Sexy Lingerie Builds Confidence in Women

In our society today where so many women want to be the best, look the best and at the end of the day... get the hunk, we tend to do one thing; Many women tend to beat themselves up over the way they look. They're always trying to lose weight or tone muscles so they will look better for the one they love. What they fail to understand is that when a man really loves you, he automatically loves the way you look even if it's not perfect. For this reason, and mostly this reason alone...he asks only one thing; he wants to see you in hot sexy lingerie. Not always, but a surprise every now and again might be just what the doctor ordered.

It Builds Confidence and Self Esteem;

What am I saying here? I just said it...Sexy lingerie builds confidence in women.

Sure, it's important to look attractive in the bedroom. If you come to bed in flannels every night what are you saying to your mate? It would tell me that you are settling, comfortable, and you have just become the statistics of why men look elsewhere. It certainly helps to spice things up in your relationship and this keeps the romance alive. It really doesn't take a lot to do that either gals. When he's telling you how beautiful you look, it makes you feel loved and special,...sooooo how 'bout returning the favor already? Take your bedroom attire to a new level. I'm not saying you have to come to bed every night dressed like a naughty nurse or a corrections officer, or even a french maid...I'm saying every now and again, do something to captivate his attention...do something to remind him of why it is YOU that he is so happy and lucky to be with. You don't have to be blonde, 5'7 and 120 pounds to look beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it comes in a variety of shapes and sizes.

Selecting the proper intimate apparel is crucial. You must choose it wisely and accordingly to your bodys shape. What defines your true curves? You'll need to understand this first. This in turn, helps to build up your self-esteem and encourages you to eat healthy and exercise so you can improve any problem areas that you might have. When you feel good about yourself and the way you look, you're a happier person. You'll feel more confident at work and in your daily life. It will also help your relationship to grow stronger. Don't be surprised if you end up spending more time together than ever before.

Sooo Go Out and Find the Right Piece for YOU!

There is a  secret to buying hot sexy lingerie..... it makes you feel great when you  find the right style and fit for your body. The selections are endless....and there are many different styles to choose from that range from the simple bra and panty set that barely covers the body to the long flowing gown-like styles.

 Remember this because it is quite important;

When you choose the right style to suit your body and personality, you'll feel comfortable and look great at the same time. It can be difficult to feel sexy in lingerie that feels uncomfortable. Wearing outfits that make you feel too exposed take away self-esteem and pride if worn in a distasteful manner, so choose what accentuates your curves best. If you're tugging and pulling on the garment to keep adjusting it then it's not going to have the same sensual effect, as it will not only get in the way, nonetheless, it will cause you to focus more so on how it fits and how it looks on you rather than how to seduce your partner. When shopping for lingerie, might I recommend my boutiques? Get risque. hey, life is far too short not to indulge and have a little bit of fun right?  

Shop Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie today for something that feels good to you so you can begin feeling like a woman that just stepped off the sexy diva train. 

Designers understand what women need and modern designs cater to these needs. The designers that I work with create pieces that fit each and every woman with 'sensual' in mind. This makes it possible to find the perfect styles that flatter your body. Unlike years ago, modern lingerie is also comfortable to wear, so you can relax and enjoy all of the attention you'll get, not just some of it. Go shopping...select something to entice him with and turn up the heat in your bedroom tonight! Make your night sizzle and I don';t mean turning up the fire in the fireplace either...use your imagination and take no prisoners! On the other hand, making him your love slave isn't a terrible thing, is it? Be the dare devil tonight...the women who leaves him guessing...and you'll have him begging for more, I can assure you.

Remember, lingerie doesn't have to be reveling to be sexy. This is something else that many women have the wrong impression about. They think lingerie and some jump the gun and think dirty, or scandalous...what's wrong with that? If lingerie is out of your comfort zone, it’s easy to start out slow. Try on an underwear set that’s a little lacier than usual. For something fun and girlie, lace and bright colors is a cute and sexy combo. Blacks, whites and reds are the most popular colors but with the patterns, choices and styles, there are many, many possibilities to choose from. 

