How in the world do you... PUT ON A GARTER BELT?

Many of us enjoy the look of garters and stockings BUT hey....there are several  women who may never have had the opportunity to wear this type of hosiery before. If you are having a difficult time getting prepared for a night in the bedroom where a garter belt will play a role, here is a simple set of instructions that will help you to get ready, and to make sure that you are looking your best. Simply Delicious Lingerie sells sexy garter belt sets and sexy matching sets!

Hey, first things first... with the garter belt and stockings...what you need to do is to make sure that the garter belt fits correctly. There is nothing like a woman trying to squeeze her ass and thighs into a garter too small for her...one, it is painful as hell, and two, there is NO reason for it what so ever! The look and feel are about being comfortable., so do NOT be afraid to buy a larger size, you are only hurting yourself if you cheat! 

Remember, It should sit around the waistline and fit without dropping, but you would not want it to be too tight. Typically, there will be a size chart that you can use as a guide and you should measure loosely around the waist in order to match your size. Along with the size of the garter belt, you also want to choose the material and this can make a large difference in the way that it fits, as well as the way that it looks.

There are going to be a number of different clasps on the garter belt, usually between 4 and 12. For use in the bedroom, where you’re not really going to be trying to hold the stockings up for a long period of time, 2-4 clasps is usually going to be enough. Most men, as well as women also consider this to be the better looking option. You can also go with additional clasps as well, as this will give you the option of wearing the garter belt underneath your clothing and not having to worry about losing your stockings in the middle of the day.

Make sure that any garter belt you choose is adjustable, and that the straps are going to allow you to tighten the hose properly. When tightening the straps on the back of the hose, you would want to lift one leg up on a chair or other piece of furniture in order to make sure that the length is long enough so that it does not detach when stretched. Finally, you will attach the stockings to the garter belt using the clasps that are available. Make sure that you choose nylons which have the thicker top, known as a welt, as this will give the additional material that will help to keep the two attached properly. Here is a question that a woman asked me not all that long ago? How do you go to the bathroom when you are strapped into a garter belt and stockings? UGH! Pain in the ASS...but there is a way...so watch the video below with the best suggestion for this...you'll be glad that you did!

If you still are having technical difficulties, which lets face it ladies,..we all do from tome to time...watch the video below with helpful tips and shop www.Simplydeliciouslingerie.com for all of your lingerie needs. 

 About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

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Cardio Boosts Sexy 6 Pack

Strengthen your abdominal core muscles and lose your body fat. The concept may sound simple, but putting it into action can be quite challenging. It will take dedication, time and patience to get a six pack; but in the end, the effort is well worth it. To get six pack abs you need to do two things; those are to lose fat, and build more body muscle.You get this by dieting and exercising daily. You can have the most toned and muscular abs, but it will not show if there is a layer of fat over them. This article will discuss ways in which you can accomplish both of these goals.

1. Do cardio workouts! Important step to get six pack abs: There is NO way to target fat loss in any area of your body. You need to lose some of that extra fat over your abs. Even if you work out and get gigantic ab muscles, if there is still a layer of fat over them no one will ever get to see them. Cardio workouts are workouts that raise your heart rate for a given set of time. Some examples would be running, jogging,  biking, climbing, etc.
   
   Eat smaller meals! Large dinners tend to hurt a fat loss process because most people aren't very active after dinner. This is the basis for advice along the lines of "don't eat anything within a certain number of hours before going to bed". The claim that your entire dinner is stored as fat isn't entirely true. The process is more complicated than that, but the fact you don't move after dinner is enough to hurt your cause. You can offset this by eating a larger lunch or even snacking healthier before dinner. Fresh fruits or vegetables are excellent choices for curbing appetite not to mention other health benefits. A handful of nuts might do the same. Drink a large glass of water before sitting at the table. 

    Do eat breakfast! Many people (including myself so often) skip breakfast because they don't have time for it. The harm of skipping breakfast from a weight loss perspective is it makes you eat a huge lunch since your body hasn't had anything in the past 12 (or more) hours. When you eat a huge lunch you get that after meal drowsiness so now you're both unproductive and inactive. Cereals don't take much time to prepare and consume, and most of them are very healthy nowadays. If you are extremely pressed for time, consider grabbing a box of breakfast bars or a smoothie and throwing one in your bag when you leave for work or school. Some breakfast bars out there are also excellent sources of fiber. Even an apple or a yogurt is better than nothing. Ideally, your breakfast should be the biggest meal of the day, lunch the second, and dinner the smallest. 

    Do you lift weights?The more muscle your body has, the more calories your body burns, even at rest. Plus, resistance training is important to limit the amount of muscle mass lost whilst reducing your calorie intake. If you only do cardiovascular exercises (running, playing basketball, football) without weight training then you may lose the muscle mass, including the muscle in your abs.

