Friday, May 24, 2013

Connections, Fate, and Romance...


Many times I am asked if I believe in fate? On occasion people ask me if I believed in paths crossing for a reason? The answer to both is YES, I do!  My question is "Are you a hopeless romantic?" Do you believe in paths crossing? It happens and this is called fate, my friend. You see, every now and again fate steps in and gives you a piece of happiness that you didn’t think you deserved, and then as fast as it enters your life, it exits. Sound familiar?   Have you ever gone somewhere and met someone who you just ‘clicked’ with and wondered if he/she could be the one?

Have you ever felt something immediately when you made a connection with someone who stayed in your mind, and in your heart for as long as you can remember? A place stands out in your mind, a special song, or the smell in the salty air? It might have been something as little as their smile…nonetheless, that person changed your way of thinking and at that moment put an extra skip in your step all of a sudden.

My advice (non-professionally that is) is that when you meet someone, when fate steps in, take a chance. There is no time like the present. Say hello to that person and make conversation. Laugh with them. Go out of your way to get his/hers attention and when you do, find a way to captivate them so that you stay in their head for a long time. Speaking of time, timing is essentially everything. There are times that people come into our lives when the connection just won’t work for a variety of reasons or because one or the other of you is not ready.

There are times where years go by, or even a decade and then one day you wake up after thinking of this person who has been tucked away in the back of your mind, and you ask yourself why you met him/her all those years ago? What was the purpose? Why did it not last, and is there a chance that you can rekindle the flame?  I am a firm believer in second chances. I am a true connoisseur of romance… I had a situation in my life-like this a decade ago when I met someone who stood out and stuck in my head. Regardless whether anything would now or could ever again happen, he will always be called my friend.

He was a vision of the perfect man who was funny and kind and when he smiled he lit up the room. We met at a bar on the beach while I was out with a friend. He approached our table and we immediately made a connection and clicked. For 4 days he spent time getting to know me and then when it was time for me to leave. I was given the most beautiful goodbye. A man who barely knew me standing on his pick up truck waving to me as my plane took off on the runway. He crossed over onto private property just so that I could see him. He took a risk for me. He hauled ass to the airport to see me before I boarded my plane, but he was too late. We boarded early. Was that a sign?

 Everyday people do things that surprise us. People,who were complete strangers to me on my plane could not get over the affection that one person could display, and this man did something that will stay with me and in my memory until the end of time. Even though this man has not seen me in several years, he made me a better person. I can still see his smile, and I can still hear his laughter if I close my eyes and listen in my mind. He taught me not afraid to follow my dreams, and he gave me the inspiration to go after what I truly believed in, just like he followed me to the airport.  It’s been nearly 10 years since I met this man, and once in passing about 7 years ago I saw him again while visiting the beach with my friends. At a glance our vehicles passed at a supermarket and our eyes met. I knew it was him.

Second chances? I had always hope and believed in them...I had hoped that this was my second chance and I felt that if he truly wanted to see me he would make an attempt to contact me. 4 days went by and I heard nothing…so I figured that was it…he must have moved on and married or met someone and was happy, and I was not going to be the women to rock the boat. His happiness was important to me because that's the kind of gal I am always putting others needs before my own. It just baffled me that we connected again for a split second and that was it? 

It was the end of our long 4 day Memorial Day Weekend at the beach. It wasn’t until we were picking up last-minute souvenirs at a local beach store when a friend and I were sitting in the car and noticed something under my windshield wiper. When I got out of the car and pulled the card from underneath the wiper blade, it was wet and the writing was smeared, but it said “I’m sorry, I wasn’t ready then…” on the reverse side was his phone number on the business card. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry? We communicated after I made it back home again for a short while and then just like the first time he disappeared into thin air. 