 Lingerie isn't only for the confident, unattainable woman in movies, commercials and in magazines; lingerie is for everyone. Even the shyest of women, the least self-confident of woman can put on a sexy lace bra and smile to herself because she—and only she—knows what she’s wearing underneath her work outfit is alluring, captivating and stunning as hell. Once you feel sexy for yourself, others will begin to see that you really are too! 

Being the Dominator in the Bedroom

We all know that there are plenty of times when you’re trying to liven things up in the bedroom, so if this sounds like you, please keep in mind that it never hurts to try out some different sorts of roles. That's right, try something else on for size next time you and your mate are together. Though you may have already tried out costumes at Simply Delicious Lingerie, and by-the-way we get many, many reviews on the bedroom costumes and fantasy costumes, there are other types of role playing. What am I trying to say?

Let me put it mildly; dominating your guy in bed is one thing that many women forget to do and it is also one thing that turn men on BIG TIME. Though it’s something many guys want their partners to try, some women have been afraid to try. Here are just a few tips to help you start to dominate your guy in bed. Who knows, you may like it enough to want to do it all the time?

Ask yourself this;

Who is in control in the bedroom? Good question right? If you want to be the seductive dominating type, then you are going to have to show him! From the moment you get on top of him, let your partner know that you are in charge. You can use those exact words or you can simply be the one to initiate the sexual pleasures. You will want to be the one who controls the rhythm, the tone, and what you’re doing, etc. Show him that you are in control this time....The key ingredient here? Make sure that you look into his eyes and let him know that he is not going to control this bedroom adventure. You are. My grandmother used to say that with the right body language you could speak to a man without ever having to breath a word. Bring him to his knees and he'll beg for more! Who says you can't get a little naughty behind closed doors? Isn't that the spice of life?

 You can also dress the part of a dominatrix by dressing in all black (please don't forget the fishnet stockings or the thigh highs and garter belt)....or simply by dressing in a sexy manner which is not necessarily something that he would want you to wear. What am I trying to say? Kick it up a notch sister! This takes it to a new level, and is quite enticing for him...bring the cougar out and show him you have a little tiger in you! Make sure that you feel quite confident in this outfit and that you can move easily so as to make sure that you are in control of the situation and not worried about how you feel in your costume.

Sometimes, just dressing in something sexy will make you feel more confident and more able to be the one who is in control. I have always stated that confidence comes from within, so play the role ladies. Use your confidence to seduce your mate. Do remember that from the time that you walk in to the way he touches you, where he touches you, etc. You need to be specific about what you want and you need to make sure that he’s only doing the things you’ve asked him to do.

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About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and the yoga sex swing. Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ® 

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The Spanking...Naughty or Nice?

There is a lot to be said about the variations between men and women. Most that I know of enjoy being both teased and pleased. Women live off of emotion while men instead live life based on logic. Women crave the excitement of emotions like anger, longing, lust, and happiness. Meanwhile men prefer to end arguments quickly with logic, rather then prolong it in order to feel emotionally satisfied. So, what is it exactly that women want if you can't read them or if they aren't giving off the right body language?

Let's talk about something that all women want and if they don't say it out loud, they fantasize about it...the spanking. Yup, you heard me, a spanking. In the heat of the moment when your man slaps your tush what goes through your mind?  Do you love it or hate it, or did it happen so quickly that you really have not had the time to process it thoroughly? My guess is that you loved it.

My guess is that it is something that all women want to experience but not many of you know how to just come out and tell your partner what you like...My non-professional advice? Speak up and tell him what you want, otherwise you may end up having a relationship with a some fella that has no idea what your needs are and he'll just assume that you like whatever it is that he does. As a woman, you never hold back, so why stop now? It's all in good playful fun, and it's erotic and sexy. Live your wildest dreams behind closed doors and open the possibilities of what is yet to come in your relationships with your man.

Pain is a factor, as is pleasure, but there's no one word to accurately describe the appeal of the erotic spanking. It makes us improve our attitude and our behavior. It lets us know someone is in charge. It defines boundaries of acceptable, and unacceptable, behavior. I think spanking is a gateway behavior — an icebreaker to other more adventurous things. It seems to me that spanking, or more accurately, establishing spanking as OK, during sex is one of the best ways to add other fun boundary-pushing “enhancements,”like new positions, and dirty talking. Too many women are afraid to “let go” in the bedroom. Why do men like to spank? Because women can let out a real squeal or two and that makes any man in his right mind turn into putty in your hand! Nothing turns a man on quickly than a woman with her panties pushed aside and her soft skin exposed to the naked hand.