    Switch out refined grains for whole grains. In a scientific study, people who ate all whole grains (in addition to five servings of fruits and vegetables, three servings of low-fat dairy, and two servings of lean meat, fish, or poultry) lost more belly fat than another group that ate the same diet, but with all refined grains. A diet rich in whole grains changes the glucose and insulin response in your body, which hastens the melting of fat, and visceral fat, that deep layer of fat, is easier for your body to burn than the subcutaneous fat under your skin (the fat that you can see and grab).

     

    Do Sit Ups! Lie on the floor, feet on the floor, knees up and hands crossed on your chest. Have someone hold your feet down, or wedge them underneath something heavy. Sit all the way up, lifting your lower back off the floor along with your shoulder blades. Keep your back straight (no hunching). Lower yourself down. Repeat. Once this becomes relatively easy for you (i.e. you can do a quite a bit with ease) start adding more challenges. Find an incline bench. Do weighted sit ups. Hold a weight on your chest while you do these. As these become easier, hold heavier and heavier weights.

    Have you trained your entire core? To build really great abs it's important to first understand what abs do. Their full name is 'rectus abdominis'. The 'rectus' bit, is Latin for 'straight, proper, upright'. Contrary to popular opinion, the abs' primary job is not to curl you up into a ball, but they work together with the back muscles to maintain correct posture and stabilize the spine. These muscles are not just for show! So the best exercises for abs are ones that force your entire core to go into overdrive to support your spine. Also do jack-knife sit ups, leg lifts, and static holds.

   
   Train your oblique muscles. It's not as important to work on your oblique muscles at first, but eventually you'll want to start working these too. These are the muscles to either side of your stomach. There are multiple ways to do this and anything that includes twisting your torso against a resistance counts. When you put all of the time and effort into your body, it will give you back what you desire...who doesn't want a sexy 6 pack? It just takes time, energy and the will to make it happen! Keep this routine up and you will be looking FINE. I wanna break me off a piece of that and I'm not talking about the Kit Kat Bar!

   
   

   
   

   

   
   

How to Get a Flat Tummy

Yea ladies, you too can have the lean, flat stomach you've always wanted...but please don't think that this is going to happen over night, because it won't. My grandmother used to always say that Rome wasn't built over night,...nor does weight appear over night, so don't think it is going to magically disappear in a "poof!" These things take time, effort, and will power...and I don't know about you, but I really dislike exercise...I always have, BUT I DO IT! It makes you feel so much better and it is so healthy for you. Do it for you, not for anyone else. Make these nutrition, exercise, and posture tips part of your daily life and you'll blast away your belly fat...I promise, you'll see!

Eating for a Flat Stomach:

1. Maintain a healthy body weight. If you're already above your ideal weight, you'll need to burn more calories than you consume to lose those excess pounds. It's great to tone your stomach muscles, but they'll remain hidden until you shed any fat that covers them.

2. Get plenty of fiber. A diet high in fiber will help prevent bloating. Whole wheat and other grains also help you feel fuller faster, and most vegetables are low in calories.

3. Cut down on sodium. Many people eat twice as much sodium as health experts recommend. Too much salt can lead to high blood pressure as well as bloating. The biggest culprit is processed food, so read those nutrition labels and prepare your own dishes from fresh ingredients. Drinking plenty of water also helps to lower your sodium levels.

4. Eat smaller meals. If lavish dinners make your belly bulge, try switching to smaller and more frequent meals. Eat 5 to 6 times a day every 3-4 hours. You'll be less likely to get hungry and overindulge.

5. See your doctor. If you're losing weight but failing to see any change in your waistline, talk with your doctor. There are tests that can detect if you have food allergies. You may need to avoid certain foods or take enzyme drops or tablets for lactose intolerance.

Exercising for a Tighter Tummy:

1. Understand the myth of spot reduction. Your body gains weight all over and loses it the same way. Forget about the miracle gadgets advertised on television that promise instant results. Save your money and devote your energy to more sensible eating and regular exercise.

2. Do aerobics daily. Aerobic exercise is the best way to burn more calories. Take a daily walk or run. Go swimming or skating. Aim for about 30 minutes of activity a day. Supplement that with lifestyle changes like using the stairs instead of the elevator.

3. Strengthen your upper body muscles. Building strong muscles in your shoulders, chest, and back will improve your posture and keep your abdomen from sticking out. Do some weight training or Pilates a few times each week.

4. Tone your stomach muscles. Spot exercises are effective in combination with aerobics and strength training. Crunches and leg lifts tighten and tone your stomach muscles.

5. Have fun. Make your exercise routine enjoyable so you'll want to stick with it. Design a variety of activities. Reward yourself when you make progress towards a slimmer waistline.

