Friday, March 15, 2013

Intimacy, Men and Sex


Deep within every adult male is their lustful youth that fantasizes about a woman and he will certainly push your limits, and your buttons.The anticipation builds and he craves you. In his mind, he is undressing you and wanting to get into your knickers. He thinks about it day and night, and wonders if it will happen on the first date or not for a while. The answer to that question isn’t up to him, it’s up to you. Now who’s pushing buttons? We can turn our sex drive on and off like a light switch, but men on the other hand, not so much.

So he thinks you're sexy, and you may even think that he is too, but that doesn’t mean you’re ready to slide between the sheets with him. How do you know when the time is right? Trust me when I say to wait. Why? You'll know when. Because if you give yourself too soon, you’ll have him but you’ll never ‘have’ him. Remember that saying…“Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” It has been said that a man won’t want to commit to anything or anyone else if he can get someone whenever he wants it, so go slowly. Get to know one another. Make him want to see you again and again. Men love a challenge. It isn't terrible to say 'make him work for it.' This is no marathon. What’s the rush? Learn to read body language. What is it telling you? My grandmother used to say that you could speak to a man with your eyes and never have to open your mouth. The eyes are persuasive and sensual. They are a very powerful tool to have. 

Relationships are meant to last. Communication is key, and without it how will you know what your partner wants, likes or dislikes? There is a lot more to a relationship than simply sex.The bottom line is simple; if you give sex up too soon, then he has no reason to make a commitment. If sex for you demands at least a serious relationship with the potential to become permanent, then hold off until the time is right for you.You call the shots this time. If you hop in the sack with him on the first night, he’ll think you do this with all the guys you date, and no man wants to be with a woman who is easy. A real man want a classy lady. It’s a difficult line to walk between prude and slut. Another great truth is that men are quick to announce declarations of love to get sex and women give in on sex in the hope that it will lead to love. What a messed up thought pattern.

As a woman, we crave intimacy with a guy. That's the truth. If he’s mature enough to keep himself in check, you can tease and tantalize him just a little. This builds intimacy without pushing things too far too fast. This will also leave him wondering what you're going to surprise him with next? A smart man knows that he keeps his pecker in his pants long enough to build genuine caring and intimacy. Then when the time is right he’s going to have the best sex of his life and she will make it very worth his while. It’s all about putting your partner’s needs ahead of your own - something that women have done for centuries and men still sometimes don’t comprehend. That’s all right though, we’re a little bit more  patient.








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1 comment:

  1. Ms Michele, always a joy waking up to you each morning. My morning tea and crumpets would not be the same without you and your delightful stories about life, lingerie, love and relationships. Enjoy following you lady.

    Jillian H
    Manchester England

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