Great Relationships and Pillow Talk

If you want a great sex life, and who doesn’t…. there is one thing that is absolutely essential. It's not having a rock star body, big boobs or a nice ass, big biceps, tight tush... It's not owning a lot of material things that are essential in relationship and none of these things are what make you look good in their eyes... No, the essential element is conversation. Gals love pillow talk. You might ask, who needs common chit-chat when you're making love with someone that you are attracted to? Let me tell you something…keeping your love life passionate and exciting over a long term period, you're going to have to start talking. Some men aren’t good at it. I know a few and trust me, they just don't get it. That can really suck, not to mention blow something that could be really good, but these are the men that really have no clue what they are doing because they lack verbal skills big time.Want a good solid healthy relationship? It’s not difficult to obtain. Here are 3 ways to use conversation to improve and enhance your love life and your sex life;

Tell them what you really want…

 One excellent use of conversation is to talk about what you want and to find out what your partner wants. It’s a two way street so never assume that you know what your partner wants or it may back fire on you. Your lover can't read your mind so be verbal for heaven sakes. Giving non-verbal communication in the bedroom is helpful, up to a point. My grandmother used to say body language was everything…Oh it is, but if that isn't getting you what you want, it's time to try putting your desires into words. Communication is key! It builds the solid foundation to a relationship and without it, you'll sink like you're in quick sand. 

Remember, this isn't all about you. Finding out what your partner wants is equally important. If you're a guy who's a little confused about how to please your lady, the answer is simple. The best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask her. We women would rather have you ask us than take the long way around it and drive us nuts trying to figure out what to do or say. A lot of women enjoy talking about their fantasies and desires. All they need is a sincere invitation to open up, and you can offer that…just don’t stick your foot in your mouth in the process.

Spice up lovemaking with sensual conversation...

Every now and then, a bit of naughty and explicit sex talk while you are making love can add a new dimension of excitement. Not sure how to start? Begin by describing how fabulous and exciting your partner's body is and how aroused you are getting when you trace her each and every curve. Talk about what you're doing, what you're about to do, and how it's going to make your partner feel. That’s right…spice it up and kick it up a notch! 

Communicate with your Partner…

Fellas, communication is key in any and ALL relationships whether it be a simple friendship or a partnered commitment. Both women and men love to talk about what they want, so do it more often. Many people are a little insecure about their sexual abilities and they secretly wonder if they are good enough in bed. Make a point of telling your partner how exciting and skillful he or she was last night. A general comment such as "You were smokin’hot" is all right, but try also to mention something specific they did and how great it made you feel, and tell them why. I'm not telling you to make a big deal about it. A simple whisper of a few words just before you leave for work will keep your partner glowing with pleasure throughout the day.

If you're already doing some of these things, great! But if it's never occurred to you that conversation is essential for a great sex life, you may be surprised at how much of a difference just a few words can make. You don’t have to take dirty 24/7…some women like simple small talk. Remember, words speak volume! When you communicate about what you want, only talk naughty at the appropriate moments, otherwise, put your feelings out there…how will she know if you don’t tell her? Show us your playful side. Don't be afraid to open up and talk. We don't bite. Well, not all of us...

It's all about the pillow talk guys...women love it. 

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Relationships and Pillow Talk...

 Guys love girls who present themselves well both in bed, and out. Might sound like the cold hard truth, but hey, it is what it is.If you are a woman reading this and are appalled by it, you may want to stop here because we are about to travel through the good, the bad and the ugly. Lets face it…cold hard fact- Men are visual creatures and they are impressed by what they see in their line of vision….so with that in mind, wear Simply Delicious Lingerie and turn up the heat! Oh, But be aware of the impression you give to the way you present yourself. You want to look great and get attention without looking really desperate.

One thing leads to another and you hit it off…then you date, then you share intimate details, and family history and you find one another supporting one another, right? Well, that’s what most women want…after sex is just as important as the whole ‘before sex’ anticipation. They say that women get attached more to a man once they have sex. Well, it if it for real, then that might be true, BUT if you don’t share the chemistry with her fellas, DON’T string her along and lead her to believe that she is it for you, when in fact she is just another notch in your belt loop. Whats wrong with you? Women have feelings and you need to be more alert and adherent to her. All relationships start with communication. That is KEY.

So, let’s get back to where I was going with this…quite frankly, it is easy to dismiss simply conversation as just sweet nothings, but the key to relationship happiness may be in your pillow talk. Yup, you heard me. It’s key factor in relationship and we women LOVE it, so suck it up boys and learn how to listen. It’s not all about you…nor is it all about us. I’ve learned that with one man in particular that I dated a few years ago, he understood me, he just wanted more. What more could I have given him? Plenty, but I wasn’t blonde and a size 4. I was 10 years older than him and he had no children, and his mother wanted more for him, as if I didn’t? I’ve learned over the years that things have a way of working out, and on the contrary to what I thought was right or wrong then, he taught me that what I do want and need is a man who will listen to me talk, and really hear what it is that I am saying. I loved this man for the pillow talk. I could tell him anything.

As I wrote my book, and blogs, and gathered references and literature on lingerie and what men like and want, I learned what he wanted and needed. Surveys on pillow talk revealed that people liked hearing their own name because it increased rapport and intimacy. Recall how in everyday life when someone says your name, you instantly feel more noticed, useful or special.Scientists have found that women whose partners finish off a night of passion by immediately turning over and nodding off are left feeling insecure and craving affection. Psychologists at the University of Michigan said cuddling and talking after sex is a crucial way for a couple to express their commitment to each other. What she doesn’t want to hear for sure is…anything negative. Sharing the moment positively will always ensure that this time is special for you both. If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all. Bedtime is for loving, relaxing and yes, sleeping. It is not a time for fighting finding faults in you mate, so show her romance!

If you don’t know what exactly romance is, you have bigger problems than I thought…but read on:Romance is a nebulous thing with the curious property of being indescribable but not definable. We women certainly won’t muck with your head and try to suggest there’s an ultimate definitive definition out there. Some people will try to do just that and come up with some tidy little definition, like, “Romance is showing you care.”

If you’re a woman, of course, you were born with an innate knowledge of this stuff and need not read further, because you’ve got it all figured out right? WRONG! Relationships are not fly-by-night and they certainly were not meant to be flings of any sort unless it is a one night stand and then there won’t be pillow talk. Finding that right person for you that you can talk to about everything and anything without getting pressure or shit from them is not easy to find. It does happen, and when you find this person that you can talk to about anything…whether they be your partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, lover, sugar daddy, sugar baby, mate, or whatever….TALK. Pillow talk is a great way to communicate and get to the core of this persons inner being. Take the time to get to know them,…my guess is that you’ll be glad that you did. As for me, some day I’ll meet the man who can share pillow talk with me and when I do, I am going to burn his ear up. (just kidding)….

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