Monday, December 31, 2012

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Eating Disorders and How to Fight Back

I have a lot of people write to me and ask about specific topics, nonetheless, this one really caught my eye as well as my attention...Why? Probably because I know people that have suffered from this disorder. It is not at all something easy to to get through quickly. There cannot be a time limit put on the healing process, nor can anyone anticipate the outcome and for some, it is a lifetime of struggle

You read about such disorders on a daily basis, and although you may not be a victim of food cravings and binge eating, there may be others very close to you that do suffer from this form of an eating disorder. There is very little that distinguishes compulsive overeating from other forms of substance abuse, and from addictive behavior in general. As with substance abuse and generally addictive behavior, stress, boredom, disappointment, anxiety, loneliness, insecurity, depression, and other negative emotional states all crave relief in some way. 

Beyond drugs and alcohol, one of the other ways many people have found to assuage those ill feeling and find the relief they crave is through the comfort of certain foods, or even simply through the comfort provided by very the act of eating. We all say that we are so hungry that we could eat the house...but there are those who eat, and eat, and eat without even realizing it.

 Eating disorders are not just about food. That much has been clear for decades, but researchers are still working to untangle the complex psychological, cultural and physiological roots of afflictions such as binge-eating disorder (BED) and bulimia. Now a growing body of work is finding that disordered eating is connected to attention deficits and poor self-awareness.

So, what are binge eating disorders exactly?

 People with binge eating disorder often eat an unusually large amount of food and feel out of control during the binges. Unlike bulimia or anorexia, binge eaters do not throw up their food, exercise a lot, or eat only small amounts of only certain foods. Because of this, binge eaters are often overweight or obese. People with binge eating disorder also may:

  • Eat more quickly than usual during binge episodes
  • Eat until they are uncomfortably full
  • Eat when they are not hungry
  • Eat alone because of embarrassment
  • Feel disgusted, depressed, or guilty after overeating
About 2 percent of all adults in the United States (as many as 4 million Americans) have binge eating disorder. Binge eating disorder affects women slightly more often than men.


Usually, giving in to the craving results in the person feeling worse, not better, heaping guilt and shame atop whatever negative feelings they were already experiencing to begin with.

As with all forms of addictive behavior, there may often be a “trigger”, or an event that provokes the craving. This can be a television commercial, an impending part of a person’s daily routine (ie. work or school), an argument, a particular memory, the presence of a particular person, etc. Any of these can lead to a person craving certain foods (or food in general) when their body is not actually hungry.

Listen to your cravings closely, and not only because, in part, many times those cravings will be displaced desires for some form of mental or emotional fulfillment. Listen to them also in part because every once in a while, a craving is an honest-to-goodness cue from your body that a particular nutrient is lacking at that moment and sorely needed. When you have a craving that you may consider absurd (in other words, for something other than fats and sugars), consider that your body may be telling you that it needs some nutrient which that food contains. 

What do they say causes this disorder...binge eating? Well, researchers are unsure of the causes and nature of binge eating and other eating disorders. Eating disorders likely involve abnormal activity in several different areas of the brain. Researchers are looking at the following factors that may affect binge eating:
  • Depression.  As many as half of all people with binge eating disorder are depressed or have been depressed in the past. 
  • Dieting.  Some people binge after skipping meals, not eating enough food each day, or avoiding certain kinds of food.
  • Coping skills.  Studies suggest that people with binge eating may have trouble handling some of their emotions. Many people who are binge eaters say that being angry, sad, bored, worried, or stressed can cause them to binge eat.
  • Biology.  Researchers are looking into how brain chemicals and metabolism (the way the body uses calories) affect binge eating disorder. Research also suggests that genes may be involved in binge eating, since the disorder often occurs in several members of the same family. Neuroimaging, or pictures of the brain, may also lead to a better understanding of binge eating disorder. 
It's time to fight back.Your body is your home, love it and protect it for it is the only home you'll ever have, so do take care of it please...seek the advise of a professional in the medical field. Don't be afraid to ask for help.


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Dating, Relationships and Cheaters

Cheating...None of like to assume it happens, nor do we anticipate it ever happening to us, but it can and sometimes it does. At some point or another, we all have that one bothersome thought or two that crosses out minds...is my partner cheating? My guess is that you're likely to experience trust issues in your relationship. Why? We are all a little insecure at times. The thing is, whether or not we are secure with who we are has absolutely nothing to do with how honest mate is acting. It does make it a bit difficult when statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct and 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicious, warnings or signals of infidelity by your spouse or partner, listen to your gut.

