Saturday, June 28, 2014

Don't Get Your Panties in a Bunch…

Have you ever been at an airport, a ball game, a cookout, at a concert, a local grocery store or even a restaurant when you saw a woman walking around with toilet paper stuck to her shoe or worse, her dress or skirt caught in her pantyhose or panties leaving her tush to bare for all to see? What would you do? My grandmother used to always sing to me "I see England, I see France, I see Shelly's underpants!" Back in the day when I was a kid, that was funny…today, not so funny. To be publicly embarrassed is so not cool. 

This morning I was out and about picking up my favorite asiago cheese bagels for breakfast when a woman stormed past me to the line to place her order with her dress caught up in her panties. People were looking at her and chuckling, but no one was saying anything. I even saw a few people with their phones out and most likely taping this ordeal. This all happened quite fast…I sat back for all of about 10 seconds before I walked up behind her, leaned over her shoulder and said "forgive me please, but your thank me in a minute, as I gave her dress a tug!' As I grabbed onto her dress she turned around with a bright red face and teary eyes all the while knowing that this popular joint was full of both men, women and children and she was probably wondering to herself how many people saw her like this? 

My question is why? Why would you let someone get from the ladies room to the checkout without saying anything at all? Common courtesy says 'help a gal out here!' I would hope that if this ever happened to me that someone would immediately jump in. Sure it may be really funny for a minute or two but this woman will remember this FOREVER! 

The moral of the story is this; do a good deed. Don't let a sista walk around with her panties in a bunch and her dress caught baring all without coming to her rescue. The great news is that out of this tragedy, I made a new friend and gained a possible new customer at my lingerie store. This woman was really fortunate to have been wearing nice undies which was a plus for her and I did compliment her on that. Not only did I help a girl out, rather I gave her my business card and invited her to shop for women's lingerie sets at my online boutique. Little did I know that she was in the fashion industry just passing through town as she introduced herself to me. After thanking me for all that I did to keep her from total humiliation, she told me that she was going to find a better way to thank me some day. I said no need for that, anyone should do what I did. 

Whether you are out in public or in the office, at a ballgame or in the boardroom, if you see this situation in action, be the bigger person to save the day and the other persons integrity. I believe in karma! Please ladies, pay it forward today!






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Friday, June 27, 2014

Women's Lingerie Sets…Be The Bedroom Vixen

In the world of women's intimate apparel, there are probably a gazillion pieces out there on the market begin sold every day, each appealing to the eye and most all of them 110% sexy! She wears it with finesse all while in good taste. With so many articles of women's lingerie, some racy some risqué how on earth does one choose which piece(s) would be best suitable for her?

This is the question that is being asked by many people, both men and women. Sexy lingerie is a desirable yet enchanting piece of apparel that can be exquisitely worn. The reverse side of this can be disastrous and oh so damaging to a women if worn too small or too tightly. Let's face it, women (most that I know) like to feel confident and sensual in sexy lingerie. No one wants to slip into something so uncomfortable that she is counting the seconds until she removes it. Women are creatures of comfort, nonetheless for some women, they just don't care because they figure they will only have it on for a few seconds/minutes anyway…but for those of us that yearn to romance someone slowly and with much foreplay…think twice before slithering into something that is unbearable to wear as it can certainly turn into a real fiasco.

Sexy appeal never looked so good and when a woman can use a piece of lingerie like a tool it is then that she is in charge. What do I mean by that? Lingerie should fit you like a glove. If it does a women will feel sexy in this piece and it will scream wow! Most women that I have met stated that they are tickle pink to have a handful of lingerie in their lingerie drawer that they feel so serene in and their partners jaw will be on the floor if she can enter the room with the proper etiquette.

With the number of sexy babydolls, sexy cami sets, sexy chemises, erotic sexy corsets, sexy garter sets, sexy petticoats, sexy role play costumes, and sexy teddies, many women may be confused as to which piece(s) would suite her likings best. My motto is simple…no, that's my motto. Wear something simple. Might I suggest one of our exquisite bra and panty sets? A women's lingerie set is inviting, intriguing and over the top if she selects the proper size, style and sexy color. Might I suggest black? It's seducing and slimming. Isn't it time you be the vixen in the bedroom? Crank up the heat and fire up and make it sizzle! Tonight this is your night to light it up and be the enchantress.