Improving Your Posture:

1. Tuck your tummy in. Imagine that you're pressing your navel back against your spine. Even if it feels a little awkward at first, it will quickly become a habit with regular practice. The results are fast. Your abdomen will look flatter. You'll breathe more deeply and feel more energetic. Even your clothes will look better.

2. Pull your shoulders back. Letting your shoulders drop back and relax helps to raise your chest up. This way, all of your core muscles support your weight instead of making just your abdomen carry the load.

3. Keep your body in alignment. Whether sitting or standing, try to position your ears, shoulders and hips in one vertical line. Balance your weight evenly over the balls and heels of your feet while walking or standing. Switch positions occasionally when sitting or standing for a long time.

In other news; A flat tummy will make you feel more confident, and it work wonders on your health and appearance. Eat right, exercise, and stand up straight. You're going to absolutely love your new look. Once you look good and feel even better, shop at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com for all of your lingerie needs.  

  About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. 

For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  

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Need Bachelorette Party Ideas?

I may be a little biased here but it is because I own two lingerie shops and we offer luxury lingerie at affordable prices! When it comes to marriage, girls tend to get a little mushy and sedimental. Every woman loves when her girls put a party together for her where they can all get a little wild and crazy and go out on the town to celebrate those last few days/weeks/hours of being single. Times are a changing and now we find ourselves looking for bright fun new ideas for 'together time' with your friends! Might I suggest hosting a lingerie party?

 You can do it in the privacy of your own home. We don't sell kits but you can make one from products that you select and hand pick.You can do it online via the internet websites or through choosing your selections for the bride-to-be in a catalog. The best way is via the internet. New stylish trends that several women are telling me about, and that with the help of "Skype!" Now women don't necessarily even have to be in the same place to experience excitement. Simply Delicious Lingerie as well as Simply Luscious Lingerie are great ways to not only host a party but to earn some extra pocket cash. We offer sexy lingerie, bridal lingerie, wedding day lingerie, honeymoon lingerie, and plus size bridal lingerie. Check out our website for more information. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com 

When you host a party you also can ask for the 'party pleasures' and 'bachelorette boudoir' where you will find adult novelties and bachelorette fun!

Let's face it...Bachelorette Parties are not quite the time honored tradition of bachelor parties but they are increasing in popularity.Some other unique bachelorette party ideas include nightclub hopping excursions, spa retreats, dancing lessons or even a movie night. Regardless of the activity of choice the common theme in most bachelorette party is to embarrass the bride in a light-hearted and fun way that she will always remember!

Nightclub hopping is one of the most popular bachelorette party ideas. These parties often start out with a dinner at an elegant restaurant followed by stops for drinks and dancing at some of the most popular nightclubs in town. A good way to do this is to hire a limousine for the evening to drive all of the girls from destination to destination. A limousine is a great idea for a number of reasons.

 First it provides the opportunity for all the girls in the party to travel together for the evening plus it is also an elegant way to travel so it adds a sense of regality to the evening. While all of those reasons are worthwhile perhaps the most important reason to hire a car for the night is to ensure that everyone arrives safely at their destination.

 The girls in the bachelorette party will often create a veil for the bride to wear on the night of her bachelorette party. The appearance of the veil doesn’t matter as long as long as it is obtrusive and calls a great deal of attention to the bride. We sell a few fun veils at our website. It’s also typical for this type of party to send the bride on a scavenger hunt on the night of her bachelorette party. The other girls will usually get together ahead of time and create a list of activities for the bride to accomplish or objects to obtain. This type of bachelorette party is a great way for the bride to enjoy a night of dinner, dancing and drinks with her friends.

Spa retreats are another popular bachelorette party idea. For this party idea the bride to be and her friends get together at a spa where they can enjoy relaxing massages, facials, manicures, pedicures and other treatments while also making use of steam rooms, saunas and hot tubs. In addition to all of the treatments available most spas also provide wonderful meals chosen from a menu of low fat dishes. This type of bachelorette party offers the bride the chance to relax and connect with her friends while forgetting about all the stress involved with planning a wedding. Many brides get too caught up in the minute details that they forget to enjoy the process of planning but a spa retreat bachelorette party is the perfect remedy for this situation. 

Still another popular bachelorette party idea that is a little more risqué is a night of exotic dancing lessons. These types of parties are becoming increasingly popular especially as classes such as pole dance classes are beginning to spring up in popular health clubs. For these parties the girls usually gather either at a private home or a dance studio and a professional dancer comes in to teach the girls about the art of seduction through exotic dance. This can be a fun way for the girls to let loose and have fun and may inspire the bride to be to try out a few new moves on her wedding night. 

Another unique bachelorette party idea is for the maid of honor to host a movie night. The host could make sure to rent plenty of movies that the girls will enjoy and stock up on movie theater style goodies or create her own menu of hors devours. After the bride is married she will most likely make a lot of compromises in movie choices but her bachelorette party movie night could be her last chance to sit around with her friends watching tearjerker or romantic movies. This type of bachelorette party is just a fun way for the girl to get together to talk and have a good time together. 