So does it get a positive reaction? It gets a reaction all right....Why? Because most women love it. To be in an embrace with my man when he says, “I want to spank you…”. Wow!! What women wouldn't get turned on by that? The spanking itself is another turn-on. (Spanking stimulates the same nerves as sexual activity.) As they say, “A fire on my backside lights up one up front.”

Ladies, whether you are married, in a relationship, a one night stand, a sugar baby or just smoking hot in the heat of the moment in a superficial fantasy world...there is nothing wrong with wanting to be pleased and teased -and fellas, if you want to keep your lady happy.... listen to her needs. This can be a bedroom wonderland for sure! Buy your sexy lingerie and fantasy costumes for the bedroom at Simply Delicious Lingerie and watch the evening heat up quickly! www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

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About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, simple lingerie, plus size lingerie, affordable plus size lingerie, sexy matchign sets for hips and curves on plus size women, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ® 

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Fellas, What Does the Alcohol YOU Drink Say About you?

 So many times I hear people whisper under their breath when someone orders a drink at a bar or club.Why? Well, they say that particular drinks tell a story about the true you. Do I believe this, well, I drink martinis, so yes, I suppose that I do. Nonetheless, please do not take offense to this...chill if you will. So let's take a look and see what your choice of liquor says about you? These personal observations may be offensive to some readers, and if they are, those are not the intentions at all, so banter me if you will. The following is meant to be humorous and should be read as such.I could not list all of the drinks/liquors, however, I listed the most popular ordered:


 Frozen drinks: Not for the boys. Chicks order frozen drinks.

Domestic Light Beer (Bud Light, Miller Light)
You’re impulsive and quick to take risks. You’re respectful of authority, accepting of most people, and generally easy to get along with. You’re also 34 percent less likely than the average man to buy organic. Personally, I think guys order light beer because it’s a comfortable order for them.

Domestic Full-Flavor Beer (Budweiser, Coors Original)
You’re sensible, grounded, and practical. You’re generally middle-of-the-road in your politics, and quick to challenge authority. Betcha didn't know that you’re also 42 percent more likely than the average man to own a truck. It’s the cheapest option, and often has the least amount of alcohol, so these guys are trying to pace themselves, booze-wise and financially.

Craft Beer/Imports (Sierra Nevada, Blue Moon, Heineken)
You’re more likely to be politically left leaning, outgoing, and extroverted. You’re intellectually curious and open-minded, and you’re interested in new and varied experiences.

Wine
You’re mature and discerning, and you’re likely an organized professional. You tend to be unadventurous and less likely to take risks. Chances are good you’ve graduated from college, have a good head on your shoulder and you are classy enough to enjoy some red or white verse a bottle of beer. When a guy orders wine, it makes me think he’s comfortable with himself, and maybe a little more confident than the average Joe.

White Wine Spritzer
Not for the guys...NOPE!  Its usually the housewives or ultra conservative girls who order these. 3 drinks later and they are sloshed.

 White Zinfandel
 Lets be honest here. It should be renamed "White Trash". Everyone ordering it tries to come off as sophisticated. Not going to happen. You want to know a quick way to immediately scream "White Trash".... order wine and add ice to it.

Whiskey
You want to project an image of masculinity and authority. You’re also discerning. Blended whiskey drinkers are more likely to be age 21 to 46, while single-malt drinkers are more likely to be age 50 or older.

 White Russian
Oh boy.... Only the most clueless drinkers will drink MILK with ALCOHOL. You drink more than 3 of these, and I will guarantee that you will be puking all over the bar bathroom floor. I can assure you, it's not going to be pretty.

Vodka
You enjoy being in charge. You care about fashion and appearance, and you’re both opinionated and independent. It seems upscale and appealing if you order it on the rocks or in a martini. 

