Showing posts with label marriages. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriages. Show all posts

Sunday, June 16, 2013

A dOzEn tHiNgS To dO WitH YoUr HonEy...


1. Go to the Park

Go with your honey to a park nearby. Swing on the swings like when you were a kid. Remember childhood memories and what part of those memories made you a better person today! Share stories! I've got lots of them!!


2. Watch the Sunset

Find a great spot in your area to catch the perfect sunset together. Don't have one? It's time then for a 'road trip!' Find the perfect place to watch a sunset. Mine is at the beach with my toes in the sand and a good glass of wine in my hand. This is one of my favorite things to do and guess what? It doesn't cost a dime to do it.


3. Pack a Picnic Lunch and Enjoy Time with Your Honey...

Throw a picnic lunch together and find a shady spot to enjoy the day with your honey! Talk, laugh and make memories...its the little things that we women remember the most.


4. Play Board Games

Bring out the old favorites like Clue, Monopoly or Scrabble, or find a new board game to play. Someone has to rule Park Ave...might as well be YOU! None of these sound good? How 'bout some naked Twister?


5. Play Card Games

My personal favorite!  Have a card night. Don't forget the wine and snacks to pass, that makes for even more fun! There are a lot of fun card games, but if this gets boring? How about a little strip poker? Now all bets are OFF! Make new fun playful memories as the layers literally unfold...


6. Have a Scavenger Hunt

Have a fun night out scavenger hunt. Think of some creatives fun ideas and work your magic! Making memories with your friends or that special someone is a special thing to do...and please... do remember the camera! Photos make the memories come alive years after the thrill and stories are gone. Loser has to make dinner for the winner!


7.How About Throwing a B.Y.O.E. Party?

This stands of Bring Your Own Everything. Guests are encouraged to bring food and drinks to share. Good times are fun times...and no one should get stuck in the kitchen making it all happen so help a friend out and have a BYOE party full of fun and good times with your close friends! It's a fun way to meet new people who your honey shops with, golfs with, works with, etc., and a great way to get out and have some fun on a weekend evening!


8. Have a Bonfire or Campfire

Make s'mores, cuddle and drink wine by the camp fire and reminisce about good times and future plans with your honey.


9. Go Get Some Ice Cream
Hit up your local ice cream shop and indulge in your favorite dish! Get that sweet tooth craving and march on out to your local ice cream shop. Not feeling like hitting up the local ice cream store...then go to the market and pick up some ice cream, cherries, whip cream and take it home to make body sundaes with your honey...that is romantic and erotic!


10. Make Your Honey a Romantic Dinner

Plan a romantic, candlelight dinner for your spouse or loved one. Listen guys..romance need not be super expensive! It has been said that it is the thought that counts and how much time your guy/lady put into the thought process of the evening...those are the memories that you will endure and always keep close to your heart.


11. Try Grilling Something New...Get Sassy with some BBQ!

Try a new grilling recipe...every woman is addicted to Pinterest, so find something fun to make and give it a whirl! Add a little zing to your lifestyles and spice it up. It's time to take this relationship to a new level.


12. Go to the Zoo

It has been said that it makes us feel good when we vent, and by vent I mean; go talk to the animals! Zoos are fairly inexpensive if you pack your own lunch and avoid the unnecessary extras. Make a fun day out of it! You may even make some new fury friends too! Yes go to the zoo, and then go home and kick it up a notch by getting a little wild in the bedroom...Be the hunter and allow her to be your tigress...she will slip into something sensual and erotic for some bedroom fun from Simply Delicious Lingerie! This will spice up any night and make some hot stinky sweaty monkey love! Lingerie is beautiful, but it was made to come off...



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Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Does your Mate,Lover,Partner,Spouse... Have a Wandering Eye?

How many times have you been out and about with someone you just began to date, your boyfriend, lover or spouse and you caught their eyes roaming on others they appeared to be attracted to in some way? Beside wanting to give them a fat lip or an ear full of what was on your mind at that very moment, take a step back and ponder this if you will. Is there such thing as looking “too much”? Is it disrespectful to you and the relationship? If you are seeking my opinion I would say YES it is totally disrespectful. My husband did it all the time and I called him on it. He blamed me for insecurities. What? I was not insecure nor was I ever with who "I" am, however, they say that people who do this do it for attention because they lack it. I say that there is NO excuse for this and it truly belittles the man/woman you are with when this occurs. Why would you do this?

Listen, it may not appear threatening early in the attraction, when everything seems innocent. Remember, though, that attractions grow quickly and can destroy your marriage.First off... Even if your relationship/marriage manages to survive, at the very least the lurking will weaken the foundation of your trust and rob your spouse/partner of your full captivation.Your second line of defense is to declare,repeat after me.. "I have no right to think these things." State this to yourself clearly, decisively, and often. You don’t even know this woman; who are you to be attracted to her? The third line of defense is to heighten your alert. What do you normally do when you feel threatened? You take off your jacket and breathe deeply. You ready yourself for what’s coming. Knock it off and keep your eyes where they should be, on your mate, lover, partner, spouse!

While finding other people attractive is normal and part of human nature, there is a way to go about it and not go about it.  When a person is on his or her own, he or she can feel more free about looking at someone else, without worrying about anyone feeling hurt by it. When one is with their partner however, it would be best to try and be discreet about checking someone else out. A quick glance is harmless, but if a partner is checking someone out in a way that is in the form of staring, exchanging smiles or undressing them with his or her eyes, it then become disrespectful their partner and the relationship. This can make their partner feel hurt, upset, disrespected and even unattractive- which can unnecessarily lower their self-esteem.

When a Wandering Eye becomes a real problem…

Checking other people out is usually harmless if done casually every now and then. It can become a real problem when it is done constantly though. If your partner is more occupied checking other people out rather than focusing on his or her time with you and  admiring you, then it could be a sign that your partner is losing interest in the relationship and you should start paying attention to other signs and behaviors that can help you figure out what is really going on.


What you should do about it…
If you have a partner with a wandering eye and are tired of it, then it is time for communication! There is no shame in letting your partner know that you feel hurt and upset by his or her behavior. After all, a relationship is about being open and honest with each other and your partner should care about your feelings and want to make you happy. This is not about you being immaturely jealous either- it is about you claiming the respect you feel you deserve from your partner (the same kind of respect you partner would expect from you). So let your partner know that his or her constant wandering eye is upsetting you and makes you feel disrespected and you are not okay with it. If your partner truly cares, then he or she will make a real effort to stop checking other’s out in front of you, or at least keep it under real control so you do not feel so disrespected. If the wandering eye continues after you pour your heart out about it, then your partner has shown you how important your feelings are to him or her and you should then decide if you wish to continue putting up with it or not. I think we all have a little flirt in us...however, flirting to be silly and actually flirting while with your partner is wrong, not to mention quite disrespectful. Shame on you! Your eyes should be on one person....the one you're with.





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