Good Girl or Bad Girl?

Nice guys have one major advantage over bad boys – nice guys pay attention and care about a woman’s needs. Yes, it is true, they actually DO care! This is actually an advantage for a couple of reasons.First, you have a natural ability to be tuned in and caring – that’s valuable, a BIG pleaser to most women that I know, and more importantly...women love it! Second, because you have a bit of awareness, you’re also more able to discern if any given woman is going to be a good fit for you. 

Because of your attentive nature and the fact that you do pay attention, you’re in a better position to determine whether a girl is right for you, and whether she’s a good girl or a bad girl. Here’s something absolutely essential to keep in mind: Your hormones may try to misguide you fellas, so... as Elmer Fudd once said; “BE VE-W-W-WY, VE-W-W-WY CAREFUL!

Sometimes, even if you’re a really good guy, your hormones will bog down your ability to think and even care if she’s a nice girl or not. Read the writing on the walls! This is when you have to demonstrate some self-control and sound thinking. Before you find yourself in a situation that you may regret, you need to know how to tell a good girl from a bad girl and I am going to share with you juts how to do so;

A good girl dresses appropriately. That doesn’t mean she can’t look sexy, but she’s not letting herself spill out of her dress just for attention, No, shes gets it regardless. She is that one person that can light up the room without ever having to try to do so, why? Because she is well rounded in her morals and values, and she is respected by many. She also has self control when it comes to drinking and even spending money.

Good girls pay attention to your needs, not just their own. She realizes that it is NOT all about her. She won’t rush into bed with you just because she thinks that’s the only way to get you to commit to her, in fact, getting into her britches may be a difficult task to says the least. This is the kind of women a man wants to end up with eventually, when he is ready to settle down. She’s confident in her choices and decisions and doesn’t defer to you for everything. Good girls are confident with who they are from the inside out, and this starts with her lingerie. she is classssssy as all hell, not trashy! Shop our store for exquisite lingerie at luxury prices! www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

Bad girls, on the other hand, try to win your affection by being overly promiscuous. They don't care if their dress is too short or much smaller than her actual dress size. She’ll dress too sexy, to the point you’re embarrassed for her, knowing every guy is assuming what kind of girl she is. She might also be flirting with every man in the room. Word up; this is NOT the woman for you!

A bad girl also needs to get drunk or incapacitated in another way in order to relax and have fun. She doesn’t control herself with money, either, spending too much and complaining that she’s in debt up to her eyeballs, but that's OK because she needs to spend to impress, only who is she kidding really... no one is impressed at all. You might meet a bad girl who pressures you into going to bed together on the first date. If she’s like this with you, she might be like this with any man! BIG RED FLAG! Some women think the only way a guy will commit is through sex, so put her mind at ease and take the pressure off from the very beginning.

If she’s needy, she might be a bad girl in another way.... as in high maintenance. What starts out as cute possessiveness turns into a raging jealousy that gets out of control and ruins your life. No one wants a physco girlfriend on the loose! Find a woman who exudes confidence and interest in you (not one that seeks the attention of every man in the room).

If you are in search of a woman who is practical and one who has integrity, morals and ethics, do not stop until you find her! Someone once told me "Never apologize for having such high standards,...People who really want to be in your life will rise up to meet them." This is hard core and these are the rules that I play by. 

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Infidelity in your Marriage...What are the signs?

Watching For Infidelity Warning Signs

This is one topic that no one wants to hear about but it is one that men and women need to read. Have you ever suspected something funny going on in your marriage? Have stories just not been jiving recently? Are friends covering for your partner? Did he/she really have a business meeting? What was he/she really doing out of the country..work or pleasure? Let's face it, at one time or another, there will likely be a time when you suspect your spouse or life partner is not being faithful. That sick feeling will eat away at you like death and as much as you fear it not being true, it very well can be. The suspicious thought may have some merit, or simply be a passing thought that has no real basis in fact. Nevertheless,  there are a few common infidelity warning signs that seem to be show up in just about every case of infidelity. If you see any of these, (my advice -and it is not professional but I know what I'm talking about) it may be worth your while to look into the situation a little more closely.

One of the most common indicators that your love interest may have a wandering eye is a change in the level of attention he or she shows to you. While it is normal for people to become more comfortable with one another as a relationship continues from year to year, there are still plenty of signs each day that the two people want to be a part of each other's lives. When a spouse or partner begins to withdraw from the relationship and demonstrates less of a willingness to talk, cuddle, or just be in the same room together, something could be going on. Don't look past it, if you have a gut feeling something is not right, you need to act on it.

