Does Sexy Lingerie Boost Sex Appeal?

What is it that will empower a woman to feel flirtatious and sensual? What will it take for you to boost your sex appeal? There is no denying it that sexy lingerie is empowering, especially in the bedroom. Many women think that it just has to be sexy enough to empower their mate/partner, but that is so not true. As a woman, we should all feel empowered when we slip into something sensual. It has nothing to do with 'doing it for him' because it has everything to do with what it does for us! For decades intimate apparel has given us the edge of feeling sexy…we don't need anyone to elaborate on this issue, it's a fact.

The words intimate apparel speaks volume. Some women shy away from it because they don't think they have the figure for it. Guess what? We all have curves, jiggles, and cottage cheese somewhere….it's a part of life. You don't have to be underweight, overweight or a figure which is proportioned differently to fall into this category. The truth us that we weren't all meant to be the same. We are all defined by or character, ethics and morals, not whether we are a size 2, 12 or a 2X. We should all love our body regardless of or size or weight. Confidence comes from within and win you've got it, sister you've got it.

Men love attention, and women love giving it. Some might think that you need to do a lot to develop a great relationship. This is correct. Communication with your mate is key. By laying your cards on the table, you are getting to know what one another likes, or desires and through this, you can learn what pushes his buttons in the bedroom or simply behind closed doors and your partner will learn what pushes yours. These buttons are never meant to be used for cruel manipulation of a relation, rather the playful side of what you share so please don't misconstrue what I say from what I mean.

Every woman has sex appeal. The problem is that many women can't see it within themselves. Do you need 3 reasons to wear sexy lingerie? Ok, here you go; 1) It's SEXY, 2) It's SEXY and 3) It's SEXY!
Need i say more ladies? Many women don't wear it every day. Sexy lingerie does not mean wearing a buster or a corset around day in and day out. It is something as simple as the bra and panty set that you wear underneath your clothes. These are all intimate apparel items.

Now, I realize that to many women with hectic schedules, families, and the joys on motherhood, sometimes we don't have enough hours in the day to fit in 'looking sexy' but you should, if not for anyone else, for YOU! Is it a big priority? No, should it be? YES. I personally think that too many women don't see feeling sensual as a priority. What happens when we do this? We take a back seat and life passes us by because we are too busy tending to everyone else's needs. We get caught up in the hustle and bustle and our relationships begin to suffer. Sometimes that spark dies in a relationship and if this happens, sister it's time to rekindle the flame of desire and romance.

Every woman should care enough to want to enhance her own figure, and lingerie does just that. It's time to pull out the stops and feel glamorous and fabulous about yourself. Today is the day that you should make it all about 'you' and step outside of the regular every day box of life. Kick it up a notch and boost your sex appeal. Still not too sure about what type of lingerie to purchase? My non-professional advise? Keep it simple. Men like things that look sensual but don't take a half hour to get off. Anything that has too many strings, hooks, clasps, or snaps should be thought about carefully before slipping into them. I'm not saying that they don't look incredibly sexy on a woman…what I am saying is men are already undressing you before you start getting comfy, so by the time they actually do begin to caress you and tease, something like a corset might be overkill.

If you are not in a relationship and you are wanting to boost the sex appeal level just for you…I say kudos! You don't have to be in a relationship, married, etc., to feel good about you. Feeling sexy begins when you step out o the shower in the morning and slip into your skivvies. Sexy matching sets are a great place to begin. Check out our selection at Simply Delicious Lingerie. We also have a super sexy selection under the Pick 2/$25 category. At these prices, items are selling out quickly!

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Can Foods Tighten Your Tummy?

It has been said in the past that if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is. Both women and men  day after day tend to look for ways to burn the fat and shake a few pounds, especially at this time of year (and when I say this time of year I am speaking for those of us that live in the eastern or midwest areas where snow still covers the ground but we desperately await sunshine and warm temps.) However, in recent studies, there has talk about food tightening the tummy. No this is not a magical system to shrink belly fat overnight, and if you believe that you are sadly being misled.

