Dress Sexy, Talk Sexy...Put On Those Bedroom Eyes!

Dress Sexy!

I say this all the time...what you wear and how you look are key. No need to over do it. A classy woman knows just how to entice a man and she certainly doesn't have to get slutty to do so. A true gentleman wants a woman that has her act together; a woman who he could be proud to be with and a woman who looks sexy, not smutty. This should go without saying when you are figuring out how to turn a man on. While most girls already know that men get turned on by what they see, few understand just how powerfully it turns guys on. How many times have you been walking down the street and your man has turned his head to see a girl wearing something very sexy? 1) If this happens and you are with a man, you aren't doing the right thing and you certainly haven't impressed him much or he would be focusing ALL of his attention on YOU! 2) Use this to your advantage to turn your boyfriend on. Men love foreplay, seduction and a sophisticated woman. Here I go again....wear your LBD (little black dress) it works like a charm ALL THE TIME and it is CLASSY if worn right and dressed with the proper accessories!

Talk Sexy!
The next part to turning a guy on is by talking sexy. You may feel a little uncomfortable talking sexy at first, but this is really key if you want to learn how to turn a guy on. To make yourself feel more comfortable, start with baby steps until you get your confidence. You can try saying things like, “I was thinking about you last night” or “Sometimes I think about you at night” or “I can’t stop thinking about what I want to do to you”. Saying these kinds of things isn’t that hard, and are a sure fire way to turn him on.

However once you are comfortable talking sexy, you can ramp it up. You can start saying things like, “I want you baby” or “I keep wondering what you would look like if you were naked” or “I want you so bad”.  Personally, I don't like being called baby. That's my personal opinion. Use your choice of words wisely, otherwise you'll be left all alone. There are a few key things to remember when talking sexy if you are trying to turn a guy on. Firstly you must always start out slowly and build it up. Next you must remember that whispering it into his ear is much better at turning him on than by saying it loudly. Last, you only need to say one or 2 sexy things to truly turn him on, there’s no need to overdo it.

 Aren't Surprises Fun!

One technique many girls leave out when learning how to turn on a guy is using surprise to your advantage. Many guys get bored easily. Hello...so do we! Why else do you see them turning their heads at every other girl when they are walking down the street with you? OK, so not all guys do this, but  many do. To stop him from getting bored and to turn him on, try surprising him instead. This could be something like calling him over to help you fix the toaster, but when he arrives, open the door dressed in lingerie. Try this... you could do something different instead, like calling over to his house and telling him you have something to show him in the bedroom, then initiating a sexy seduction with him!



Hey Sticky Fingers...Get Touchy Feely

This next part is super important when learning how to turn a guy on. Touching him may not seem like the most sexy thing ever. But when combined with talking sexy and dressing sexy, it will be amplified very strongly. If you touch him in a boring way, like on the shoulder or elbow, then most likely it will have little effect. But if you grab him around the waist or if you touch his hand, neck or face then he will definitely get turned on by it. Go slow, whats the hurry?....Go nice and easy. There is no fire to put out. Take your time, and enjoy!

Try Taking Control In The Bedroom

Let’s be honest ladies: most guys are in charge in the bedroom? Right? Nope, not always.... However something that will help you to turn a guy on is to take the lead when you are in bed together. ‘Taking Control’ can be something as simple as being on top during sex or talking a little dirty. However once you are comfortable doing this, you can take more of a lead. You can tell him what to do or what not to do. Just use commands like, “Lie Down” or “Shut Up”. However you may not be entirely comfortable doing this. If that doesn't work, use my specialty tip; handcuffs and reddi whip! Always a win/win!