A change in intimacy is definitely one of the key infidelity warning signs. Is he/she just not that into you like he/she was? When a formally attentive partner or spouse loses interest in sex, it could be due to some hidden health factor. At the same time, it could be because he or she is gaining sexual satisfaction from an outside source. After determining there are no emotional or physical reasons for the sudden apparent lack of interest in sex, the possibility of cheating should be considered.Do they come home and take a shower before getting into bed with you? If so...they may be cleansing the scent of their partner off before climbing into the sack with you. If that is not a red flag I certainly don't know what is.

Normally, these changes in appearance and lifestyle come about after talking with their loved one and voicing a desire to make some changes. When the changes appear out of nowhere, it could be that your partner is taking steps to become more desirable to a lover outside your relationship. If they change their hair style, or wear different clothes, or even new colognes or perfumes...be on the watch. It could be nothing at all, and then it could be disaster.

It is important to keep in mind that just about any of the many infidelity warning signs can also have a perfectly innocent explanation. When your loved one exhibits one or more of these signs, don't automatically assume the worst. Your spouse or partner could be going through some sort of a life crisis and feel the need to make some changes in the way they look or the hobbies they engage in. There could be health issues that a checkup with a doctor will reveal. There is also the possibility that someone is pursuing your love interest and creating circumstances that appear to confirm his or her guilt. Take the signs seriously, but investigate them thoroughly before deciding that any cheating is taking place.

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Crazy Little Thing Called L-O-V-E

People,...both men and women ask me often to write about certain topics...so I do. Today we're going to talk about something intense,...as the band "Queen" once sang; we're going to talk about a 'Crazy Little Thing Called Love!' Did you know that poets and authors have tried to define love for centuries, whereas scientists have only recently started trying to figure it all out... but guess what? They are all about to go on a wild goose chase! Love is nothing that is easy to describe. You can't know what it is to be, or make a list of how to be (in love) you will know it when you know it and that's all there is to it in a nutshell.

 Love is a force of nature. Some call love a form of temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then it subsides. Love is like peanut butter and jelly...you can't have one without he other. It's like the beach without the sand. (Are you getting this?) However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or disappear love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims. Yeah, that's right, you heard me....Love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can choose to surrender to love, or not, but in the end love strikes like lightening, unpredictable and irrefutable. You can even find yourself loving people you don't like at all. On the contrary to what many of you think, love does not come with conditions, stipulations, addendums, or codes. Like the sun, love radiates independently of our fears and desires.Love is inherently free. It cannot be bought, sold, or traded. You cannot make someone love you, nor can you prevent it, for any amount of money.

 Many of us know intuitively that love is a major purpose for living; that connection is inherent in all that we do, and without love, we cannot survive as a species.But what is love, and how do we know when we're in it? First, let's start off with what love isn't.

What Is Love? It Definitely Isn't...

• Manipulation. "If you loved me, then you would..." isn't love, but rather infatuation.


• Compromising who you are. If someone asks you to do or say something that isn't in your nature, that isn't true love. Although love does involve compromises between partners, someone who is in love with you will never ask you to change who you are in order to be loved.


• Violent. Passions can definitely become inflamed with someone you love, but a relationship with physical or emotional violence isn't true love.
  


• Just lust. Yes, chemistry and physical attraction are important, but true love also includes commitment, trust and respect.

So then, what exactly is love?

True Love Is...

• True Love is Caring. The ancient Greeks had many different names for different forms of love: passion, virtuous, affection for the family, desire, and general affection. But no matter how love is defined, they all hold a common trait: caring.


• True Love is quite attractive,...Yes indeed. Attraction and chemistry form the bond that allows people to mate. Without this romantic desire for another individual, a relationship is nothing more than lust or infatuation.


• True Love is Attached,...Then comes much more! Like the mother-child bond, attachment comes after the initial attraction. Attachment is the long term love that appears anywhere from one to three years into a romantic relationship (sometimes sooner and very rarely after), and you'll know you've found it when you can honestly say, "I've seen the worst and the best you have to offer, and I still love you," while your partner feels the same way. Love isn't just about the good...it's about the good, the bad and the ugly. Love is always being there for the other person and knowing that they are always there for you.


