Showing posts with label women with confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women with confidence. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

5 Things MEN LOVE MOST about WOMEN

1) Eye contact -  Yes, those sexy desirable eyes. Imagine this if you will; A woman who locks eyes with you and keeps that half-smile going just before her gaze drops is great. I’m not meaning the scary, stare-at-you-all-night-like-a-stalker girl. That's just down right creepy. No, I mean the woman who isn’t afraid to look at you and let you know she’s doing so. This is the woman who watches you while you’re talking, and doesn’t let her eyes wander all over the room. She is alluring, intoxicating to you to say the least and so intriguing to you on every level. She’s the woman who makes you think you’re the only other person in the room, and she’s the woman any guy would fight to keep.

 2) Confidence – I can’t stress this one enough. If you’re unfazed by a few witty remarks and don’t keep shrinking into the background, you’re in. Again, there’s a fine line here. “Confident” doesn’t mean “I have to be the center of attention all the time”. That “center of it all” girl never sticks out as anything more than a one-nighter. She’s obviously way too selfish to be any good in other situations. 
On the other hand, a confident woman is someone who holds her own but isn’t afraid to step out of the spotlight for a while and allow someone else to take the floor. She speaks up at the right time, but doesn’t monopolize the conversation. That kind of woman is the kind of woman he feels will be more confident later.

 3) Mystery – Yes, we know that you ladies are drawn to men who are the mysterious, strong-but-silent types, but that works both ways. A woman whose best features aren’t the most obvious ones is like a flower that’s slowly opening up. It's like teasing...He can see the beauty on the outside, but as the flower blooms we are given a glimpse into an even deeper beauty. He wants you to be that woman who turns around in the parking lot and gives us this smile de hasn’t seen all night long, but know in an instant he has to see again and again.  It’s a coy “I know a secret” kind of smile that lets them know there’s more to you than meets the eye. Please do not misconstrue what I am trying to say. Just don’t be one of those people who feels the need to share every single moment of their life story in the first five minutes of meeting.

4) A strong laugh -  I’m talking about a smooth, strong laugh with a nice smile. Not a loud hyena laugh. Did you know that a woman who’s open to laughter and not afraid to let herself go with a good laugh is a vocal woman. Do you understand where this leads in our minds? You’re vocal in this respect, you’ll be vocal later in another situation. Are you following me? So why the laugh you wonder? Why not deep conversation or intimate details of your day-to-day life? Yikes...Because too much talk can be a big turn-off to men. The fellas want to know that later you’ll be uninhibited in expressing yourself, but not so talkative that you won’t shut up long enough to do anything else. That little air of “maybe” keeps electricity in the air.

 5) Bedroom eyes – Ahhh, yes, men love the bedroom eyes. Why? You appear playful. Making love is certainly high on ones priority nonetheless, guys like it more than just once in a 24 hour period. So what happens when you give your man the 'bedroom eyes' look? Well, it drives them totally nuts for one...but you know what I’m talking about here. It’s that same look they vividly desire seeing after a long, exhausting day of boardroom meetings, office hoop-la and wall street highs and lows. It’s that same look they imagine and lust to see after that long night and just before you slide up next to your man and whisper, “Ready for round 2?”


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Saturday, January 28, 2012

3 Easy Ways to BOOST your CONFIDENCE!

I think from time to time, we all tend to get a little down on ourselves...that's natural...but when you sink further and your self-esteem goes down the poop shoot..it's time for some reinforcements! Low self-confidence has the power to limit you in all areas of your life. It can hold you back in your career, prevent you from having healthy relationships, and even keep you disconnected from your inner power. You need to find your happy place and create a better YOU!

Boosting your confidence is often a simple matter of changing the way you see yourself. If you hold a negative self-image because of painful experiences from the past or constant negative reinforcement, creating a more positive self-image will help you to begin rebuilding your confidence. Buck up...and put on a happy face!

Here are 3 simple ways to begin seeing yourself in a more positive light:

Fake it and Put on a HAPPY FACE.
This is quite an old method, but one that can work surprisingly well if you give it enough effort. When you “pretend” that something is true, you perform a mental shift from one state to another. You are, in essence, moving yourself from one “reality” to another.The next time you’re out in a public place, pretend you are the most confident person in the world. Imagine that you are completely secure in your own capabilities and completely accepting of yourself as a unique and valuable person.
Consider how a person with these beliefs would act, and then make an effort to act that way. Pay attention to what happens when you do; how others treat you, how you feel about yourself and so on. You may be surprised to discover just how much attitude has to do with self-confidence.

Affirm ALL of your good qualities!
While faking confidence can be an immediate help, you will also need to address the underlying beliefs that cause your low self-confidence if you want to create lasting change.
One good way to do this is by forming a new habit of building yourself up. Take time to acknowledge the good things you do, the achievements you’ve made in the past, and even the effort you give to something new.
Speak kindly to yourself and develop a healthy appreciation for your skills and abilities. If you stop beating yourself up because you’re not the most perfect person in the world, you’ll probably discover that you’re not half bad, either!

See yourself as a growing work in progress. Remember, you can only get Better!
Remember that there will always be people who are more talented, smarter, braver, and better than you are in some way. If your confidence is suffering because you are trying to measure up to some impossible standard, learn to adjust your thinking a bit. You are just as good, smart and savvy as everyone else!
Affirm that you are a work in progress, and you get better every year. With each passing phase of your life, you grow in mastery. You are smarter than you were yesterday, better than you were last week, and more talented than you were last year. This is a process that will continue throughout your entire life. If you can keep in mind that you’ll never be “done” growing and learning, you’ll be able to see your capabilities as ever-evolving aspects of an ever-evolving you! Hold your heard high and remember, if you love yourself, everyone else will love you too!





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