Whether it's brought about by infidelity, a decrease in your own self esteem, your partner's newly hired young assistant, someone constantly flirting with them, or a simple change in your partner's behavior, your relationship can weather this storm and rise above feelings of uncertainty. You have to first of all believe that you can get through everything!

Follow these tips as we walk you through the trust issues you may face
This will assist you in experiencing the thriving relationship that you truly deserve:

1. Work on your self-esteem. Many trust issues in relationships that were once thriving stem from personal insecurities. If you've experienced significant changes in your appearance or noticed a drop in your self-esteem, it's important to build up your body image and self worth in order to rebuild the trust in your relationship. You must feel confident in who you are or you sure as heck won't be able to have faith in someone else.
  • It's common to become suspicious of the company that your significant other is keeping when your self-esteem plummets.  Many times, we are not given the opportunity to understand much less process what to do or how to react if and when we learn of infidelity in your relationship.Sometimes, you have to have some faith and give your partner the benefit of the doubt. The way you perceive yourself may be the only thing in your relationship that has changed.
2. Reflect on your past. Did something happen in your childhood that has caused you to become wary of trusting your heart to anyone? Did your parents choose to divorce when you were young? Were you sexually abused in the past? Or did you experience cheating in a past relationship/marriage?
  • These things and more can be responsible for your inability to trust others. When you've endured emotional trauma, especially during your youth, its effects can last decades. Speak to a therapist to help you find the root of the issue and learn how to work past the event.
3. Talk about your problems and issues with trust... and WHY you have these issues; 
 If there has been infidelity within your relationship, it's vital to hash out all hurt feelings and future expectations.
  • If you've cheated in the past or in an other relationship that you were in with someone else, it's normal for your partner to want to know where you are, what you're doing, and what time you'll be home. They'll ask if you'll be alone with anyone. Answer their questions truthfully and understand that they are hurting. Try to put yourself in their shoes? You might see things a bit differently.
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

That's what most people think, and if you've ever been cheated on, I can guess that is why you would feel as such. When most people get caught cheating, they make promises and vows to never cheat again. Sound familiar? Unfortunately, such promises often get broken. The desire to cheat is complicated and it is not solved by feeling sorry or by making promises to change. If you want to change any behavior, you must first determine why that behavior occurred. So, when it comes to infidelity and cheating, what factors led the person to cheat? Was it too much opportunity, was it due to problems in their relationships, was it due to a need for excitement? Did your appearance change? Did you gain weight? Are you a workaholic, or an alcoholic? What caused this? This is the million dollar question.

 Dating and Relationships are good. Not everyone cheats, or lies. Talk to your partner if there is tension, or distrust. If you feel like something is going on, speak up. Trust is about more than believing that your partner will remain faithful. It's about trusting that your partner will always be there for you in times of need, while also being a prominent part of the most important events in your life. Work on your trust as romantic partners - and as best friends - to truly guarantee a long healthy future and a happy ever after.You can get past this.


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Body Wrapping....Does it Really Work?

Many spas and salons offer a process called “body wrapping.” So what is it exactly, and can you buy a do it yourself kit or do you need to seek the assistance of the professional spa or salon owners? First lets talk about the wrap itself; Does body wrapping really work? This procedure claims to remove inches from the waist, thighs, hips or other parts of the body. Some say it works, while others saw very little improvement. I say to each his own with their opinions. What works well for one person may not at all work well for others. 

Let's talk about these wraps;The process includes the use of special wraps or clothing and can sometimes be used with special lotions or creams that are applied to the skin. They have been said to act as popular weight loss technique, which when added to a diet and exercise plan, can trim a few inches from your body. 
 Body wraps are great ways to help reduce the appearance of cellulite, trim the stomach, buttocks and thighs and conditions and tones the skin.

 Do-it-yourself body wraps that you can make at home are just as effective as the expensive body wraps that you pay for at a salon, using natural ingredients that you can easily find. Learn how to do a weight loss body wrap at home and save hundreds of dollars.
 Make a body wrap with a variety of ingredients found in nature, and in your pantry. You can make an herbal body wrap with essential oils like lavender, lemongrass, sage or sandalwood, or herbs such as rose petals, chamomile flower powder or clay (green clay stimulates circulation and detoxifies the skin). Buy these ingredients at a natural health food store or order them over the Internet. 