Nevertheless, like sand in an hour glass, time is ticking...Is this all speculation? Perhaps it was, or so I thought, but after reviewing these particular items that I am about to share with you and reading facts and statements by others I decided to try it myself and I can honestly tell you that I have noticed an improvement in my tummy. Let me give you some history about me; I am a happy, healthy, cancer free gal with a lot to live for! Prior to a few years ago, weight was never a big issue for me. At my age (50) gravity tends to set in and menopause has made its way through my body tearing it up over the last several years, causing drastic changes and added weight to just appear, especially in areas where it never did before. My stomach and waistline area suffered. The pounds just packed on and all I could do was cry.

Summer months no longer meant sunbathing for me and that was quite difficult as my families owned beach front properties where we vacations frequently. I didn't want to look like the beached whale bathing in the sand. Instead, I sat in my swimming suit with with a wrap around my waist hiding behind my Prada sunglasses hoping no one would see the chubby lady. I didn't like this me. I was determined to say enough is enough. While I am working now from my home office full time, I decided to clean out the refrigerator and only buy foods that would help me, not hurt me. At first I thought it would be really tough but after a month, it didn't really seem so bad. I am able to eat foods that I like and exercise less because they are working their magic and burning fat from my areas that caused me so much grief. Do I exercise? Sure I do a few times a week I pop in my 'yoga booty ballet' DVD and dance along to that, but I am NOT one of those up at 5am get to the gym sorta gals.

So, do you want to learn more? Of course you do because you have a bathing suit with your name on it and in your mind you are thinking "man I have to knock of 10 pounds before summer!"So where does one begin? How about with breakfast? I was awful at choosing the right breakfast foods. I'd go to the fridge and grab a can of pop and something quick such as last nights left overs heated up or worse, candy bars from the pantry. No, no, no! Here's where I made my first change...

I've learned that oats are a wonderful way to start your day. Why? They fill you up quickly making your body think that it's really full, even if it may not be. Let me guess, you don't have the time to wake up and cook oats? Hey, guess what they come in packets. You simply add water. You can microwave them at the office or better in their own small containers even with fruit, etc., where you can pop them in the microwave and take them on the go on your way to work. Need flavor? I'm certainly not at all a cinnamon lover however did you know that by putting cinnamon on it has natural thermionic properties that can increase your metabolism?

OK, so you don't particularly like oats? Some of us don't…then try grapefruit. My thoughts on this one? Thanks but no thanks, I'll stick with the oats. Grapefruit is my absolutely worst source of fruit and would honestly be my last choice of fruit nonetheless it has been proven to lower insulin levels which promote weight loss and get your metabolism racing. My problem was when I was 18 I went on a crazy diet (because I felt fat) where I ate, breathed and drank grapefruit which was unhealthy for me and I landed in the hospital with IV drips. To this day the smell of grapefruit turns my stomach.

Next; Red peppers and almonds. I'll bet you didn't know it but peppers contain capsaicin which help with burning stubborn fat. That's it…from here on out peppers go in everything I cook! Almonds are a super source of protein to help keep your body full and your metabolism kicking! Instead of reaching for a bag of chips at night while watching your favorite show on television, pour a small bowl of almonds and snack on them. These bad boys will burn calories and keep your metabolism going while you are sleeping and dreaming in la-la-land. No, I'm not saying that they are magical, but almonds, unlike those junk foods filled with fat and empty calories are actually doing something good for your body.

Salmon; You probably already know that of all the fish to eat salmon is loaded with Omega Fatty 3 Acids which are super beneficial for fat loss. This is great news, however it does not mean to go to the grocery store and buy a months supply of fish. Trust me, you'll get sick of it real fast. I bake mine in the oven in 1/4 cup of water, lemon juice, and some parsley flakes. Eat it with other combined foods mentioned and together they will all help tighten those fatty areas that give you problems.

Chicken; Now here's a great source of lean protein. Did you know that by doing something as simple as placing more proteins in your diet that you can reduce the amount of carbs you take in which will assist you in weight loss? Yes, you heard me, so go jump on the chicken ban-wagon! There are so many ways to make chicken that you actually could eat it every night and not get sick of it.

Potatoes; Can potatoes help you lose weight? Yes and No, not just any potatoes, sweet potatoes! They keep your blood sugar levels stable while giving your metabolism a jump start.