The bachelorette party is a relatively new phenomenon over the past 10 years or so, and it is much different than what my friends planned for me back in the day...but now,  the idea is picking up steam and bachelorette parties are becoming more prevalent. The bachelorette party does not have the same connotations as a bachelor party. They are generally not seen as last nights of freedom but rather a night to bond with the girls. Have a great time doing whatever you choose to do and remember, friends are friends forever! Go have some fun!

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Man of Your Dreams... or "Just a Friend?"

This isn't a an article about good guys/bad guys. Oh no, not at all...It's about knowing what type of men you are attracting, variety of ways, and the why's? This is about women who  can spot a “guy friend” at 100 yards away! Trust me on this one.... you don’t want to be thrown in the friend bin - yet again! Certainly, good friend characteristics are similar to good boyfriend characteristics. These are: honesty, integrity, loyalty, respect, “being there” for her, attentiveness and reliability.Here’s the thing – those are also characteristics of a good dog. So, what you need is to have those, plus boyfriend characteristics that add to what you’re offering. You can overdo it with all those wonderful traits and end up seeming, again, like a trusted friend, but nothing else. 

OK, so now let’s look at how women decide what makes a good friend, and what makes a good boyfriend. We’ve already talked about what we’ll now refer to as “dog traits.” That’s not meant to downplay the value of those characteristics at all. They’re extremely valuable in life. But we need to find out what you must add (or even take away) to get on the potential boyfriend list. One the one hand, a woman doesn’t necessarily want a guy who has had a long list of romances and seems to move from one woman to the next as if there’s a production line.

On the other hand, if she knows you’ve been single forever, she’ll take that as a huge warning sign in neon. But what if you have been single forever? This might be a bit underhanded, and honesty is a very good thing, but you might want to find a way to keep from having that particular truth advertised without lying about it. 

 

You can say that it’s been awhile. You can say that you took some time after your last break-up to find out what was really important in life. You can say that while you do want to share your life with someone, you felt it was important to take time to be alone after your last break-up. However, telling a woman you’ve never had a date will make you sound desperate, insecure, and you’ll most likely end up on the good friend list. Here’s another thing that will get you on the best friends forever list, but will ban you from the boyfriends list: sharing your own “must-have” list for the woman of your dreams. 

If you care about ever getting a quality date, or a wife, keep your list to yourself because whoever you end up with is most likely not going to have all those things, all those characteristics and traits,...and she’s not going to be happy knowing that while you and she are having dinner, you’re going through your checklist to size up her shortcomings! No sir!

Women want to be accepted for who they are. Yes, there are always things that you would like to be different about her. Her hair, her boob size, her ass, her thighs, her nose, her weight, etc., but...There are things she’d change about you, too. Women aren’t without lists. But smart daters keeps it to themselves. We’ve already talked a little about desperation. There’s no place for it in dating and romance. Sometimes, it’s hard not to feel desperate, but you’re going to have to put that aside fellas. If you ask a woman out and she refuses, accept it and move on. Don’t ask her why and don’t keep bugging her. Be gracious about the refusal and start looking for someone else to ask out. Hey,...So if you pester and demand to know why, you’re going to look desperate. If you just move on, you’re doing yourself a super huge favor. She may even find you suddenly a bit more attractive if you don’t get all devastated about her rejection.That's right, walk away like you don't care. 

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Favorite Pieces of Lingerie

Women everywhere love feeling sexy. They love to feel confident and sensual. It is an amazing feeling. When women feel great on the inside it brings out a certain inner beauty. Lingerie is loved by all walks of life for a variety of reasons.There are many styles of lingerie and everyone loves the way it feels and looks, men and women alike. The issue is women like lingerie for different reasons than men. Men like women’s lingerie because it is sexy and turns them on. Day or night, it makes no difference, and if you ask a man when they like lingerie they'll tell you because it makes a woman look sexy and desirable to them. It's also a turn on! The lacier and more see-through, the happier they are. 

Women love lingerie because it makes them feel desirable. They love to feel the softness and see all their flaws hidden under the right design. Therefore, the lingerie designs that appeal to women are much different. It isn’t about looking like a porn star or a stripper; it is about sensuality and feeling good. Many women buy pieces of lingerie that enhance their best parts and hide those flaws they wish for no one to see. If you don’t like your thighs you will not feel sexy in a teddy but a sweet camisole will make you feel like a goddess. Here are the top pieces of lingerie that women love.