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Saturday, June 21, 2014

Why Sexy Lingerie Builds Confidence

I hear it at least 5 times a day in our Q&A Fashionista letters to Tantalizing Tina. People ask what women are afraid of? Some might say that women hide behind their baggy clothes… women don't know how to dress sexy enough,… women are not willing to let down their guard down, or some women just aren't the right size or shape to pull off lingerie. My response here is going to be short and sweet. Whomever is making these accusations and comments obviously has never slipped into a piece of lingerie before. It has been said that confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear…so why then might some of us be less reluctant to slither into it? We all have insecurities folks.

Women do not hide behind their clothes for a reason, and no, not all women do know how to dress. From a woman's point of view, we do put up shields, and our guard can be up like Fort Knox. Often we do hide behind a huge wall but this is for many reasons. None of us are the perfect size or shape. Some of us have fatty pockets where others may not, and some of us may not have been blessed with hooters of great size. Some of us after childbirth sag more or have larger hips…so what? Size or shape has nothing to do with the inner feeling of sex appeal that goes along with lingerie. Some may say that lingerie is not for every woman and I tend to disagree. Regardless of your age, height, shape, size or weight, there is intimate apparel for all women.

If a woman has never really worn lingerie before, she may feel safe in her comfort zone (as I would call it.) There is absolutely nothing wrong with fear of the unknown especially when it comes to putting on something that you've never worn before. Might I suggest to these women that if you are one that I speak of, don't sweat the small stuff…lingerie is meant to be sensual and sexy. You shouldn't feel sluty in it and if you do then it certainly is not the right selection for you. With the hundreds of pieces that I sell at both of my online boutiques Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie (my plus size store) there are a variety of brands, designers, sizes, colors and mixtures to give you an array of choices. Buying lingerie is like taking baby steps. Go slow and with caution. Find something simple and for heaven sakes, walk around the house in your undergarments so that you feel comfy in them. Love the way they hug your curves! I happen to like babydolls because they camouflage some of the weaker areas that a woman would rather hide, yet they still provide a sexy glimpse of what is underneath.

We sell discounted lingerie for women so that she can afford to wear it and so that she can look sexy. When we look sexy in lingerie it builds our confidence. Every woman needs to have confidence in herself. It does not mean putting on something slinky. It means finding what makes you feel comfortable and pretty. Personally I love women's lingerie sets. There is also something to be said about our partners liking the simple things, but it has to be eye catchy. A sexy matching set is as simple as buying yourself a new bra and panty ensemble. The top 3 favorite colors are; black, red, and white but that doesn't mean that you have to wear any of these colors. Lace and satin are great fabrics. In fact, I suggest finding something in the color and style that you are comfortable with. 

Yes women want to look alluring and intriguing, nonetheless, if we feel out of character wearing something that is ridiculously too small or too tight, we'll never want to put another piece of lingerie on again. Whether it be a babydoll, chemise, sexy corset, sexy matching set, role play costume, etc., wear it because it makes you feel like a million bucks inside and out. You are sexy ladies, so take ownership of that and watch your confidence level hit the charts!





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Sunday, June 8, 2014

Love Don't Cost a Thing… Little Things that Women Appreciate

Perhaps there is nothing to celebrate, but what woman in her right mind doesn't like surprises? The truth is, women love when their partners become more affectionate and do things for them…but I'm not talking huge things…I am talking small potatoes here. It doesn't hurt for your partner to try to be a little romantic. It's those little things that make women fall in love and they make such a big difference in a relationship if you remember to do it once in a while. J-Lo sang it…"Love Don't Cost a Thing."

There are 3 words that every woman longs to hear and can never get sick of hearing and those words are 'I love you.' If you are in a relationship or if you are married these words should flow from your mouth easily. Now, be it as it may, some men find these words challenging or difficult to say. Some men will wallow their way around those words and when a woman asks "honey, what are 3 words that you can say that would make someones day" she doesn't want to hear him say "9 o'clock tee-time." Surely all of this doesn't mean that he does not love her, it just means that not all men are good at communicating such deep thoughts verbally, so in that case he needs to learn how to use his body language to express himself. What do I mean by this? Romance her with your eyes, stroke her hair and kiss her behind the neck, pull her close and kiss her. Body language is 90% of how we communicate and if he can't say it using his mouth he best know how to do it in another form.

