What are the Signs?

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You

Ladies, I am no expert here and I don't have a crystal ball, but oh how I wished that I did sometimes....
 I do know through experience of my own when you can tell if a man has feelings or not.

These are some sure signs that will tell if a guy really likes you.... Oh, but don't confront him on this...

 Give him some time to realize that he may be falling in love with you. On the other hand, you can show him in your own ways that you are into him by reciprocating.You'll know the right time to confide, trust me you will!

• He takes interest in your day-to-day life. He asks how your day was and feels concerned if anything is wrong.
• His behavior suddenly changes when you come around. He suddenly mellows down and becomes a bit quieter while chatting with his friends.(why? because all he can think about is you!!) .....if this isn't a  dead give away, I don't know what is?
• He remembers almost every small thing that you say. It shows how special you are to him.
• He calls up just to listen to your voice so he can remember your giggle and sounds of laughter.
• You talk on the phone for hours and you hate talking on the phone.
• He asks to see you more often and then and admits how much he loves being around you.
• He is good with everyone, but with you he goes that extra mile to ensure comfort.
• His body language changes when you are there. He displays affection through subtle hints like stroking your cheek slightly, moving your hair aside so he can see your eyes when you smile back at him, rubbing your neck, holding your hand, etc.
• He tries to be overtly friendly with you and takes that extra step to know more about you, your family and your friends.
• When he praises only about you to his friends and family, it means he has got special feelings for you.
• Friends are a total give away. If his friends treat you in a special way or say something about the two of you being couples, you know he is in love. Men rarely confide in anyone, but if they're talking you up to their friends, kudos to you! This is a big step, and another gesture that says he like you a lot!
• He looks in your eyes and you feel as if you were looking into a mirror,...... his expressions are completely the same as yours. He has this knock down drag out shine when he is looking at you, so undeniable.
• He wears that boyish grin that says only to you in no uncertain terms "I'm Yours" - this makes you happy and gives you the goosebumps!
• He keeps looking at you when you are around and shy’s away when you look at him directly.
• He listens to music and specifically picks out certain songs that remind him of you.
• Do you finish one an others sentences? Ummmm..... need I say more or do you need someone to smack you in the head with a brick? You are falling, hook, line and sinker.

Hello?? Does any of this sound familiar ladies? If so, he's on his way to stealing your heart! If you share his feelings, you certainly don't need my advice....even the crystal ball says "I see true romance in your future!"

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"OH NO HE DIDN'T"...... Mistakes Men Make in the Bedroom

Gentlemen get ready, listen,....and for God sakes, PLEASE......PAY ATTENTION!! I’m about to explain to you why your sex life might not be as satisfying or successful as you would like. Pull up your big boy pants because some of this may really deflate your ego, however, if you’re manly enough to get through it, I guarantee that eliminating these things from your sexual repertoire will rejuvenate your sex life.

#1 Don’t assume that your partner wants to be called a dirty whore. Sorry boys, for some women this is a a major turn off. Sure we all think of ourselves as a 'bad girl' from time to time (in the bedroom for that is a safe place to go to live out a fantasy of sort.) You can introduce dirty talk without involving any name calling. Sure, if you know that is something your woman likes you can go for it, be as dirty and nasty as you want to be; but if you don’t know for sure, the really dirty names may just as well have the same effect as a water spigot being turned off! This immediately causes your partner as well as her stimulating feelings in that one split second "heat of the moment" to come to a complete Dead Stop!

#2 Don’t go into this blindly with no thought as to how a woman’s body works and what will be effective in bed. Inexperience is one thing, but just plain ignorance, and stupidity is absolutely inexcusable.  Really guys,.....stop and think about how well you know what pleases you personally; you’ve devoted time to learning what works for you and what doesn’t. You know what turns you on, and off; so while each woman will also have unique turn on's and turn offs,  there are a few easy waysto learn things that you will understand if you just spend a little time learning a woman’s body the way you have learned your own. Once you have mastered that,....you're golden!