Avocados are truly considered a fat, so you wonder, "why is she saying to eat avocados then?" We'll, yes it is true that they are considered a fat, however, they are a very healthy fat. Did you know that your body needs these healthy fats to use as energy to promote fat burning?

Blueberries; these little fellas are loaded with antioxidants and they are also low in sugar and great for a healthy low calorie snack!

Green Tea; I certainly don't like tea but it has been known to help speed up your metabolism and keep you super energized which in turn burns more calories throughout the day.

With this being said, isn't it about time you made changes in your life and diet to be a 'better YOU?'

Guys…Shopping For Women's Intimates is NOT Easy!

Shopping for women's intimate apparel is not easy, especially if the shopper is a man. Nevertheless, fear not. We have a few tips and tricks for you to use that will (hopefully) help you out and give you a much better piece of mind. As women, we generally know exactly what it is that we want and need. When we go shopping whether it be out and about in the city at a local department store or a mall, or in the privacy of our own home, like I do shopping Simply Delicious Lingerie.com, we (as women) know pretty much what style we desire. We have favorite colors. We know what hugs our curves best and what pieces of women's intimate apparel to stay clear of. I don't want to say that this is an easy task for us but in comparison to what men deal with while trying to select the right piece of intimate apparel for his lady, it just could turn out to give him nothing more than a giant headache!

Lets face it, not too many men know the difference in women's lingerie. If you were to ask a man if you should buy a babydoll or a bustier he probably wouldn't know what to say? So let's take it back one step and make it even more understanding. Men wear 4 primary sizes; S, M, L, or XL. Their underwear comes in these sizes but they are so much easier to figure out. They don't have to worry about waistlines, cup sizes or the booty. Have you ever stood at a distance and watched a man trying to select the right piece of lingerie for someone? If you are like me, you couldn't stand the torture he was going through so you walk up to him and help him out. Some times he is mortified and sometimes he is more than willing to give thanks to someone for her assistance.

Men shop online for that reason alone; not to be overwhelmed or embarrassed in public, out and about in a women's intimate apparel boutique. This is great for me being an online intimate apparel owner. Men shop online at my stores because they can do research about what each type of intimate apparel it is, why it's worn, when it's worn, etc. I even have a section called "Lingerie Lingo" which describes to a man what the item is and why type of body shape the specific undergarment looks best on. Thus making intimates a great fit and wonderful piece to choose for her. Every man wants to be a superhero and save the day with the perfect lingerie.

First, a man needs to know which is going to look the sexiest on his lady. He has an image in his mind and all sort of seducing thoughts which is fine if he select the 'right' attire…but Holy Shit-balls Batman, hold on to your hat if it turns out to be the wrong size and it is way too small. This is not all about the man.  As a gentleman, you'll  also needs to know that just because you might think that something is appealing and sensual does not at all mean that your lady is going to feel comfy in it.

No woman wants to get a teddy that is 2 sizes too small. No woman that I know of wants any lingerie that is going to make her feel uncomfortable in any way. Maybe we don't want our asses hanging out of something racy and risqué? When selecting lingerie for a woman fellas you have to be right on target or it may backfire right in your face, and your romantic suggestion could turn disastrous quickly.

My advice; don't be in a hurry when shopping. Take a look at all your selections. Always ask your lady for her size. If it is a surprise, try to take a peek in her lingerie drawer to see what size she wears so that you can find the same. Do remember that not all lingerie fits the same. Do remember that sizes vary. The best rule of thumb is this; if you aren't certain of the size, go one size larger. Personally I would much rather my intimates be a tad bit larger rather than tighter. No one wants the discomfort of lingerie that makes us sore.

Try to stick with the sizes like you do for underwear. S, M, L, XL. It will get way too exhausting if you get into the 32,34,36,38, 40 and up sizes. My only advise on what to stay clear from? Items marked "OS." OS stands for one size. My friend one size does not fit any woman. It ranges from women who are 98 pounds to 165. On average these types of intimates fit best on the average woman who falls right in the middle of this weight category. Still, it is a risk buying your lady something that may look great on her especially if she bend the truth a tad bit and tells you she weighs 110 pounds but if she is 135, perhaps not so much. I sell a lot of one size items especially when it comes to sexy matching sets. This works if you fall in the middle of the weight group and know that you can pull this off. Our sexy matching sets are some of our best sellers. However, the size definitely doesn't work for all women.

