I hear it at least 5 times a day in our Q&A Fashionista letters to Tantalizing Tina. People ask what women are afraid of? Some might say that women hide behind their baggy clothes… women don't know how to dress sexy enough,… women are not willing to let down their guard down, or some women just aren't the right size or shape to pull off lingerie. My response here is going to be short and sweet. Whomever is making these accusations and comments obviously has never slipped into a piece of lingerie before. It has been said that confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear…so why then might some of us be less reluctant to slither into it? We all have insecurities folks.
Women do not hide behind their clothes for a reason, and no, not all women do know how to dress. From a woman's point of view, we do put up shields, and our guard can be up like Fort Knox. Often we do hide behind a huge wall but this is for many reasons. None of us are the perfect size or shape. Some of us have fatty pockets where others may not, and some of us may not have been blessed with hooters of great size. Some of us after childbirth sag more or have larger hips…so what? Size or shape has nothing to do with the inner feeling of sex appeal that goes along with lingerie. Some may say that lingerie is not for every woman and I tend to disagree. Regardless of your age, height, shape, size or weight, there is intimate apparel for all women.
If a woman has never really worn lingerie before, she may feel safe in her comfort zone (as I would call it.) There is absolutely nothing wrong with fear of the unknown especially when it comes to putting on something that you've never worn before. Might I suggest to these women that if you are one that I speak of, don't sweat the small stuff…lingerie is meant to be sensual and sexy. You shouldn't feel sluty in it and if you do then it certainly is not the right selection for you. With the hundreds of pieces that I sell at both of my online boutiques Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie (my plus size store) there are a variety of brands, designers, sizes, colors and mixtures to give you an array of choices. Buying lingerie is like taking baby steps. Go slow and with caution. Find something simple and for heaven sakes, walk around the house in your undergarments so that you feel comfy in them. Love the way they hug your curves! I happen to like babydolls because they camouflage some of the weaker areas that a woman would rather hide, yet they still provide a sexy glimpse of what is underneath.
We sell discounted lingerie for women so that she can afford to wear it and so that she can look sexy. When we look sexy in lingerie it builds our confidence. Every woman needs to have confidence in herself. It does not mean putting on something slinky. It means finding what makes you feel comfortable and pretty. Personally I love women's lingerie sets. There is also something to be said about our partners liking the simple things, but it has to be eye catchy. A sexy matching set is as simple as buying yourself a new bra and panty ensemble. The top 3 favorite colors are; black, red, and white but that doesn't mean that you have to wear any of these colors. Lace and satin are great fabrics. In fact, I suggest finding something in the color and style that you are comfortable with.
Yes women want to look alluring and intriguing, nonetheless, if we feel out of character wearing something that is ridiculously too small or too tight, we'll never want to put another piece of lingerie on again. Whether it be a babydoll, chemise, sexy corset, sexy matching set, role play costume, etc., wear it because it makes you feel like a million bucks inside and out. You are sexy ladies, so take ownership of that and watch your confidence level hit the charts!
Women do not hide behind their clothes for a reason, and no, not all women do know how to dress. From a woman's point of view, we do put up shields, and our guard can be up like Fort Knox. Often we do hide behind a huge wall but this is for many reasons. None of us are the perfect size or shape. Some of us have fatty pockets where others may not, and some of us may not have been blessed with hooters of great size. Some of us after childbirth sag more or have larger hips…so what? Size or shape has nothing to do with the inner feeling of sex appeal that goes along with lingerie. Some may say that lingerie is not for every woman and I tend to disagree. Regardless of your age, height, shape, size or weight, there is intimate apparel for all women.
If a woman has never really worn lingerie before, she may feel safe in her comfort zone (as I would call it.) There is absolutely nothing wrong with fear of the unknown especially when it comes to putting on something that you've never worn before. Might I suggest to these women that if you are one that I speak of, don't sweat the small stuff…lingerie is meant to be sensual and sexy. You shouldn't feel sluty in it and if you do then it certainly is not the right selection for you. With the hundreds of pieces that I sell at both of my online boutiques Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie (my plus size store) there are a variety of brands, designers, sizes, colors and mixtures to give you an array of choices. Buying lingerie is like taking baby steps. Go slow and with caution. Find something simple and for heaven sakes, walk around the house in your undergarments so that you feel comfy in them. Love the way they hug your curves! I happen to like babydolls because they camouflage some of the weaker areas that a woman would rather hide, yet they still provide a sexy glimpse of what is underneath.
We sell discounted lingerie for women so that she can afford to wear it and so that she can look sexy. When we look sexy in lingerie it builds our confidence. Every woman needs to have confidence in herself. It does not mean putting on something slinky. It means finding what makes you feel comfortable and pretty. Personally I love women's lingerie sets. There is also something to be said about our partners liking the simple things, but it has to be eye catchy. A sexy matching set is as simple as buying yourself a new bra and panty ensemble. The top 3 favorite colors are; black, red, and white but that doesn't mean that you have to wear any of these colors. Lace and satin are great fabrics. In fact, I suggest finding something in the color and style that you are comfortable with.
Yes women want to look alluring and intriguing, nonetheless, if we feel out of character wearing something that is ridiculously too small or too tight, we'll never want to put another piece of lingerie on again. Whether it be a babydoll, chemise, sexy corset, sexy matching set, role play costume, etc., wear it because it makes you feel like a million bucks inside and out. You are sexy ladies, so take ownership of that and watch your confidence level hit the charts!
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Thank you for pointing out that you can be any size to wear lingerie and that regardless of our size, all women have insecurities we need to overcome. I love your plus size boutique and I cannot wait to shop there! Simply Luscious Lingerie is going to take my confidence to a new level.
ReplyDeleteSincerely,
Carrie D,
Columbus OH