Gin
You have a realistic outlook on life, and you appreciate comfort and security. You’re interested in relationships, and your focus is on family and home life. It has been said that this seems like a sophisticated middle-aged man’s drink. I don’t know many young guys that drink gin, but I’m impressed by the ones who do.

Rum
You’re experimental and creative, and quick to abandon one pursuit in favor of another. You’re more likely than the average man to enjoy jazz and art. You may be slightly eccentric, and you’re often impulsive. Bacardi and Captain Morgan are for ladies’ drinks. Another thing; they also have a huge ego and a very good imagination, so keep the compliments coming. Dudes should never order them, especially not with Coke. Respectable rum drinkers are particular, and order brands like Mount Gay, 10 Cane, Old Monk. Hey... there’s nothing wrong with a rum cocktail—if it’s done right. Oh and fellas.. NO umbrella allowed!

Tequila
You’re a free spirit, and you’re unconcerned with achievement in either the short or the long term. You’re outgoing, talkative, and fun to be around. “There’s nothing wrong with a shot of a good tequila. Guys who drink straight tequila are playboys and want to party. It's ok when your young, but if you are older and doing this, the gals will certainly take notice and scram!

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This Holiday, Give Him the Gift of Dance...A Striptease

A Seductive, Sultry Striptease?

Let's set the stage, shall we; The stockings were hung by the chimney with care...but in the adult world, those delicious and delightful stockings will be begging to be torn off rather than hanging on that old chimney with care. Am I right, or am I right? This holiday, give him the gift of dance...A Striptease! At Simply Delicious Lingerie the assortment of women's intimate apparel to choose from is sure to please whoever is doing the unwrapping. Time time to take the risk...spike up that eggnog sister, cue up your iPod player's speakers, set him in a chair opposite you with a sash blindfold that only you will unwrap. Give him the dance to remember for hours if not days to come!Make every moment an impression that will be deeply embedded in his mind...an everlasting dance to please and tease.

A great song suggestion might be..."Santa Baby"
Costume suggestion: Lingerie (of course) from Simply Delicious Lingerie, topped off with a Santa hat, some sexy stilettos, red lips and a captivating and titillating smile.

What do you need? Sexy Lingerie www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com or shop our plus size store at www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com for enticing, captivating and intriguing selections of intimates, playwear and poles, swing and naughty things. Let the fun begin! Buy these at this link: http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing

 Believe or not, wearing sexy and pretty lingerie really does adds some spice to a couple’s relationship. What was once a cold night, brings to a heat and romantic evening once a woman is seen by her man looking gorgeous accentuating her figure and curves in a pretty lingerie. This is not about sex or being sensual that makes a man more interested on her woman, oh no... it is because a man sees her woman as a confident and self-loving person who knows how to appreciate herself. It is this which actually makes a man attractive to her partner. How about you, do you have more reasons why you love to wear lingerie? If not...you should. It's sexy and alluring. It's captivating and so seductive. Make his jaw hit the floor and his mouth water for more. When a woman brings confidence to the table, it sets the bar high! She says. Want me, take me, dance with me.

Trust and the Hurdles of Dating in Your 40s, 50s, 60s

We go through stages of our lives where we are with someone, then without for a variety of reasons; we break-up, split-up, get dumped, do the dumping, file for divorce, or worse, lose a loved one to illness, a tragic accident, etc. Starting over is never easy, in fact it is far more difficult than most might think. There are so many hurdles. Dating in your 40s and even in your 50s and 60s is nothing that we remember when we dated back in our teenage and high school or college days. Getting back on that horse as they call it would be a lot easier if people didn't feel the need to have to lie about themselves or their lives. Part of what makes dating so difficult is the need to elaborate the truth about yourself, your job, your income, and the life you live...so what do people do? What happened to good old fashion honesty?


Let's start with the ladies; Women demand honesty and respect and I don't think (and I'm not speaking for all women here, but I don't think that we ask for all that much really?...) If you say you'll call, then call. If you don't think you can see her all week until the weekend then don't say I'll come over your house tonight for dinner. DON'T tell a woman what YOU THINK she wants to hear. Forget the sad excuses, and if you think that by ignoring her that she will forget, you are so wrong. We women don't forget. Don't tell her you are interested if you have other women on the back burner, and don't act interested if you are not. There is a little thing calling being up front with her. Just say; I want to date others, or I don't want a serious relationship, or show that you are totally into her, tell her what she wants to hear and then just drop off the planet. This is only appeasing YOU fellas and that is bad. This also sets the tone for women that you couldn't tell the truth if you had to.