For example; a clay body wrap recipe includes 1 cup of green clay, 1/4 cup of sea salt, 2 tbsp. of olive oil and 2 cups of water. Boil the water and sea salt together until the sea salt dissolves and then turn off the heat and add the remaining ingredients. Allow to cool and then rub the mixture all over your body.      

Next: Wrap your body in a sheet or thin towels, or use plastic cling wrap. Start at your feet, rolling or wrapping your legs separately, as if you're applying a bandage. Then, wrap your hips and torso, then your arms. This can be a little tricky if you do it yourself, but if you feel comfortable, have a friend do the wrapping part for faster, neater application, until you get the hang of it. If you wrap yourself in a sheet, pull and gather it as tightly to your body as you can.

 Lie down for about 45 minutes. Because the process is a messy, you can lay down in the bathtub to keep your house clean. Line the bathtub with towels and use a towel as a cushion to make it more comfortable. If you lie on your floor or bed, place an old blanket or sheet down first so you don't stain furniture or carpeting with the wrap ingredients. Now, gently pat your skin dry. Put on loose clothing to encourage ventilation to skin pores and take it easy for a few hours. The body wrap encourages drainage of the lymph nodes, which offer immune and infection-fighting properties to the bloodstream. Following a detox or weight loss wrap, excess fluids will build up in the lymph system, so drink one or two glasses of water following the wrap to hasten urination and drainage of excess lymph and wastes from the body.

Customers are usually told that they can lose “inches” as opposed to pounds and that fat will melt away bringing about a loss of inches in about an hour. One of the claims is that wrapping will work because cellulite is “water logged fatty tissue.” 

What overweight person wouldn’t love to find a product that will render them slim and trim while they sleep? I'd do it in a heart beat! Unfortunately, many people think that body wrapping is a relatively “new” procedure and jump on the bandwagon quickly. The truth is that the body wrapping craze has been around for some time. They just called it different things and they marketed it differently as well. Honestly, who can resist ads for body wraps that promise ‘to burn away fat even while you sleep,’ to ‘lose 4-6 inches the first day?



What do these wraps consist of?

There are a variety of wraps. Some are plastic or rubber garments worn around the waist, some cover the waist, hips and thighs, and others cover nearly the entire body. Some are to be worn while carrying out routine activities, others while exercising, and some while sleeping. One is inflated with air from a vacuum cleaner. Another uses an electric hair dryer to blow in warm air. Some are used after a cream, gel or lotion is applied or after the wrap is soaked in a solution, some seaweed or mud wraps.

The garments and wraps, with or without lotions and creams, say that they reduce body dimensions by removing fluids. Most medical experts agree that such treatment will cause a loss of inches and perhaps pounds due to profuse perspiration. But the reductions are temporary. The fluid is soon replaced by drinking or eating.

Remember, rapid and excessive fluid loss is potentially dangerous because it can bring on severe dehydration and can upset the balance of important electrolytes in the body. Reputable spas are aware of any potential hazards such as this, so do your homework and select a spa with a good reputation.Some people have tried using “plastic wrap” as body wrap material. In fact, that was a very popular practice several decades ago. Remember whenever you are trying to lose inches or pounds to drink a lot of fluids.

Body wrapping has evolved since those days, becoming much more sophisticated. Prices for a body wrap range anywhere from $40 an hour up to as much as several thousand dollars at some of the upscale spas. My favorite? The seaweed wrap! This detoxifying seaweed body wrap exfoliates, invigorates the skin, rids the body of toxins and excess fluids, moisturizes, and leaves your skin glowing and rejuvenated! With sea kelp for metabolic stimulation and nutrient-rich blue-green algae to hydrate and detoxify, this body wrap is also ideal before a big event like a wedding or vacation.

Some advertising claims that body wrapping will eliminate, or at the least reduce, cellulite but we’ll leave that up to you to determine. I can tell you that I personally know people besides myself who actually enjoy getting body wraps. What I can tell you is that visiting a spa or salon for body wrapping may be a wonderfully rejuvenating experience, leaving you rested, relaxed and refreshed so that you can go out and take on the world!


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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we've personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ® 
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Butt Implants...Is Your Derriere Too Flat?