The corset can do so many wonderful things for women these days. It will hold you in and boost you up for an amazing appearance. The corset can give any size bust sexy cleavage. They look and feel great. A corset can make any woman feel sexy while she is wearing one. This garment will give you the perfect silhouette. For those ladies who cannot stand to look at their mid section this is the piece for you. It will hide anything you have under there and make you look full busted and trim wasted. Today you can wear a corset as the main attraction itself. It can be worn with slacks, jeans, or skirts. Corsets come in a variety of fabric and pattern designs. There are enough color designs to fill a crayon box. There is a corset for every occasion and outfit to make girl feel like a goddess. There are also those little naughty corsets that you can see straight through but make you feel covered for those more intimate nights. There is nothing sexier than a shear corset worn with a garter and stockings. 

The most important thing about the bustier is that it is a bra with a torso built into it. Even women with the largest of breasts will be held securely in place. You will not have to worry that everyday movements will force your top down and not support you or fall out of it. The bustier can even be purchased with or with out boning or lacing. Many bustiers have back lacing and offer buttons or hooks in the front for convenience. You can wear this incredible lingerie under all strapless outfits. You will know that you look great and feel awesome. This is a sexy intimate item, a dazzling outerwear piece, and all of the above wrapped into a sweet package. For a sexy, easy, and comfortable bustier for all day wear look for a fabric that is silky and/or satin. This will feel good on the skin and still look great after work hours with a sexy outfit. Silks and satins can also be combined with lace for that shear look with out being close to your most sensitive parts that might be irritating. There are two pieces of lingerie that women love for a few reasons. Comfort, and appeal. If a woman feels comfy she feels sexy. Feeling confident in what you are wearing makes a woman feel more desirable.

 The Baby Doll is described as a short nightgown with formed cups with a loose fitting skirt. Some come with their own matching panties or you can purchase them separately. They may also have many adornments such as bows, lace or ruffles. These are some of the most flattering pieces around. They hide all flaws and show your womanly figure with out reveling too much. Most of the sexier types are made of chiffon or sheer cloth or mesh.. They do come in other fabrics such as silk, satin and synthetic blends for a more versatile function. When buying that perfect Baby Doll lingerie remember to buy what makes you feel sexy. If you feel more comfortable go with bright or darker colors. Choose a length that works for you. It is about you feeling sexy to yourself. 

The Chemise is a slip like garment that has spaghetti type straps to hold it on the shoulders. It can be worn under dresses, skirts, and/or used as intimate apparel. Chemises come in an array of fabric types, colors, and designs. Some common types of chemises as lingerie are crushed velvet, silk, satin, lace, and mesh. You can have anything from solid colors that can range from bold, pastel, to earth tones. There are also two-toned chemises that have an array of color displays as well. What ever you decide to go with you can bet your will look fabulous and sexy. Shop at either of our lingerie boutiques for beautiful lingerie at luxury prices! www.simplydeliciosulingerie.com and www.simplylusciouslingerie.com are open 365/24/7 in the privacy of your own home. Visit our store day or night and select your favorite pieces that make you feel sexy!

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Test Drive Dating...

When I lived in Grand Rapids Michigan for 24 years I watched the same news station WZZM 13, day in and day out. I watched this show hosted by Lauren Stanton called "Try It Before You Buy It!" It was a great way to sit back and wait while someone else, or a panel tested a product(s) that you were interested in before you purchased it. It was a way of assuring the customers, and the televisions viewers that they were safe buying a new product on the market. What an awesome idea! I loved that show.

Products, like relationships have their ups and downs and they don't always appear as they seem that they would. Sometimes there are hidden agendas or surprises. Often they don't hold up well at all as they said that they would and most often more so than not, you just invested your time and money into a product or person that was not indeed at all what you had anticipated they would be, nor were they at all what you had hoped for. In all, products and people are somewhat the same.

With products we can take them back to the store or ship them back up to 30 days after purchase stating that it was 'false advertisement' or that the product didn't work properly. That the product failed, or broke. In new relationships, although, nothing at all like a product, you also have the option to say 'no.' No you can't send a person back, unless of course they are a mail order bride, and then 'can you?'

Think about it...you wouldn't hesitate to take a sweater back to the GAP after you bought it because you didn't like how it looked. You wouldn't think twice to take your sunglasses back to Chanel because the case was broken, or your Michael Kors dress because the clasp was missing, nor would you think twice to return a coat with a broken zipper, you wouldn't think twice to send a meal back because your sirloin was too pink inside and it turned your stomach,... so why on earth would you allow a person to linger in your life that was a negative influence on you, that might be putting you down, that is rude, and deceiving?

Out with the old and in with the new my grandmother used to always say. She used to tell me "Michele, men are like bus stops...if you don't see one you like, get off at the next corner and you may just find him there." Relationships are not set in stone. There is a trial period. If there is no real chemistry or connection, I don't think twice to say 'thanks, but no thanks.' I do it in a very nice way and tell him the truth, and then I move forward. I don't beat around the bush like so many men that I have dated did. Why would someone do that? What is the purpose exactly?