#3 Don't steer a woman by the head. I could never really find the words to describe just how I wanted to say this, and then one day I ran across an article where someone did explain it how it should be spoken; Sure a little grasp and twist of the hair can be great in the heat of the moment, but when a woman goes down on you,  her hair is not a steering wheel and her ears are not handlebars. Vocalize what you want, or show her by moving yourself. If you drag her by the hair and ears you may be setting yourself up for a vicious bite when you go too far and choke her. If you really want the passion and seduction to flow, use her body language and movements to guide you. Not only will she be helpful to you, but it'll be like following a road map to arrive at the final destination.....her pleasure palace.

#4 Don’t confuse the importance of lubricant. Just do it! You heard me.....sure women provide natural lubricant, but if you’re all revved up and planning on a long lovemaking session or a night full of sexual encounters, then please, spare a few moments to apply a good lubricant, if you don't you may be sorry! If you do this you’ll find that the pleasure is doubled for you as well as for her when there is no chafing and tugging, burning or rubbing. How many times have you been with a women who after a under the sheets said " It's burning, We need to stop, or I'm sore?" That's the worst way to take a full blow erection from rock hard to blue balls in a matter of minutes.

#5 Don’t ask if it was good for her; if you have to ask then it probably didn’t go so well. Sorry boys, if it was good for her you’ll know it by the blissful look on her face, the racing of her heart as her chest is pressed up against your body, the inability to catch her breath, the tremors and muscle quivers that signal orgasms and aftershocks.  Even if your partner doesn’t tell you that it was good for her, (which trust me on this a lot of women will not) if you pay attention to her actions and reactions you’ll know without a doubt if you just got ranked the king of her erotic zone. If it wasn’t good for her, stop, reapply yourself; simply come up with new ideas and techniques that are a little more romantic and giving of yourself, and get back to work!! This doesn’t mean you can’t satisfy her in other ways if your actions took a nose dive somewhere else.

It's really  not so difficult to please a woman in bed. Just take the time.....and pay attention to what she likes. This is your lesson in listening and learning. As Olivia Newton John once sang it best "Let's Get Physical." There is no amount of time or a rule book that will tell you when you'll have it figured out,...... it's something that only you can understand with the guidance of your partner. Once you master this it'll be like reading a road map and you can travel down her path any time you like because you will have perfected the ways to please her.You must be patient though.....does it really matter if it takes a while,....(hello?...are you stupid?) you're in bed with a terrific woman who is wet and you have the erection! Make as many mistakes as needed to get this right,......and when the time comes and you finally have the maneuvers under control, it will be like the choir closing and singing a great big hallelujah!......

Now then,.....If you still need some practice and she tells you that you have been a naughty boy, then just smile, apologize and tell her that you're ready for your spanking.......

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Succulent & Mouth Watering....

Succulent Shrimp Skewers with Tzatziki, Spinach, and Feta

yield: Makes 4 servings

active time: 30 minutes

total time: 30 minutes

Tzatziki is a popular Greek sauce made from yogurt, cucumbers, garlic, and dill.

I've subbed in shallots for garlic and used it to top...

Ingredients

• 1 cup Greek-style (2% or nonfat) yogurt*
• 1 cup 1/4-inch cubes English hothouse cucumber
• 3 tablespoons chopped fresh dill
• 2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice plus additional for drizzling
• 2 tablespoons chopped shallots  (can also use garlic)
• 1 1/4 teaspoons aniseed, finely crushed, divided
• Olive oil (for brushing and drizzling)
• 1 pound uncooked large shrimp, peeled, deveined, tails left intact
• 8 cups baby spinach leaves
• 3/4 cup crumbled feta cheese

Preparation

Mix Greek-style yogurt, cucumber, dill, 2 tablespoons lemon juice, shallots, and 3/4 teaspoon crushed aniseed in small bowl; season tzatziki generously with salt and pepper. Chill.

