Where's your Danger Zone?

Lingerie is designed with the preference that gives all women a sexual appeal by highlighting on their beautiful curves and disguising the parts that seem to be what I call the danger zones. Ladies, we all weren’t born models with tooth pick shapes and we don’t all weigh 100 pounds. If you fit this description, and you were blessed with a girlie figure, if you don’t eat healthy, don't have to count calories, and rarely exercise to keep your shape without having to work hard for it, I’ve got a voodoo doll in my nightstand with your name on it. (Just joking!) Some of us just want to "be normal." Some of us have flaws, cottage cheese, saggy boobs, flabby arms, baggy love handles, big belly- We're all proportioned differently. I have a few of my own, so I know more than anyone what it’s like to see something that you really want only to try it.....look in the mirror and want to cry because it makes you look like you have 3 asses. Some pieces look good on one but not on another. This causes such disappointment. As we age we see our bodies differently and we go through a variety of changes.

The eye is attracted to particulars. Sexy lingerie sells. Women love sexy matching sets and lingerie that is classy, yet flirty. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we're here to help you to find out what areas to enhance and with what type of lingerie according to your figure. When our eyes catch a peek at something they like, we envision how it might accentuate us. We’ll begin to share with you in articles to come why more often than not it’s not only difficult finding the right pieces of lingerie, but discouraging to say the least! Don’t give up!! Finding various styles and designs for the short, too tall, big build, too small, petite woman, pregnant woman, big bust, no bust, big caboose, no caboose, etc., can be time consuming, and depressing! There are some women who may be more voluptuous that others, some may be very busty, some between sizes and just wrongly proportioned. What’s a gal to do? Try to stay positive, dig down deep and find that self esteem and make it your mission to find what lineaments reveal the best "you!"

Our goals are to teach you how to look for lingerie that shows sexual appeal. We’ll emphasize on different features of women of all sizes. Whatever your figure may be, remember, we are here to give you quality care with respect, confidentiality, and personal service.

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Give your Romance a Splash!

Planning an important evening with your lover is probably one of the most romantic and fantasizing things that  you can do.We're under paid, over worked, and exhausted because your 40 hour salary job just turned into 60+ ....so what happens? Your exhistence becomes a pattern.

You get so caught up in the everyday hustle and bustle that you lose perspective of the things that really matter, yet actually so easy to obtain because you get caught up in the go go go swirl of life. The every day routines become your reality, proof that you're losing track of what is important, and before you know it, too much time has passed and you find yourself like hundreds of other feeling alone, unwanted, or undesired.

Hold on, and apply brakes NOW! Don't let this happen to you!! We get so busy that by the time we get home at night all we can think about is watching our favorite show, or sporting event, grabbing a quick bite which is generally something unhealthy and includes the words "happy hour" because we're too tired to actually stand up in our own kitchen and cook something. While we are doing all of this we are visualizing the thought of sleep and the moment we get to our bed and our head hits the pillow.... "Wham"....and like that old 1976 vintage Pat Travers Bands sang..." Boom Boom Boom, Out Go the Lights!"

This cannot be....learn how to set the mood! If you want to see the fizzle come out of a relationship or marrige, this is the pattern that you need to learn how to stay out of. Don't become that  statistics called "boring couples syndrome" that so many are labeled. Be the couple that makes the time to share together a few hours at least once a week if nothing more....No, I'm not talking about getting a "quickie" either! Some people choose a night out for dinner at their favorite restaurant, some go to the movies. It's that connection, the touch of his/her hand touching yours, rubbing your neck, or giving you that soft kiss......

I want to be pampered at home with candles, soft music, a glass of wine, simply delicious chocolate covered strawberries, a home cooked meal, and hot bubble bubble bath to unwind, relax, and endulge. There is nothing more romantic than a couple that gets reacquainted in the tub after a long week of work and stress....passion and desire build, hormones start working overtime and before you know it  they take the romance straight to the bedroom where there is ground stomping, head board knocking, biting, spanking and everything that goes on in between! Make the choice to make your partner your number one priority....my guess is that she or he will prefer quality over quantity any day.

Masquerading your Identity

I've been called  defiant, energetic,exuberant, even sarcastic. It has been said by many that I am like that of the girl next door meets vixen. A bit chaste... every now and then risque! I'd say I was misconstrued by those who don't really know me.

