Okay, so there is a woman whom you really like and you would love to sleep with her but you don't want her to know that...at least NOT right off the bat. How can you get her attention and sweet talk her all in a good way without being to blunt or forthcoming? It's not easy you know because us women have what I call "radar" and we know when a man is handing us a line of shit a mile long. You have to be smart, and witty. You need to be considerate and compassionate, yet in a sensual way that catches her eye. The art of seduction is not how quickly you can get her into bed my friend...it is all in the technique and what makes her take notice. Your actions speak volume so think before you do anything that could be remotely stupid! Remember, a true lady loves a classy man that has a way with words. She loves his sense of adventure, his smile and his charm. If you want to get the woman, you need to follow the steps and pace it out. Too much too fast is a disaster!
Check out the tips given below which can help you to seduce her:
1. Do not consider yourself as unattractive.
If you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way in which you can make the woman find you attractive. Be positive! No negative stuff here...pick your chin up and romance her! This type of thinking will influence your body language and the way you think. Take some care over your appearance so that you feel at your best, and start telling yourself that you are attractive. If you can't think of what to say or how to look sexy expressing yourself...2 words; BODY LANGUAGE! Try it, you'll like it. We can read you like a book, so for the love of God, get expressive!
2. Do not bore her.
There are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing that they are doing that. Never talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the subject. Oh and NEVER EVER EVER talk about women from your past. That is a BIG NO NO! She may listen for hours and even say she is interested just to be polite, but trust me, this date is about to be your last with her. She'll go home without agreeing to a second date, and you are left wondering why? Ummm hello? The reason is, you fell for her pretence of interest, and ended up boring her.
If she is genuinely interested in a subject she will not just ask questions and listen, she will have a lot to say about it. For example: if she asks you which team you think will win the Super Bowl, she is pretending to be interested. If she tells you which team she thinks will win, and why, then okay, she may be interested in football. Listen guys...any man that finds a woman that likes sports or one that can tell you the difference in a 305and a 350 hemi is doing all right! She's a keeper!
3. Do not talk too much.
If you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back on you. She will either think that you are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will find you boring. Try to get her talking too. Even with the shyest woman you can do this if you help her to feel relaxed and find out what she is really interested in. Someone once told me that in personal life and business, always LISTEN. Nevermind with the talk, talk talk...LISTEN to what she is saying. This can be crucial, plus she is going to respect the fact taht you wanted to know so much about her when you ask questions..
4. Never ask too many questions.
I know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing to talk about. However, this does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation interesting but asking too many questions will make the lady want to run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick up on hints in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling about something.
A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than another question.
5. Avoid Yes / No Questions.
Avoid questions that can have Yes or No as the answer, e.g. “Do you like movies?” This can kill the conversation. You want to ask great open ended questions, you know the kind that you ask a customer when you are working the sales floor. You won't get her attention if you ask dull and boring questions with easy yes/no answers.
6. Do not treat a woman as a prize.
A woman is not your pet, or your arm candy. Nothing in this world frustrates me more so than when I hear a man state that he wants a beauty to be his arm candy. First of all, a woman is not arm candy nor are we trophy wives. Start treating a woman with respect and you'll see more in return. No woman likes the idea of being a prize or a possession. She will not be attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about your conquest of her to your friends.
7. Try to interpret her body language.
Many men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language of the women that they are interested in. By reading her body language you will have some idea about whether she is interested in you. If she is then you can carry out your seduction plan and if she isn’t then there are a lot of other fishes in the sea to swim after.
8. Flirting is the answer.
How will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do not give her a sign? When you flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention.
9. Be confident.
Women simply cannot resist men who are confident. Do not be afraid to approach a woman because of fear of rejection. There are always risks in life and if you do not take the risk then you cannot reap the benefits.
10. Make the lady feel good.
If you want to attract and seduce a lady then it is very important to make her feel good in your company. If she feels happy in your company then it will not take a long time to attract her and then seduce her. Women love when men pay us compliments,..so what are you waiting for?
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