Prepare barbecue (medium-high heat). Brush grill with oil. Thread shrimp onto 4 metal skewers. Brush shrimp all over with olive oil; sprinkle with salt, pepper, and remaining 1/2 teaspoon crushed aniseed. Grill just until shrimp are opaque in center, about 3 minutes per side. Divide spinach among 4 plates; drizzle lightly with additional lemon juice and olive oil. Top each with 1 shrimp skewer. Spoon tzatziki over shrimp; sprinkle with feta cheese and serve.

*A thick yogurt; sold at some supermarkets and at specialty foods stores (such as Trader Joe's and Whole Foods markets) and Greek markets. If unavailable, place plain yogurt in cheesecloth-lined strainer set over large bowl. Cover and chill overnight to drain.

****Serve it with your favorite bottle of  white wine, I've selected Sauvignon Blanc

The Corset

Up through the Victorian Ages, corsets were very popular with women. Corsets were worn to reduce waist size. A tiny waist made for an attractive figure.Corsets were made from different materials over the years, including: stiffened linen, wood, whalebone, and wrought iron. Corsets were designed to cinch up very tightly in the back in order to restrict the waist size. Corsets also restricted movement, forcing a straighter posture. It was shameful for women to show any pain or discomfort felt by the severely tight corsets. Unfortunately, many women were not strong enough to endure the punishment of the tight corsets and would experience numbness in their body, trouble breathing, fainting, and even cracked ribs.

Luckily for us ladies, somebody decided corsets had to go! Today corsets are designed to be both beautiful and functional.Women of smaller frames and smaller chests can look sexier with a leather closed neck halter neck. This clubwear leaves the back and the shoulders bare, giving much more emphasis on the slenderness of these body parts. It usually wraps around the body very firmly, allowing emphasis of the tiny waistline. Remember that for every type of woman, there is always the perfect clubwear made just for her body type.

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Talking Dirty

Do you believe that how to talk dirty to a woman includes soft delicate language designed for her feminine senses? Do you think raunchy dirty talk will offend a woman? Do you think that women need to hear romantic thoughts and sweet dreams, rather than the naughty truth of your hottest desires? Perhaps sometimes we do...

How to talk dirty to a woman is not all about feminine things and  happiness. Talking dirty to a woman is all about being raunchy and letting your bad boy out! She likes to see this side of you at times and it does awaken a part of you that needs to be aroused from time to time.....
But that doesn’t mean you should just jump into the dirty talk pool and whip out your naughtiest/most seductive comments when you first meet the woman of your dreams. No no no....this could be a super big turn off!

Women do like some romance, and telling her your kinkiest fantasy is something that should be saved for the moment she’s ready to hear it. If she’s out looking for a good time and nothing more, she might welcome your kinky ideas along with a nice adult beverage or two. If she’s not the “pick up and hook up” type, then you might need to exercise a bit of finesse before you swing from the chandeliers like Tarzan... otherwise you could really blow this!

How do you do that? It's quite  simple actually… you start slow. Begin with a compliment or two. Tell her what you like about her appearance, and once you get to know her a bit better, tell her what you like about her personality. Tell her that you like her laugh, or her sense of humor. Then tell her how much you would like to get to know her better – that’s making it clear that you’re interested. If she responds in a positive light, make your comments increasingly sensual until you know she’s open to how you talk dirty. The big mistake is to assume that you're on the right track only to find out you are not. This happens more often than not....we get our signals crossed and speak before thinking, or in some cases do things without thinking first. The last thing that you want to do guys is to come across as the man who wants so desperately to get into her britches! Nothing turns a woman off more quickly than if you come on too strong, too fast.....and I'm sorry, don't even try to use the old "I was drunk" as an excuse for the "loose lips!"