You want to focus on keeping the passion alive and that fire burning, because more often than not, as time goes by it diminishes, and it could all go up in smoke! Some men think that after being with a woman for a certain period of time that they are done with the courtship, the dating, the foreplay, and all the excitement and glamour…they forget about the flowers, the dinner dates, the weekend trips together and worse, they don't appear to care about sex anymore. Perhaps they can forget these things but women sure don't forget them. Even those little gestures certainly do matter to the women. Being appreciated and complimented is a very big deal to many women and guess what fellas? It's free! Unlike many, and on the contrary, what the statistics state (that women need a lot to make them happy) I beg to differ.

To make the relationship full of life, it's not only the guys who should reach out and make the effort find romantic ideas. For men, it may be really difficult to be romantic, why, I have no idea, unless he's just not that into her, he isn't all that great at getting creative, or he may find it cheesy in his mind, nonetheless, there are things that you may think are quite simple to do that could be very romantic for women.

1)  Remember the important dates, anniversaries, birthdays, etc. The ladies don't forget these specific dates, so stay in tune with their feelings! Here's an easy one that will bring her to her knees… Serve her breakfast in bed!

2) Take time to let her know that you are thinking of her during the day. You can send her a simple text message, or you can tell her all about your day when you cuddle at night. A woman likes to hear that she is loved, and special. She wants to know that she's been on your mind.

3) Hey…don't forget the little things. Listen to her needs through her voice as well as her body language. Women love to be touched. It's a gentle gesture that says you care.

4)Spend Quality Time with Her! If you want to do something more special, you can take her out to a romantic dinner, or get her tickets to a romantic or a funny movie, plan trip out of town together to share those special moments and laughs. Always remember to keep the romance in your relationship because more often than not it's the little things that mean the most. Buy her sexy lingerie and plan an adult travel destination somewhere exotic just for the two of you so that you can put your romance skills to work! Can't make it to the beach, bring the beach to your bedroom. Remember romance only dies if we let it. Love don't cost a thing, so give her the little things that she appreciates.





Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Relationships…Why They Fizzle

Unlike 50+ years ago when my parents wed, relationships are not as easy as one might think and taking vows are in my opinion these days more or less are seriously being taken for granted. Anyone that says relationships are easy is probably the 2% static rate that actually does have a pretty fabulous gig. The other 98% however need to work on theirs each and everyday in order to make it work. Tina Turner once sang "What's love got to do with it?" The answer to that questions is EVERYTHING!

Making it work isn't as difficult as one might think, on the other hand, for many people it is quite challenging to say the least. Communication and trust are two key factors in any and all relationships. You have to have a solid foundation to build on or like quicksand you'll sink and the relationship will go under. Love takes days, weeks, months and even several years to make it right but the rewards are so great for those of us in relationships that struggle and learn from one another day in and day out.

Relationships are not based on sex alone, however, the sex appeal that we possess in a relationship and the teasing that we can do adds a little playful zest. I believe that things can get boring and fizzle if we allow them to and this happens when you get too busy in your own life and wrapped up in your own issues to make time for the one that you are with. Sometimes a woman feels like her boyfriend or husbands assistant talks to him more than she does. Often he has no clue to this as he just thinks that this is work and in all men's minds, work is work. Guess what fellas, it's not always about the mighty buck, and it's not always about you. It's not always about what you have or how quickly you rise to the top that makes you successful…more times than not it is was the voice of your loved one telling you to hang in there and take it one day at a time that is the key to your own financial freedom and success. Like your relationship, this too is built from solid ground. This goes the same way for women who are business savvy and succeed. More often than not, your partner was the drive behind your success and he/she was the one that got very little of your attention along the way.

Relationships need to be nurtured and worked on daily so that the love can continue to grow. How can we keep it real and have that playful fun that I speak about? Passion for someone grows over time and love doesn't happen over night. My grandmother used to say that if you were lucky enough to find that one man that made your heart skip a beat…that one man that could know what you were thinking before it was said and that one man who could ready your body language like a book that he would not only be your best friend rather your life long partner through good, bad and the ugly. I was at the beach once a few years ago and saw an elderly couple holding hands. I said hello and we began to talk. They shared with me that they were enjoying their 65th wedding anniversary where they met, there on the beach. I asked if everyday was easy for them? They laughed and said no way. They stayed strong by staying in tune with one another. They communicated and they looked at every day as if it was the first day that they met and fell in love. I walked away from that 5 minute conversation with a new outlook on life and relationships.

