience for those men who are the gems and who deserve praise. Don't think for minute that you have to live in a big city to find a SD/SB. They are walking amongst us day in and day out. Sugar daddying young women is generally seen by many as "immoral behavior" but most believe that the origins of that taboo has more to do with society's hatred for "older men/young women" couples than money itself (a hatred likely invented by older women and indoctrinated into us via the mothering process). What are my thoughts? That's hogwash. It's no different than dating, only you do this discretely and for a variety of reasons. I'm writing this article only to point out facts, and nothing more. Seeing the do's and don'ts and the why's and why not's more clearly helps others to understand why so many people seek this type of relationship. Because of the disrespectful ways, and the somewhat taboo nature of sugar daddying or having a sugar daddy, most of these types of relationships are top secret and hush hush. You won't usually know that that 22 year old woman has a secret 55 year old sugar daddy who earns anywhere from $80,000-$1,000,000 annually and provides for her as if she were his wife. In all honesty, the age of women that men are seeking varies. Some want a woman that still has a good shape and is intelligent that are closer in age to them rather than a young bubbly gal that can't offer the same. Maturity plays a key role. Will she fit in at a black tie affair or will she stand out like a sore thumb? There are a lot of single men that go on these sites in particular because they don't want to deal with all the hoopla of women and control freaks. Many SDs are married and very unhappy, and they will tell you that it's cheaper to keep'er than to divorce, so what better way to stay married and take on a side affair or NSA as we call it other than to find himself a true Sugar Baby- a women to be at his beck and call a few times a month to go to black tie affairs with, sporting events, company parties, or on business trips, etc. Most men like to show up with a beautiful woman on his arm, but look closely for the right woman, and make sure that she is  truthful and has a paper trail of who she says she really is. If you get her name and Google her and nothing comes up, drop her like a hot potato. Keep in mind fellas, there are scammers and many, many fakes who call themselves sugar babies too. You can usually spot them a mile away. Not all women are scammers, some just are not smart and have no clue really what a real SD/SB relationship is other than what they watched on the Jerry Springer show. The fake/scammer SB? They generally ask for money upfront, for their rent, or bills, they tell you that someone is dying, needs surgery to be paid immediately because they don't want to get off their ass and work like the rest of us women do, and they will place fake photos to lure you in and suck you up. These women really aren't the ripest apples on the tree. Look at their bio and watch the spelling of their words. My guess is most of them can't spell or form complete sentences. These woman are not worth your time of day so if you are not careful, you'll be sending money western union in no time flat and waiting at an airport for no one to ever arrive. A Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship is a NSA relationship most often and one that must be discrete, however, there are many men and women on these sites looking for so much more than a bi-weekly fantasy. Some people are searching for that needle in the haystack that they can't seem to find elsewhere, and truthfully, I see nothing wrong with that what so ever. If you are lucky enough or fortunate enough to find such a reliable, genuine woman or man, hang on to them, for they are like a hidden treasure found way below the surface. A real sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship can last a few months or several years going undetected to those people closest around them. Generally neither of the two want it to get out or there will be a lot of talking smack. Why? I have no idea, it is what it is. It's no different than dating or having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship except for the fact that you lay all of your cards on the table upfront and set boundaries. Generally the SD/SB is take care of financially quite well. A true SD in my professional opinion and because I know several of these men as they are clients of mine and buy lingerie and adult novelties for their babies. These true SDs never have to ask their SB what she wants or needs, they just do it. They doa variety of things in no special order, but they do these nicce gestures for the woman because he wants to not ever because he feels that he 'has to.' He is confident and wants his lady to feel the same. he wants her to be stress-free and happy because in turn, it makes/keeps him happy. They may pay her bills, or give her an allowance, pay their rent, provide them with a car, send them on trips, pay for education, or just pamper the hell out of the. Oh do they love to spoil them rotten! You see, generally, with this particular type of man, the woman never has to ask, they just do, no ifs, ands or buts about it. These are the real SDs. The fake ones or cheap SOBs as I like to call them are the ones that want to split a meal, split the check, and they are those that state they are worth a fortune but ask you to upgrade your free membership so that you can email. Seriously? This should be a BIG RED FLAG! These are the fellas that do whatever they can to get out of paying hotel or airfare for you to visit. Oh they'll ask you to pay and tell you that they will reimburse you when you arrive...ladies, don't fall for this. If they want to see you, they'll make every arrangement to do so, and distance will be no issue. Some men won't last the duration because they will come to ther own conclusions that you are way too high maintenance. Guess what chump? Being a SB is a high maintenance job so suck it up. If he is a true SD, then money won't matter and he will want his SB to be high maintenance to a certain degree. Let's get back to the 'distance'; If they say it is too far to go, there are two reason why. 1) they are married and can't go far from the home-front because it will raise speculation, or 2) they are CHEAP and don't want to pay for you to visit or for them to fly in to see you.Some say you are too far away and wish you luck. Here is my summary; Distance is a mere measurement between Point A and Point B. If you are worth seeing he will do everything in his power to make it happen. End of discussion.  How to Spot a REAL SD?   Tiffany & Co., Jimmy Choo, Dior, Chanel, Prada, Louis Vuitton, Burberry, Christian Louboutin...(just to name a few) Enough said.... Need more? Intellectual stimulation and physical attraction in one!  Finally you find someone who appreciates your beauty and vitality. Rainy-day fund? Try rainy-day daddy! Oysters and caviar. Martinis and fine wine...Quite often. Yes, finally, a man who knows his wines.“Experience” is a beautiful thing. There’s never been a sexier way to see the world.“Sugar” daddies are “sweet” by nature. Sooo, in closing, please know that there are many, many good things about a SD/SB relationships. Do your homework. Looking for the good sites? I www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com is an affiliate for www.SugarDaddyForMe.com. Please join it on my website as my company is an affiliate of theirs. You can also find it at the bottom of this blog page where you will be prompted to sign up for a free membership on a trial basis to see if you like it or if it will work for you. I highly recommend this site, but just because I recommend it does not mean that you don't have to be careful of who you entertain, or connect with. Remember, there are great stories that have come from two people meeting on sites just like this and I can assure you that my sources are happy. Nevertheless, let's not totally sugar coat this and make it look like it's all a bed of roses...it can go sour, and it will end. These relationships are not meant to see the happy ever after. (some do, but not many, there there are some occasions where it does.) Be prepared for this and save so that you can move on at that time. Never use this type of relationship as your only source of income. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com About Simply Delicious Lingerie; Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. 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10 Ways to Get Her to Want You!