What I'm saying take it slowly and with extreme caution....wait for her to give you the signals. Once she’s there, watch her reactions to what you say. If you whisper into her ear how you would love to take her home and tie her up and ravish her body, what does she do? If she leans into you and purrs into your ear, scratching your back and moving about her bar stool/seat you’ve got permission to go further. If she giggles uncomfortably and pulls away from you, (sort of like you have the plague) you’ve reached the limit of what she wants to hear at that point in time. You can adjust your “game” accordingly. You aren't in the dog house yet, but you do have some making up to do.

The worst mistake you can make is believing that women are so dainty and delicate and that they have to be handled as such. Nothing could be further from the truth! Women love sex, ....did you hear me? WE LOVE SEX.....especially naughty sex, the kind that fulfills the inner bad girl or as I would call her the sassy vixen, and makes her beg you for more. Learn how to talk dirty to a woman by dropping your inhibitions, and then revel in the naughty things that you might have in store for the twi of you! Chances are, she's got a wild streak. It's the quiet ones that you have to beware of!

It is imperative to do listen to her body language....if you do something that she isn't ready for in or out of the bedroom, you can be sure that she'll put her foot down and slam on the brakes....and you and your ego will come to a screeching halt!

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Handcuffs & Whip Cream......

1. Plan a hot, sexy romp in bed – all day long
2. Pamper yourself, relax.....read an erotic book while you take a bubble bath for two.
3. Buy yourself a new sex toy and use it immediately! Let him/her watch and participate.....
4. Strap on a pair of high heels while doing the laundry and show some leg....(men not you, no heels,....you can take your shirt off and show your biceps!)
5. Wear your sexiest lingerie under your business suit and see how long it takes him/her to get it off.
6. Plan a private vacation for you and your honey....somewhere hot and tropical with white sandy beach where you can massage them with suntan oils....get gritty, sandy, dirty and then take a shower that neither of you will forget.
7. Prepare a romantic dinner by candle light.....and walk around the house naked, or wear just an "apron and heels" - this will be the vision he'll have on his mind long after the meal is finished!
8. Turn into a Mrs. Robinson and date a much younger man, .....Oops, I'm already doing that.....
9.Pick a day and have a “nooner” with your lover....this includes, and is a "MUST" have at all times......
10. Handcuffs and Whip Cream!

Use your imagination:
Note to self; Every man and woman should stock up on this!...I recommend at least 2 cans in your refrigerator along with toppings of your choice; chocolate butterscotch, pineapple, sprinkles, marshmallows, etc.There's nothing like making a delicious body sundae out of your partner and if this doesn't set the relationship on fire...you need to do a "self" check test because this never fails! Tease her/him and tantalize, make them feel special, and desired. Knowing that you are saturating your partner in whipped cream and then licking it off is sooooo sexy....,Use handcuffs for fun and to be naughty....demonstrate with your alluring charm... Hurry.....you need to lick this up before it melts.....this is one yummy luscious sweet treat!

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All Work and No Play?

We have all been guilty of this in the past, and we will continue to be guilty of it in the future...It's always something work related! There is a pressing assignment or task that needs to be completed and five o’clock comes and you still are not done, so you take the work home with you, right? Wrong, you really should leave it at the office.....

 After a long day at work, you need to unwind. There are so many things that must be done when you are home, that you find yourself staying up until ungodly hours of the morning to complete the work that you've set aside for weeks, even months so you stay up late and do it all until you are exhausted, and now with little or no sleep....Then you get to work the next day, you are lethargic, tired, and stressed, making it difficult for you to pay attention and stay focus. This begins a pattern which is hard to break way from. Taking your work home from the office regularly is not a good idea. Don’t do it! Don't allow yourself to become buried in work both in the office and at home. Get your life and your desk organized and prioritize!! First things first......

