Does love come with age restraints? Are women in their 40s and 50s as desired by men as the younger generation of women? This is a question that is pondered by many and the answer is most definitely YES! On the contrary to what many think, men are not all players and not all men want a one night stand. Women of the younger generation are beautiful and they may have a lot going for them but I believe that women of my generation are equal just the same if not more enticing. Why? For an abundant amount of reasons. Middle aged women are still beautiful, they can still be quite provocative nonetheless more so than any other reason I could give; they are mature. I am not at all saying that a younger women is not mature, I am strictly stating that with age generally comes maturity and wisdom is not something that you learn, one must acquire it.
Many times women in their middle ages get down on themselves and they may question why it is that they don't have a boyfriend that they can depend on, or why they are overweight or why they are not more secure with themselves in their life either by means of finances or security in a career? I don't have the answers to all of the questions but I can tell you that menopause plays a key role in this and we do things that we normally necessarily would not do. Our hormones are raging and we are cranky, we're up then we're down, and just like the Katy Perry song we're hot and we're cold. Yes, I am speaking of those horrific hot flashes. Unless you are in your 40s or 50s you have no idea what women go through at our age. Even with all of these barriers holding us back as women we tend to be quite hard on ourselves especially while practicing the art of dating. Ladies, confidence conquers all. Regardless of your age, size or shape, if you feel good about yourself inside, it will show on the outside.
Hey, none of us are perfect that's for sure but women make it a point to be the best that they can be. We set goals for ourselves, and we do our best to follow through. So why then is it so hard for middle age women to date a man? The answer is simple. For many who are single or whom have been divorced for several years, over time we learn to be independent and in that aspect, not all of us want to or need to be with a man whether it be to date one, to be in a relationship or to marry. Women learn how to do a lot on our own and as the saying has it, "we get by with a little help from our friends."
So, can women find love in their 40s and 50s? Men in most cases find middle aged women sexy. Men, while looking for a woman to date wants the whole enchilada and he will find that in the middle aged woman. Most middle aged men that I know what to be with a women in their age bracket. Why? The want honesty, not games. They want romance not a one night fling. They want dating to develop into something more. They want maturity and most of all they want your respect. If you are lucky enough to find someone that you really mesh with in this middle age era you've done something right. If you haven't that doesn't mean that you are not capable of love, it just means that it isn't your time yet. My grandmother used to always tell me not to look for love. She said that love will find you when you are least expecting it. She was a pretty smart lady.
Many times women in their middle ages get down on themselves and they may question why it is that they don't have a boyfriend that they can depend on, or why they are overweight or why they are not more secure with themselves in their life either by means of finances or security in a career? I don't have the answers to all of the questions but I can tell you that menopause plays a key role in this and we do things that we normally necessarily would not do. Our hormones are raging and we are cranky, we're up then we're down, and just like the Katy Perry song we're hot and we're cold. Yes, I am speaking of those horrific hot flashes. Unless you are in your 40s or 50s you have no idea what women go through at our age. Even with all of these barriers holding us back as women we tend to be quite hard on ourselves especially while practicing the art of dating. Ladies, confidence conquers all. Regardless of your age, size or shape, if you feel good about yourself inside, it will show on the outside.
Hey, none of us are perfect that's for sure but women make it a point to be the best that they can be. We set goals for ourselves, and we do our best to follow through. So why then is it so hard for middle age women to date a man? The answer is simple. For many who are single or whom have been divorced for several years, over time we learn to be independent and in that aspect, not all of us want to or need to be with a man whether it be to date one, to be in a relationship or to marry. Women learn how to do a lot on our own and as the saying has it, "we get by with a little help from our friends."
So, can women find love in their 40s and 50s? Men in most cases find middle aged women sexy. Men, while looking for a woman to date wants the whole enchilada and he will find that in the middle aged woman. Most middle aged men that I know what to be with a women in their age bracket. Why? The want honesty, not games. They want romance not a one night fling. They want dating to develop into something more. They want maturity and most of all they want your respect. If you are lucky enough to find someone that you really mesh with in this middle age era you've done something right. If you haven't that doesn't mean that you are not capable of love, it just means that it isn't your time yet. My grandmother used to always tell me not to look for love. She said that love will find you when you are least expecting it. She was a pretty smart lady.
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