Every year around this time I think of him as we met on Memorial Day Weekend on a hot sticky muggy night at a little bar on the beach called Harold’s on the ocean. Every year around this time I ponder “what if?” Every time I go back to the beach I walk into Harold's on the ocean hoping for that connection again to rekindle the friendship that started all those years ago.  Every visit I hope to open the door and just see him standing there with a smile.  Life is full of surprises and we are blessed with those around us and who grace us with their presence. I am and always have been a live for the moment kind of gal and although this man left my life as quickly as he entered it, he will forever remain in my head. Sometimes, something like this only comes around once in a lifetime; so if this is happening to you, seize the moment. Take the chance...you may never have another one. Your heart will guide you to make the right decisions. You must have fate my friends...for special circumstances often only come around once.  Don't let your dreams get washed away...  


 heartInSand

Sunday, May 19, 2013

How to Dress Up When it Heats Up, In and Out of the Bedroom!


When it starts to heat up outside, many women ponder…How can I look sexy in the hot summer months? Be confident and take pride in how you look! If I’ve said it once I’ve said it a thousand times…confidence is key. First of all, find clothes that flatter you, not that make you stand out like a sore thumb. Stop trying to squeeze yourself into clothes that are too small, and for heaven sakes, DO NOT wear your daughters clothes. She’s at least half your age and my guess is that her style of dress is diverse in comparison to yours. When you try to squeeze your goods into a dress, or slacks, skirt that are too small the end effect is that you are going to look super large. Avoid clothes (and this includes lingerie)  that are over sized for you; they won't appear sexy and the look that you are going for is foxy, not frumpy. You want your appearance to be remembered.

What does one buy to look flattering? For work, clubbing, dinners, happy hours and parties, I am a firm believer that style is more important than fashion fad. Buying fewer clothes that may cost a little more pays off in the long run as they last longer and always look great on you no matter how much the fads change. Remember also that taking a dull outfit to hot and sassy doesn’t cost much at all. Just accessorize!! Bracelets, necklace, earrings and sexy heels will do the trick! Men love heels on a woman and they love simple and practical. Yes you can look sexy going the simple and practical route! It’s the route that I personally prefer. 

Let's talk about the casual look and what to wear; Dresses are very sexy provided they're a stylish blend. You’ll want to make sure that to check that they have patterns, fabrics and fitting that accent your best features. You want something exquisite and eye catching! A-line skirts are sexy. Jeans are always sexy as long as they fit well and are suited to your shape; take the time to find to best fit ever! It honestly will pay off! What about jackets? I say yes if you wear them right…jackets with jeans and skirts are sexy provided they're fitting and single-breasted. Double breasted or high-shouldered jackets are too overpowering; shorter jackets are great! You can dress up a pair of jeans with a sexy corset! They aren't just for the bedroom.

Now let's talk behind closed doors; Behind closed doors all bets are off and this is your time to turn into a sexy seductress. The same dress code rules applies in the bedroom. Sexy is the only way to go. Your partner wants to see you looking and feeling like a million bucks. You want to captivate them…entice them and look alluring. You don’t need a lot to do this. A simple chemise and thigh highs will work wonders! Men love the thrill of undressing a woman with his eyes, so give him some eye candy he'll  want to devour. It’s the little sexy things that you do for your partner that they will remember every time they close their eyes. You want to make a lasting impression…so go simple. 

Men want to take it off nice and slow, so on your first encounter don’t wear a corset that has a gazillion hooks and snaps to remove. He’ll get tired and the thrill will be gone. Wear something flirty and fabulous that he will envision for hours after the romance ends. At Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie we offer a wide variety of women’s intimate apparel that will enhance the features of every woman. 








Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;
Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing...the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Men L-O-V-E CONFIDENT WOMEN!