I do understand that in order to be there for others and to be successful, you have to put you in first priority. Know what stresses and agitates you the most and determine how to keep them in tact so you can put your best foot forward. If you are in the position to delegate duties and work to others in the office, please do so. Guys you aren't Superman,...so don't feel like you have to do any and everything when there are others that have been hired to assist you. Delegating and giving up duties to others will keep you focused and on track, leaving you plenty of time to do the things that you want to do in your spare time. If you don't have spare time, we've got even bigger problems here! You need to make the time! There is nothing wrong with bringing a little work home with you occasionally. Organize your desk so that you have the important things that you need at your finger tips. All work and no play makes for a disaster and that's not good for any relationship!
Find something that will take your mind off of work and recharge you!

This gives clearing your schedule a whole new meaning....

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Easy Online Dating Do's and Don'ts

Online dating is seems to be the way to meet someone new these days....no one has time anymore to let things happen naturally. Everyone wants to meet someone. Is it loneliness or an did someone open a can of erotic passion around you and now it's given you a taste for some too? Either way, this is safer and a more effective way to date. My advice, and this comes from experience...be honest. The one thing that men hate most is being lied to. Don't bend the truth, be straight up about it. You want your partner to like you for "you!"
 Little lies turn into big lies and before you now it, you aren't that terrific person in the profile that you built yourself up to be, nor are you the one that he thought you were. Honesty and integrity were two things instilled in me early on. Your partner will have much more respect for you if you just tell it like it is. When you find what/whom it is that you're looking for you'll know....

1. The most important rule: Be honest about who you are!
2. Use a good, current photograph.
3. Choose a dating site with a good reputation.
4. Investigate your dating service to decide if they are the right one for you.
5. It’s okay to use more than one service at the same time, my advice would be though not to sign up for all of them because checking your mail might become a full time job.
6. Take your time in building your profile. It’s the snapshot of your personality! Show some originality! Don't be afraid to be who you are. I wrote profiles for a living, so if you need help or advice.....please, write me in the comment section and I will respond! Remember your profile has to stand out amongst all the others so you need the eye catcher to end all eye catchers!
7. Be clear about what you want. If you only want a hookup, say so. Want more? Say so!
8. Use your profile heading to filter out the dates – for instance, “Looking for Younger Man” is a good way to get rid of those who are older than you.
9. Tell people how to contact you. Prefer email? Instant messaging? Make that very clear. Beware of the one that asks you to Yahoo Instant Messenger...spammers/fakes use that frequently to hide behind a computer and suck you in only weeks or months later to learn that their stories aren't adding up. Think SMART gals! If it seems too good to be true it is! Unless you fell off that turnip truck and hit your head awfully hard on the pavement, you have to know that there are story tellers out there just waiting to suck you in.
10. There are free sites, but paid sites tend to provide more security. (If you own a dating site and want more exposure, see me, I'm taking on new clients and assisting them in advertising on my web site that I'm currently rebuilding. Let's work together, I'm familiar with dating sites, and I specialize in the elite & exclusive sites. Michele@SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com
11. Watch out for married daters, even if your site says they will weed them out. If a man is married and you don't mind, then it becomes your decision, hopefully he'll have the balls enough to tell you up front.If you are on a sugardaddy, or seeking arrangements site, you know the rules...there aren't any!
12. If you are a serious stickler for privacy, give you photo only upon request. If a man insists on it and asks over and over for it, or for additional ones, he's a super freak, weirdo,..next!
13. Use a candid photo instead of a posed one – you will get more interest. No photo shopping your head onto another woman's body! If he gets to know you and sees you naked down the road, it could blow up in your face!
14. Use the message board on the dating site until you are comfortable with email.
15. Take the time to brush up on your communication skills. Men like smart women that speak in complete sentences and use big words occasionally in conversation. Communication is key, also he learns quickly if he can take you to social functions and charitable events. No man wants to introduce a woman to friends or colleagues and have a bunch of "babble" come out when she opens her mouth!
16. Do not lie about anything – it will come back to haunt you!
17. Set up an email account that is meant only for online dating. Is is important, otherwise you may lose important emails that are personal or business related that come through and get lost amongst the hotties who are looking to get to know you.
18. Don’t become overwhelmed by an avalanche of interest. Choose carefully who will get a slice of your time, and tell the others – gently! – that you are too busy to keep in contact.
19. Don’t give out your home phone number! You heard me NO NO NO!!
20. If you call them, use the “private” function on your phone to block Caller ID, at least until you are comfortable giving out your personal phone number.