Now...I am not at all saying that it is just men that act as such. Women are certainly not above telling "white lies," or even bald-faced ones, if it serves their purposes ("size doesn't matter," "we can still be friends," "work has me too busy to date"), while at the same time demanding total honesty from men. 

Someone told me recently that women force men to lie. What the hell does that mean? Some men that I spoke with stated that the majority of women out there won't even bother to have a conversation with a man unless he has the right job, owns a house in a geographically-desirable area, and earns a large salary. If this is true and you are one of those women...SHAME ON YOU! There is much more to a man than his worth and most men that I know that have money do not go around flaunting what they make, have or brag up all the rich friends that they have. What ever happened to just being yourself and allowing the woman to decide if she likes you for YOU? Researchers have found that women tend to lie to spare someone's feelings or to avoid conflict. Men tend to lie to make themselves seem more impressive, or to get something – that something usually being sex. Does that make it right? NO!

A man on the other hand will be constrained to submerge his true personality and adjust his opinions in the hope of getting a little sex or in some cases, and you know who you are...a lot of sex. This show common grounds of disrespect to say the very least. Instead of allowing men to express themselves openly and honestly, most women force men to be "politically correct," sometimes even at the threat of losing their jobs or if their finances are not up to par. Some men,... not all men, lie to make themselves seem more impressive when approaching women. They see the dating game as a competition and think they have to outdo their competition. Some men will take it to the next level and go on to lie about wanting a lasting, intimate relationship. They assume women want this, and that only by hinting at a relationship can they get love, sex, and companionship. Then they find themselves trapped in a relationship they didn't want, pretending to be someone they're not. So they lie to get space from their partner. Or they lie and cheat on that partner. And finally, they lie to escape. You'll find this often on dating sites. My question is simple? Why lie? Why not just be yourself? If being yourself is not good enough for someone else, they don't deserve your true worth.

We all hit bumps in the road but those bump should open our eyes to a true reality and teach us that if we want to find the 'right' person that will give us the love and respect that we deserve should consider the other persons feelings and not just theirs. Life is all about bumps in the road but nothing troubles me more than dishonest people in the dating world.  I read an article in a men's magazine recently that stated; telling a few lies can be one of the best ways to keep your relationship healthy. I soooo totally disagree. Relationships start with friendship and friendships are built on a solid foundation of trust. Without trust your foundation will sink like quick sand. It will not survive. Relationships built on lies MAY hold up for a while, but like with any other lies, eventually they catch up to you. 

Lying So Not Cool....

So should you always be honest with your mate?  The truth is, if you want to keep your relationship healthy, YES. Sometimes you don't want to bare it all or share something very personal so you think that a little creative sugarcoating with fix it right up. WRONG. Don't lie, there is no reason to. Just be honest...even if it mean hurting the other persons feeling now, it's better to hear the truth than question himself or herself down the road as to what they possibly did to deserve this?

How Can I Tell He/She is Lying to Me?

• Eye contact: When he won't meet your eye when he/she tells you something, your inner alarm should start ringing.

• Body language: Blushing, sweating, scratching a maddening itch, and NO DIRECT EYE CONTACT- such responses can be a reflection of his/her body's reaction to covering up the truth.

• Credibility: Try to see if his words sound plausible. Some people, in the panic of being forced to lie, can blurt out the most absurd story that is just impossible to believe.

• Repetition: If the man/woman repeats the question you ask them, they are generally buying more time to formulate the lie. My questions is WHY? isn't it so hard to lie over and over and over again?

• Gut instinct: You have a powerful secret weapon left: listen to your instincts. I do. You will sometimes experience a strong feeling that something's not right. The biggest mistake you can ever make in such a situation is to ignore this gut feeling. Wise up! Don't ignore this! If something doesn't feel right, follow your gut. If you feel that the line of communication have hit a wall, it's time to shit or get off the pot. No one wants to date a liar.

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About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s Lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®