Okay, so there is a woman whom you really like and you would love to sleep with her but you don't want her to know that...at least NOT right off the bat. How can you get her attention and sweet talk her all in a good way without being to blunt or forthcoming? It's not easy you know because us women have what I call "radar" and we know when a man is handing us a line of shit a mile long. You have to be smart, and witty. You need to be considerate and compassionate, yet in a sensual way that catches her eye. The art of seduction is not how quickly you can get her into bed my friend...it is all in the technique and what makes her take notice. Your actions speak volume so think before you do anything that could be remotely stupid! Remember, a true lady loves a classy man that has a way with words. She loves his sense of adventure, his smile and his charm. If you want to get the woman, you need to follow the steps and pace it out. Too much too fast is a disaster!

Check out the tips given below which can help you to seduce her:

1. Do not consider yourself as unattractive.

If you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way in which you can make the woman find you attractive. Be positive! No negative stuff here...pick your chin up and romance her! This type of thinking will influence your body language and the way you think. Take some care over your appearance so that you feel at your best, and start telling yourself that you are attractive. If you can't think of what to say or how to look sexy expressing yourself...2 words; BODY LANGUAGE! Try it, you'll like it. We can read you like a book, so for the love of God, get expressive!

2. Do not bore her.

There are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing that they are doing that. Never talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the subject. Oh and NEVER EVER EVER talk about women from your past. That is a BIG NO NO! She may listen for hours and even say she is interested just to be polite, but trust me, this date is about to be your last with her. She'll go home without agreeing to a second date, and you are left wondering why? Ummm hello?  The reason is, you fell for her pretence of interest, and ended up boring her. 

If she is genuinely interested in a subject she will not just ask questions and listen, she will have a lot to say about it. For example: if she asks you which team you think will win the Super Bowl, she is pretending to be interested. If she tells you which team she thinks will win, and why, then okay, she may be interested in football. Listen guys...any man that finds a woman that likes sports or one that can tell you the difference in a 305and a 350 hemi is doing all right! She's a keeper!

3. Do not talk too much.

If you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back on you. She will either think that you are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will find you boring. Try to get her talking too. Even with the shyest woman you can do this if you help her to feel relaxed and find out what she is really interested in. Someone once told me that in personal life and business, always LISTEN. Nevermind with the talk, talk talk...LISTEN to what she is saying. This can be crucial, plus she is going to respect the fact taht you wanted to know so much about her when you ask questions..

4. Never ask too many questions.

I know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing to talk about. However, this does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation interesting but asking too many questions will make the lady want to run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick up on hints in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling about something.

A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than another question.

5. Avoid Yes / No Questions.

Avoid questions that can have Yes or No as the answer, e.g. “Do you like movies?” This can kill the conversation. You want to ask great open ended questions, you know the kind that you ask a customer when you are working the sales floor. You won't get her attention if you ask dull and boring questions with easy yes/no answers.

6. Do not treat a woman as a prize.

A woman is not your pet, or your arm candy. Nothing in this world frustrates me more so than when I hear a man state that he wants a beauty to be his arm candy. First of all, a woman is not arm candy nor are we trophy wives. Start treating a woman with respect and you'll see more in return. No woman likes the idea of being a prize or a possession. She will not be attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about your conquest of her to your friends.

7. Try to interpret her body language.

Many men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language of the women that they are interested in. By reading her body language you will have some idea about whether she is interested in you. If she is then you can carry out your seduction plan and if she isn’t then there are a lot of other fishes in the sea to swim after.

8. Flirting is the answer.

How will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do not give her a sign? When you flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention. 

9. Be confident.

Women simply cannot resist men who are confident. Do not be afraid to approach a woman because of fear of rejection. There are always risks in life and if you do not take the risk then you cannot reap the benefits. 

10. Make the lady feel good.

If you want to attract and seduce a lady then it is very important to make her feel good in your company. If she feels happy in your company then it will not take a long time to attract her and then seduce her. Women love when men pay us compliments,..so what are you waiting for? 

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