When I am asked what it is that men admire, desire and seek most in women the answer is easy; confidence, self-esteem and a savvy personality that displays her radiance! It's not about the looks, her job title, her size, or the color of her hair that makes her shine. Nothing gives a man an erection more than meeting a women who is confident, who can stand her ground and who isn't afraid to go after something she wants. So many women think that men want sexy and seductive women, and don't get me wrong, they are men with 'mojo' and they love a woman who is secure with her own sensuality nonetheless, men find confident women as an even bigger turn on! 


While men appreciate an intelligent and successful woman, they typically don't feel very appreciative about being managed in a relationship. Men are not dogs, and they don’t want to feel like they are on a short lease. Remember ladies, we don’t call all the shots…and if you are one of those women who do…drop that like its hot or he’ll be dropping you in a hurry!
 Tell Him What You Want Or What You Don't Want
Honesty is the BEST POLICY! Relationships are built on trust and communication. Expressing your feelings and telling him what you want, or don't want is ok to do. On the contrary to what so many women think, men like to know what we want. They are smart but they are not mind readers. Men like to hear us say it…Don’t think that they have all the answers or know what they want because that is not entirely true. One way assertiveness is attractive to a man is when you can clearly communicate what you want, or don't want, without making him wrong and without criticism.
Good Lord…Don't Chase Him!
Men love doing the chasing…but they really don’t take kindly to the stalker type that chases him for his attention and affection. It’s ok to do a little but don’t over do it or it will back fire and he will lose any interest that he may have had. By now ladies, you know you're not supposed to chase after a man because it's simply a turn off for him, but I know... it's so hard not to. In this new, modern era, women are just confused…we ponder; “what do men want?” They don't make it easy for us to figure them out. Just don't make yourself available all the time. Men are curious when we say 'no' every once in a while, and it makes them wonder what we are doing? Let them wonder! 
Show Him the ‘Laid Back’ YOU!

What's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax sister. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, or the laundry piled to the ceiling, we know you have the urge to lash out at your guy, but don’t... Instead, try to let it go for the night. Tomorrow is another day, so enjoy tonight. No man likes a nagging woman who bitches, rants and raves constantly, so ladies; get the stick out of your ass! Men LOVE a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. Show him that you can do simple well, that you are easy going, and being spontaneous sometimes! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment things…without hesitation. I’m not saying that you have to do this all the time, but it certainly will make him take notice to your adventurous side.

Are Y-O-U a Playful Kinda Gal?
Guys really love a woman who laugh at their jokes, (trust me, I do this a lot!) but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Life is far too short to worry that you might do something wrong…just go with the flow and be YOU! They say that laughter the best aphrodisiac! Want to be playful in the bedroom? Check out our fantasy costumes! If you’ve never taken the time to get risque’ you might want to toss this into the mixture now…shake it up a little. You’ll get his attention and he’ll be thinking about that image for days! www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com

Sensuality...Got it? Use it!



I've  already mentioned to you that it's not all about your looks. Being sensual does not mean wearing a pound of make up throwing on something five times too small to catch his eye. It's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity gals. It's time to ditch the sneakers and sweatpants. Although men love a natural looking lady, the respond well to one who can stop a clock just the same. Looking good doesn't take hours, and if it does, you're doing it all wrong. Men love a natural looking woman that doesn't need a day to prepare for a date. Pull the LBD from the back of your closet. Men L-O-V-E it! Every woman should have at least one. If you do and it still has the tags on it waiting for that special night out, make that night tonight! From your head to your toes, rock your confidence. It's not the shoes that you wear that puts a little bounce in your step, although they help...nevertheless, it's the confidence and personality that makes you gleam and glisten in his eyes!








Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;
Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing...the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; Simply Delicious Lingerie  
and our plus size store at; Simply Luscious Lingerie 

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Free Pair of Panties with Every Order!

Our lingerie is sexy! It's customer appreciation month. "Thank You" to all of our customers who shop with us and at our sister company; Simply Luscious Lingerie, for plus size women's intimate apparel. Each time you make a purchase during the month of May with Simply Delicious Lingerie, we'll give you a pair of panties FREE!

