10 Ways to Get Her to Want You!

Okay, so there is a woman whom you really like and you would love to sleep with her but you don't want her to know that...at least NOT right off the bat. How can you get her attention and sweet talk her all in a good way without being to blunt or forthcoming? It's not easy you know because us women have what I call "radar" and we know when a man is handing us a line of shit a mile long. You have to be smart, and witty. You need to be considerate and compassionate, yet in a sensual way that catches her eye. The art of seduction is not how quickly you can get her into bed my friend...it is all in the technique and what makes her take notice. Your actions speak volume so think before you do anything that could be remotely stupid! Remember, a true lady loves a classy man that has a way with words. She loves his sense of adventure, his smile and his charm. If you want to get the woman, you need to follow the steps and pace it out. Too much too fast is a disaster!

Check out the tips given below which can help you to seduce her:

1. Do not consider yourself as unattractive.

If you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way in which you can make the woman find you attractive. Be positive! No negative stuff here...pick your chin up and romance her! This type of thinking will influence your body language and the way you think. Take some care over your appearance so that you feel at your best, and start telling yourself that you are attractive. If you can't think of what to say or how to look sexy expressing yourself...2 words; BODY LANGUAGE! Try it, you'll like it. We can read you like a book, so for the love of God, get expressive!

2. Do not bore her.

There are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing that they are doing that. Never talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the subject. Oh and NEVER EVER EVER talk about women from your past. That is a BIG NO NO! She may listen for hours and even say she is interested just to be polite, but trust me, this date is about to be your last with her. She'll go home without agreeing to a second date, and you are left wondering why? Ummm hello?  The reason is, you fell for her pretence of interest, and ended up boring her. 

If she is genuinely interested in a subject she will not just ask questions and listen, she will have a lot to say about it. For example: if she asks you which team you think will win the Super Bowl, she is pretending to be interested. If she tells you which team she thinks will win, and why, then okay, she may be interested in football. Listen guys...any man that finds a woman that likes sports or one that can tell you the difference in a 305and a 350 hemi is doing all right! She's a keeper!

3. Do not talk too much.

If you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back on you. She will either think that you are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will find you boring. Try to get her talking too. Even with the shyest woman you can do this if you help her to feel relaxed and find out what she is really interested in. Someone once told me that in personal life and business, always LISTEN. Nevermind with the talk, talk talk...LISTEN to what she is saying. This can be crucial, plus she is going to respect the fact taht you wanted to know so much about her when you ask questions..

4. Never ask too many questions.

I know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing to talk about. However, this does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation interesting but asking too many questions will make the lady want to run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick up on hints in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling about something.

A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than another question.

5. Avoid Yes / No Questions.

Avoid questions that can have Yes or No as the answer, e.g. “Do you like movies?” This can kill the conversation. You want to ask great open ended questions, you know the kind that you ask a customer when you are working the sales floor. You won't get her attention if you ask dull and boring questions with easy yes/no answers.

6. Do not treat a woman as a prize.

A woman is not your pet, or your arm candy. Nothing in this world frustrates me more so than when I hear a man state that he wants a beauty to be his arm candy. First of all, a woman is not arm candy nor are we trophy wives. Start treating a woman with respect and you'll see more in return. No woman likes the idea of being a prize or a possession. She will not be attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about your conquest of her to your friends.

7. Try to interpret her body language.

Many men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language of the women that they are interested in. By reading her body language you will have some idea about whether she is interested in you. If she is then you can carry out your seduction plan and if she isn’t then there are a lot of other fishes in the sea to swim after.

8. Flirting is the answer.

How will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do not give her a sign? When you flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention. 

9. Be confident.

Women simply cannot resist men who are confident. Do not be afraid to approach a woman because of fear of rejection. There are always risks in life and if you do not take the risk then you cannot reap the benefits. 

10. Make the lady feel good.

If you want to attract and seduce a lady then it is very important to make her feel good in your company. If she feels happy in your company then it will not take a long time to attract her and then seduce her. Women love when men pay us compliments,..so what are you waiting for? 