If you have a relationship that is brand new or if it is 20 years old find ways to keep the spark alive! If you lack lust then dig deep and find it again. Not sure where to begin? Relate back to what made your partner smile when you first met. Bring her flowers for no reason at all. Leave her a card next to her pillow that says she is special…How about a glass of wine and some jazz music when he comes home from work to relax and unwind? How about a nice dinner served by you in something sexy? Foreplay is quite erotic you know? Perhaps you need to escape for a weekend or a nice week long vacation. When was the last time that you and your partner went somewhere over night and had fun and really enjoyed one an others company? When was the last time you thought about planning and adult vacation?

Plan a surprise weekend or a trip and make it all about you! Love doesn't disappear over night…sometimes it just lies idle for a while waiting for that spark to come back. What are you waiting for my friend? Ignite it! Make it happen and put your partner ahead of everything else today. Wake up the relationship before it is too late. For those of you who don't have any issues and everything is peachy, now is your time to plan an adult travel and getaway for some R&R. Everyone needs to get away from the everyday reality that they live in day in and day out. Get spontaneous! Get adventurous! Find some sexy lingerie and entice your partner. Whether you do it on a boat, on a beach, in a beautiful hotel room or in the privacy of your own home make it like an oasis paradise and one to be remembered.

You're asking yourself "what the hell does she know about relationships…she sells lingerie for a living?" Folks, I could write a book on relationships. I've learned from plenty of my own mistakes. You get out of a relationship exactly what you put into it. Relationships are a lot like lingerie. Its all about finding what looks best on you, what you are comfortable with and how to make it fit and flow well. You wouldn't want a partner that was overbearing or controlling and you wouldn't want a piece of lingerie that you felt like you were suffocating in because it didn't fit properly because you chose the wrong size. Finding what meshes well together is have the battle. Connecting with that certain someone is like finding the missing piece of ones puzzle. Every relationship needs some tweaking from time to time. Grow together. Do things together as a couple for heaven sakes. Make time for your relationship. Go relax on a beach, go have a couples massage at the spa, take a horse back ride, watch the sunset sharing a glass of wine…together. Isn't your relationship worth it? Don't lose the fizzle. All you need is love…







Monday, June 2, 2014

Provocative and Seductive Lingerie…Choosing the Right Piece for your Body Type.

There is something to be said about seductive and provocative lingerie…it's sexy as hell and every woman should own it. Not all of us are comfy wearing the revealing intimates so fear not…there are a number of pieces that work great for everyone. Know your shape first. Are you an apple, a pear? Do you have a square or oval figure? It's important to know this as well as understanding what makes you feel the most confident.

There is nothing worse than someone getting a gift of lingerie from their partner or even from a friend and learning that what looked great in the box did not look so hot once you put it on. Here's the thing; not every woman has the same shape, and not every woman is the same weight. Some of us vary our weight differently. Two women may be of the same weight but one might have never bared children. Our bodies change and a lot of things provoke these changes, that's a fact. Her weight may be the same as an others nonetheless her body structure may have shifted a little leaving a lingerie piece that she may have normally been able to wear in the past a big "No Way" now! My hips flared out after my first born. Hey, this is not uncommon at all. Women gain and lose weight. You think you look great and you don't have to work at obtaining a great body in your 40s and then 'boob' comes menopause…Look out. It's a fact of life. Regardless of our ages our bodies change we are constantly trying to choose the right piece for our figure.

With that being said it is important for you to now determine what new pieces of lingerie you feel good about yourself in and which makes you feel super sexy? Many women think that they need to wear sexy negligee  or a teddy to raise the bar for sex appeal. I tend to disagree. There is nothing sexier than a sexy matching set and when I say sexy matching set I am talking bra and panty set. Everyone needs these 2 pieces unless you go commando no and gals, you really shouldn't.

With the variety of intimates; babydolls, bustiers, chemises, corsets, teddies and matching sets, there is something for everyone to choose from. Might I also suggest a lovely chemise? They hug our curves and cover our areas that we tend to hide mores than a number of other pieces. Remember also that the color black is slimming and it's one of my favorites. Regardless of if you are 18 or 68 you should wear your intimate apparel in an alluring comfort so to speak. Our partners love to see us looking good and feeling confident.

You need not have a lot of money to buy sexy undergarments and sexy underwear. Our lingerie at Simply Delicious Lingerie is discounted. We sell great lingerie at prices that any woman can afford. Our Pick 2/$25 section gives you so many items to choose from. Browse our online boutique today and select something that will put an extra kick in your step!





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