• True Love is Committed. When it comes to true love, commitment is more than just monogamy. It is the knowledge that your partner cares for you and has your back, no matter what the circumstances any time day or night. People who are strongly committed to one another will, when faced with seemingly negative information about their partner, see only the positive.True love is rare and it is most definitely unconditional! So if you love this person, for goodness sakes, don't be a schmuck and screw it all up. Sometimes you only get that one chance to show them your true colors and shine, so make it matter.


• True Love is Intimate. Intimacy is a crucial component of all relationships, regardless of their nature. In order to know another, you need to share parts of yourself. This self-revealing behavior, when reciprocated, forms an emotional bond. Over time this bond strengthens and even evolves, so that two people merge closer and closer together. Intimacy by itself if is a great friendship, but compiled with the other things in this list, it forms an equation for true love.Some people just don't get it. They think love is a happy marriage. Listen, I know a lot of people that are in what looks to be 'happy marriages' and they are quite unhappy. To love someone else you must first love yourself. Once you figure out who you are and what you want, life gets a whole lot easier and more entertaining to say the least. 

  Love points out the consequences of hurting oneself or others. Love allows room for anger, or grief, or pain to be expressed and released. But love does not threaten to withhold itself if it doesn't get what it wants.Love is just love...you either have it, or you don't.

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The Language of LOVE....

The 3 words that everyone longs to hear "I LOVE YOU" is the language of love around the globe. Love is love, no 'If's and's or but's about it!' It’s been said that couples can finish each other’s sentences after they’ve been in love for a long time, but maybe it was their similar way of speaking that brought them together from the start. In the latest  research, it  shows that we are attracted to people who use language comparable to our own. Makes sense right?

Examining speech and style of writing, experts noticed that people are not only more attracted to, but are also more likely to stay in a relationship with someone who talks like them.Since communication  is a pivotal part of any relationship, it makes sense that people want a companion who speaks in a similar manner. Forget French and Italian, the real romance language is whatever the object of your affections speaks. I've listed 5 languages of love. You determine if you and your lover fall into any or all of these categories.

1. Verbal Lovers. Like the example above, some people just like to hear gestures of love such as "I love you" and "I appreciate everything that you do." For this type of person, you'll want to provide constant encouragement, never letting things go unsaid.

• Try verbalizing your appreciations in some way each day.
• Don't assume your partner knows what you're thinking and feeling - speak up!

2. Time Well Spent. One of the love languages has to do with spending quality time with your partner. This doesn't mean just casual conversation; it means the times where your partner is your main focus. If your partner enjoys quality time, here are some things to consider:

• Choose a certain time each day or week where you're completely dedicated to your partner. This means that you need to shut off the TV, put down the paper, and take some away from the kids.
• Think of activities you can do together to really connect.
• Make sure you have a good relationship with yourself; it's the only way you can truly connect with your partner.

3. The Gift Giver. Another love language is one where your partner may enjoy giving and receiving gifts. This isn't because they're greedy; it means they're visual people who enjoy seeing proof of your deepening relationship. If you're with this type of partner, try these tips:

• Even if you're a big saver, make the effort to spend at least a little money or make some homemade or handmade gifts.
• Leave loving cards and notes for them.
• Don't give gifts everyday, but give gifts that are meaningful.

4. The Chores. We can't forget the chores when it comes to a language of communication between partners. Since there are many things that need to get done around the house, it often causes problems when you try to figure out who's doing what. Keep these tips in mind:

• Everyone has different chores that they deem important.
• Figure out which ones your partner doesn't enjoy and do them.
• Chores involve thinking ahead, which your partner will certainly appreciate.

5. Physical Affection. The physical affection love language can get complicated. Expressing your love physically doesn't only mean lovemaking. It involves simple touches too. Each partner will usually have some kind of opinion when it comes to this language:

• Figure out which kinds of touches your partner enjoys, it may be a gentle rub of their shoulders or some cuddling while watching television.
• This is equally important, figure out which touches irritate your partner.
• Get to know your partner's moods so you know when to express physical affection.

The Combination

Your partner will most likely speak a certain combination of these love languages. As your relationship deepens, you'll get to know your partner better and better. It may even help to outright discuss the topic of love languages with your partner to better understand each other. This will strengthen the bond you have and open up other windows of possibilities where your relationship is concerned. Be open and honest with one another, love conquers all and if you haven't found this yet, be patient, one day when you least expect it, he/she will walk into your life unexpectedly and change your life as you know it.

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