Shopping for women is stressful especially if you are a man doing it. If you still are not at all certain that you can do this, shop with her! That way you can learn what she likes and she can share with you what pieces of intimates she feels sexy in and why, making next time more fun and pleasurable to shop for her! If sexy lingerie is fun to shop for and you also seek adventure, do stop by our adult fun stuff area at Simply Delicious Lingerie.

How Women Should Dress for Business

Day in and day out women are faced with the same question? "What do I wear?" Whether you need an outfit for work tomorrow, or something that will land you a potential new job, make sure that it looks classy. Please do not misconstrue what I say from what I mean. Many women think classy comes with a big price tag. SO NOT TRUE! The difference between classy and trashy is like going from zero to 180 in a race car. Ladies, how many times have you looked in your closet for the right business attire and not found what you were searching for? My guess is that  you do it often… Not to worry, we are all creatures of habit and I do the same. Whether I am dressing to go out to dinner or to a job interview I must try on 10 different outfits. We ponder "what do I wear?" in our minds at least 100 times. Often, the stress of our 'dress' attire keeps us awake at night tossing and turning. Don't stress out…many will tell you (including myself) to try planning ahead? OK, that's all fine and dandy, but what if your closet doesn't have that much to offer and you are stuck between a rock and a hard place? 

Listen my fellow women friends, opportunity only knocks one time for some people, so you have to be ready, or the chance very well might pass you by. Remember, your credibility literally hinges on how you are perceived at first glance. What if the the COO of a company chose someone else over you because of your professional business attire that you came to your job interview in? Does it happen? You bet it does. This is a gray area. Gone are the days in today's society where a job is given to the one most qualified. Again, don't mistake what I am saying here… What I mean is that times are different and the market is super competitive so you have to be sharp and quick on your feet. Not only does a new job require brains but it also displays some character shown through beauty, and I am not at all referencing this to as in 'your looks.' You can never go wrong with a professional look.You want to look classy and extraordinary, not like you're about to walk into the club on a Friday night with the gals.

If your closet leaves much to be desired, make some changes. Too many women that I talk to say "I don't have the money" yet you see them week after week at the local pub or club drinking cosmo's and martini's like there's no tomorrow. Here's my 2 cents…if you have $20 to piss away on liquor, you should start saving some of that cash and using it towards a new wardrobe. Trust me, your closet won't fill up over night, BUT after a few months it will begin to look a whole lot better. The name of the game here is not how much it cost, rather how good it looks! 

Women think that you have to spend a lot or go to the high end stores and boutiques to get noticed. WRONG! Try Marshall's or TJ Maxx or Burlington Coat Factory.These are stores that sell discounted merchandise. If you still desire the brand names look in the clearance sections.Heck go to K-Mart or Target. I find a ton of clothes there for great prices.Maybe this week you only found a blouse. No problem…be on the look out in the days/weeks to come for a pair of slacks, or a skirt to go with it. What you want to do is build up a variety of style, colors and even prints (but nothing super drastic) that you can mix and match. No we aren't 5 years old any more but sometime we need a little help. If I could put those "garanimal tags" on everything like they do for our kiddos, we'd all be walking around making a fashion statement.

 First things first; choose the right colors. Not sure what they are? Go to any cosmetic counter in a shopping mall and ask them to help you determine your skin tone and suitable colors that will accentuate your skin tones. What I am getting at here is that you don't need to spend a lot to look like a million buckaroos. My daughter taught me a saying once years ago, and it has always stuck in my head; "Dress for the job you want, not for the job you have!" What does this mean? Don't even be afraid to go the extra mile to get what you want. Don't even be afraid to step outside of the box.  
With that being said; I cannot stress this statement enough ladies…. First impressions are everything!!!!!