Why is it that people are afraid to say something to you directly, and more importantly, why on earth can't they tell you to your face? Why do they find it much easier to tell you via text, voice mail or over the phone? No guts, no glory. You aren't some piece of sirloin that they can send back just like that... with no reason. You deserve a response, and a good one at best. One should have morals and integrity. A man/woman who says they are sincere and that they have integrity that waits a week to call and state that they realized there were no sparks shows me that he/she was not worth it, nor are they the kind of person that any of you would want to date...NOT because they did not want to see you again, BUT because they did not have the guts to say it to your face.

 In terms of dating...aren't you glad that you have the opportunity to try it before you buy it? Aren't you glad that you can sort of take it on a test run so to speak to determine if it is going to be right for you? Nothing is permanent these days. Men, and women like products have limits and warranties. Figure this out BEFORE you get in too deep. Why do some people wait, and wait, and wait until then it is far too late to say something to the other person and the next thing you know you are sharing the same last name? That is just crazy.

So how do you find true love, or Mr Right? While you are out searching for him, and test dating...always instill in your mind that you need to be patient. You can't expect the right guy to come appearing out of nowhere. He won't come knocking at your door the very moment you decided to come and find him. He will come in the right place and in the right time. How to meet the right guy is all about patience.

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The Key to a Great Sex Life

 As George Michael once sang..."Let's Talk About Sex"...and what a hot topic that is! Those three letters 'S-E-X' are the most erotic, intoxicating, sensual words on the planet...BUT if you don't know how to use them correctly (and I don't mean directly under the sheets) you won't have a snowballs chance in hell to land the man or woman of your dreams. If you want a great sex life, there is one thing that is absolutely essential. It's not having a super-toned body or being naturally blonde. It's not having big boobs, a hot ass, a six figure salary or owning a fancy imported car. No, the essential element is conversation. 

So you might ask, "who needs all this chit-chat when you're making love with an attractive guy or gal?" Ummm...this is essential folks, so PAY ATTENTION! Well, let me rephrase that for a minute...If you're just having a short fling, you may be able to get away with little or no conversation, that's a given, why talk, he/she means nothing to you really... But if you want to keep your love life passionate and exciting making it long term, you're going to have to start talking more and getting to the core of what each of you truly wants. I wrote about this topic before, but some of you must have fallen off the turnip truck and hit your nugget too hard on the pavement because you're still not getting it? Not to worry my friends...you'll be fine.

Here are three ways to use conversation to improve and sustain your sex life as well as your love life;

Communicate about what you want from your partner...In better terms; "Speak Up and Spit It Out!"

Hey listen, don't be shy...now's not the time. He has seen you from head to toe and everywhere in between, so please, spare me the 'I"m old fashion' story. You can talk, talk talk, but that doesn't always necessarily mean that you are communicating. You can talk until you are blue in the face...Now, body language on the other hand is fair play and it gets the point across much faster. Your lover can't read your mind any more than you can read hers (or his). Giving non-verbal communication in the bedroom is helpful, eye catching and alluring. If that still isn't getting you what you want, it's time to try putting your desires into words and as Madonna sang "Express Yourself!" 

This is where you put phase 2 into action. Always bring along a can of Reddi Whip. Turn a nervous night into a positive spin...who doesn't like a 'body sundae?' No need to talk, just use your lips and tongue. Now they know what you want, but finding out what your partner wants is equally important. If you're a guy who's a little confused about how to please your lady, the answer is simple. The best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask her. Crazy huh? It works really it does. Many women (and quite a few men) are just dying to talk about their fantasies and desires. All they need is a sincere invitation to open up, and you can offer that. If you are still having a difficult time, and the words just don't seem to be flowing, use what God gave you, your natural instincts and talk with your body.

Spice up lovemaking with some hot topic conversation

No, this isn't a suggestion to discuss the latest stock drops on Wall Street, ESPN News, or which famous celebrity was spotted on the strip. However, a little naughty and explicit sex talk while you are making love can add a new dimension of excitement. Not sure how to start? Begin by describing how gorgeous your partner's body is and how aroused you are getting. Talk about what you're doing, what you're about to do, and how it's going to make your partner feel. Even if you don't normally use explicit language, this may be the time to get a bit naughty. Relax and shed those inhibitions.It would certainly help if you were wearing our lingerie from Simply Delicious Lingerie, or Simply Luscious Lingerie, all affordable, sexy lingerie, bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie, sexy matching sets, bra & thong sets, babydolls, teddies, chemises, stockings and garters...we sell it all from $9.99 - $29.99, check out our online boutiques.