Finding a good man is like find a good pair of shoes.....first you must try a few different ones on for size before you find one that fits just right for you.....don't be afraid to shop around!

Bedroom Teasers

Everyone, and when I say everyone I mean both men and women desire sexual stimulation of some sort. There are some really intense ways to tease in the bedroom, or any room for that matter. How?  Hang on to your bed post! If you want to start a fire and really turn up some heat, use the check list below to get your love life flowing hot and steamy. My guess is that it won't take long and when passion starts there will be no stopping it. Relax, take a deep breath, now exhale.....It's time to get acquainted! There is nothing like foreplay and a naughty fantasy story to do the trick and before you know it, you'll both be begging for more.

Use bedroom teasers to set the mood. These sensitive and erotic actions are crucial factors for seducing your partner. Each time you make love, try something new, I've listed a few things below to get things started. There's no time like the present to spruce up your love life, not only does it liven things up but it sets the bar higher for new things to try. Let your imaginations run wild. Need a fantasy costume or a seductive bedroom costume? French Maid, Naughty Nurse, Playful Kitty? Look no further; lingerie is the answer! Sexy Lingerie says it all! This is just between the two of you, and as Charlie Pride once sang it in a song no one know what goes on "behind closed door." 

1) Blindfolds increase all other senses and make for an interesting experience.
2) Handcuffs are great for that “bad boy” routine.
3)Wear your high heels the entire time you’re having sex.
4)Whisper your naughty fantasy into his ear – while you’re in public. The wait will be delicious torture!
5)Strong mints with a dose of peppermint make for a tingly sensation on delicate body parts.
6) Pretend to be a complete stranger and tell your partner wild things you want to try.
7) Take the time to find her G-Spot. Believe me, it’s worth the effort!
8)Have a glass of wine before bed to help you both relax and drop the inhibitions.
9) Long day at work? Tie him up with his own tie then spank him to get him aroused.
10)Read an erotic story to him and kiss his neck as you read to turn up the heat.

Can You See Right Through Her?

gen·u·ine

[jen-yoo-in]

–adjective

1. possessing the claimed or attributed character, quality, or origin; not counterfeit; authentic

2. properly so called: real

3. free from pretense, affectation, or hypocrisy; sincere

A REAL GENUINE WOMAN!!!

Written by a man, who thinks he knows women....What makes a woman genuine?

How rare are her qualities and how lucky might a man be to find her? Don't be fooded by a woman acting like she is genuine. Eventually, her true self shows.

1. A real genuine woman knows and does not accept disrespect. No sir, not this woman!
2. A real genuine woman knows that she is responsible for her actions and thinks before she reacts.
3. A real genuine woman knows that a man is only a road block between her and the all you can eat buffet.
4. A real genuine woman is not afraid to tell her age and her weight. It shows confidence,and men like that....
5. A real genuine woman does not judge all by the actions of a few.
6. A real genuine woman knows that no one can steal a boyfriend or a husband from her. Let someone try...unless you're about to see the wrath of this woman, don't go down that road.
7. A real genuine woman does not give fake phone numbers.She won't lead a man on... She declines gracefully.
8. A real genuine woman knows how to receive a compliment and is gracious in accepting it.
9. A real genuine woman works on her faults and does not gossip about others.
10. A real genuine woman is a friend whether she is in or out of a relationship.

 Woman don't have to state that they're independent. We don't have to put on a show....It will shine through in her character. A real genuine woman keeps her word and she doesn't say what she doesn't mean..... whereas imitation women,.....from a mans perspective, you can see right through them!