I'm fun, out going, lively, caring, and giving, and on the other hand; sensual, sexy, alluring, adventurous, classy,charismatic. I have the flair to do most anything I set out to do. I am proficient, and talented. I can conquer the most impossible of tasks with an uncanny ability to succeed. So can you! My past is written proof of this. I learned quite quickly after my divorce that I had to juggle parenthood, a full time job, and two kids in their early teens...did I mention that I was responsible for teaching them to drive? If that didn't make me age 10 years nothing will.

Quite magnetic that of two identities in masquerade but under it all a perspicuous woman waiting to be discovered, sought out and pampered by the right man. I am here to tell you that we all feel like we are split down the center at times. No job is harder that that of a women who is being pulled in five different directions. We stress out, cry, and sometime throw things to release tension or anger. You're not alone....there are many others just like you. Whether you are in a relationship, dating, or married, this can apply to all of you. You can still be a savvy business woman, a mother, a care giver, etc., in public, but in private and behind closed doors the mask comes off and you can be erotic, exotic intoxicating stellar woman and Simply Delicious Lingerie is here to make sure you not only look sexy but feel sexy! Find your happy medium, balance your lifestyle and enjoy every day! Don't ever be afraid to hide being your mask at times, it is your shield that protects you, but it's your self esteem and confidence that allows you to rise above! Don't be afraid to unlease the wild woman every once in a while...

Desire or Destruction?

What is Desire?

de·sire 
 Here is what the dictionary says:
tr.v. de·sired, de·sir·ing, de·sires

1. To wish or long for; want.

2. To express a wish for; request.

n.

1. A wish or longing.

2. A request or petition.

3. The object of longing:

4. Sexual appetite; passion

While some women, or men have few wants and or needs, others have many. There are various forms of desire;  feelings of ambition, temptation, craving, wishing, yearning, thirstiness, arousal, passion, urge, longing, here's one my grandmother used to say "hankering"....however we choose to see it we have it. Then there are sexual desires; physical attractions. erotic love, sensuality, sensualness, sexiness, fetish. lustfulness, the "hots" or how 'bout this.....nymphomania? At Simply Delicious Lingerie, we want to help you become acquainted with your inner desires and assist you with making the right selections of intimate apparel.

All of the great achievers throughout history have one thing in common. They have all been dreamers or desirers. If anyone is to achieve their goals in life then the first thing they need to do is establish what their desires are. That's what makes people who are highly successful different from the rest - they know exactly what they want in life....however, many people lack self confidence and are unwilling to set their aims higher through fear of failing. This sometimes develops due to people close to them. They send out discouraging negative signals, and they feel they are unrealistic with their goals and life choices. Make a list; Yes, you heard me, "make a list" of the pro's and con's of what you desire in a man, a woman, sexual relationship, job and life?

There's no substitute for the trial and error nor is it predictable and effortless, ...what you desire sets the pace for how your life will play out. You’ll begin checking the list items off one by one and while doing this you'll learn more about yourself along the way. You'll also learn to respect yourself more. On the relationship side of it; Jealousy is the dragon in paradise, you don't want to breathe fire on your man and chase him away, you want to ignite his flame so that he'll want to surrender himself to you. Wise up ladies, although that saying holds true that there are a lot of fish in the sea, once you find the one that interests you and makes you all giddy, hang on to him, and for goodness sake,... BE POSITIVE...because if you don't, there are a lot of piranhas that are waiting and they are hungry with desire and would not think twice to gulp your man right up! The 3 words a man never wants to hear a woman utter are " Don't Leave Me!"

Don't let any insecurities show! Believe me when I say.... nothing sends a man running without his feet hitting the floor faster are insecurities and jealousy. This is where the man feels like he always has to walk on eggshells, hence the fact  that this will cause any chance of a true relationship to literally self destruct!

 In order to desire someone else you have to love yourself first! You have to Be True to YOU!

Who is the fairest of them all?

Meet Queen Ophelia, some say that women rule and that we wear the pants in the family, or household...but who wears the tiara?...... Queen Ophelia does, that's who. Why?....because she can, and she has real mean looking teeth!

For years women have allowed others to walk all over them and they just kept taking it. My grandmothers really didn't have a very big say so in the decision making like the modern day woman does today. Things have changed a great deal. Today we are treated almost equally. We stand up for what we believe in, fight for morals, values, and our sense of pride.