So now you must be asking yourself... "How do I figure out how to dress and what to wear?" A good place to start is always at the bottom (your feet) while working your way up. So with that being said one of the most important parts of any outfit is a good pair of shoes (and this doesn’t change all because you expect to find yourself behind a desk for a good portion of the day). It's out of habit but people are going to look. Not everyone can wear heels. No problem…you can find classy shoes without the 5 inch heels. Not every woman can walk in heels due to the support mainly. It's better to wear something you feel good in, that way no accidents. No one wants to make a first impression by falling flat on their face because they can't walk in stilettos that her best friend picked out for her.

Heels don't work for everyone. I've made this statement time and time again; ladies a nice, simple, flat pair of shoes are fine. No one wants to feel too cramped in their professional confines. As your feet become used to standing for periods of time, perhaps then you might increase the heels size. Next tip is; Never wear shoes with flashy colors to the office, unless your office is for a designer or you work in retail. If this is the case, style is everything and the more colors sometimes the crazier fashion statement you make. At a regular 9-5 job however, when buying shoes for work, your best bet is to go with something basic. Tan, taupe, grey, brown, and my favorite; black. 

Are you ready to hit the ground running and go window shopping for some new ideas? Might I make a few suggestions if I may? Things to look out for while shopping for blouses: as with your slacks, be careful to notice how tight your top is – if you can see the outline of your bra with it on, it’s probably too tight. The statement 'how low can you go' was not intended for office chit-chat so if your top is so low cut that you’re worried someone might be able to tell the color of your bra or worse, see your hooters if you move in a particular way, it’s probably cut way too low; sleeveless tops may or may not be acceptable in your office, double check before you show up to work in one; colored blouses are easier to clean than white. Once you get better used to life in the business world, you may end up expanding your choices to include suits and skirts and pantyhose. Watch how of how you bend over because trust me when I say....all eyes are on you!

Getting noticed is what we all want, so remain classy and fashionable but do it the right way for heaven sakes. No you do not have to be the power dresser, nor do you want to be that coworker that everyone is talking about at happy hour night after night. The whole thought process here is to give your wardrobe a face lift by making simple changes. Don't have enough cash to buy suits, blouses, skirts and slacks right away? Well then, accessorize sister! (again, nothing flashy!) Add a soft necklace or a nice pair of earrings, or a watch to something simple that you already have. You don't want to walk into the office looking like Mr. T with chains hanging, banging, and clanging down your chest. My grandmother always used to say "less is more!" Please, if you didn't get anything else out of this article, remember that one. My nonprofessional advice; just look polished, smile and be outgoing. That my friend supersedes everything else. 

What Do Women Want? Lingerie at Discounted Prices.

With all of the distributors and manufacturers so many men and women get confused as to which lingerie boutiques to shop at? Let me make it easier for you. We are specialists in lingerie. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we take pride in knowing that our customers come back time and time again for our discounted prices and our selection. We also feel that customer service plays a big influence in any type of retail store whether it be a brick and mortar or a website on line. We can't offer you a store to walk into….we can offer you more. We offer a revolving door that remains open every day, 24 hours a day. Week nights, weekends, and holidays included. Whether you are busy at work all day or busy at home holding down the home front, we believe that your time is valuable and we're here to make sure that you can browse our online boutique in the privacy of your own home in your PJs or at the office in your business attire whenever you desire.

So what sells and what is it that women keep asking for time and time again?

Sexy matching sets took first place with votes at Simply Delicious Lingerie when we asked for a favorite amongst all of the choices. Why? They are generally inexpensive, simple and for women who aren't ready to get skimpy and bare more than they care to, this is a set that wins hands down time and time again. So whether you are a size small or a 4X, we've got you covered. We hand select each and every piece of intimate apparel with you, the customer in mind.

Whether you are looking for something sensual for that special night, a romantic weekend, or an erotic adults only travel vacation, we offer discounted lingerie for men and women including a wide variety of sexy lingerie, sexy bridal and wedding undergarments, adult travel lingerie, clothing optional travel lingerie.

 For cost effectiveness, we've put together a Pick 2/$25 section of our website where women can choose not one, rather two items for practically the price of one. We're proud of our selection as well as the designers and distributors lingerie and intimate apparel presented to us. We offer a selection, a variety of something to suit very woman's desires. Whether you wish to wear racy, risqué or something sexy and simple, we have what you need at an affordable cost without breaking your bank. Visit our store today! Simply Delicious Lingerie