So you want a bigger tushy? Well...guess what? It can be yours with the help of buttock implants. Who knew that one day the average flat as a pancake behind could be reinvented? Today, there are procedures that can fix this. The procedure I speak of is also known as gluteal implants or buttock augmentation this surgical procedure involves the insertion of artificial implants in order to improve the size and shape of the buttocks. This surgery is most often sought after by women who feel that their derriere is too flat and not round or sensuous enough looking for their taste. For myself, the rear has never been an issue. I have it and so do my other women family members...but, a lot of women don't have it and they want their behinds to stand out. So why is it now that so many women might consider this type of procedure? 

 The rise in this type of surgery in recent years has to do with the popularity of actress/singers that have nice behinds such as Jennifer Lopez, and she does have a very shapely figure. Singer Beyonce Knowles is another celebrity whose behind many women wish to replicate in themselves. Buttocks implants can plump up an underdeveloped backside and give a woman a much more proportional looking figure, they enhance the physique and sexy behavior of women.This makes a woman feel more confident and sexy. When we don't like our appearance, we tend to try to hide if from others., especially from your partner. Feel good about YOU! It's all about confidence ladies...We sell fabulous lingerie for women of all sizes that will certainly help in accentating your derriere! Browse our website today! www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com.

Thinking of having such a procedure done? Look into a variety of cosmetic surgeons that do this, and look outside of the box. This means, search near your home and around your proximity's for the best not the cheapest...remember, often, you do get what you pay for, so choose wisely and do your homework. Seek references before you choose any physician.

 At your initial consultation with the plastic surgeon a number of things will be discussed. First of all as the patient you must discuss why you want to change the appearance of your buttocks and what you hope to achieve by having buttocks implants. It would be helpful if you bring pictures with you of buttock sizes you personally like the look of for your own. The plastic surgeon will be able to inform you of what size buttocks implants will be needed to reshape your backside. He/she will also discuss options for the surgery with you at that time. 

There are some really important things that you'll want to know; Some of the items that are necessary for you to know include the type of incision that will be made, the kind of implant that will be used, as well as the exact positioning of the implant. At this time you should make your doctor aware of any pre-existing health conditions you have as well as any medication you are taking. Find about the type of anesthesia that will be used during the procedure, what the procedure involves, how long it will take to perform, whether or not you will suffer discomfort afterwards and how long the recovery period will be. Any and all questions you have should be addressed at this time. This is the perfect time to ASK QUESTIONS...and lots of them!

This type of surgery generally takes place over a period of two to three hours and depends on a variety of factors including the technique that the surgeon decides upon, the patient’s anatomy, the positioning of the buttocks implants and the type of anesthesia that is used for the procedure. Most of the time for this kind of surgery a general anesthesia is used (patient is asleep), however some surgeons prefer to use a local anesthetic accompanied by a sedative to allow the patient to be both relaxed and drowsy. 


The incision for buttock augmentation can be made either down the crease of the buttocks or where the cheek of the butt meets the back of the thigh. The majority of the time the incision is made in the crease because the scars from the surgery will not be evident. However the drawback to this type of incision is that infections are more likely to occur here than if it is made in the back of the thigh. 

 The surgeon needs to create a “pocket” that is big enough to allow for the insertion of the buttocks implants. The implants can be placed in one of two places, either on top of the gluteus maximus muscle or under it. In some cases liposuction is also performed at the same time to remove excess fat, thus making for even better looking buttocks.

After finishing one side the surgeon then does the same to the other, making sure that both sides of the buttocks are natural looking as well as symmetrical. Finally to conclude the operation he/she stitches up the incisions.
Unfortunately this form of surgery carries with it the risk of a lot of pain afterwards as buttock augmentation stretches and pulls the tissues. The stretching is the worst if the implants were placed under the gluteus maximus muscle. The first 48 hours can be the most difficult for pain but it lessens after that time period. Taking a pain medication could help to relieve the discomfort somewhat. Many plastic surgeons will prescribe both an antibiotic as well as an anti-inflammatory medication to their patients after surgery. Ask your physician what he/she feels you may or may not need.


Here is what to expect: 

 Upon waking after the procedure, the patient will feel sore, stiff and most likely, very tired. These symptoms are all normal. You just had some major surgery! A compression garment is put on patients after surgery for support and it should remain in place for the first few days following the surgery. Taking your medication as prescribed is very important in regards to healing. The patient will not be able to drive herself home and very likely will need someone to help her around the house for a couple of days afterwards. Cushion your new tush. Get something very soft to sit on. Most people find it necessary, and more comfortable to stay in bed for the first 24 hours after surgery. Take it slow...ease back into your schedule, and remember, your tush is your asset!