We love men and they are our other half so to speak,.....but OH WHEN THEY DO WRONG....
When men screw up, we tend to put them in the dog house and quite frankly, they could be there a while before we decide to let them out. We find ourselves calling the shots, being responsible and doing the
"I told you so" dance from time to time! Instead of leaving them out all night to suffer and think over what they did, throw them a bone and show them some love! In addition to to this, compliment them, apologize and smile...it feeds them. We sometimes need to camouflage our feelings, our hormones rage, our temperature rises, and we say things that by all rights should be edited in several countries. Sometimes we embellish the truth a little,...why? We love a challenge, we hate to lose, and it sounds so damn good at the time....but truth be told, when push comes to shove, we bring on the poker face and try to dominate because that's our built in defense mechanism. Show your pup some love....he'll be so surprised and quite happy not to still be in that dog house....nonetheless, he won't know what's going, and will most likely question your motives....this is called "having him right where you want him"...how does it feel?
 Simply Delicious Lingerie can help you turn anger into sultry...we've got the right piece for you!

Rule #2 ....Men love when we stroke their Egos! Sooooo give them what they want.
We still wear the jewels, but we make them believe that they are the king!

Find the Perfect Fit!

On the contrary to what many define a modern day princess....I am your not so typical Cinderella type seeking her Prince....I am a hard worker, and a dedicated woman who generally puts the needs of others before my own true happiness. Anyone who knows me, truly knows me...will agree. So what is it that I seek? Well, would it be too improbable to state that I want a man who can "show me the magic!" Unlike so many women, I'm "not" searching for a man with deep pockets, ultimately it's not the monetary value I'm after. What I'm in search of is true chemistry and companionship. Sure I want the refined fairy tale....but without all of the red tape. My glass slipper can only be found on high end avenues, or so I thought...then I met this guy...

My "wishes" - have always been to find a genuine man I can communicate with, share laughs. Where is the man who can't wait to see me at the end of the day and the one who is thrilled to see me when he awakens? A man who can understand me well enough to read me like a book, who can look deep into my eyes and read my thoughts, to finish my sentences. I want many things that most women seek and desire, however, I won't settle, nor should you ladies.... I wish to be courted because I am old fashion in many ways and I want a true gentleman. ladies...I demand respect, and you should too. A life full of joy, happiness and everlasting love....isn't that all that women really want?

While some call me a mystery, others call me a real handful. Like the gameboard I can be TROUBLE! That be as it may, my character has been defined as both sexy and sensual. I'm confident, classy, educated, sexy, witty, charming, spunky. Insistent, persistent, intriguing, enthusiastic, influential, independent, skeptical, well rounded, not at all easily intimidated. My unprofessional advice for you? Find what defines you, and explore your possibilities. Beware of the man with the fast tongue and empty promises. If you believe this is love, you must have fallen off the turnip truck too hard and smacked your nugget on the pavement.

What took me years to learn, but I understand now...and that is that you can have the best of both worlds. When you find your missing piece to the puzzle, finally everything connects, and your life changes for the better, simply because he is in it. Don't stop searching ladies until you find the right one,  be a true connoisseur of romance in search of her one in a million. We have various intimate pieces at our online boutique suitable for any type of Cinderella. Affordable prices can be found at  Simply Delicious Lingerie.

I've learned throughout life's difficult lessons to be true to yourself because your words and your actions speak loud and first impressions are everything. On the contrary to what so many may think,...I don't seek glitter and glamour, rather a simple lifestyle made for two people that are happy just being who they are....I wait for that one man who will sweep me off my feet, and make all of my dreams come true......Never give up, he's out there.....and the thing is....he has probably been waiting a life time to meet you! Search for your perfect fit, your glass slipper, whatever the brand or type may be.....

Do we really need the icing?

Makeup is only the icing on the cake - it doesn't create your personality or your being. How many women do you know of that wake up an hour early in the morning to shower, have their coffee and put on their face? I know several...not me, No Sir!! I was raised the old fashion way. I wasn't allowed to put a stitch of make up on before I was 16 and if I got caught with it on, my mother punished me. She said it covered the real me. She taught me to let the "unique me" as she called it, shine through.....

I'm not saying that women who wear make up are bad, on the contrary, most are quite beautiful!

