Showing posts with label sex appeal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex appeal. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Seduce and Devour…

That saying holds true that what a woman wants a woman wants…and she sets her sights at getting it. When a woman meets a potential partner she begins analyzing her approach and just how it is that she might get their attention. How does one seduce the one that she wants? Does this make you a slut or mischievous? Not at all…it is enticing and intriguing to say the least. When you're trying to figure out the best way to be seductive, often the more subtle things will be most effective for how to seduce them. While most men are visually stimulated and love the idea of their special someone dancing around the room in sexy lingerie, what happens if you haven't gotten past the eye contact stage yet? Seducing your partner can go a lot deeper than a quick physical encounter if you play your cards right. You can learn how to seduce them in ways that will leave them coming back to you for more and they have nothing to do with physical temptations.


Do You Have the Look? You either do or you don't…if you don't, FIND IT!
Let's look at this from a woman's perspective for a few minutes? Ask yourself ladies…Are you the cats meow? Sexy lingerie should be a huge priority! Get yourself something that is going to say holy smokes! The right 'look' from a woman can drive someone totally wild. This is going to also depend on what type woman he likes, but my thought is that any woman can drive someone right out of their skin if she critiques it well enough....seduction is an "art." Every female has the ability to turn on a steamy 'come hither' look when the one of her desires is before her. However, you can also give other signals with your eyes. I do it all the time....are you a sexy seductress?

Try catching their eye and then holding the eye contact for longer than a normal gaze. Holding eye contact is a sign that you're interested in them. Do they look back at you in the same gaze or does they quickly look away? To show your submission to his advances, try dropping your gaze downwards after your eye contact. Sounds like small potatoes but seriously, it works! This doesn't mean slave-like submission. It means you're accepting an advance from them. Give him a super sexy smile and he'll be falling over himself to come over and introduce himself to you!


What's your "Body Language" saying? 
Did you know that 90% of what you're saying isn't coming from your mouth? Learning how to attract a mate or how to seduce them is made much easier with simple body language signals that he can pick up. Even though they might not notice them on a conscious level, sub-consciously they will be very aware that they're attracted to you and doesn't quite know why! Ohhhhhh but ladies, they will surely want to find out, you can be sure of that! Be subtle about wetting your lips with the tip of your tongue and his eyes will be drawn to your mouth. Once they looks, give a little sexy smile and a nod to signal that you've noticed them look.

You could also try playing with your hair, (some may say that's a nervous habit, I say it's a seduction habit.) Try moving it around a little so you expose a little of the soft skin along your neck. Play with your reading glasses. Don't wear them, go buy a cheap pair…you don't need a prescription for these but geez do they make a gal look sexy! Some may say that these are overtly erogenous zones, so exposing it a little is enough to give a strong signal to attract the one of your desire. In relationships and even marriages some say that their sex life goes stale after a while or several years, but it doesn't have to. Some people think that you need to go the extra mile when you may only need 6 feet…Ladies, it's time to wake it up! You could show up at their office, after hours when they are physically exhausted because sometimes you just have to take him by surprise and be the dish that he wants to seduce and devour tonight. Try these few tips out and if they work for you, and who knows, you may just end up having more than just cheesecake for dessert!






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Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Sex Appeal

SEX appeal. What is it really? It is that much-desired special something that makes heads turn and hearts throb. That certain aura that emanates so strongly from a man that a woman gets weak-kneed, and that sensual femaleness that can make a guy forget his prior commitments.It's got power all right. That may be why you're reading this article. We all want to have sex appeal. We might not agree on exactly what the term means, but if someone accused us of having it, we wouldn't argue with them.When something is sexy, it has sexual connotations. This means that it stimulates sexual appetite or hunger. Sex appeal means that something has a physical attractiveness and attracts members of the opposing sex. Surely you've felt this before?

If you have sex appeal, it means there's something about you that makes persons of the opposite sex want to be as close to you as possible.  There is something so attractive about you that they want to bond with you.