Give your partner some positive feedback

If there's one thing we all love, it's a sincere compliment. It attributes to our attitude and our self-esteem. No one, and I mean no one wants to hear what they did wrong in bed, or how disappointing they were...so have a heart and be nice. Remember, if it was disappointing...that means that it wasn't just one of you, it was both of you that made it as such. Communication is key and without how will you know what the other wants in bed? Many people are a little insecure about their sexual abilities and they secretly wonder if they are good enough in bed? Make a point of telling your partner how exciting and skillful he or she was last night. Telling them that they were a 'hot piece of ass' is not romantic and intriguing to a woman, so lose that and try also to mention something specific they did and how great it made you feel. Remember, you need not make a big deal about it. Even a few whispered words just before you leave for work will keep your partner glowing with pleasure all day long. 

If you're already doing some of these things, great! But if it's never occurred to you that conversation is essential for a great sex life, you may be surprised at how much of a difference just a few words can make. When you communicate about what you want, talk naughty at appropriate moments, and praise your partner's skill and desirability, you'll find that the payoff is much more than you could have imagined. If you really want to turn up the heat, check out our Delicious Deals where we sell a variety of adult sex swings that will give you and your partner hours of pleasure. http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/sex-swing-whip-smart-pleasure-swing 

Isn't it time that you took your love life as well as your sex life to the next level? Always remember that “We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” Communication...it is the key to a great sex life!

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Why the Booty Call?

Booty-Call	:
	1. noun: a person with whom one has sex at random anytime day or night with someone that they have no attachment to whatsoever. No strings, no dating, no love, no commitment, that's right, it is a NSA relationship.

 Oh boy...Now here's a super HOT topic that we all talk about from time to time; The famous BOOTY CALL! Booty Call lives in a lovely grey area somewhere between the one-night-stand and the relationship and serves to supply consenting adults with a high-energy sexual release without the baggage and time involved in dating.The booty call; every man has heard about it and virtually every man loves it. The problem with it, however, is its fragility. When does the definition differ from booty call to sugar daddy? Is there a fine line, and what is the distinction between the two?

You can have it today and it can be gone tomorrow, all depending on how you behave. In today's fast-paced world, people have less and less time to commit to a relationship or even to date for that matter, but that doesn't mean that they can't have a partner to satisfy their primal needs: sexual intercourse.

Let me tell you a little secret all players know: women are just as horny as men. This does not mean that they're all horizontally accessible. Au contraire, they need a steady lover who will satisfy their sexual needs with little or no strings attached. By doing so, these nice women will avoid the sleazy reputation that goes along with a one night stand.

You probably won't find the term Booty Call in the dictionary...at least not yet, unless it's the 'urban dictionary' and there you can find anything..... But it seems like the phrase has slowly crept into our common vernacular, so much so that there are already rules (both written and unwritten) governing how to behave.

After conducting some strenuous research on the subject, I have gone through my field-notes in an attempt to supply you with nine simple rules about the Booty Call.

1. Brunch is the Enemy of the Booty Call This may seem a little harsh but the one and only purpose of the Booty Call is to get off. Once you're done, get up, get dressed and go home! If you're having a Booty Call because you don't want to sleep alone, you're in dangerous territory and emotional involvement is lurking somewhere around the corner. If you end up sleeping over, there's only one place for things to go and that's brunch. Brunch is the enemy of the Booty Call. You didn't make the call because you wanted to chat over a cup of coffee. Your friends can supply you with that.

2. No Timetables So... it's that time and you're lying in bed alone and you are a man with raging hormones!Yes, you are a horn dog so to speak. So, what are you going to do? You make the call. The key to successful Booty Calling is to keep things uncomplicated, relaxed and elastic. If you make the call on a schedule, things are going to get very stale very fast.


3. No Meeting in Public Again, this may seem a little harsh, but this rule is definitely a good one to follow. Remember this: meeting your booty call in public is called "a date." You and your BC should only live in an erotic fantasy world that doesn't exist outside of the bedroom.

4. Look Good SEXY LINGERIE= SAY... YES!® (your everyday sexy) to SIMPLY DELICIOUS LINGERIE.

Yes, the sex is almost guaranteed. No, it's not a date. But you're still going to have to make an effort to look and smell good. Make sure your Booty Calls get accepted by staying on top of your outward appearance. After all, letting things slide with the way you present yourself is for those people in long-term relationships. 

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5. Don't Expect Anything in Return...The Booty Call should only be made (and accepted) by those who want to have sex at that moment. Nothing more, and nothing less. If your BC stops calling you or stops accepting your calls, don't take it personally. It is what it is. Maybe they finally came to the realization that they deserve more and want more? Remember, it was never a personal relationship to begin with. It was purely sexual and had no strings attached.