I wear it....but what I am trying to say is that I just don't think you need to apply it so carefully that it takes hours to complete, or wear so much that you need 5 different creams and another hour at night to take it off! Try going the less complicated route.... make up, curlers,..... glamorous? Yes, but lots of work. Ladies, take back some of your time! A light cream foundation, a splash of mascara, and some gloss on your lips is all you need!

Make up is far too much work for me....give me 10 mintues in the morning and 10 minutes at night and I am out the door or under the covers long before you've even stripped off the first few layers. Eye care remover, facial scrub, toners, astrigents, gels, anti-aging creams, anti-wrinkle crap...what next? I'm 47 and I use good old fashion soap and water! H&B companies probably hate women like me, however, less make up is less harsh on my skin and I want to still look like I'm in my 40s when I'm in my 60s!

 Try this; look in the mirror and tell yourself: I am the icing on the cake! I'm classy and sassy! Your inner beauty is just as sexy as what so many try to enhance on the outside. A man wants to see the real you, ...so ask yourself this..."Will he like what he sees when he wakes up next to me?" The less make up you wear, and the more "you" he'll see, and love! Most men don't like high maintenance...so keep it simple!

Badda boom badda bing!

Simply Delicious Lingerie asks.....What is SEXY?

What is SEXY?

Here is what the dictionary says:

sex·y  – adjective, sex·i·er, sex·i·est

1) sexually interesting or exciting

2)excitingly appealing, glamorous, seductive

3)being erotically attractive to another

Here are some sassy synomyms I found related with "sexy"

appealing, arousing, attractive, beautiful, charming, captivating, cute, darling, delectable, delightful, desirable, erotic, hot, luscious, passionate, seductive, steamy, suave, sultry, vivacious, voluptuous

Individually the traits in and of themselves might not account for someone being sexy, but when combined, they may very well result in a "sexy woman". For example, the fact that someone is simply "suave" might not necessarily make them sexy, but being suave & attractive & vivacious could easily do the trick (where "vivacious" is defined as "full of life", and "suave" is defined as "charming").

Becoming a sexier woman is one way to step it up a notch...and if you're not exactly sure how to do this, here are a few simply delicious tips to get you on your way;

First of all, think about how other people see you? They see your body, your clothing, and the way you carry yourself,..... they see your personality. Let's start with that.

It's important to understand that much of being "sexy" is atttitude!!! Every girl has it, you just may not know how to use it. We'll get back to this one in a later article. Are you upbeat & enthusiastic? or are you constantly miserable & unhappy? Do you have self-confidence, or do you just blend in? Obviously it's more enjoyable to be around someone who is full of life and pep, as opposed to someone who is always down, (lets call her Negative Nancy) so right there you can be more appealing simply by presenting yourself as someone who is a ton of fun to be around. Your reflection will rub off! When people are put in surroundings with happy people, they become happier. You can be silly, goofy and smart all at the same time...and if someone says you can't ...they haven't a clue on how to multi-task!

So step #1 on the path to being more sexy is to be a confident, charming & optimistic person. Listen,... a good personality is not all it takes -- you have to look good too! It would be great to have the heavenly body, but reality, in most cases says we don't. For me, in my mid 40s I have to work harder, and keeping in shape, exercising and eating healthy isn't something I enjoy doing everyday.....

2-3 days a week I pop in my favorite DVD Yoga Booty Ballet and work out for 15-20 minutes. If you are a newbie to this type of work out and it seems easy,...PLEASE don't over do it. I was one of those women who watched it and thought, "Hmmm piece of cake...I'll do it twice and get a better work out!" Wrong, wrong wrong....oh it felt good then but two days later when I couldn't get out of my sunken bath tub without feeling pain as all of my muscles ached, I learned real quickly that this was a NO NO! My grandmother used to say, "Rome wasn't built over night" in a sense, we don't pack on extra weight in one day, it comes over time, so don't try to get rid of it in one or two fast work outs. Make sure that regardless of how others look or feel, you need to take care of you! Eat more fruits, veggies, yogurts, and whole wheat breads (they have more fiber and vitamins)...speaking of, take vitamins!! Our body needs it!

Where am I going with this? You don't have to be a hot sexy goddess.... BE YOURSELF! Instead of comparing yourself to others, be the best that you can be, because if you want to be sexy, you must first be happy with yourself. This is essential! After that, trust me, everything else will begin to fall into place.

Stay tuned for Step #2.....