But this is where we have to think very carefully. Clearly, we like the idea of persons of the opposite sex finding us so appealing that they want to become one with us. Wow! What a compliment! But what part of you do they want to become one with—just your body, or your body, mind, and soul?  In the larger scheme of things, our bodies are but a small part of the totality of us.

Our minds are thousands of times more complex and unique, and what we call our souls are the deepest parts of us, the parts that are so central to our being that their value to us is beyond words, beyond measurement. Most of us are just beginning to understand our souls a little bit. We have flashes of awareness of how unique our souls are, how they contain all the really precious parts about us, and we literally shudder at the idea of playing fast and loose with this unbelievably masterful part of our identity. We're the only person in the history of the world with the soul we have, and if we gained the whole world, but lost our soul, we would have lost everything.My personal opinion is that you must first love yourself, for if you do, then all else will fall into place.

I feel most importantly, that sex appeal isn't something to labor over. The hard work is done when you build your self-confidence, learn to love others for who they are, and find your purpose in this world. Sex appeal tends to exude as the fruit of your ongoing personal development. So the best advice after all this advice is to not try too hard to have sex appeal. Provided you've learned to love yourself and others well, it'll come naturally, just give it time. Get to know yourself and find out who you are and what it is that you seek? Find within yourself class, style and poise. Read up on current events and social society. That is a portion of sex appeal that most men find erotic and mind boggling...yes, every man wants a woman with intelligence and a sense of humor combined.



Sunday, July 31, 2011

Things That Make Him Turn His Head

What's sexy without being sleazy? How far does one go to look hot to trot, but not enough to make those around you laugh behind your back with ridicule. Keep it simple, and extraordinary. Keep the "wow" factor alive and keep him coming back for more! Adding a few unexpected touches and glamorous essentials will certainly will help do the trick. It's about dressing in fabrics that feel great against your skin. Sexy looks work for any age or budget. Here's how to add sizzle to your look without sacrificing your modesty. 
 
1. Wear something ordinary in an unexpected way that wull say "WOW!"
It doesn't have to be a huge statement like wearing a jacket backwards; subtle alterations pack the chicest punch. For example, take a basic man's white shirt (slightly over sized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the other and tuck in.) Quite the turn on to men, and it makes your curves whatever they man be look sexy and appealing.

2. Tease him, but just a little....
No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive. Tease him with a little...not a lot. Give him something to make his mouth water.

3. Add a head piece
Nothing attracts attention quite like a hat. ...just not one like the princesses wore at the big royal wedding a few months ago that grabbed so much national attention. First, it takes guts to wear one. Second, it takes panache to carry it off. Combine the two qualities and you get major sex appeal. Stay with classic shapes, for example; the fedora, the beret... to make it easier to pull off.

4. Accessorize with soft on the shoulders
Skip every other piece of jewelry, pull your hair back and make sure your makeup stays soft. This look goes great with bare shoulders and updos, too. Definitely an after-dark look,...and quite the sexy eye-catcher! Something light and sensual.

5. Make it shine
Black may be super sexy, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous when you're going for vavoom. Look for simple shapes (the story here is the fabric and color, not the line of the outfit) and tones that flatter your skin color. Pass on major jewelry and makeup to let the dress really shine. You'll stand out, but in a sassy way!

6. Adopt a simple look 
The pencil style  is a classic example of a dress with an allure all of it's own, form fitting, but not too tight, shows your curves and turns heads.


7. Wear shades
Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes. My eyes are important to me and yours should be too. I don't leave home without my Pradas, Diors or Choos!

8. Make a grand ole' exit
 Sexy is all about surprises, so a deceptively simple dress from the front can be a showstopper in the back. Open backs, lace-up backs, great dress trains all make for dramatic effects. Nothing says "see you later" better than that vivid image that will be stuck in is head when you walk away....so make it sexy, stunning and mind jolting!

9. Stay soft with touchable fabrics
Forget everything you've ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins being heat-inducing. Yeah they look hot, but cashmere, silky satin, buttery soft suede's are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite an other's touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy.

10. How about RED?
Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. Use lip liner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; oranges for olive; true reds for blondes). Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage. Pucker up gals! Red is hot and sexy!



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