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Where to Find the Right Woman for YOU!

In today's busy day and age, we don't have the patience, the time, nor are there enough hours in the day to search out and find the man or woman of our dreams. So what's a guy to do? Think like a woman and get smart...ask yourself where would a woman go? Once you figure that out, you'll in the clear and on your way!  There are a lot of great women out there just waiting to meet the man of their dreams but finding these available women can take a little creativity on your part!

  Sure there are plenty of single women at bars and nightclubs but the competition is also tough with many men also trying to meet women and women are usually on guard at these locations so getting through their defenses can be difficult. Instead of battling other men for a woman’s affection at a bar, try meeting women in new locations. My grandmother used to say that relationships won't last when you meet in a bar...this may not be true, in fact some people tell me that they did meet in a bar, but do they go long term? An old friend of mine met her husband in a bar and had she not gone out that one night with the girls, the love of her life would never have found her, you see, often, fate does step in,

 

Specifically locations that sport a high female to male ration will enhance your chances of meeting new women, and in my personal opinion, there are a variety of places other than bars and clubs to meet great people. While bars and nightclubs are certainly full of available women the likelihood of meeting a woman at these locations is slim to none. Although many women frequent nightclubs and bars in the hopes of meeting a man, these are also locations where women feel vulnerable and are likely to have their defenses up making them unapproachable. Try frequenting other locations and you may have an easier time meeting available women with interests similar to your own.

A woman’s clothing store is a great place to meet new women. Not only is this location filled with women but it is also almost completely devoid of other men. Many men avoid a woman’s clothing store like the plague so if you are brave enough to venture inside you will have an assortment of women to choose from. You can start a conversation by asking a woman for advice for a gift for your sister or by complimenting her on her purchases. That;s right boys, find a way to strike up that ole' conversation!

The gym can also be another great place to meet new women. While you may already spend hours a day pumping iron in the weight room try spending some time on a cardio machine or drop in on an aerobics or yoga class. These activities are typically dominated by women so engaging in these activities increases your chance of meeting women while at the gym. Meeting a women here will also show you that you are about to meet a woman who most likely takes great pride in her body as well as her appearance.

The Internet is always an option for meeting women. You can try placing a personals ad online or join a dating service to read profiles of available men. Rule #1; BE HONEST! No photos that are 10 years old, and no lies! There are so many personals sites available that it would almost be impossible not to find a suitable match. Just be sure to exercise caution and not give out your contact information or agree to meet anyone in a secluded location.

Tanning spas or salons can be great places to meet new women. Again, these locations aren’t frequented by men so you are most likely to be one of the only men present. If you are attracted to women who put a lot of effort into their appearance the salon is definitely the place to go. Here you will find women who are committed to their appearance and who will appreciate you for your ability to understand that a manicure is just as important to men as it is to women.

Sporting events can also be a great place to meet women who either share your love of sports or are in search of men themselves. You may attend a baseball game and wind up meeting a woman who shares your love of sports or you may at least meet a woman who is trying to meet a man. Sporting events are typically well attended by men so it’s possible that the women you meet at a sporting event are trying to put the odds in their favor and use this opportunity to meet men.

Another great place to meet new women is the theater. Women are typically drawn to the arts and if you begin attending local theater productions you may find the opportunity to meet a variety of new women. Not many men take in plays or operas on their own so doing so will help you to stand out from the crowd and single women are more likely to notice you..and after a while, the opera and plays will be something that you can both do together!

Finally a grocery store, yup, you heard me....a grocery store is a great place to meet new women. Women make up the larger percentage of grocery shoppers so as one of only few men the odds will be in your favor. This is sooo true. Who would have ever thought this? Find a cute man and ram his cart in the frozen food isle. Also, women typically are experienced shoppers and you can take this opportunity to ask for their assistance in picking out produce or choosing a pasta sauce. Women will be flattered by you asking their advice and may be open to inviting you to their place for a home cooked meal.

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