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Dating... Why Men Don't Exactly Tell the Truth?

The old lip stick on the collar and how it got there is a story that men have told, and women don't buy, ...and why should they? When it comes to telling the truth...sometimes it can be difficult, when it comes to lying, it is never good, especially when the person lying to you thinks that you were born yesterday or lives under a rock. Most men that I've spoken to regarding this subject would say that they might 'slightly bend' the truth when it comes to dating women.

No matter how you slice it fellas, lying is lying. People do it, and as hurtful and unjustified as it can be, it happens...this isn't just because you're floating in a moat of mucky waters up to your eyeballs in fabricated truth, it must just seem easier to bend the truth and hope for the best rather than to just come out and be honest. Perhaps you think that she won't understand. Here's a though...give her the benefit of the doubt and be up front with her...the outcome just may surprise you!

In the great big world that we call dating...most men think we can't see the forest through the trees but most women have their forest eye goggles on and can see through bull shit a mile deep. So, ladies should we be demanding higher standards from men? You bet we should. Don't you think that you deserve it?

 It's all too easy to get tangled in a web of deceit from which it grows harder and harder to extricate as lies compound on more lies. Lying just doesn't work, and it's not the way any man should conduct his affairs...I don't know about you, but I just ask for the truth...Straight up, hard facts, no lies. Just tell the truth. It's really not that difficult. So why do men lie? What makes a man twist things all upside down so that when he breaks a date you'll think it was so heartfelt when all in all, the hard core truth is, he is probably stringing you along and seeing someone else on the side until he makes up his mind as to which woman would be better suited for him. Now, I am not at all saying that we women haven't been charged guilty at times for possibly promoting the same thing, BUT what happened to just being fair and honest with one another?

Some might just say that men... have always lied to women to get what they want, but these days many women are finding that guys will say or do whatever they can especially if they think you'll buy and then it turns into a full-blown epidemic. Internet dating and the ease of casual sex have made men unwilling to play by anyone else’s rules but their own. Yes, they think that they can string you along until something better comes by...if this sounds like you...SHAME ON YOU BOYS!

Generally this means they must deceive to get what they want, and most of the time, they will, and do they genuinely care about you? Probably not so much. They see you as their convenient woman to run to when all else fails. Never let a man have such little respect for you gals that you become their second fiddle. When they take you out, do they introduce you to friends or coworkers they may see or run into out? If the answer is no, you need to take a good hard look at this dating arrangement. My grandmother always used to tell me to listen to you gut. My unprofessional advice? Never second guess yourself. If you think that your partner is up to something, they very well could be. Now..this does not apply to all men, in fact there are a lot of guys who would NEVER treat a woman as such. These are the kind of men that women want...not the lying, cheating fella who can't decide what he wants or doesn't respect you.

If I say it once, I will say it a thousand times. relationships start with friendships and friendships grow into so much more IF you are both honest with one another. Telling lies and bending the truth is just not right, and it is quite disrespectful. 

Here are a few tips with WHY guys lie;
Here are a few potential reasons:
  • They don’t want to hurt your feelings.  And if you’ve shown yourself to be a girl who gets upset and dramatic when he tells you the truth, you’re essentially training him to say what you want to hear to keep the peace.  At best, it’s sugarcoating or avoiding a volatile subject.  At worst, it’s a straight up lie to avoid drama and waterworks.Weak?  Cowardly?  Sure, but men live in the mindset of wins and losses, victories and defeats.  What’s the upside to being honest if it simply leads to a more difficult life with no perceived upside.  Which brings me to the next point…
  • DRAMA! No matter how you slice it, no one wants it!  If not telling the truth is harmless enough and being honest will just cause drama, heartache and grief for all parties involved,..and this means the guys and the gals....why would you want to do it? Trying to juggle more than one woman at a time is not fair,...not to you or to any other woman in the picture.
  • Playing the Field...Yep, they do it, and you might too. Hey finding that one right person doesn't happen so easily, and often we want to date others to see if there is a connection with someone else...if that is the case, then be up front and just say..."Hey, lets date other people!" ...That way, no feelings will ever be hurt and you both can take this time to get to know others to see if the spark you have is real.If it is, and later down the road you decide that he/or she is the one that you truly want to get to know, then all cards will be on the table so that there are no reasons to question ones intentions.

