Saturday, November 3, 2012

Men, Body Language and First Impressions

Men try to make a great first impression but most often, they fall short and it turns out all wrong. Is it what they say or what they do that turns the perfect moment into a complete nightmare? Truth be told, an awful lot of men focus on exactly what they’ll say to a woman when they approach. They wonder why they can use a line and get blown off, while another man can show up three minutes later, use the same line, and get her to go out with him. Some say that men are harder to decipher than ancient hieroglyphics. Not really...it's all in the body language, so pay attention!

Watch his eyes girls!You will be able to tell what he's feeling just by looking into them.Watch a man's eyes for an indication of his interest. Men's eyes tend to roam around when they are looking for an available female. When they catch what they believe is a positive response, their eyes widen and they may wink or smile and hold a stare. Men's pupils tend to dilate when they see someone or something that interests them. If he makes direct eye contact and holds your gaze, he is trying to show that he's interested. If he avoids eye contact completely, he is either trying to avoid you or he is feeling intimidated by you. A quick wink or frequent blinking both indicate interest and a desire to get to know the other person better.
 

The truth is that when you approach a woman, she’s evaluating you before you even say a word. Notice his stance as you look to decipher male body language. It isn’t so much what you say, but in the split second that she first sees you and forms her first impression of you, she has already subconsciously decided whether or not to give you a chance.It shows in your style, and your confidence. 

She is watching you from a distance and waiting to see what type approach you will have, so make sure that you have your act together. Now is the time to be confident and as Madonna would say; "Strike a Pose." She wants to see positive assertion, not a shy guy afraid to step up to the plate and kick it up a notch. Now is the time to take a risk and get her attention. Sometimes you only have one chance, so make it count!Watch for negative male body language signals such as lack of eye contact, poor posture, hiding of the hands, mumbling, stuttering, mispronunciation, extraneous body movements and darting eyes. These gestures indicate that he is either insecure, uninterested, bored, keeping something from you, lying to you or he's nervous. Negative male body language is basically a sign that he is anxious to get away for some reason. If you feel that he is nervous, try to make him feel more at ease by shifting attention away from yourself.

 
Sure it takes a lot of work to undo a first impression if it is all wrong. The good news is that her first impression of you depends on how you behave. If you behave in a way that’s reassuring, calm, and confident, she’s going to be much more open to the idea of dating you. On the contrary to all that macho crap your guy friends talk to you about, we ladies like the soft sweet man with a sensative side.


If you behave as if you aren’t sure you should be talking to her, she might not think you should be, either. Hey, you have the same chance as the next guy so make this time matter so if you find the woman that you really wish to impress, make the moment matter.There are also some behaviors that will cause women to immediately lose interest in you, and others that will catch her attention. It's all about your body language and let me tell you...we can read you a mile away. Yup, that's right. You don't have to do a darn thing, we watch and observe. Nothing speaks louder than ones body language.
Body language can communicate that you are nervous or desperate, or it can communicate that you are confident and secure. Your posture may be accidentally telling women that you aren’t interested in a girlfriend now. Or, worse, you may be coming across as creepy, arrogant, or antisocial. You might think that’s a little silly, but remember that women’s brains work differently than yours. Women are highly attuned to both verbal and nonverbal language. Listen fellas...to a woman, it really matters if you stand up straight – it says something important about you. It also really matters if you approach her head on, from the side, or from behind. When she meets you, she creates an idea of you. 

What you seem like to her determines the way she’s going to act toward you. Body language goes both ways. You can learn to read her behavior to see if she’s noticed you yet, if she’s interested, and if she’s likely to be friendly when you introduce yourself. On a date, you’ll be able to tell if she’s comfortable with you. Reading her cues will make you seem smarter and more in tune with her needs. She’ll feel that you’re really listening to her and that she’s important to you. That will make you more important to her, and you’re well on your way to a great relationship.



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