Now lets talk about the booty call and a sugar daddy....same thing? Pretty much, but that certainly depends on who all you ask! The #1 reason why there are so many sugar daddies and sugar daddy sites online is because men want sex or a quickie but with no ties. Some people just want the companionship, and lust with no love or strings attached. In most cases men will financially take care of their mistress, lover or sugar baby because they care enough to do so, yet at the same time it frees them of being in relationship. In today's era, it is becoming more and more significant and it goes both ways for men and women. Yes, there are also sugar mama's too! If you are seeking sites to try, scroll down on my Blog page as I have a few listed that are very reputable and reliable. They are also free to try so if you are looking for a NSA type relationship this may be the avenue for you. Yes it is still like having the booty call, but in a classier setting. A sugar daddy won't necessarily call you in the middle of the night, but he might buy you beautiful lingerie, jewelry and clothing. He may also take you away somewhere to an exotic and erotic place for fantasy, foreplay and pleasure!

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Sexual Seduction and Body Stimulation

Is sex a dirty thing? I say absolutely not, but it depends on who you ask. As "Salt & Pepper" once said...."lick it like a lollipop should be licked" ...but I don't think she was referring to a lollipop when they sang... It makes You Want to "Shoop!" Sexual seduction and body stimulation is natural. We all know that sexuality is a natural part of life and so it is not surprising that many of us have a great interest in the subject. Who doesn't? We all think about it, and we all desire it. So what do we do? We fantasize, we flirt and we hope that one day you'll meet someone that will light your fire...ignite your spark, and send you soaring. Specialty stores carrying an impressive range of sexual aids and accessories are popping up in just about every city and town, not to mention on the Internet. Sex toys are popular and gaining mainstream acceptance because they serve many purposes. Here are three good reasons for buying a sex toy and one reason to think twice before you spend the money:

1) Your sex life is getting way too boring?

After you've been with someone for a while, lets face it...it's easy to slip into a sexual routine where you do the same things every time. It doesn't have to be like this though. Look for ways to keep it fresh. By a new teddy, or a babydoll, or a sex swing if you really want to get his motor running. You can have hours of pleasing passion on the whip smart pleasure swing. Don;t let it get to the point where you have sex more out of habit than desire. Hey,  what you need, whether you realize it or not, is something to jump start your stalled love life. Sex toys are an easy and fun way to bring novelty and surprise to the bedroom. They will help you and your partner to experience new sensations and explore your erotic fantasies together. www.SimpyDeliciousLingerie.com sells sex swings for $119.99 Go to Delicious Deals. What happens next? Shazam! Fireworks, multiple O's. the whole kit and caboodle folks! Turn it around and give your partner something to remember that will make them beg you for more.

2) Are you or your partner having difficulty reaching orgasms?

If your partner says it doesn't matter whether she (or he) comes, don't believe it. It does matter. Work with me on this one...if your partner doesn't know what pleasures you anymore, tell him, show him, make him/her understand what it is that trips your trigger. We are all entitled to enjoy sex as much as we can. But many women and a significant number of men sometimes have problems reaching climax. In that case, sex toys are a great tool for increasing arousal and helping things along because they provide an intense or unusual type of stimulation. A mutually satisfying sex life is a significant factor in the long-term success of your relationship. Don't underestimate its importance. The right moves will assist to produce the "Big O"will keep that visual of your ass and hips swaying back and forth for hours in his mind. Oh his thoughts will definitely be all on you for sure!

3) You want to enjoy sex without a partner

Most of us have the need and desire to express our erotic nature. Typically we seek out a partner for physical intimacy. But there are times in just about every one's life when they are alone. You may be single, widowed, divorced, or too busy to pursue a relationship. Fortunately, many toys are great for solitary play. 

Of course, a toy isn't exactly a substitute for a warm body, but it's far better than some other options. You don't have to hook up with a stranger just to get a little satisfaction. Vibrators? Every gal should have at least one.You don't have to go into unsafe situations or spend too much money hoping for an invitation back to your date's apartment. Believe it or not, even a person in a relationship may enjoy solo play and the freedom to explore his or her own body at leisure. However, there are times when a sex toy really isn't the solution and you need the "REAL DEAL!" 

 For example, don't buy a sex toy to replace your significant other. If you are rejecting the sexual aspect of your relationship and choosing instead to spend time alone with your toy, that's a bad sign. You really need to deal with whatever issues you may be having instead of distancing yourself from your partner. Sex toys are simply a means to let you express your erotic side in a new way. They are not a magic remedy for all your problems. They can, however, make a dull evening more interesting or promote greater intimacy in a relationship. If you have realistic expectations about what a sex toy can do for you, you'll probably find that the money you spend on toys is some of the best you've ever spent. Pay close attention to your partner...when you are both on the same page it makes your time together so much more rewarding. Caress her, and touch her, and show her that you are turned on by her presence. What does this mean exactly? Drive her crazy so that she wants more of you, no hardware!

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