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Saturday, December 22, 2012

How to Tell If She Is Interested in You?

 The million dollar question? Is she interested? What are her eyes telling you? The eyes are the gateway to your soul. These are easy non-verbal motives.The act of locking eyes with someone is an incredibly intimate act, which is why we avoid prolonged eye contact with people we aren’t close with, well, that and the fact that it can be quite awkward. However, we instinctively recognize the power of eye contact, which is why it is a strong indicator of interest from a woman. A woman who’s interested in a man will often initiate eye contact, deliberately break contact – often by looking down, a submissive gesture – then looking back. The act of breaking contact and looking away is a way of catching his attention; looking back is to check to see whether he’s taken the bait, as it were. When she re-initiates eye contact, it is frequently followed by a slow smile; a subtle way of saying “yes, that was a message for you."

 It’s a simple and non-verbal way for women to indicate that she would be interested in you so by all means, go say hello to her. Women as a whole are socialized to be more touchy-feely than men are and tend to speak more with their hands.With regard to our communication, 55% is non-verbal, 38% is based on speaking signals and only 7% has anything to do with what you actually say. So, you want to get the girl? It is a great possibility that you will indeed, BUT be careful of falling into these topics...or you may just end up shooting yourself in the foot;


1. Do not consider yourself as unattractive.
Take a good look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? You certainly should, because if you don't why would someone else? You need to kick it up a notch and show that you like yourself. If you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way in which you can make the woman find you attractive. You want her to think you are a hottie and sexy right? Then you have to play the part and believe it yourself.This type of thinking will influence your body language and the way you think. Take some care over your appearance so that you feel at your best, and start telling yourself that you are attractive.

2. Do not bore her.
Women will tun you out faster than you know. Sometimes you only get one chance to make a great first impression, so don't muck it up! You want to sound fascinating and intriguing. There are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing that they are doing that. Never talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the subject. She may listen just to be polite, but htat doesn't mean that she cares. You want her to care so that she will want to see you again, and again, and again.
If she is genuinely interested in a subject she will not just ask questions and listen, she will have a lot to say about it. 

3. Know when to shut your yap!
If you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back on you. She will either think that you are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will find you boring. Try to get her talking too. Even with the shyest woman you can do this if you help her to feel relaxed and find out what she is really interested in. Don't give her the drama. Keep it simple...no work stuff, family issues, etc. You are trying to get to know her...you don't want to creep her out and chase her off. Just be you and keep it light and simple.

4. Never ask too many questions.
I know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing to talk about. However, this does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation interesting but asking too many questions will make the lady want to run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick up on hints in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling about something.
A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than another question. What am I trying to say here? It's real simple; Try to Avoid Yes/No Questions! Avoid questions that can have Yes or No. Why? This can kill the conversation and nothing is worse than that pause of silence when you have nothing else to say and it gets to where there is no speaking for a brief few seconds, which can seem like minutes or hours. You want to get to know more so try to elaborate a bit when you speak with answers to questions that are more detailed.

6. No treating a woman like your possessions or  prize.
That's right fellas, you heard me...we aren't some piece of meat, and we certainly are not your prize...so show us some respect how 'bout it? A woman does not like the idea of being a prize or someones  possession for that matter. She will not be attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about your conquest of her to your friends. She is not your arm candy and she certainly does not wish to be used as a tool for your own personal leverages.

7. Can you read her body language?
If not, you need to learn how to. This is going to be KEY. Many men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language of the women that they are interested in. Oh boys...you couldn't be more wrong. By reading her body language you will have some idea about whether she is interested in you, if she is happy, sad, pissed off or not interested in you at all. You can flirt a bit by using your own kind of body language techniques; How will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do not give her a sign? When you flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention. It is generally quite harmless unless you let it get far too personal which you don't want to do when you are just trying to get to know her because what you want to do is give her space.

8. Just how confident are you?
Did you know that most women simply cannot resist men who are confident? We love men who have their shit together...(that's what we're really trying to say here) Do not be afraid to approach a woman because of fear of rejection. There are always risks in life and if you do not take the risk then you cannot reap the benefits.Chances are if you walk into a room wanting to meet a specific woman in general and you make it well known that you are enticed by her and her alone...you will get the chance to do all the smooth talking you want to do...just be open, honest and respectful for heaven sakes. 



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