Visit our online boutique. Use code; freepanty @ the checkout while supplies last. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com










Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;
Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing...the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

Are You Crazy... or Just Falling in L-O-V-E?


L-O-V-E... is probably one of the most powerful words in the English language. These four letters are a whole lot more than just telling someone you love them. What about showing them? Often, it can be a constant struggle resulting in endless efforts to show your mate that you truly mean it by your actions. My grandmother used to always say that actions speak louder than words, and I believe that to be true, nonetheless, those three powerful words are the words that every man/woman longs to hear. When you start dating someone, you never really know where it is heading? It could go well, or it could turn out as a big disaster. 

Chemistry is key, but communication is imperative. Before you find love there is friendship. The two after time go hand in hand. Some might ask themselves..."Am I crazy or just falling in love?" You my friend are the only one that truly has the answer to that question. Please do not misconstrue what I say from what I mean as my intentions are not to make anyone angry. You can be quite happy with someone in a relationship and just date them. You do not have to ever feel pressured to say the words "I love you." If there is pressure, there is possession, (your first red flag) and you my friend better run for your life now before it's too late. 

Word of Advice; Don't tell someone that you love them one minute then do something hurtful and selfish the next like sleeping with their friend, revisiting a dating site ‘just because’ someone may have shown some interest in you, or ignore their calls. The list of “no-nos” is forever endless. Women take things so personal where as most men don’t even think that they are doing anything wrong. Really? Guys you better shape up or that woman that you’re telling you love will hit the road and by the time you figure out what it was that you did wrong she’ll be long gone and you my friend will be like the song goes “Dust in The Wind!”

You don't tell someone you love him or her and never make an effort to show them. There are countless ways that these simple words can express your feelings such as cuddling with them or holding their hand and reassuring them you will always be there for them no matter what. Drawing them a hot bath at night with a glass of wine to end the day, tucking them into bed and ‘not’ expecting to have sex because you know that they’ve had a rough day, cooking them dinner, planning a weekend getaway, or just smiling at them with that look in your eye that you get when you are with her/him that makes you go absolutely crazy!

Love is something rare. Love is something that if you are lucky enough to experience once in your lifetime you should be most grateful. Twice, or more is simply like seeing a shooting star. So many people say that they love their partner but do they really know the true meaning and how much emphasis goes along with it? No, saying that you love someone doesn’t mean its followed by a marriage proposal, it simply means that you’ve met your match and he/she is all that you can think about, want, or need. It means wanting to spend your time getting to know them more. It means opening your heart to new things and letting your guard down. 

There is a certain sense of reassurance that also goes along with love. To love one must first trust. Without trust, there is no love nor should there even be a relationship for that matter. No woman or man wants to go around second guessing what their partner/mate/lover is or is not doing and with whom. Love is about maturity and communication. My grandmother used to say that  to love is like making the perfect casserole. You need all of the right ingredients. Without even just one of them the dish won’t be the same and it certainly won’t have the appeal, desire or taste. Love and communication go hand in hand. One must build a relationship on a solid foundation. If the foundation is not solid, and if you or your mate lies, cheats, and or is deceptive in the relationship in any way, you’ll sink like quick sand. It’s not to late to rebuild that foundation if you’re beginning to sink now…Love is about fault, and mistakes and learning to accept that person for the good and bad. Love is about understanding why one does the things that he or she does. When two people love one another, there is nothing that can or will get in their way.

If you are middle aged like myself and you keep trying to meet the right man and time after time you are let down, then he is not the one for you. Many men and women have commitment phobias. My non-professional advice? Shit or get off the pot my friend. It’s real simple. Don’t say that you love someone if you cannot back that ass up. Words such as ‘I love you’  are so easy to say but so difficult to take back, so if you aren’t sure, don’t be a schmuck and say that you do. You never want to give someone false hope. That’s mean and so wrong on so many levels.